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My husband and I's one year anniversary is coming up in a few months, and so is a very close friend's wedding, her wedding date: our one year anniversary. I'm at a loss of what to do. My husband wouldn't be able to come with me to her wedding, and my friend would be extremely hurt if I didn't go. What makes the situation awkward is I knew when picking my wedding date that my friend would be getting married that same day. I had no choice however (my husband is military). I reassured and promised her since she got engaged that I would be there at her wedding. In fact, as soon as I got the wedding invite, I texted her and let her know I would be there and how excited I was. My husband always knew I'd be going, but I guess it just clicked for him I'd be missing or first anniversary. He's very upset, anniversaries are very important to him. I tried reasoning with him that we could celebrate another day, but he's not having it. What do I do? I will always pick my husband over anything, but shouldn't he be more understanding? Should I be present for the most important day of my close friend's life and hurt my husband? Or be there with my husband for our one year anniversary and risk losing my friend? (And I have very few true good friends) (link)
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You know the answer to this already. You need to spend your first anniversary with your husband. If you make any other choice I can assure you it will be the beginning of the end for your marriage. Trade places with him for a minute.Let's say he chose the friend over you? If your friend is so adamant that you attend, even knowing you must risk your marriage to do so, you need to rethink this friendship.No true friend would continue to insist knowing that it will cause major problems in your marriage!Your spouse should ALWAYS come first. NO EXCEPTIONS! With the technology available today, I am sure you and your husband can send beautiful heartfelt wishes on her wedding day and she and her new husband can wish you both a happy anniversary.If she ends the friendship because you chose to be with your husband then she is a spoiled immature brat who is not good friendship material anyway! A brief explanation and your sincere apologies should be enough.Anything more and she is bullying you. Stand back and really look at the position you are in. I don't believe it is the same one you THINK you are in!
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I have been dating my boyfriend for one and a half years now. He was in the same college, two years elder. Passed out the year we started dating and started working. We haven't ever had major problems except for once when he couldn't clear a major exam and his parents blamed it on his distraction because of me but we eventually got back because he got a good job and he loved me.
We just spent the last ten days together on a holiday with his friends and a couple of mine and then at his place alone for a couple of days.
We got into a petty fight two days back and he told me he really thinks we should see new people. He feels since I'm just 19 and he's 22 there is a lot more in life then getting serious for each other.
I let him be for a day and when we met next to talk this out he said he doesn't want to see new people. He was just saying that to make me angry. But he feels like we should break up because he thinks relationships are restrictive and he feels bound and he can't be himself. He told me he wants to still be with me and do all the things we used to do like go out for dinners, watch movies etc but he can't be physical with me. He feels when we do he gets too emotionally attached to me and he doesn't want that .We are too into each other.
He accepted that he still loves me and will because I'm a huge part of his life and he doesn't want to feel this way for any other girl. But right now he feels like he isn't fit for relationships and he can't see himself in one ever, even in the future. He knows i'd wait for this to work out but he said he didnt want to give me false hopes. He would try to make this work out too but right now he cant.
He feels now that we are bound by a relationship he would be able to express his feelings better in front of me. He loves me as much as he loves him mom and best friends and he wants me to be there but he said he can live without the sex.
We agreed on neither breaking up or dating. And I couldn't accept calling this a friendship so we just agreed on not defining it till he clears his head. But I can't stop feeling hurt and insecure.
I love him. But I can't understand what happened to him suddenly. What am I supposed to do? I'm in a delimma because I want him and this relationship back. Is there a chance ? Is this just a phase and should I just play along by giving him time? (link)
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There is a LOT more going on in his head than what he is telling you. He could be questioning his sexuality or he could indeed have someone else in his life who is fulfilling his sexual needs but I am almost certain he is not being completely honest with you. My advice to you is do as he asked and move on. He has already told you this won't change. You can save yourself a lot more pain if you just believe him. Good luck!
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'fingering girl, may have precum on finger, but girl took ipill after the incident....will she be pregnant? (link)
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I can't say for 100% certainty that she couldn't be pregnant but it is very unlikely. The best way to prevent this from happening again is for her to get on birth control and for you to always wear a condom. You know what they say, an oz. of prevention is worth a lb. of cure!In a case like this it could be 7 or 8 lbs! If she is going to be sexually active in any way(this includes fingering, oral or anal sex) your girl friend needs to get an appointment at a women's health clinic or with an ob/gyn as soon as possible. In the meantime please be careful!
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I feel scared to ask my parents for a snapchat facebook Kris even an instagram because of how over protective they are what should I do (link)
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Before you ask permission you must make sure your parents have a clear understanding of what it is you want to do. Some parents are tech savvy and others, not so much! Sometimes it is easier for a parent to say no than to admit to their child they have no clue what these terms mean! Make sure your parents use these apps and understand them, if not then you will have to demonstrate how it works and be able to reassure them you will use it in a responsible manner.If they still say no, react like a mature young adult and ask them what it would take for you to earn this privilege. Just keep in mind no matter what that your parents are overprotective because they love you and they just want to keep you safe! Good luck!
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I am married for 22 years but my mental health declined and i went voluntary to a mental health unit the day i went in there my wife stopped talking to me and sent abusive texts to goad me in to killing myself i was in there for. 4 months and my wife who i adore has refused to have me back or even talk to me we have two daughters together and whilst i was in the unit she told our eldest daughter to leave which made OUR daughter homeless which i never understand how she could do this thankfully my daughter has now goto somewhere to live . The thing i struggle most with is that i am still so in love with my wife and don't want to live anymore i know that is selfish because of my daughters but i can't help the way i feel i just don't understand how my wife has turned so against me whilst together i THOUGHT we was happy doing things that family normally do holidays celebrations and so on i just don't get it (link)
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While you are already getting help, now is the time to be honest. You have stated that your mental health had declined to a point of needing inpatient care. Things were obviously NOT okay at home! You were married to this woman for 22 years. I feel pretty certain you know what led up to this and the reason for her behavior at this point. You are going to need to examine it honestly and stop pretending this just happened out of the blue. If she is texting you and goading you to commit suicide then she obviously needs mental help for herself as well! Just because you had some good family times and celebrations does not mean that things were okay!If someone wants you dead after 22 years of marriage things have probably not been okay for quite some time! You need to get honest here if you really want to get well! I am guessing you know plenty about what caused your home life to fall apart but you just can't bring yourself to look at it yet! If your wife ever does get to the point of considering a reconciliation you both need to go to counseling together. If your eldest daughter is an adult maybe the best thing for her was to push her out of the nest! If you really love your wife the best thing you can do for her (and yourself) is to get honest and work on fixing your problems before you try to get back together as a family!I hope I haven't offended you but I won't beat around the bush or throw a pity party either. You need to work on the things that put you in this situation to begin with! Good luck!
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I'm a 16 year old girl.
A few days ago, my friend gave my number to a guy who lives a couple towns away from us. He started texting me, saying he was bored and all. We chatted for a couple days and he wanted to know what I looked like (he doesn't have a facebook) so I sent him some of the pictures I have up on facebook. He sent one back. Later, he said the email had been deleted and he asked for more pictures. I sent him a couple more (we had been flirting) and one of them was slightly scandalous. I was in a t-shirt and underwear, but you couldn't see anything terrible and it was basically innocent.
A couple days later, my friend tells me that someone had "nudes" of me. Of course, I was flustered. I didn't send the guy anything bad, but it still makes me nervous that he's spreading rumors. I texted him asking why he was such an asshole about the situation, and he got extremely defensive and just called me a whore.
I want to take some sort of action about this whole thing. I've been trying to track down his mom to email her or something but I can't find her. What should I do? This is extremely upsetting to me. (link)
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I would speak to the mutual friend (who is so free to hand out your # to disgusting little pervs) immediately and ask just how well she knows him! I am sure you already know that you shouldn't have sent suggestive pictures to someone you barely knew but that doesn't give him the right to lie about it! You need to tell your parents or a trusted adult friend and try to track down his parents. They need to know what their charming baby boy is up to! In the future I wouldn't send any pics unless you know the person VERY well!Sorry this happened!Best of luck!
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Hi, I am a fifteen year old girl. I have sung ever since I can remember. I have sung in church, school, talent shows, and festivals. I live in a considerably small town, after all, it is the folk capital of the world. I just love the feeling of singing on stage, and I know it's going to be hard work, but I want to do that for the rest of my life. How can I get "noticed" in a small town? Any suggestions? (link)
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If your parents allow it you might want to post one your performances on YouTube. I lot of people get recognition that way. If you are truly talented and getting lots of local recognition your parents might want to consider hiring a reputable agent to promote you. You have to get your demos to the right people and that can be very difficult to do on your own. You could also audition for shows like Idol or X Factor if your parents are in a position to travel with you and pay for the accommodations. Winning local talent shows will also get you recognition and possibly qualify you for competitions in larger areas. Exposure is key.The more people who see you perform the more chance you have of being recognized by someone in the field who has connections. There are a LOT of scam artists out there and even worse so make sure your parents always accompany you when someone wants to discuss anything involving your career. Best of luck!
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Idk if my other went through bc I can't find it, but there's this guy that is a host at a restaurant. I really want to talk to him, but we haven't talked before, and I don't even know anything about him (not even his age or his name). He always sneaks glances at me whenever he can so I think that's a good sign. I just want to talk to him, but don't know how? (link)
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It sounds like he is interested!Go up to him and say "you look familiar, did you go to (the name of your school)?If he says yes then talk to him about people or teachers that you both may know. If he says no then ask him where he did go. Then you could say"Oh that's awesome,so how did you end up here in (Your town)? You could then follow up with"Wow I'd love to hear all about it, maybe we could go for coffee sometime? At this point if he is interested he will ask you out. If he doesn't then I would just wait for him to make the next move. Sometimes guys can be slow but they usually don't respond well to girls being too pushy either. If he is truly interested he will make a move fairly soon after you approach him. Good luck!
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I'm female, only fifteen, but sometimes I catch myself wanting a child of my own. Sometimes it's random, like I'm just laying in bed thinking and the thought comes around, and sometimes it's because I see someone with a baby. But either way, I'm freaking out about it in my head and I can also feel it with my body, like an urge or a deep longing. Not for sex, but I can feel in my body the longing for a child that shares my DNA. Is this natural??
Also, it may be because my dad was kind of a crappy father figure, but when I picture myself with a child, it's always just me, no father in the picture or even any thoughts about a daddy. Any ideas on that?? Thank you in advance for your responses!! (: (link)
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This is actually pretty common. Little girls are given dolls and encouraged in this nurturing role from infancy throughout the formative years. Then all at once you are too old for dolls but that need to nurture is still there! There is nothing wrong with longing for motherhood someday as long as you keep it in perspective. You are only 15 so it is also natural that you do not see a partner in picture yet. You must be patient and all these things will eventually come to you in their own time. In the meantime you could find some babysitting jobs to give you an outlet for all these maternal feelings. Getting a pet that you would have to care for is another way to put these feelings to use in a constructive way. Once you are finished with your education and you meet that someone special you will then be ready to give a child the future it deserves! I'll bet you will be a great mom someday! Good luck to you!
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Hi, I'm in 11th grade, I have a lot going on lately. For starters I have two more years and I have no clue what I want to go to college for, or if I even want to go to college. I have a lot of pressure on me from everybody and it's really getting to me. I currently I have a 4.3 GPA which every one says is good, but I feel like it's not enough. All my life I've tried to make my dad proud, but no matter what I do I feel like he's never proud of me. Everything that I've thought of going to school for he said it would be a let down due to my high grades. Everything I've ever done is to make him proud, but I feel like giving up its a lot of pressure on me and for what? Any advice would be great thanks guys. There's a lot more but character limit. (link)
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Just imagine for one moment that you don't even know what your GPA is. Imagine that your dad doesn't care what choice you make and then start to think about all the things you LOVE. What do you see yourself doing? Even if it is something your dad would find ridiculous like racing cars or becoming a musician. The question to ask is, Am I passionate about this?" I am going to give you the best advice you will ever get in this lifetime! Don't EVER do ANYTHING you don't have a passion for! This applies in every area of your life. Don't marry without passion, don't choose a career without passion.If you do either of these things you will not be happy with your life. Believe it or not making money is NOT the most important thing!Most people realize this far too late in life and then it is difficult to change the situation they are stuck in! You are almost an adult and you are going to have to explain to your father that you appreciate his input but this is a decision that you have to live with the rest of your life so you have to be the one to make it. Ask him to please respect any decisions you make regarding your education. No matter how he acts or what he might say your father will be proud of you no matter what! I know a doctor whose only son decided not only that he wouldn't follow in his father's footsteps but chose to become a cabinet maker instead! Well needless to say that didn't go over very well at first, but the boy was adamant that this is what he wanted to do . His father now brags about his son the cabinet maker at every opportunity! I might also add that the young man has done very well for himself and he is very happy!You don't have to make any decisions yet! Just be observant and get an idea of what you might like. You are far too young to feel pressured about your future. You should be enjoying your life and having some fun!These wonderful high school years come and go so fast.I am a little concerned about the statement you made on giving up. Please don't feel there is no way out. Just tell your dad he is putting too much pressure on you and he needs to back off. Forget about all this for a while and just get out and enjoy yourself!If your dad continues to pressure you perhaps you should talk to a school counselor, minister or trusted adult friend and have them talk with your father. Sometimes another adult can help put things into perspective!Best of luck to you!
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May be long, I apologize.
Lately, I seem to be in quite a funk with myself. I am 29 years old whom is hard of hearing and suffers both anxiety and severe depression. I am introverted and have a hard time keeping friends.
I have a tendency, When people attempt to get to know me personally or even try to get close to me. I find ways to push them away or I simply shut them out without a valid reason. I am married, I love my husband and he may be the only few in my life whom I couldn't spend enough time with. I am close to my mother, semi close to my step father and my father and step mother are almost like strangers from time to time. I have siblings, two sisters to be exact. I am not nor was ever close with either one of them. My Aunts and Uncles I don't talk too nor my cousins. I am almost completely limited to who is in my life.
Sometimes I truly believe my happiness is with acquaintances rather then actually having friends. I find myself to be happy with friends for a very short period of time before I become overwhelmed and miserable. I don't quite understand this, I have no valid explanations.
I am a smart person but rather very awkward around people or outside of my comfort zone. I am not one to spark a conversation, I have trouble making eye contact and I often come off as rude when I by all means do not intend to be. I've suspected I possibly have Aspergers but I again, Stuck in the funk. (link)
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What you are describing certainly does have some of the markers of an autism spectrum disorder such as Aspergers. You need to see a doctor who is trained to identify these disorders and get a formal diagnosis. At that point they should also be able to treat your anxiety and depression as well. Please don't try to handle this on your own. These are issues that do require the help of a professional. I think your quality of life could be greatly improved if you get a correct diagnosis and proper medication. If you have not already done so I would suggest seeing specialist for your hearing problem as well.These are all issues that can be greatly improved if you get the right treatment. Do some research on doctors in your area who specialize in these fields and get yourself taken care of! You deserve it!Best of luck to you!
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I have had an issue with weight my whole life. In high school I was always large, a size 12-14. I went down to about a 10-12 when I was in wrestling and participating in extremely high intensity exercises for 2.5-4 hours a day, 5 times a week and keeping a nearly anorexcic diet in order to make weight. I work full time now and have other responsibilities so I can't do that now. I eat a normal healthy way - I watch my carbs/fat/sugar intake, I don't eat huge portions and rarely eat beyond being full - and always have. The thing is, I consistently gain weight. I can maintain my weight by working out (I only have time for about 1/2 hour every other day) and eating less food and very small portions,, but I always feel STARVED and I don't lose, I just gain. I'm 22 now and am "morbidly obese" according to my BMI wearing a size 22-24.
I have tried structured very low calorie diets, weight loss products, exercise regimens, I track my calories on my fitness pal...I've even gone to weight loss support groups, but it doesn't help because I'm not a food addict, I have good habits. Aside from my weight I'm in great health, but the weight is taking it's toll on my body. my doctor says I'm healthy I just need to eat less and work out more, but she has never done anything other than a basic physical with me. I'm at a loss and I'm not sure where to turn. Does anyone have a similar situation? And if so what did you do, what helped? Any diets, programs, etc?
I'm so frustrated, any advice will help!! (link)
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I agree with Adviceman, it could be a problem with your thyroid. Any time a doctor doesn't take your problem seriously or make every effort possible to find out what is causing the condition then it is time to change doctors. I believe you should see a specialist who deals with obesity and get a battery of tests ran to rule out all the possible causes. In the meantime I would start keeping a food diary of every food and beverage you are consuming throughout the day and start keeping a log of all exercise activity. This will come in very handy when you see the new doctor. That way they can assess your eating habits and determine if anything needs adjusted in your diet or exercise routine as well.It certainly sounds like a metabolic issue to me. The way you describe being constantly "starved" would also suggest a possible glucose imbalance. Your doctor should also order a fasting glucose test. You need to find a new doc ASAP! Once the condition is identified and treated your weight should return to normal. I would advise you to get online and locate a specialist who has good reviews. Don't let doctors intimidate you, you have the right to be proactive concerning your own healthcare! Keep searching until you find one who takes you seriously and orders the right tests.Best of luck to you!
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Hi solidadvice4teens, I am not looking to start a fight. I am not a person who likes arguing. However, after reading your reply to my post I will not keep my thoughts about it to myself. Again, I am not replying to insult you in any way. With that in mind, first of all, let me tell you that in the past I have suggested to my current psychiatrist that she wean me off meds. She said exactly what you said. Was she right? Yes, for the most part yes. Adding onto that, at the beginning of your response you stated that you agreed with adviceman49. Saying that you are both right whether I like it or not. You both are PARTIALLY correct I say partially because you both assumed I was feeling mentally stable while on meds. There is a reason why I suggested to my psychiatrist that she wean me off meds. All those years I had been on them I never felt they truly helped me as much as they sedated me and I have been on loads of different cocktails of drugs. They have all been the same. They all dumb me down tremendously. Psychiatrists have tried prescribing me a smaller dose, changing the medicine altogether to a more "effective/modern" drug but the fact that I was drugged out, to the point of not knowing what I was really doing, on antipsychotics has never changed. Abilify was the last drug I was on and I do admit it was the most helpful one. Not 100% or even 80% either.(As my psychiatrist says the pill is the miracle worker, it does 80% of the work and you only have to do 20% of it). I was on it for four years and it was never the miracle worker my psychiatrist said it would be. Now, you also suggested I visit an emergency room. Why would I go to such an extreme? Doing that would surely result in me getting a 51/50. I have a tight work schedule, if I am gone for even 1 day without notice I would surely lose my job and if I told my employer to let me off the hook because I was in a mental hospital he would surely not sympathize. Not to mention how intense it would become at home with my own family members giving me looks of disapproval and disappointment or even amusement because of my mental "weakness". Adding on to that I was hospitalized when I was about twenty one twice in the time span of one month. I must say the psychiatrist there was horrible, HORRIBLE and the employee's were awful as well. They either hated their jobs or loved their jobs because the patient's crazy behavior entertained them. This is no lie, I got a rash on my face while I was hospitalized because a negligent nurse didn't tell me how to properly use a prescription acne face wash. Yet another thing that sparks my curiosity about what the psychiatry and drug industries true intentions are. Why would they give me a prescription for my acne when that has nothing to do with my mental health. Also, because I was put on so many drugs that had potential increased appetite/weight gain listed as side effects I was eating A LOT. I gained twenty pounds in ONE WEEK. That is ridiculously fast weight gain. They had no problem with serving me three meals in one sitting. That was extremely hazardous to my health. The way everything played out while I was there steers me into believing they were milking my health insurance for all it was worth. In conclusion, adviceman49 suggested I keep a note on my fridge to remind myself that I feel okay because of medications. If you took your time to read this which, I know, ended up being really long you now know that was never the case and also never will be. If I have managed to stay even slightly productive it has mostly been because of my own will. As a teenager I honestly thought they were helping me but I realize now that some of the craziest and most destructive things I have done in my life were done when I was on meds. I completely agree that my mind isn't average. Possibly even inferior and defective but one thing I don't agree with is psychiatry's approach to people like me. My last words may be shocking and insulting to either one or both of you: I am back on my meds. After all these years of being on if go off them my mind becomes too much to handle. It is bad when I am on them but worse when I am not. I hate being overly sedated. Most people see right through it and view me as slow and mentally impaired and I have never in my right mind told anyone other than family and psychiatrist's about my diagnosis. If anything those drugs that you refer to as meds. have done nothing good but turn me into their slave. I know 100% deep down that if the first psychologist I saw didn't order me to take drugs and would have stuck to therapies and counseling my situation in the long run would have been much better. I am not stating everything that has to do with psychiatry is bad but MOST psychiatrist's are and the pharmaceutical industry most definitely is. (link)
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I am not sure why this came to my inbox. I am not the one who advised you. It appears the columnist you are searching for is solidadvice4teens. I don't know whose mix up this is but I know nothing! Sorry!
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I sent a few nudes to a guy I met online and he's sent me money in return for them and now he's blackmailing me saying if I don't send him something else then he'll post all my pics on the internet.. Is there anything I can do to stop him? Can the police do anything? (link)
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What is the worst that happen if he posts them? A lot of celebs have had nudes pics splashed all over the internet and it wasn't even their real bodies. This happens a lot and honestly if it was me(and believe me at my age you never want this to happen) I would call his bluff. It does sound like he has quite a racket going so I believe I would turn him in before he hurts anyone else.If they search him and find others or God forbid underage photos he will be arrested and prosecuted. I know this seems awful but there are far worse things than being seen naked. Fess up to friends and family if they find out and then consider it a lesson learned. Everyone makes mistakes,it is part of the growing process. No one has a right to judge you and you have the right to tell them so!
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OK, my life sucks. My mother hates me and is doing drugs, my dad keeps molesting me and I can't feel emotions or make friends. Now how the fuck do I commit suicide. (link)
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If your dad is molesting you, go to a school counselor or any adult that you trust and ask them to help you report it. I know this is your father but he is committing a crime, He needs to be stopped and he needs help. Maybe you could go live with a family member for a while until your mom gets her life together. If not a foster home would be a lot better than the situation you are in. Some young people have gone into foster care and formed loving, life long relationships with the foster parents. You are in a state of depression right now(which is understandable)and that is why you are thinking about suicide. You must go to someone immediately who can get you some help. If nothing else, just walk into the police station and tell them your story. Ask if you can talk to a female officer.She will help you, I promise. You can have a bright beautiful future. This does not have to be your reality any more. Once you are out of this home situation life will get better. Don't let fear of the unknown keep you in this place until you feel death is the only way out!Please take action on this today, do not wait, okay? This will all work out and your life will be so much better. You can trust me on this because I once felt the way you do today and I am so glad I am still here to give you this advice!
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Hi! I have lots of ingrown hairs in my inner thigh because I chafe, how can I get rid of them and prevent them. Please help! (link)
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Always use a shaving cream or gel when you shave. Try not to press down on the razor, just let it glide over you skin and make sure the blade is not dull.Do not use greasy or oil based lotions on your skin that can clog pores. If your thighs are chaffing, corn starch is one of the best things you can use and very inexpensive.If these ideas don't help you might need to see your doctor.Good luck!
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20/f I was admitted into a partial care program after OD'ing in an attempt to kill myself. It's been a few days into the program, a little more than a week since the attempt has been made.
Right now I'm in a bit of a bubble, so to speak. I haven't been out with friends, I'm not going to work, really the only communication I have at the moment is through Facebook. Our family has moved around quite frequently, but I've kept a lot of my friends through FB, and we talk frequently. Anyhow, what I'm torn about is whether or not I should post a "life update" status, if you will, and inform everyone of what's going on, why I'm so quiet and cooped up lately.
I guess what I'm concerned about is whether or not it's appropriate. I planned on making it a "friends only" status, but of course there are many acquaintances I have as FB friends as well. But I want to be honest for once, I'm sick of hiding how I feel or what I'm going through, I've been doing that for over 5 years, and look where it got me. Everyone knows me as the cheerful one, the one they can depend on. Right now I need to be able to be myself, and have support. I feel like continuing to hide and keep everything hushhush is a bad way to do that.
I don't know, I'm torn on whether or not it's a good idea to post about it. Any thoughts/opinions please? (link)
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It is quite alright to let your friends know you are going through really bad stuff without going into all the details. When you update your status explain you are going through a very rough period in your life right now and really need a lot of understanding and emotional support. Then as friends and acquaintances begin to contact you , you can then decide how much you want to tell them on an individual basis. Best of luck to you for a complete recovery!
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So I had been a Wiccan for months, and my dad had the bad idea of it. That every Wiccan was a witch. That witches are evil. That the Horned God is associated with Satan because he has horns/antlers. I have never felt comfortable in Christianity, but felt comfortable in Wicca, like I was 100% safe and nothing would ever hurt me. I'll be turning 18 in a few months. Should I just light candles in my room, try to tell the Horned God that I'm sorry and that I'll move in with my friend when I turn 18 and become a Wiccan again? (link)
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You and your father may not agree about religion but that is not the issue here. The issue is, that as long as you live under your father's roof you have to obey his rules and follow his wishes. If he doesn't want you to practice Wicca in his house then you have to respect that. Once you turn 18 and move out you may do as you choose.
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can kissing and fingering causes late periods
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Not to the best of my knowledge. If your boyfriend ejaculates and has semen on his fingers before touching your vagina there could be a chance of sperm entering your vagina and making you pregnant. The best thing to do is get an appointment with a OB/GYN and get checked out!Don't be afraid to ask the doctor these questions. He/she needs to know what type of sexual activity you are engaging in so they can help you be better informed.
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Here's a picture of me: http://i.imgur.com/e2uF7w6.jpg
I have a stupid haircut and i don't look good.
I have no idea what hairstyle would look good for me, but could someone tell me what hairstyle would look best with my face? Every time I've asked this, people have just made fun for how I look; I know I'm ugly, but I just want legitimate advice as to what would look good for me. (link)
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Young man you are FAR from ugly. With those blue eyes and dimples you are one the cutest boys I've ever seen! I think you look like a young Zac Efron.I will agree however that hairstyle has to go! It is too Justin Beiber-ish! Find a hairstyle you admire either on a friend or search for boys haircuts online. Try to find a model who has a face shape like yours. Print out the picture and take it to the salon. If you have naturally curly hair then it is best not to try a straight style or vice versa. The stylist should be able to give you a similar cut and explain what product you need to maintain it. I don't know who is making fun of you but believe me it is only because of the hairstyle not because you are ugly!Good luck!
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