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my best friends mom is realy rude. Liek we were supposed to meet up w.her @ the mall bc we were shopping and she was @ the movies. She called and left a message on my phone since my friends was dead to say she'd call us @ a quarter to six because the movie started @ 4..by the time we got the message it was past 4 so we didn't call bak. @ 6 we were heading to the front of the mall to get picked up and she called and was being really rude to me and was like "I want you guys at the front of the mall NOW" and stuff and made up something about my friend was supposed to call her @ 5 oclock..but the message said 6!! i erased it too..so we didn't have proof..and like she constantly argues w.my firned and her sister when i'm in the car or @ their house and shes nice sometimes but other times shes just so rude and i don't feel welcome and we were watching a movie that i brought over and her mom started it and wouldn't rewind it so we didn't get to see the begingin! and it was MY MOVIE! i wanted ot leave her house..but anyways my question is..i wanna go places w.my friend and go to her house and have her come over mine..but i don't wanna ride in the car w.her mom or go over her house..so what can i do! my parents won't drive both ways and i can't ALWAYS have her coming over my house and making excuses not to go over hers..
SORRY THIS IS SO LONG! i'll rate yall 5's just for reading it
ps- whenever i'm riding in the car w.them either going somewhere or coming back...her mom always makes me feel like i'm troubling her
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Wow, my mom is the same way!! lol. I feel really embarrassed when I have friends over cuz my mom is rude sometimes.. now i guess i know how my friends feel lol. But i wouldnt take any of her rudesness personally.. shes probably just in a bad mood all the time and stressed out a lot..maybe even going through menopause lol (mood swings) like MY mom. lol. Dont let her keep you from being friends with your friend and from going over to her house and everything.. just ignore the rudeness, and remember, she probably doesn't realize she's hurting you.
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girll let her momma hear it... if she is that rude to you and she is really your friend... tell her strate up u dont wanna be there... shell understand!
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Hi Sweetie,
Here's the deal, there's nothing you can do to get her mom out of the picture (...you could murder her but if your friend ever found out... yeah, it wouldn't go so well so I wouldn't recommend that). What you CAN do is try to win your friend's mom over. Maybe buy her cookies or ... I don't know... something nice. When she's rude to you be polite. "Kill her with kindness" I guess. She'll start liking you and she'll be in a good mood when you're with her daughter and she won't say you trouble her daughter. She'll welcome you.
Hope I helped. Good luck to all of you! Best wishes! ~Blessed Be...
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tell your friend that her mom is bugging you and say no offense but that you think shes rude.. tell her you dont feel comfortable in her house with her mom around anymore.. if you need to get a ride from her mom just dont talk to her mom and be as polite as you can and try not to do anything wrong! lol but talk to ur friend.. maybe she'll talk to her mom for you.. good luck!
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tell your friend that you like being her friend, but her mom is driving you crazy! let her know you are not trying to be rude. you wanna spend time with her, but you cant deal with her moms stank attitude. ask her to talk to her mom, and let her mom know that her friends are avoiding hanging out with her daughter at the house because they think shes mean, cuz shes always yelling and it makes them feel unwanted and nervous. maybe your friends mom doesnt know that you or her other friends feel threatened by her, so she should tell her mom about it.
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Tell her mom too piss off lol. But in a nicer way. Tell her that you don't appreciate her blaming everything at you or tell your friend to tell her mom how you feel if you don't wanna do it in person.And the movie thing you should of just taken teh remote or something or said "oh lemme see the beggining it's my movie BIYACH!"lol jk but you gotta tell her how you feel or get it through her head somehow. Hope I helped send me the feedback on the dilio with you and the mommster's :D Hope I helped
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