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How do I talk to him?
Idk if my other went through bc I can't find it, but there's this guy that is a host at a restaurant. I really want to talk to him, but we haven't talked before, and I don't even know anything about him (not even his age or his name). He always sneaks glances at me whenever he can so I think that's a good sign. I just want to talk to him, but don't know how?
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find a moment to approach him when others arent near him to hear. Tell him you noticed that he looks over at you often. You're wondering if it's just cus you look like somebody he knows or if he's single and kinda interested in you. See what he says. He may not feel comfortable put on the spot and not give an answer or not tell the truth. You can quickly add, Sorry for putting you on the spot, but because I am interested in you, I thought it worth asking and seeing if you are single. It's okay if you aren't. If you change your mind tho, give me your number next time I'm in here. Have a good evening. Guy's find a gal who would do that attractive because she has self confidence and boldness which appeals to many men.
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It sounds like he is interested!Go up to him and say "you look familiar, did you go to (the name of your school)?If he says yes then talk to him about people or teachers that you both may know. If he says no then ask him where he did go. Then you could say"Oh that's awesome,so how did you end up here in (Your town)? You could then follow up with"Wow I'd love to hear all about it, maybe we could go for coffee sometime? At this point if he is interested he will ask you out. If he doesn't then I would just wait for him to make the next move. Sometimes guys can be slow but they usually don't respond well to girls being too pushy either. If he is truly interested he will make a move fairly soon after you approach him. Good luck!
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Well if you have caught him sneaking glances then you should definitely let him know you're interested too. Do you see him often? Maybe next time strike up a simple conversion by asking him a question like "how do you like being a host" or "has it been pretty busy today", "how is your day going". With just a simple question you will get him talking to you, maybe find out a little about him & he will see that you are interested in hearing about how his day is. I imagine this will start up one conversation out of many.
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