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Around the beginning of July, I went into a chatroom and met this boy. I know meeting people online is a bad thing but this is different. Lets call the boy I met "Jim". Ok Jim is turnin 15 very soon and I'm turning 14 very soon. Jim lives in Connecticut and I live in New Hampshire. He is the most sweetest and kindest person I have ever known and met in my life. I sometimes talk to Jim on the phone (passed 9pm on my cell phone so I don't have to pay lol). He is so hot lol. Well anyways, he flirts with me all the time online like he'll say "cough cough you're hot" or "guess what? you're hot" and he'll say sweet and kind things too. I think he likes me but there's just one problem, he likes another person. Jim says I am hotter and have a better personality than her. I don't know what to do like I'm not the type of girl who will ask a guy if they have feelings for me. I think he likes me because he wouldn't say sweet and kind things and he always flirts with me. He's not a player so don't say "he's only saying that to get in my pants" lol. I like Jim as a great friend but I don't know if I like him. I flirt with him sometimes but when he flirts with me, I get these feelings inside of me that makes me wanna like me. Like I said before, I don't know what to do. Please help me lol. Thanks for those of you who are taking your time to read this and might wanna answer this lol.

I know u like him, and how sweet he is, but the truth is, u barely know him! Sure u know him online and on the phone, but u don't know him in person. Just knowing him online and on the phone it's hard 2 get 2 know sum1 cuz u don't know whether or not they are lying. Maybe 1 day u guys will find out u were meant 4 eachother or w/e... but 4 right now, especially since he likes sum1 else and that u guys haven't even met, u should just keep everything on the down low and try not 2 get 2 attached 2 him yet. Good luck tho!

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Well I have this really birth mark/mole on my at the top of my left arm, but none of my friends know about. I always cover it up with a bangage or something that sort but the only reason I do is because people used at school used to stare at it and make fun of me about it. So my question is should I keep hiding it or should I just let it be and not care about it?

U were born w/ it so it's a part of u! Ur gonna have 2 show it off eventually. Don't worry about wut it looks like or about covering it up. If u really wanna keep hiding it, just try 2 wear long sleeves or t-shirts... but I wouldn't bother hiding it if I were u.

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what does

That's a heart.

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how can i get the guts up to ask my mom for tampons?

Don't worry about it hun! Ur mom went through the exact same thing of having her period so it should b no big deal. Just go up 2 her and tell her u would like 2 start using tampons and she'll b able 2 help u get the right kind and everything. Don't worry about it! :-)

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Hey Everyone ! Ok ths is a good one, How come when your single you have the hardest time finding anyone to go out with. But as soon as you have a BF and become Attached Everyone in the world wants to date you. How many times has this happen to you guys? LOL its agravating. But I love my man so no huge complaints here. Have a great day everyone ! xoxoxoxooxoxoxox

It's probably bcuz the other guys know that ur not available anymore and that's why they want u all of a sudden.

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I was wondering if u could tell me some websites to get some good midis music files off of cuz im doing somewebsite and i really want some music so could u please tell me some websites thanx

www.niehs.nih.gov/kids/music.htm // www.musicselections.com/movie.htm // Try one of those sites! They mostly have like Disney and/or midis from different movies of other sorts.

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ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me



*~I RATE REALLY GOOD~*

Trust me... not many ppl wanna see ur thong hanging out. Alotta ppl might think of u as a slut... and u don't wanna be noticed that way. Instead, join clubs and activities or sumthin and that will get u noticed in a much better way than if u go around w/ ur thong hanging out all the time.

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are carrots good 4 u

Most veggies (like carrots) are good 4 u. Supposedly carrots can help ur eyesight... didn't exactly help mine tho.

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Anyone know where I can sign up for good and free webpages?

www.4t.com // www.geocities.com // www.homestead.com // Try one of those! :-)

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I met this guy online. I have been takling to him for like 8 months. I like him and he likes me. We live in diffrent states. What should i do!?

Online relationships are hard 2 work out. First of all there is the distance that sux. Then, ppl ight act 1 way online but then totally different in person. (I had a boyfriend that I met online from a friend and then that friend had us meet in person and we started going out cuzza how he was online... but in real life he was a jerk.) It's hard 2 trust sum1 if u don't really know them in person. Just b careful.

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Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me

There is a certain time in a girls cycle when they can get pregnant, but every1's is different. I suggest using protection... it is better 2 b safe than sorry.

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ok here is my problem. I've always loved penguins, but lately I've been feeling a sexual attraction to them. now I think that's as sick as the next person, but there's just something about penguins. what do I do?

Well... errr... that's kinda weird. I don't really know wut u would do... but if u are really serious about this... then maybe go talk 2 a psychiatrist?

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is it true that you can use a tampns during ur period and still swim??!?!?!

Yup! It's true!

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There is this guy that i have been going out with for almost 2 months. I like him a lot and we tell each other that we love each other and stuff like that. I think that i really do too bc he's the first guy that i've liked this much and i love practically everything about him, but it is realy hard for me to be the first one to say that i love him. I dont understand why either. Im fine with saying it AFTER he says it but not first. Am i taking this 'love' thing too serious? tell the truth please:-)

If ur having ur doubts, it's probably not love yet... it could be, but if u don't feel that u can say it first then it probably isn't. After only 2 months, even tho there is a chance that u may love him, it's pretty unlikely. Good luck with him tho! Let me know how all of it works out!

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okay i have this guy friend and see i dont know if i like him because i havnt seen him in a while and he gave me a hug today and i liked it and then he told me he got a girlfriend and i got mad does that mean i like him?

It doesn't necissarily mean that u like him like that... it could just b bcuz he's 1 of ur friends and u don't wanna lose that. U never know tho.

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I have dark hair around my bellybutton and when I wear a two piece swimsuit, you can sorta see it, and it bothers me! I don't want to shave it! I dunno why I have hair THERE... any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Try using Nair. It is kinda like a lotion thing, but u put it on and then let it sit for 4 mins, then u just wipe it off w/ a towel or sumthin and the hair will b gone! It's better 2 use that on ur stomach than tryin 2 shave it. Hope I helped a lil!

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how do you know when you are truly in love with a guy and how do you know when it is the right time to tell him?

It's kinda hard 2 tell when u are turely in love w/ sum1... but when u are, u should just know. Sorry I couldn't help that much... but u can't really explain the feeling or anything.

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hey yall i met this guy and i really like him but i don't think he like me.
i think the reason is that i am kinda chubby. but i really like him and he is sweet and we have a lot of things in common.please tell me what to do.

If he doesn't like u just cuz ur a lil chubby then he's not worth it. But anyways, tell him how u feel about him, that way he knows how u feel and he might feel the same way. Ur not going 2 know whether or not he likes u if u never talk 2 him. So just ask him how he feels about u sumtime. Good luck! Let me know how it turns out!

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i have a bf but i'm not sure if he is really into me nemore we use 2 tlak bout everything bout now we barely talk.I call him sometimes n he doesn't really seem lyk he wants to talk he never calls me n he is always busy n cna never do nething. i talk to his brother on the IM n ask him but he doesn't really kno wut am i suppose 2 do...how do i find out if he really lykes me or not? plz help!

If he's ur boyfriend, u should b able 2 talk 2 him and u guys should trust and b honest with eachother. Find the courage 2 ask him about it. That's the best way u can find out whether or not he's still in2 u.

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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else?

If u really like him, then I'd say, go out with him! It doesn't matter wut others think of him, it's about wut u think of him. Stop worrying about wut others think of u and have fun! :-D

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