Yo, wazzup. My name is Matt, I am no longer single, but i shall talk to any one taht still wants to, anyways, I have experienced many things and i am quite knowledgable. I do not judge any one, if you ask me for advice i shall simply give it to you.
Ive taken a look at the categories they have, im pretty good with all of them, minus the stuff that would have to do with adults, so even though my fav category isnt wat your asking doesnt mean i wont answere.
So i guess if ya gots a Problem, jus tell me bout it and ill do the best i can! :-)
P.S. in the pic im the white kid, greg is like my best friend.
E-mail: Anubis989_4life@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: NC
Occupation: unemployed
Age: 17
AIM: ANubis989forlife
Member Since: June 17, 2004
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Lets see yesterday my bf and me were at the park and he told me that he kissed my best friend of all time.. it was just a peck though and he said it ment nothing at all im glad he came out and told me but should i break up with him? i mean i dont want to but i dont want to get hurt anymore and have it be worse... (link)
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well if its a peck on the cheek then it doesnt meen anything at all, but the way he seemed to hiding it hints towards them doing more than that. stay with him until you can get some absolute evidence.
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allright there's this guy that i like a lot. I really really want to go out with him. I just dont know if he likes me back because he just broke up with this one chick and she's like still obsessed with him. me and him went out before but it didnt really work out. but i think this time it would be different cause i think i have been able to rely on him more often now. i just dont know what to do. should i ask him back out? (link)
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go for it. hes probably still troubled by just being in a relationship, so he may want to go out with you.
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ok there is this kid that like really really really likes me. like im not even joking. and we went out but i decided things had changed between us so we broke up. well he still wont leave me alone he always tells me he misses me and it kills him that he cant hold me and shit. and i dont know what to say i dont miss him liek that i dont feel that strongly about him and im starting to like another guy. so should i just deal w/ this kid or tell him to back off?? (link)
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tell him to back off, unfortunatly i was kinda like that with my last gf..... but i got off of it real quick bymyself cos its just a waste of time to stalk some one who doesnt liek you any more.
tell him he is just wasting his time.
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ok my old friends from my jr high were all DRAMA.. especially this chick erynne. well i was so used to the drama thing that i didnt even realize people( like my new friends) could be so laid back. i dont really talk to that many peeps from my jr high. but then again most of them dont make an effort to talk to me nemore, when i used to always be the 1st person they called on the weekends. now they always act like they r mad at me so i just decided to find new friends. should i ask them if they r mad at me for sumthing or just forget them..??
chick1 (link)
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well i would try and see if you can salvage a friendship with them just in case. but its also a good idea to keep on trying to make as many friends as possible.
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I am an 8th grader going into high school next year. I keep hearing about how the seniors always pick on the freshman and I don't want to get beat up! What should I do to stay away from the seniors? I'm 14/female if that makes any difference. (link)
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eh its all bull crap about you gettin beatin up. they might pick on you but its nothing you shouldnt be able to handle.
i heard the same thing when i was gonna be a freshead. i look back on it now and laugh.
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ok well i really like this guy. i have liked him forever. we've even gone out b4 but things like happened and yeah... anyways the only thing wrong w/ this perfect guy is that hes well... kind of a loser. hes like weird and... well a dork. i dont have a problem w/ this generally but he acts all stupid and shit when i kno hes really not. and hes so shy that if he gets intimidated he acts likea moron. what do i do?! (link)
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tell him that he doesnt need to act like a moron to hide himself. try and make him be who he is.
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I used to be popular with a lot of friends but now I gave all that up about a year ago cuz the people were so stuck up. And now I have like no freinds....I dont even know if I have one and I have a boyfriend who I love soooooo much and weve been together for 7 months and I wish i had some real friends tho.... I am so fed up with the people in my school tho and I think I want to meet people outside of school I just want to make friends who I dont know yet....I want to start over.... what do i do?....should I stop being "friends" with the people Im sick of? i have been so stressed out lately and I dont know what to do about my depression! (link)
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try goin out intot he public alot more often. be brave and talk to ppl you have never talked to be for. you shouldnt sit there and try to deal with the ppl that your sick of.
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Ok so i am almost 15 and i lived with my dad untill i was 12 and 1/2 then i moved in with my mom but now i want to live with my dad again becuase all my family is here and i come from a big family and when i live with my mom i only had her as family so i am very lonely cuase i live in a diff state then the rest of my family and it makes me depressed and i wanted to know if any one had any suggestion on how to tell my mom i want to move back with my dad for 10th grade and mind you i need an answer soon cuase i need to tell her on thursday june 24 becuase we are having a family meeting and i want to tell her before then please help me thanks so much (link)
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tell her how you actually feel. though it may upset her, parents really only want their kids to be happy. maybe if you tell her how you feel she'll understand.
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alright well i was best friends w/ this one chic like really close we couldnt be seperated but then she moved like a few cities away. for a while it was no big deal in fact for about a yr and a half we still hung out and everything but then she started getting into drugs and hanging out w/ the wrong type of people u kno so we kinda ended up drifting apart. she still lives close enough that we go to the same mall so occasionally i or some of my friends would see her there. and whenever i saw her she would be all happy to see me and nice and stuff but everytime another friend sees her they tell me she talks crap about me. i recently got her AIM sn and we talk online and shes kool but im not sure i wanna let her back in my life (link)
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if oyu dont want her to be back in ur life then dont let her. some ppl just go there seperate ways. it is how it happens some times
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Whut do u do when someone u really lykes tells u he lyks u but then gos behind ur back n tells otha ppl that he doesnt lyk u.. and other ppl r telling u thats hes playing u.. whut do i do?! (link)
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if its causing this much shit then its not worth it at all.
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I am overwieght at 185 pounds. I really don't eat all that much junk food, and excersize for a couple hours a week.
I am only 14 years old.
Can you help? (link)
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i know it may seem personal but it will help me in helping you, are you male or female and how tall are you?
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I met a guy the other night and he's really nice and stuff. I was going through a rough time and he helped me out and made me feel better. But then yesturday I was talking to one of my friends who is friends with him and he said "he does that with all the girls that he talks to and he's just trying to get in your pants" I don't personnally think thats what he is trying to do...but I'm naive...should I listen to my friend instead? (link)
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well if you like then you should go out with him, but if you do date him, and he wants to "get in ur pants" really early in relationship, then ye thas all hes after.
as far as listening to ur friend goes, how long have you known ur friend and is this friend trustworthy?
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i just got into a fight with my best friend and i know i am wrong but write at the same time and then my best friend told me our other friend said goodbye forever meaning killed herself and i just dont know how to deal with any of this i know my best friend will read this becuase she is a collumnist on here but can anyone help me please?
~*~ Rachael ~*~ (link)
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..........jeevus...
that is not good.
um unfortuantly there isnt much you can do.
ok, any one who tells ppl or gives enough evidence of them possibly killing themselves arent actually gonna do it. if some one REALLY intended to kill themselves they would do it, with out tellin anyone so no one could stop them.
If im late answering this Q then i give my sincerist apologies.
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hi again. ok. i have this friend and she is soo nuce and i love her to death but, weve grown in different directions. Shes become like a major punk and tells me all this stuff i dont want to hear. She wants me to do all sorts of stuff with her and i want to its just hard to decide what to do because shes not all that great of an influence. what should i do?? (link)
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well, if the stuff she asks you to do is bad or makes you feel uncomfortable in any way, then dont do it. just be the best friend you can be for the time being. these things usually sort themselves out. but if it doesnt, stay true to your self, no matter what.
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can i answere my own questions????? (link)
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lets find out
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alright im a new frosh right, well i like 2 guys and i cant pick one, i wanna see what other people think...well lets call the first guy x now x is my age i have gona out wit him b4 and broke up wit him so i wouldnt get hurt but it ended up hurting me more, i know thats stupid know N im learning well we have been talking the last few 3 m. b4 school ended get even closer than we were when we were going out, well i like him alot and idk his friends say he likes me N he acts like it most the time, he told me to call him over the summer and we could hang out but idk maybe im to scared or w/e i dont wanna call...and then theres well lets call him o well he 16 and i like him too...he always is saying that hes almost inlove wit me but idk hes soo sweet and he understands me most the time...we are talking as much as we can at the moment and i think that maybe im not good enough for o cuz i mean he has goan throught some hard stuff wit his ex that i know abut because we have been friends erally good friends up untill some time after him N his gf were over...if anyone could try to help cuz i just dont know anymore..and the best friend i got right now my almost twin is helping out but i want an outsiders view!! thankx bye bye 14/f (link)
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i say you try to go out wit the older guy cos you've been with the other guy b for, so you know how he is. and gettin over some is hard especially if you go back out wit him. plus tryin new ppl is enlightening. even if it doesnt work out between you two then you still will have learned something new.
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Hey alicia!! just lemme say that ur so pretty and nathan is so cute and u guys r cute together! but ne ways lemme get to my problem...ok i was going out with this guy named Bryce for 6 months and i really felt like i actually loved him and we did a lot of "firsts" together and alla the sudden like a week or 2 b4 skool got out he dumped me claiming that he "didnt want a gf for the summer" and his friend that i really dislike even did it for him...and then one of my really good friends told me that she heard that he just plain didnt like me any more but i didnt know if it was true.i still really like him even tho i dont show it cuz its been like 4 or 5 weeks and ppl think i should get over it and all and i got a lot of sympathy frum guys and girls cuz they felt bad cuz they knew i liked him a lot but what my question is...how can i get him back next school year? or get him to like me again? cuz we didnt talk at all after our breakup in any of our classes and all and if i cant get back together wit him i atleast wana become good friends with him.or should i just plain give up on him? plz help cuz im really confused!
(im 14) (link)
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alright. i say you take your summer and use it for urself, let ur self sorta forget him, so to speak. in doing this you wont feel awkward talking to him and if he has any feelings for you the time will do the same for him. in doing this it will allow the space needed for both of you guys to talk again and become friends. that way if you cant get back with him you are still friends.
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ok there is this boy that i really like and he has been gettin into some trouble in the last couple of months not like big trouble by the police just by his mom and he told me befor that his mom said that if he didnt straighten up he will be heading to boot camp!! i just found out today in like 2 weeks he is gonna be goin and he is like a big part of my life and i really liek him and he is gonna be gone for a year!! what should i do ??? if u can give me some advice i would really appreciate it !!!! thanks!!
~*~*~*katie*~*~*~ (link)
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uhuh. well, it may seem harsh, but if this boy seems to be getting in alot of trouble then maybe hes not worth it. that or his mom is psyco, at any rate boot camp doesnt last forever.
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ok im 14 and going to be a freshman. i really like this guy still that i went out w/ for 4 months (which is a loooong time for me) at the beging of last year. i broke up w/ him cause i found this other guy who i thought i loved he ended up screwing me over, but anyway i hurt this guy a lot when i broke up w/ him. we couldnt even talk to each other for like 3 months. now we r really close friends and we have recently admitted we like each other still. but i dont know if i should go out w/ him because... well... im afraid im going to hurt him again. i have a problem w/ comitment i guess. (link)
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I say go for it, even if you do end up hurting him, do your best not to. but if you do hurt him, your young, you got 4 yrs to go and if anything, going out with him may give you more experience in dealing with relationships, so that you can do better in the future. same thing goes for him.
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ok i am in love im sure of it i can imagine getting married to this kid and stuff. but he completely screwed me over. we were going out for a month... i gave up everything for him too like my friends, family, the first guy to give a shit about me, and even skool a little... and then he moved in w/ a friend to go to this skool that would give him a chance. i was happy for him and he made me feel confident that things wouldnt change to much. but well... they did.. a lot. i proly talked to him 2 in 3 months after he moved and i heard all this shit about him cheating right... well i finally gave up and stuff. but i still cant stop wondering about him and the one time i saw him he was at the mall w/ his arms wrapped around another girl and he like ran from me (proly afraid id kick his ass) anyways... i still love him! i kno we could never be together now and that he is a total ass for abandoning me... but i cant help it!! (link)
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well, though it may have seemed right at the time, giving up all that stuff for a guy just isnt a good idea to begin with. you never know when a relationship will end and if you give everything up for a guy and then the guy abandons you, well you have nothing left. Now its fairly obvious that he isnt gonna go back to you. i would say just try and get over him but that is alot easier said than done, trust me i know, as well as alot of other ppl.
its gonna be hard to do it cos ur gonna be thinking of him, but you need to try to regain everything you lost, spend more time with your friends and your family. at first it wont seem to help but in time youll start to forget. just try and keep yourself occupied, even if it means doing skool work. also try and find new hobbies, but what ever you do, dont sit and ponder and wallow in self pitty, it wont help you.
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