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What are some workout moves or anything that makes your butt smaller and lose some wieght around that area. Don't make fun of me in anyway because I don't care and neither does anyone else. Thanks in advance!

i do a thing i call 'but crunches' haha it sounds stupid. but it works! if you do it alot. it's where you flex your but muscles in between every step you take. do your left 'cheek' lol and then your right. and if you do it alot, not like ALL the time, then you will notice results fast! it also makes you have a very toned but. good luck!

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hey well next month on the 5th me and my baby will be together for one year.. and i want some ideas of what we can do or something i can surprise him with.. Please dont say make a CD for him..or make a photo album cause i made a album of us for his birthday.. and if i made a CD he'd think im weird lol.. thanks alot and ill rate high for anything good romantic and cute..

awww happy 1 year! haha, well you could have a surprise party for him? lol, that sounds stupid. but you could invite all your friends and stuff. and then when you're in the middle of the party you could whisper in his ear "i have a surprise for you later.." and then take him back to your room .. alone lol. that sounds like fun! sorry if this sucked.. good luck tho!

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how come like in the middle of a kiss guys like to bite your lip a lil?..sorry if its a weird question. but please answer.thanks

it's just their preferred way of kissing. some guys like it, some don't. some girls like it, some don't. i have never had a guy do it to me, but i would prolly like it lol. good luck!

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Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either..

no, it doesn't mean you're a lesbian. i mean it COULD mean you're bi, since you said you like guys and all. but a LOT of teenage girls do stuff with their friends that happen to be girls, a lot of people i know have done it. it doesn't mean they're lesbian. it might just be that you were curious, ya know? because once in a while i'm sure everyone gets a lil curious about something or the other. you could have just been really horny lol. but since you said you've never done it before, it could've just been spur of the moment. but there's nothing wrong with it at all! good luck!


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Ok see i went on a trip and first i asked my best friend to go wth me but there was no more room on the airplane. i kno if she did go we would have a BLAST! but then my other friend's mom talked 2 my dad and my dad invited her and the SOME HOW he found a ticket for her. i didnt kno what to say about that or even what to say to my best friend. she was a little pissed when she found out, but i hate when she is pissed at me ! i love her like a fat kid loves cake we have been though everything 2geter

tell her that it wasn't your fault, and that you're really sorry anyway! tell her that you're dad invited her, and you know you guys woulda had a blast, and if she's still mad at you, buy her a souvenir, send her postcards, and take pictures for her! that might make her feel better. make sure you apologize though and tell her it was all a misunderstanding! good luck!

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Hey I'm stuck in my house all day (long story save your ramblings on anything) and I need easy food to make that is good. Not mac & cheese and no pb&j. Thanks in advance.
-Don't call me lazy or anything like that cause I'll rate you a 1-
I rate 5's for good answers!

Here's a few:

Popcorn
Ramen Noodles
Fruit Salad
Regular Salad
Cereal
Toast
Apples and Peanut Butter
Ice Cream (lol)
Baked Potato
Soup
Oatmeal

Hope I helped!

Tasha

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is it normal to get a cold in the summer? because i think i have one i have a really soar throat and my nose is sooo stuffy! also what can i do to help get my nose unstuffed?

Yes it is normal. I get colds all the time. For your sore throat, drink broth, and you might want to get some medicine for it. And for you stuffy nose, blow it a LOT, and don't cry, because that makes it worse, and when I get a stuffy nose I use nasal spray lmao. But it works. You stick it in your nose and squirt, and it unclogs your nose. You can get it at wal mart!

Tasha

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ok there is this guy that i really like and i kno he likes me too but he is kinda mad at me right now....that or he hates me...and i dont know why....i would do anytng for this guy and i think he knows it ! but i dont know why he is mad so i dont know what to do....please help...what should i do whjen the guy i love is mad at me and i donrtknow why?

Okay, first make sure he's serious and not joking around, because guys can be like that sometimes. Second, tell him that you really want to know what you did. Don't tell him you're sorry for it until you KNOW what it is, because it might not even be worth apologizing for. If he won't tell you, tell him that you can't apologize until you know. If he STILL won't tell you, then tell him that you really like him, and you feel bad that he's mad at you. If you need help IM me: i X HEART X YO0U

Tasha

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Ok..I have reeeally curly hair. I want it to be straight but when I try to straighten it there are 2 problems:
1. It takes me 1 and a half to 2 hours to get it completely straight.
2. My hair only stays straight for a day or overnight..even if I just straightened it.

Are there any easier ways to make my hair straight and make it stay straight for a while?

Thanks ahead of time. I will rate high for helpful answers.

Sincerely-
Curly wanting to go straight

Well, they have lots of sprays and things you can use to make it straight, but I use Physique Keep It Straight and I reccomend it. It works very well. The CatWalk products also work very well. You can get Phsyique Keep It Straight at wal mart, and I got CatWalk as a birthday present, but I'm sure they'll be at wal mart or Ulta3. Hope I helped!



Tasha

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I am throwing my best friend a surprise party. She's a girl, 16. I already sent out the invitatations to all of her girlfriends, but I can't decide if I should invite boys or not. She is not friends with very many guys, and the 3 or 4 she is friends with may not even all be friends with each other (I don't really know all of them well). I don't know if I should invite them or not, because they aren't even people she hangs out with outside of school, and I don't know if it would be awkward for them to be there. However, I think that the party should have boys, I mean we are 16 years old. What should I do?

I think that you should invite them. I mean it would give her a chance to make some guy friends, and if there's anyone she has a crush on, INVITE HIM! Plus, it'll be a lot more fun, because you guys would be able to dance and stuff. Unless you were planning on doing girly stuff like makeovers and stuff. In which case you can still invite guys, just wait until they go home to do that stuff. Hope I helped!


Tasha

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um i just put this under a random category but...im going on a really long road trip in a few days and im gonna need some serious entertainment...any ideas besides anything that involves reading?(i cant read in the car, makes me feel sick and stuff) thanks soo much i rate

Sure! I go on trips all the time, not very far, but I can tell you some stuff:

Gameboy/Games
Portable TV if possible
A notebook (unless that makes you feel sick too)
A laptop (if you have one)
You could take a camera in case there is pretty scenery on the way
An iPod or CD player

If you need more, IM me: i X HEART X YO0U


Tasha

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today i had pop rocks and soda and now i'm being told that it's bad for you and i'm scared something is gonna happen to me!! what, if anything, is going to happen to me?!

Nothing is going to happen for you. It's not GOOD for you, but unless you do it every day then nothing will happen.



Tasha

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Hello. I am 14 years old, and have secretly been cutting for 3 years. I have never told anybody before, but I am wondering if I should. Would it be in my best interest to get help?
I have a lot of trouble trusting people,though.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks

I can relate, I used to do this too. If I were you I would see if I can stop by myself first. If you can't, then you should get help. Tell your mom, or best friend, or counselor. If you need anything, IM me-i X HEART X YO0U



Hope I helped!


Tasha

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I have this friend, she's been like, my best friend since 8th grade....so for like 2/3 years now. And she's having guy problems. I want to help, but she's ALWAYS falling for the wrong ones! And everytime she thinks for a second that "He's not right for me", or "He doesn't like me like that." She decides to give up, and she does stupid things. One main thing she does is she tells the guy (who she's ALWAYS really good friends with) that she should stop talking to them, so she can get over them. This isn't right, because she's done this with 2 guys, in which she had a WONDDERFUL friendship with, and it ruined the friendship. She's not as close as she was to one of them, and the other won't even look at her. She likes this guy now, and he's 18 (she's only 15) and he said he doesn't want to get into it because she's too young. And she's thinking about telling him that she can't talk to him anymore. And she has a great friendship with this guy, and I don't want her to lose another friend. What do I tell her? Or what can I do to help her?

Hey "Mick" lol. You're talking about Amanda. Yup. That's what I thought. Well, I'm not the BEST person to get advice from, but I'll try. If I were you, I would tell her that she might lose him as a friend if she tells him that. And since she's already lost two friends, she shouldn't do it again. Tell her the honest-to-God truth because you're her best friend, and that's what best friends do. She will find someone, and when she does, it will make her forget about the other guy. Hope I helped "Mick" =)


Tasha

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Ok, i had a boyfriend and we were totally in love, but we barely saw eachother (once or twice a month) because we both went to different schools and were in all honors and ap classes (aka TONS of hw). In the end he ended up breaking up with me because "I love you, but i really cant b attached to someone right now." We still ended up being best friends, but about a week ago he told me that he had never told his mom about us breaking up, and i asked him y. He told me that it was because he still loved me (after 2 months), and that he could never take down the picture of us that i gave him for valentines. We're going to the same school next year, and he wants to get back together then....should i go for it because i love him...or just not put the used gum back in my mouth?

If you really love him, go for it. I see no reason why you shouldn't. It sounds like you guys would be a good couple.


Tasha

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So me & this guy were going out.. it had been going great and all but his ex girlfriends were real bitches!! but anyways.. so we ended up braking up because he got suspended and got grounded for the whole summer. He's usually aloud to go to his best friends house (dont ask me why) even if hes grounded but he couldnt even go there.. so we decided to brake up. but see the thing is that about a week into summer (we broke up about a week before school ended) he was able to go to his friends house again. and about three days after that he wasnt grounded anymore.. i saw him at the carnival all over his ex girlfriend (the bitchy one) but he calls me once and a while(we were friends before we went out) but it just seems like i was someone to try and get over his ex and not someone who he really cared about. is he a jerk.. or what?

I think you should talk to him, ask him if he really liked you, or was using you.



Tasha

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16/f
i am going to camp this week, and my ex boyfriend will be there.
we broke up in april and we haven't really talked since.
he came up to me at chruch once and apologized for what he did, but i don't think he really meant it because he still acts like a jerk towards me.
my question is, how can i have an awesome time at camp without thinking about my stupid ex?
thanks in advance

Well, meet some new people, do new things. I think the reason you are thinking about this is because you guys haven't really settled what happened in the past. Tell him you are totally over him, and you want space. Because then maybe you won't think about/see him. Just try to avoid him. Sorry if this advice sucked!


Tasha

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is soda pop REALLY that bad for you? I'm on a diet and I get sick of water.. I like diet pop! My boyfriend says he will never drink it because its so bad... true? false?

It's not THAT bad! Unless you drink SO much of it that you gain a lot of weight. I drink diet soda alll the time. And I'm dieting. You should have nothing to worry about!



Tasha

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I'm thinking about getting the top of my ear periced does anyone know how much it hurts? and if it is worth getting it done?

The "top of your ear" is called your cartilidge. I pierced mine myself, but I do NOT reccomend that. It doesn't hurt too bad. But you won't be able to sleep on that side of your head for about a month. Because when you put pressure on it it hurts.


Tasha

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wut does it mean to "eat a girl out" ?

It's when someone sucks/licks your "private" part. It's like oral sex on a girl lmao.


Tasha

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