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lost of interest towords my husband
I feel as if I'm driffing a way from him because we would argue but making love after was good. Now I feel as if I have no feelings for him, he made love to me but I have nothing for him I couldn't come because there was a block I felt it and I couldn't come because of it. I care for him but I don't know if I still love him in the way I used too. Help me if any one can.
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Hey there...i know im way too young to answer this question but i want to give it a shot! So here goes, you don't have to listen to me by the way, i'm only 16 years old and i've never been in a relationship in my life! Anyways i was thinking maybe you guys could spend more time with each other like you used to when you were in love...you know have a few dates...watch movies together...laugh together! Then you guys might click again and you'd see the person you fell in love in the first place. Talk about good old times...and how you met! Share your feelings with each other and open up...I don't know if that helped, i hope it did. Anyways take care! Hope it turns out ok! =)
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Sometimes time apart can be a good thing. I'm not saying you should take time apart becuase that is of course your call. Im not married, but I have been in a relationship for 4 years now. Sometimes I feel the same way, but its usually becuase I have an interest in someone else, a small crush if you will, but it passes and I then realise how lucky I am to have such a great partner who is there for me always. Is there anyone else you might have feelings for? How long have you been feeling this way? If it has been a long time, then you should start asking yourself some serious questions, and try to understand the root of this situation. Have you told your husband how you feel? You should definately sit down with him and just tell him every thing you have been thinking. It might help him realize that things need to change, and the relationship needs to change. It will work itself out from there. And just remember, sometimes we need to work for things and fight for them, and sometimes what is meant to be will be. Listen to your feelings and dont hold them in.
I hope this has helped. Think positively and be strong.
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I know I'm still too young to answer questions such as this one, but I will try my best! (my profile says I'm 17 - but I'm 18).
Maybe the fact that you're arguing with him so much is making you drift away from him. Sure, you still care for him and stuff, but the way I see it, it's more of a freindship type of thing. You know, you argue with the person, then make up then everything's ok..Maybe the arguments are making the links between you and your husband weaker...
Maybe if the arguing stopped, everything would be back to normal, I don't know. What's causing the argument anyway? Is it 'cause of him or you? Is he under stress or pressure from anything? Are you under pressure? ... Think of these questions. You might find the answer to your question like that.
Hope I helped and best of luck.
Don't worry, everything's gonna be ok.
=)
Kay
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