well..i rele like this guy..who happens 2 b my x..nd i kno he likes me bak..alot! but i think were both still alittle shy 2 go bak out..any suggestions?
poa answered Monday July 11 2005, 7:18 pm: Ask him to teach you to spell, then you can slowly slide into a relationship. [ poa's advice column | Ask poa A Question ]
ItzMzManda answered Monday July 11 2005, 7:00 pm: Hey this is a second chance for the both of you. Dont let it pass by because you will regret it. You guys should talk about and tell each other how you guys still like each other. Dont be shy and just wonder about him. Wonder how he feels about you will make a ton of what ifs in your head. So just go for it and you'll do great. Try to talk to him in person..dont do the online things because then it seems so fake. Like you guys might be distracted by a game or music. Try going out somewhere to talk because then you guys are listening to each other. Hope this helps!
Mandee answered Monday July 11 2005, 6:56 pm: You need to get over your shyness, dear! The both of you need need to come to the conclusion that being shy will not make anything better. The relationship would stay the same as it is right now. You won't get anywhere by doing nothing...trust me.
Now if the two of you are shy because of a previous problem in your last relationship that is something you need to be willing to work out. The best way to get help is by overcoming shyness. That is something you'll have to work at.
Love,
Mandee
I'm guessing that you talk to each other. Probably on AIM mostly. Try to resist that. The more you rely on AIM and e-mail, the more you exclude yourself from hearing his voice and seeing him. So when you do meet in person you start to tense up. Try talking to him on the phone and hanging out as friends. You need to build up your comfort level with him again. It might take time but you have the whole summer to work on it.
If you have had trust issues with him that will take a long time. You need to be able to feel like you can open up with him again. That will take some time. Why don't you just start hanging out as friends for awhile? While you're working on building up the relationship you can gradually create an open connect with him. But be sure that you are ready for this. And make sure he knows that if he has had faults before that dealt with the result of breaking up the last time he needs to work on changing them. As do you.
Mami0s0xclusivex3 answered Monday July 11 2005, 6:48 pm: girl come on, why be shy, your not going to get anywheres in life being shy!! Dont be afraid to tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels, Ask your self if you want to hide your feelings and let him slip away from you or do you want to let him know how much you like him and be together happily?? If its completly hard to talk to him by yourself, have one of your friends talk to him, or even if thats to hard, you can go on aol, yahoo, msn something like that and pretend your one of your friends and talk to about it. Hope i helped some
punkette501 answered Monday July 11 2005, 6:43 pm: ok if you like the guy just ask him out! this isnt the 80's any more kid gurls can do the job too! AND IF YOU ARE A LIL BIT SHY HAVE A FRIEND DO IT! HOPE I HELPED! BYEAND HAVE FUN! [ punkette501's advice column | Ask punkette501 A Question ]
XKill_The_PainX answered Monday July 11 2005, 6:42 pm: Well, if you are positive that he likes you back, you could just ask him if he would "go out" with you. If he doesn't,that's fine. There are plenty of other fish in the sea(I love saying that...) and I'm sure that there will be somebody who is 100 times better than this guy, who will love you the same.
Good luck. [ XKill_The_PainX's advice column | Ask XKill_The_PainX A Question ]
akissintheshapeofabullet answered Monday July 11 2005, 6:40 pm: i think you should just tell him how you feel. i'm sure once he knows what you think, he'll be open with you and you'll probably end up going out!
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