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Hi there!!! My name is Bianca, I'm 15 and I loove Tae Kwon Do and i LOVE SPONGEOB!, I go to High school and I'm currently a Junior. Well in my spare time I enjoy doing sports and going out with my friends. I am out-going and I am a burst of energy and I love making people laugh. But I can be pretty helpful once it gets to advice. I'm currently single and I am a karate instructor. I live near Miami and I am Cuban. I have been through so much and I can probably help with anyone's problems! I hope I can help you in many ways please rate my advice! It helps me!

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My boyfriend is always putting his arm round my waist and touching me but I never know where to touch him. I don't want to be really outragous or anything, I just want to know how I should touch him.

you can always put your hand on his butt, that always works or on his shoulder if ya like, you can put your hand around his wait to if your walking. oh and hint hint (guys love to be kissed on the neck)!! Hope I helped! -Bianca

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What do dreams mean? What about those that keep repeating themselves? Is there some kind of connection between dreams and real life?

I bet there's a problem in your life that has gone unsolved and your body wants to to fix it, but try and study your dream. Because all dreams have hidden messages in them, they all mean something. Hope I helped. Send me message me on what the dream was about and I'll tell you what is happening in your life that may be the problem. Hope I helped. -Bianca

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HEy uh i love this girl but im afraid to tell her.I told her once that i liked her but she seemed to dislike me even more and all her freinds hate me.What should i do?

Tell her again and if she doesn't like you move on there are a lot of better fish in teh see. Or you can make plans with her and talk to her personally just you and her. If she doesn't like you make her like you, charm her and give her presents. Girls luv the sweet charming guys! Hope I helped! Send me feedback -Bianca

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MJy stepdad is a real jerk, and my mom always chooses him over me, is that right:?

Of course not!!!! Your mom probably met you before your stepd dad. And he doesn't haev a right to treat you badly. Talk to him, and give him a feel of his own medicine. Ignore him or use that ole "your not my dad!" trick. That always get's to them. He can't do anything about it and it makes him realize that he can't be mean to you because he has no right to. hope I helped. Send me some feedback. :) -Bianca

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One of my really good friends has been really really depressed ever sence her and her bf broke up. A few days ago she started to cut herself.I am really worried about her. Only me and a few of her friends know that she is doing it. I really want her to stop it because I am scared that she is going to do something she will regret. It hurts me a lot to see her like this. I am in practically the same situation that she is in. I want to help her and we always talk about it. ButI feel like there is not much I can do for her right now but try and always be there for her. What should I do?


You definetly need to talk to her about this, make plans to go somewhere or catch her when she's alone and really talk to her about it, it's better sitting too, show her that your there for her and tell her that hurting herself isin't going to solve any problems but make them worse. If she doesn't understand thenj you can always going to the yelling technique i used with my friend. We are better friends I think now then ever. Hope I helped and send me some feedback!!!

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ok my grandma is coming 2morrow and she wants my xmas list i have no clue what i want she spend like 80 bucks on me,im 13/f, i dont want like makeup or bath & body works stuff. i need ideas thanks
i give 5s to everyone

Ok well, put clothes obviously, or CD's video games if ya want. Maybe a computer game or something like that look at the tv and look at the commercials or something and you get ideas fast. Or magazines at a grocery story or something they always have cute clothes that you can cute out and say you want that. There's tons of things. Hope I helped -Bianca

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my best friends mom is realy rude. Liek we were supposed to meet up w.her @ the mall bc we were shopping and she was @ the movies. She called and left a message on my phone since my friends was dead to say she'd call us @ a quarter to six because the movie started @ 4..by the time we got the message it was past 4 so we didn't call bak. @ 6 we were heading to the front of the mall to get picked up and she called and was being really rude to me and was like "I want you guys at the front of the mall NOW" and stuff and made up something about my friend was supposed to call her @ 5 oclock..but the message said 6!! i erased it too..so we didn't have proof..and like she constantly argues w.my firned and her sister when i'm in the car or @ their house and shes nice sometimes but other times shes just so rude and i don't feel welcome and we were watching a movie that i brought over and her mom started it and wouldn't rewind it so we didn't get to see the begingin! and it was MY MOVIE! i wanted ot leave her house..but anyways my question is..i wanna go places w.my friend and go to her house and have her come over mine..but i don't wanna ride in the car w.her mom or go over her house..so what can i do! my parents won't drive both ways and i can't ALWAYS have her coming over my house and making excuses not to go over hers..

SORRY THIS IS SO LONG! i'll rate yall 5's just for reading it

ps- whenever i'm riding in the car w.them either going somewhere or coming back...her mom always makes me feel like i'm troubling her

Tell her mom too piss off lol. But in a nicer way. Tell her that you don't appreciate her blaming everything at you or tell your friend to tell her mom how you feel if you don't wanna do it in person.And the movie thing you should of just taken teh remote or something or said "oh lemme see the beggining it's my movie BIYACH!"lol jk but you gotta tell her how you feel or get it through her head somehow. Hope I helped send me the feedback on the dilio with you and the mommster's :D Hope I helped

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I've had my period for almost 10 months now and it still doesn't come on the same days or "schedule" or whatever. I don't know when I am going to get it, because it's such a bad frequency. I don't want to leak in school, and I'm always scared that I did leak, and I didn't notice, and like people are laughing behind my back. I just don't know what to do. I don't wear pads either so..please help?

the distance between my period was like 2 months at one time it's natural it picks up u hjust gotta have back up in your bag or something, don't check so much just take a chill pill. It's natural don't get so scared and even if your friend or someone laughs at you, everyone forgets happened to someone I know. Don't worry about it. Chillax :) -Bianca

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Okay I have a guy friend 'Alexander' I know Alex from my tap dance, we are in the same class together and I sort of befriended him because he was extremely nice. Well he loves to dance, and he is really gifted but all the other girls in the class are being really really mean to him. He has such a friendly attitude that he goes up everyone and says hi, even the 'In' group which he wants to be a part of so badly. I honestly don't know why he would want to be nice to stuck up know-it-alls but thats just my opinion talking there. They give him threats and say he is gay, plus all his friends at school make fun of him and call him gay also. He was so hurt when told me all this he was near tears, I felt sooo sorry for him. I feel sorry for him because I have been the only person that has been nice to him, and I tend to want to make fun of guys and call guys names.
He told me how hurt he was last week and that he had made himself come to dance that day. I do understand how he feels, My entire life I have been made fun of.

my problem is I like Alex and I know I shouldn't because i'm setting myself up for pain. I want to stay away from him but then I would be hurting Alex because he would think I didn't like him either. I try not to think of him because I know he doesn't like me and I will get hurt like all the other times before, Plus I'm too ugly for any guy.

First of all you gotta have confidence in your self seriously that attitude isin't gunna get you any guy cuz no guy's like that. Secondly maybe Alex does like you and really you don't have to be in the "in" group if your considering it because apparently they feast on other's misery... and anyone who does that needs to get a life. Go for it talk to him and if he is gay support him because he looks like he needs it. Hope I helped ya! SEND ME SOME FEEDBACK REALLY I WANT TO KNOW WHAT'S UP.
-Bianca

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hi, im 13/m i have this gf we started going out like 2 months ago and its been really cool and i really like her alot but now i found out shes been smokin pot and drinken and shes only 13 though it was her first time it was kinda shocking cuz i expectede more from her i still like her but i sont kno if i wanna handle this i dont know what to do should i keep going out with her.

No stop going out with her, if you try and alk to her, it's mst likely she'll want you to do it and I doubt she will pay attention to anything you say and she'll keep doing it. She's bad news and your too young for that suff make the right choice and LISTEN TO THE D.A.R.E PROGRAMS . I did (thumbs up, teeth sparkle) lol hope I helped! send me bac some feedback! -Bianca

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Okay well i was walken downtown with my 2 friends today and this druggie/badass was down there and he called over this geeky guy called Josh and all of a sudden he starts beating him up! i was so scared i didnt know what to do.. he almost started to cry and before he left he said im callen aaron (the cop in our town) and my friends r like dont tell him we were here. im afraid hes gunna tell the cop and he'll ask me and somehow it'll get back to the badass and he'll beat the shit outta me .. im a gurl btw and he hits girls and stuff and he like knows how to set up bombs n shit cuz he put a bomb in our school one year.. if the cop does ask me shoudl i say i witnessed it?

you should tell the cop that you witnessed it, but if the guy get's innocent and goes free then he might wanna track you down if it was me i dunno what I'd do. Just do the right thing. Hope I helped. you have to send me feedback on this or send me a message! -Bianca :(

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Sorry this is long, but i rate high! :)

I have a friend...lets call her Jill. Well jill is really cool to hang out with...when she isnt around guys or we arent on the subject of guys. She always uses guys and she flirts with them, and leads them on all the time and then she ends up crushing them. She always steals the gusy her friends like (including the guys i like...) and we are all sick of it. I really want to tell her off because i have talked to her about it before but just talking to her wont get through to her. I want her to really realize what a slutty jerk she has turned into. because she used to be really cool. Please help!

I have the same problem and let's just call her Lill. Lol she does the same things as you but I've gotten so comfortable with ehr that I just tell her that she's a slut, she gets the point when everyone tell's her it, or I just tell her off but that's me but lets get to you! just tell that girl that she can't hog em all, or you can punch her in the face. That always makes people get the picture! Hope I helped! lol :)
-Bianca

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hey gurlz,
how can i make time to change my tampon at school? i never have time in between classes, and i dont like to leave the class w/ my purse b/c everbody would know. i usually don't put stuff in mypurse b/c all my friends go through it. i usually ut stuff in my lunch box, and change during lunch. can any of u give me advice on how to manage it?
i will rate high

Put it in your pockets or under your shirt when you are going to the bathroom in between classes. Or put it in your bra or something. Not your lunchbox that's like the number 2 things people look in besides books bags. Hope i helped ya -Bianca

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But..I am going out with someone already and my friend is mad cuz she lieks him..but I like him, sorta..and I like the twins too but not as much. The twins are attentical tho..and if I dumped my boyfriend then my old friend would be happy..but I don't know if I have a chance with one of the twins..It's so hard..LOL!

Ok so the twins aren't for you, the thing is that you gotta talk to your so called friend and tell her that again that you like him and you won't give him up. If she doesn't care THAN GET RID OF HERRRRRRRR. she's no good. Send me feedback. -Bianca

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what do guys look for in girls?? it seems like theres plenty of great guys who like me but then all the ones i like don't like me... what am i doing wrong?

OMG that's just like me, me and my friend made up a joke saying that we have a sign on our backs saying "all the wrong guys come to us" actually it was retards but I want to make it PG lol. cuz it seems that all the wrong guys come to us! No but guys come in all shapes and sizes and they all have different ways of looking at girls. You just havn't found the right one. Remember they will come to you

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15/f
I no some people might think I am gross for say this but I am afraid I am a lesbian... but I am not sure. I like this one guy (from the inside out) but then I see a girl and think she is hot. I sometimes even have dreams about me making out with a girl. If I am one, I am afraid my close friends know by the way I act and maybe even my mom. Please help me to find out if I am one, and I don’t think it is an identity crises. and maybe give me a website to do some research. Thanks

I dont think your a lesbian per say but your probably bi sexual, don't have a heart attack that your a bi. I'm not one though, but everyone changes and it just shows that your finding the real you. But yeah I'm pretty sure your bi sexual don't go crazy on your self though. Hepe I helped !
-Bianca

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my hair is straight...and up to my waist...all my friends have wavy hair nd always scrunch their hair..its reallie cute..but when i try doing mine it doesnt turn out right...like i'll put my hair in braids over night, take it owt nd use my aussie sprunch spray, but it just doesnt stay in..any advice?!

Braides? Are you serious? lol I crunch my hair a lot. The aussie hair spray doesn't work i've concluded. You have to first drench your hair in water and then get a lot of MOOSE(it's the secret trick) and put it in your hair and while your doing in grab the bottom of your hair and like just pile all of a section of your hair in your hand and like crunch it all your your hand tightening your fist while your going up to youe head. Or you can use a towel and start crunching your hair like crazy(works better) Make sure your shake your head up and down or it will become close to your head and won't move. And when your done WALA Crunched! Hope I helped! :)Bianca

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when you're multiplying 2 numbers with a exponent do u multiply the 2 numbers and then square that or square only the number the exponent is over and then multiply by the other number. -2(-1) with a 2 over the -1

thanx

and dont tell me to look in my text book bcuz im in algebra 1 and this is pre-algebra.. i just dont remember.

send me the problem and I will tell you how to do it step by step send me some feedback with the problem!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Okay well this is what happened..My boyfriend and me were best friends before we went out and so then I had another best friend who went out with him and she still liked him. So, I liked him and he liked me but my friend was getting his whole grade against me (they are a grade older) and meanwhile i was practicaly in there grade, or acted like it. We are going out and people got mad, a lot of them aren't mad at me anymore but some are and so is she..I don't want to dump him but is there anything that you think I can do to make forgive me?

*Now I sort of like another guys they are my best friends..and they are twins and they are in my boyfriend and best friend's grade but I can't tell the difference to them..and I don't know if they like me..but they are SUPER HOTT, NICE, and SMART!*

I went out with a twin before. I dunno how I could tell em apart it just worked lol, but yeah just tell you friend that you liek him and you wanna be with him and if she starts screaming at you then she ain't a good friend anyways and you needa kick her to the curve! Hope I helped! :) Send me some feedback. -Bianca

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Last night i went to the movies with this guy i like. He didnt make a move on me so i desided to just hold his hand. Well after the movie he walked me to my car and i kissed his cheack good night. He texted me later and told me how hott i looked. I'm not really sure if he likes me or is just kinda using me. I want to be more than just friends with him, i want to be his girlfriend. But i dont know how to, what should i say to him or ask him to move to the next level?

I don't think he's using you because what you said for your question doesn't seem like it. He probably feels more comfortable talking to you away from you then in person but, maybe just tell him you like him and you thought he looked cute too and things will just flow in the right direction. Keep flirtin girl! Hope I helped. Send me some feedback. -Bianca

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