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Hello!! =) Ok a bit about myself! Really don't have a lot to say..I'm 16! I love helping people out and listening to others. I completely love this site. I don't have many experiences when it comes to love life (which is the cat. that i answer the most). And i have nothing else in mind to say...i'll edit it when i come up with more!
Anyways people, ask me advice and i'll give it my best shot! Leave some questions in my inbox (with your name or something that would let me know if its you) and update me whenever you can. Looking forward to it! Take care
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my life is falling apart in hate~13/f mad as hell gothic going crazy without my friends. i went to a party. my bffs are a guy joe and a girl jill. so im with them alot. joe and i love eachother so i thought. it was drama for jill so I just went with her. i keep everything in i have no real emotions. The guy she likes danced with everyother girl. Joe my bff was ignoring me and dancing with everyother girl too. she cried for tom. i ignored joe. but he was trying to make me jelous tom even said. but joe wouldnt even talk to me at all 2 bffs not even saying a word at a 6 hour party. who in a 6 hours would usually talk so much. i love him but hate him so much! his bday is today and for my bday he was counting down and everything and said he missed me. but for his bday i dont know what to do. i hate him so much right now! he danced with every girl even 2 of my real close friends. their gothic to he even said they scare him. if they scare him he had enough nerve to dance with the only 2 people in the junior high who freak him out. to hurt me. i have 4 bffs I guess and out of the 4 its him and jill and other 2 he danced with. im going threw alot even before the party im loseing everything. I have 6 friends i think counting them 4. but i dont even know now. becuz if he went threw so much to hurt me enough to make me cry he has never ever made me or even seen me cry in the 2 years of being bffs and even before that. joe and jill are everything to me their my 2 bffs i dono what id do w/o them. im crying my eyes out now. out of my favorite songs 'i hate everything about you' and 'pain' by 3 days grace explain me. bff of 2 years wouldnt do this to each other whats wrong? why would he try to hurt me? i told him in person i like him he told me he loved me. is that what all guys do? how do i change it? what do i do for his bday? why dance with the only people who scare him so badly make me mad? why ignore me? how do i ask him? and anything else i forgot. all the hate i go threw with parents cousins friends enemies strangers and now my bff the last person i have other than my other bff and 2 other friends. but out of everything in my life i care about him. its drivin me crazy! I really need help all the hate I deal with daily im losing all I got to live for. I didn’t kill myself last year because he said he would miss me and die and be by my grave. So many people die from suicide for me id be nothing new but it would be a first for him. He saved my life. Now its back at the beginning and might happen again.
Ok ignore imapozer911!! Seriously who gives a $h!t!!
Note to imapozer911: W - T - F?!?! who cares about that man!!
And what EdwardCullenLuver said doesn't matter:S
Anyways back to you! =( what i think you should do is talk to him! Tell him that you were pissed off because he had the urge to dance with 2 people that he's scared of and he'd go that far just to get you mad or jealous. Anyways talk to him, wish him a happy birthday and wish him all the best. Tell him how you feel. Even though you might not like to express your feelings to him. You can write it all in a note keeping it simple and straight forward. And when everything is sorted out (i hope in a very good way) then go out together and celebrate his birthday! :D *dancing; dinner; movie;etc.*
But if it doesn't end up the way you want it to be....then forget about him and try to find new friends! Meet new guys; new people! And you shouldn't depend your life on a guy and live only for him! There might be a lot of things out there that you are missing out on..and a lot of guys..;) think about it..I know you care a lot about Joe; see how that goes, if not too well then think about it hehe..
Another thing, i'm sorry to say this but boys aren't worth ending your life. If it doesn't work out between you and joe then it really isn't the end of the world! So what if your life sucks and you hate everyone! So what if you go through a whole lot of shit and feel the same pain every single day! Cry every night...cut yourself watever you do! (no offence or anything im just listing here) A lot of people do it too!! But I don't think that suicide is going to help, i really don't think it's the answer here! There are so many other ways to face these problems! You just need to be open to them and ready to do whatever it takes!! You have to be strong enough to face it... and im sure your friends will help you...or your family! and plus you'd be causing pain to a lot of people who care about you if you choose to end your life, and trust me there are people who care about you. Even if you don't feel that way; even if your gothic, so what? big deal! There's still many out there who love you and are willing to stay by your side!!
Anyways i don't know if i helped! Tell me what you're going to do! And tell me what happens!! I want to know! Anyways if you need someone to talk to or anything else! I'm here for you ask me anything! Anyways take care! Hope i helped..i want to hear from you soon!! =D
Note to everyone: people if you don't have any advice or something good to say then don't answer :S we don't want to make people feel worse!
Edit: (this is a reply to the feedback) Hey there! About the cutting! I seriously prefer that you stop! You might not want to but please try! check out this website!http://www.43things.com/things/view/187685
Anyone can help you! I honestly don't know how i can help you! I never went through something like this before! =( but i strongly suggest you stop before it gets really out of hand! And you'll get used to it and it'll get worse!
About your mom, It seems to me that you and your mom don't have a good relationship! Anyways i'm just curious why was she angry and shouting at you? What are the common problems between you guys? Is it only becasue that your gothic or are there other reasons? Whatever they are, i think that you guys should sit down and have a calm discussion! You guys need to stop arguing and fix your problems with each other! Like try to build up a good relationship with her! And that would probably help you alot! I mean if it works then she's probably wouldn't mind you getting involved with a guy friend! And things would go waaaay easier! She wouldn't think about sending you to military or to a counselor daily!
Now about Joe, its good that you sent an email, cuz it shows that you care about him enough to say happy bday! but the fact its an email is like a sign for saying that ur upset with him! i know he's your best friend and your probably thinking that you can't afford to lose him!
How about you talk to him first, and tell him how it really hurt you to see him dancing with the two other girl...And honey!! Things probably seem pretty bad now because you feel like you're losing your friends! But i think that they'll get better! As i said before try to meet new people! you know meet some new friends! And plus i'm here if you want to talk more! ;) Anyways hope that helped! Talk to me again! =D I'm happy to listen and give advice! Take care! If you want give me your email address and i'll add you! Then it'll be easier! =D
ok. during spring break me, and my friends (c,t, j, and d) hung out. well t and j were together, and c and d were. well c and d arent together anymore, and this happened like, about a week or 2 ago. well me and d were good friends. last night i get a text from him and hes like:
d:lets hook up
me:you dont mean that
d:i really do i wanted to hook up i just didnt know how to tell you i promise you
me:well, we'll see
d:let's hang out tonight
me:maybe..
d:whats wrong
me:nothing
d:what you dont want me
me:i never said that, im just thinking about c
d:well she wont find out and i promise youll like it
i really want to but i dont think it would be good. like c liked him and now he wants to hook up with me? i dont know though. i think it would just be a one time thing. likes hes using me. but i dont know... help?
Hey there! My advice to you is no matter what..do not go behind c's back! Because it's not loyal and when she finds out she'll be heartbroken!
Anyways you have to think about d...seriously think about it because he just broke up with c...is he a good guy? Is he worth it..because there might be a slight chance that things will go wrong with c?? how much do you like this guy?
You have to make the decision by yourself, no one else can make it for you! It's your choice! But if you decide to hook up with d...then you have to talk to c and tell her! Tell her how you feel about d and that d wants to hook up with you. See how c feels about this..but i think it's a bit too soon to bring up the subject since they brok up recently! Because it shows that d can move on pretty quickly and wasn't serious about c the whole time! But if c looks alright and isn't thinking about it too much then talk to her and start opening up! I don't know if i helped! But good luck with everything! Tell me what you're going to do! tc
I feel horrible, my grandma just passed away earlier today. She wasn't in good condition at all, and was in a hospice bed at her home with an aid and nurse, and my aunt. Anyways we drove up to her house and spent the night at my cousins but we stopped at her house twice to see her when she was still alive. And looking at her brought me to tears because I knew this was it, they couldn't do anything. She couldn't even talk or move or swallow, she had oxygen, her mouth was open and her eyes were half closed. She could hear you though and she was aware of whats going on. And I just was choking on words... the only thing I could manage was "Hi grandma" when I went next to her. I wanted so badly to say I love you... but I didn't. I feel absolutly horrible. It was the last words I said to her, "Hi grandma," but she's gone now, and I feel so bad I never got to say I love you. And now shes gone forever... what can I do to feel better? I understand this happened for the better and thats she's in God's hands now but I just wish I got to tell her I loved her. What should I do.
Thank you.
Awww!! ='( May god bless her soul and may she rest in peace!! I really don't know what to tell you or how to give you advice...I've never went through a death situation before in my family or any of my friends that I know! But all i can say is that, honey, I'm sure that your grandmother knows you love her! I'm sure she knows that everyone in your family loves her! It's ok if you didn't tell her that you love her...because she probably felt it! The feeling was expressed by your actions...you were crying when you talked to her..that shows how much you care for her! She probably understood that you were unable to talk and spill out the words...and they're just words..the meaning behind them all were through your actions! I believe that she knows you love her...don't feel bad! ;) may she rest in peace! tc...
Any make out tips. First time things that you should know. Thanks anything will help.
Love to all :)
Well i've never done it before so i dunno how i could help you! However i've answered a question like this before and i said wat ive heard from my friends...
They basically said it comes naturally! And that you shouldn't worry about it at all! Also breathe from your nose hehe....not mouth! anyways i cant think of anything else..well i havent tried...so, sorry i cant really help you that much! Anyway if i find out more ill be sure to tell u!! Good Luck and tell me how it goes okk!! i wanna know for my first time! >.< loool tc
my friend is so annoying and is always bossing me around. Also he thinks he's better than me, but i think we are equal. what should i do?
Either tell him to piss off! =P that's a bit mean...or the nice way is just talk to him about it and tell him that he's being bossy!! or you could just ignore it and go with the flow when you hang out...my advice to you is tell him and you might want to find a better friend...(thats just a suggestion) try it and see how it goes! Dunno if i helped hope i did!! tell me how it goes with u!! tc
how do you approach a guy that you've none since preschool but you just barely 'reunited with him'. we didnt really talk, but i want to talk to him, you know as friends, and see where it goes from there. hes sometimes at this one hangout that i go to, and i need some help on how to apporach him, how to just start a conversation. and if you read this......http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=488059
well thats the guy.......so ya...please help....o and this isnt a question[[cuz i dnt want to get deleted]] of wut should i do.....i knowhe doesnt like me, and i think i want him to, but i want to be friends with, him...so how do i approach?
Hey there! Start by any basic conversation: Hey how are you? How's life? What did u do this weekend? This is what i did.....it was boring...it was fun! :S anything i had a great time! i was soo tired! be more open and friendly and just talk about anything...make some jokes and have a few laughs...dont worry about it it'll come naturally....if you start he'll respond and then it'll all be ok! ;) Good Luck tell me how it goes !! =D tc...
Okay well, I have This friend named Heather. And me, her and My cousin Jill are Very Close with Eachother we always hang out. But Latley they have been hanging out with eachother ALL the time and Ditching me. And Me and My cousin are Best friends. She says we are bestfriends to my mom but Then to my Face she says Heather is Her Best friend. And I cant talk to my cousin about it because knowing her she would be like. Um wow never talk to me again like she always does when i try to talk to her. And like every week i talk to heather. At First she Is Very mean to me about it and we get in fights but then at the End of the fight she Becomes so nice and says she wont do it again an and Stuff Like that.. But then she goes on and DOES IT and then i talk to her bout it agian and it keeps happening and happening and then when I tell her shes doing it she gets SOO mad at me and Says she doesnt do it. And Every night I find myself histerically crying. and I dont know what to do. I Get Very jelous when they hang out and i dont want to be but i cant help it. And my cousin ever sence we were little she LOVED to get me jelous cause she knows it works.. I just need help. I dont want to Cry anymore.
P.S When I tell Heather i dont want to be friends with her. I always miss her and in a month we are best friends again because i cant stand not being her friend.
Aww...that happened to me when i was a kid! first we wanna be friends then i get jealous and they ditch me and we have fights and i end up crying (i was sooooooo sensitive like too extreme)then we're friends again and it happens all over again! but in the end...we grew up and we're still friends now and we haven't faught after that year! We never fight...so i'm telling you this will go away by itself trust me....and if doesn't my advice to you is get better friends! Show them that you're strong and ignore them.... I'm sure they'll miss you and you guys will work things out ;) Hope i helped....good luck...tell me how it goes =D tc
im 15 never been kissed, everyone i know has gone farther. My firends don't seem to like me that much anymore. My family bothers me and my life is just plain boring. I know this is probably pointless but does anyone have advice on how i can change my life, make it suck a little less?
hey there, i can so relate btw! im 16 who never went out on a date and everyones gone way farther than kissing and all that....my family pisses me off! and my friends piss me off and some avoid me more than others!! My life is realy boring too!! but i still go through the same $h!t everyday with a smile! because i kinda got used to it now! seriously sometimes i force myself to smile but oh well...anyways my advice to you is listen to happy/danceY music something not depressing! tears help me out sometimes! i cant help it but cry...but try to avoid them because it won't solve anything! it makes your life suckER =P and go out more often! If your friends don't want to go out...then get new friends who do! =) seriously go out anywhere and share jokes! make up inside jokes! point is try to fill up moments of your life with laughter! Laugh about anything! Go to a comedy movie or something!! Who cares just laugh! :P Hope i helped!! tell me more later! we'll share jokes and make our own inside jokes if u want =)!! kk? haha anyways i don't know if i helped! tc
Hey guys I really need help about this!!!Well theres this guy(who turns to be my best friend)that im MADLY in love with.But he has a gf(...)so I figured the best thing to do is to move on on and let go...but I dont know how!!!plz HELP..i really need to shut my feelings for him because it hurts to watch him being in love with some1 else while im sitting here waiting on him.so please tell me what to do so i can 4get about him.i really have to.i cant stop thinking about him and it makes me cry.i cry almost every nights...please tell me what to do but,please dont tell me to do activities because theres not much to do where I live.just tell me what I should do toward him and stuff!
im waiting for your help.
thanx in advance
Aww!! this one is kinda hard!! it's so sad...please don't cry at night!
This KIND OF happened to me once...this girl is a really close friend of mine and im also close with her bf soo much! like i talk to him about everything! then i started realizing that he's such a great guy and i would have him anytime! but before falling for him too deeply i ended up staying away from him as far as possible! But i miss him sooooo much its crazy! He says he misses me too! And he still wants us to talk and all that! but i don't want to think like that again!
Anyways!! Back to your story...you really can't help your feelings...they're just feelings that can't be turned on and off easily! I think you might have to stay quiet and try not to think of him as this perfect guy that you really love...just think of him as a good friend! If you do what i did you might end up getting hurt really bad..and so would he! You could try and see other guys that you might be interested in.. I don't know if i've helped you much...but if i think of anything else i'd let you know! Anyways tell me how it goes later on! tc
This is the thing, my bestfriend just got dumped by this kid lets call him Bob . Bob and I went out last year for a long time , but we ended up breaking up beacuse of my bestfriend ... she really liked him and left me outof everything . So basicly we broke up and bob went out with my best friend !! So anyway .. a month after bob dumped my best friend he wanted to go on a date with me. I asked my bestifrned if it was okay and she was lik yeahh of course. I just got home from my dad and she found out we ksised and now my bestfriend hates me. am i the bad guy ?
I agree with HateMyLoveLife!!! Its soo true! seriously you're not the bad guy here! I mean first of all i was reading and got up to "now my bestfriend hates me"..im like i thought she said yeh of course! :S dude! seriouslyy you're not the bad guy!! and plus im surprised that this guy goes out with you and leaves you for her and then leaves her for you! he needs to make up his mind! heh no offence or anything..anyways! i think you must really like Bob to go out with him again and stuff.. =D anyways i hope i helped! =) tell me how it goes! Good Luck!! tc
my name is bre i amd 13. i reallly like this guy. he calls me hott and stufff. and always makes jokes like one time i was laying down and he said, " i am going to be on you in a few seconds" andd he wants to makeout out with me because he told me. and my friend. and me and my friend are going to a movie with him and hid friend saturday and i know something is bound to happen! i dont know how to makeout!!!!!! i am not scared at all i just dont know. i know a million people have asked this question. and i am sorry. Do your instincts really kick in? i sure hope.
love BRii
Hey..trust me I know how you feel...I mean I never kissed a guy either! And I'm sure I'd be dead nervous and I'd be freaking out on how it goes! But anyways I'm going to try to give advice to you from what I've heard...people told me to just go with the flow...and that it just happens...it comes naturally and that I shouldn't think about...so I'm guess yes your instincts do kick in..=) tell me how it goes..you might end up helping me! Hehe tc ...Good Luck!! =D
My friend Michelle has a big problem. Her boyfriend whom she has been dating for a year now is acting strange. She thinks he may be having an affair with some other girl because he's been seen to be hanging out with her a loottt during the day.
Also, our friend Alyssa has an art class with him and she said she was hanging around him a lot. Michelle really doesn't want to break up with him but she needs to do something. She's asked him a billion times if he liked someone else or was dating someone else and he always got mad and said NO and walked away. She said if she doesn't talk to him today she's not going to talk to him tomorrow. ???
She wants to take a break but she's thinking he won't like her anymore if they do. SOO what should she do?? I really don't want him to hurt her anymore. I'm sick of it. She's my best fried and I hate him. =] Thanks.
hey!! ok....so i think that your friend should spend more time with her boyfriend maybe learn to trust him a bit more...cuz relationship is all about trust...if she cant trust him then its not gonna work...they could go out on more dates and stuff....and talk more about different things and she could bring up the subject about the girl that he's been hanging a lot with...but really gently ..and ask him some stuff about her..what they do together? is she cool? etc.
if after that he still hangs out with her a lot and your friend is annoyed...then maybe they should have a little bit of time apart...if he really loves her he'd miss her and go back to her...
but if he doesn't like her anymore then she's better off without him...it means he really didn't care as much as she did...
from wat your saying it sounds like he hurts your friend most of the times and if that does happen...then let her do it on her own....let her suggest time apart and then we'll see what happens with her boyfriend...but dont pressure her or anything...in the end its all her choice on how she wants to deal with this... =) tell me how it goes! hope i helped a little! tc...hopefully it'll go ok! =D
Okay sorry this is so long....
ight....my name is sarah,im white and im 15...i date this boy named brandon,hes black and hes 17 and i just turned 15 in march and hes about to turn 18 in may...well we been dateing since march 24th-2007 and when we were on the phone he said babe are you ready to fuck me and i told him no because im still a virgin and we only been goin out for 2 weeks.He said i better set a date or its over.So i told him ill be ready friday.Well we just started talking and he was like babe i got somethin to tell you but i wanna say it to your face but I LOVE YOU!!so i said i love you too.WEll he always tells me well be together forever no matter what.Well all my friends tell me were rushing but i never felt this way about a guy befor in my life.I just dont no what to do because my plan was to brake up with him thursday because im not ready to fuck him yet.Hes everything i ever wanted in a guy.The only thing is he wont wait until im ready.and everytime he says i love you and he blows kisses in the phone and always calls me baby...well when ever i hear his say that stuff to me its like i cry all over again and i just dont no what to do with him...
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey there! This is probably hard for you since you really care about this guy! But everyone's right...if he cares about you and respects you then he'll wait and he won't rush you!
He shouldn't put pressure on you cuz this is a huge thing! Plus your relationship shouldn't be just about sex...it should be more than that! You're giving this guy your heart and you love him that should be enough for him...
If he's not satisfied with that..that's his problem.. and you should know by then that he's not serious....and that he just wants to get you in bed! Every girl deserves more than that...if he's not goin to be there then he's not worth it..(no offence) i know you like this guy but you have to ask yourself does he like you too as much as you like him? will he break up with just because you wont have sex with him?
But if he sticks around...then this guy really cares about you! =) and i hope that happens! Good Luck!! Hope i helped!! Hope it all works out! tc...=D
my boyfriend is a REALLY bad kisser. i mean i'v kissed people who were bad before, but my boyfriend is really bad.Like he shoves his tounge down my throat literally. i mean im not going to dump him over this. i juss want to be able to kiss him. How do i fix this? thank you for any help.
Hey there! My advice to you is just keep on kissing him until he gets it right..it might take time just bear with him! He'll get it right the way soon...try to avoid telling him because it might hurt his feelings...he might think about it too much and stuff! Hope that helped!! Take care... =D
My boyfriend & I have been going out for about five years now. We don't see each other a lot anymore because of us going to school & him working. I go to college around where he lives but I'm a commuter. While I'm at school or leaving school, he's at school too or he's at work. So on weekdays we never see each other. Friday & saturday nights are his nights with his friends. Sunday is always our day because he doesn't work sundays. It has always been this way. But today, or yesterday I guess, he didn't come to see me. Last sunday he didn't either. Both sundays he just stayed over his cousins house. I'm cool with his cousin & all the people that live in their house, they're all like family to me, but he was with them friday & saturday night too! And now I'm starting to be really pissed off because I always let him go & do his thing friday & saturday nights & there is no reason why he can't spend one day out of the week with me. If I approach him about it, hell act like an ass & we'll start arguing & really, I don't feel like arguing with his dumb ass because I already know what hell say. Probably something like, "I just wanted to chill with my buls" or "you always got something to bitch about" or something along those lines. Okay... so yeah, I'm hurt. It upsets me because I never ask him for shit. All I expect is when it hits sunday, he's spending it with me. I'm like lost with what to do right now. As soon as I tell him how I feel, there's gonna be an argument & I'm really trying to avoid that. When we argue, we argue hard. But Ilm trying hard not to be passive so what do you think I should do? Suck it up & just let it go or suck it up & argue it out with him?
By the way, I texted him earlier today. Me: don't you ever miss me?
Him: yes, I do be missing you.
Me: I don't feel like you do. I don't know. I just miss you & we don't get to see each other a lot.
Him: we'll be out of school soon.
That's all I've said to him about how I feel today. So him saying we will be outta school soon obviously means we will see each other more once the semester is over. But still.. He could have came to see me today & last sunday! Please let me know your thoughts & how I should go about this. I appreciate all answers, however, don't just say, "just tell him how you feel. End of story." Its not that easy to tell a guy who thinks he's always right how I feel.
Thanks a lot!
Hey there!! I really don't know how i could be helping you...because i've never been in a relationship, but i'm going to try anyways!
You can text him back and say that you can't wait till the semester is over...you guys should hang out and stuff...
Then try to call him up and hang out with him more often....be like: Hey you wanna go out for a date...to a movie or something...something for both of u alone... and if he says he's busy or he doesn't want to then either dont say anything and you dont have to call him or anything until he does....make him miss you and wonder what you've been up to...let him call you...and if he gets pissed off be like you haven't been trying lately and it seems like you don't want to go out with me anymore or something...at that point let everything out and tell him how you feel...BUT let him bring it up...so then it's not you who's always bitching about stuff you know....
Maybe a solution for you guys to spend some time apart...but thats a bit sad =( so you can see what i wrote above....i don't know if that helped hopefully it did! take care and tell me how it goes...=)
I feel as if I'm driffing a way from him because we would argue but making love after was good. Now I feel as if I have no feelings for him, he made love to me but I have nothing for him I couldn't come because there was a block I felt it and I couldn't come because of it. I care for him but I don't know if I still love him in the way I used too. Help me if any one can.
Hey there...i know im way too young to answer this question but i want to give it a shot! So here goes, you don't have to listen to me by the way, i'm only 16 years old and i've never been in a relationship in my life! Anyways i was thinking maybe you guys could spend more time with each other like you used to when you were in love...you know have a few dates...watch movies together...laugh together! Then you guys might click again and you'd see the person you fell in love in the first place. Talk about good old times...and how you met! Share your feelings with each other and open up...I don't know if that helped, i hope it did. Anyways take care! Hope it turns out ok! =)
ok well i have a best friend who i really like . i liked him before but he didnt like me back becuz he was "confused". now that he isnt anymore it seems like he likes me. but im not exactly sure how i can find out. he wouldnt tell anyone if he actually did like me [hes very secretive] so i cant ask a friend to ask him for me. i dont want the whole world to know either. last time i liked him i told him and long story short he didnt like me back and the whole school felt bad for me. wats the best way to find out without actually asking him, im scared of regection i really really am. and i hate it becuz he has tried to make a move on me twice [i think] and i kinda backed off. he had his face really close to mine and i think it would have led to a kiss if i hadnt pushed him away. and then he sat really close to me and i kinda scoot away. and i dont know why i do this. i really like him and i want him to like me back. and im afraid that im maybe pushing him away but why? why would i do that?? i do like him. and im not a prude or anything. its like i dont even think about what im doing and then later i feel stupid. help please. i hate myself rite now for being stupid. bleh!
Aww...i know how you feel! But i've never had the guts to actually tell a guy that i like him..if this guy is your best friend then you guys pretty much get along really well!! I think that your comfortable with him and you enjoy being with him and you easily open up to him!! But you might be a bit afraid that the relationship might get ruined somehow in the end...your just not used to getting too close to him!! Maybe he's confused becasue he doesn't know if being a boyfriend is better than being a friend..and if it's really what both of you want! Maybe he's not sure if it'll work out between the two of you..
If i were you i'd just go with the flow and see how it's going between us...then if he brings the subject up i'd ask him if he really likes me or not..as a friend or more than that..? And if he thinks the best way is staying as friends ..=( i dunno....regection is always tough no matter..=*( Just stick to being friends if that's what he wants..
but i don't know how you can find out weather he likes you or not...i mean personally id never have the guts to even ask....thats y...but if u do have the guts then ask him about how he feels towards you? What does he see you as? A friend? A sister? A buddy? Or more..? It'll be easier for you since you guys are good friends...If you do ask him or he brings up the subject then let it all out and tell him about what you feel and think..=) well anyways i dunno if that helped or not..but tell me what you decide!! Hope it works out for you!! tc :D
Sooo..me && my boyfriend are engaged, and he`s grounded until may 7th..he turns 18 10 days later. i`m allowed over his house if his mom is home, but he works every friday saturday and sunday from 4-8. and my mom never wants to take me over there, she never will!! and he only lives 13 freaking minutes away!! neither of us drive, and even if we did get our temps, we`d have to have a parent in the car anyways, right??
like, he sometimes takes the bus, his mother rarely drives him anywhere, either. i`m scared that when he moves out, my mom won`t let me over his CriB, because it`s not supervised? i turn 18 in december..and we plan on getting married june 30th, 2008 ((my mom`s bday, just to piss her off))
my mom was talking about how my friend kayla is getting married this summer after she graduates, and she said it`s stupid. ((she doesn`t know that me and adam are engaged))
yea, he`s not allowed to go anywhere until may 7th, and even then. it will be hard for us to see each other..my mom is taking me today, but she`s really pissed about it, and she said never again..
help please??
Awww!! =( You must really love this guy so much!! I don't know.. i may be assuming here but it seems to me like you want to run away from everyone and everything with him! My advice to you is end it all in a good way... like try on working out your relationship with your mom...and get along with her for a while... Your mom might think that it's stupid for your friend to get married because she might think it's a bit early...because marriage is a huge thing...like a big committment and everything...but anyways...see how it goes with your mom and hang out with her a little bit while you wait till May 7th...and if you DON'T want to hang out with your mom...then just avoid any conflict with her....And before May 7th talk to her about your boyfriend and tell her how much you miss him....talk to her about your boyfriend and tell her all the good things about him....so she'd be able to think that he's not bad and then might be able to take to his house again...you might want to tell her about your engagement but don't tell her all of those at once..just a little bit at first then talk more about him and stuff...because she's going to be really surprised when she finds out! and she's going to find out sooner or later... plus it's better when you talk to her calmly about it and open up to her...like it's better when she hears it from you!! Anyways onec thing i tell you to avoid is..don't drop it like a bomb on everyone...and don't just run away with him when you get a car.. cuz then it might get really screwed up..Anyways i dunno if i helped but if you need anything else ask away...tc tell us how it goes! Hope it works well! :D
Hey just replying to ur comment...it's your choice...but i'd suggest telling her about him and how he's a great guy and then tell her that you really like him and you've been together for a while! Slip it through to her gently...and make sure she's in a good mood at first and like both of you have been getting along and then u know as if ur opening up to her...just tell her..she should see it from your prespective and support you since you really like him =)