I have this friend, she's been like, my best friend since 8th grade....so for like 2/3 years now. And she's having guy problems. I want to help, but she's ALWAYS falling for the wrong ones! And everytime she thinks for a second that "He's not right for me", or "He doesn't like me like that." She decides to give up, and she does stupid things. One main thing she does is she tells the guy (who she's ALWAYS really good friends with) that she should stop talking to them, so she can get over them. This isn't right, because she's done this with 2 guys, in which she had a WONDDERFUL friendship with, and it ruined the friendship. She's not as close as she was to one of them, and the other won't even look at her. She likes this guy now, and he's 18 (she's only 15) and he said he doesn't want to get into it because she's too young. And she's thinking about telling him that she can't talk to him anymore. And she has a great friendship with this guy, and I don't want her to lose another friend. What do I tell her? Or what can I do to help her?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? HEARTXBREAKER answered Monday July 11 2005, 6:15 pm: Hey "Mick" lol. You're talking about Amanda. Yup. That's what I thought. Well, I'm not the BEST person to get advice from, but I'll try. If I were you, I would tell her that she might lose him as a friend if she tells him that. And since she's already lost two friends, she shouldn't do it again. Tell her the honest-to-God truth because you're her best friend, and that's what best friends do. She will find someone, and when she does, it will make her forget about the other guy. Hope I helped "Mick" =)
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