ok there is this kid that like really really really likes me. like im not even joking. and we went out but i decided things had changed between us so we broke up. well he still wont leave me alone he always tells me he misses me and it kills him that he cant hold me and shit. and i dont know what to say i dont miss him liek that i dont feel that strongly about him and im starting to like another guy. so should i just deal w/ this kid or tell him to back off??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SWAN answered Saturday June 19 2004, 6:44 pm: Well i think you should tell your ex that he's pretty much bugging you about this and you dont want that. Maybe he doesnt know he's doing it. Anyways you just got out of that relationship and he's probably still suffering from it. Tell him that you're ready to date new people and that he should probably move on. You shouldnt let him stop you from starting a new relationship. like..uhh dont really put it on hold for him..like tell him there's more than one fish in the sea. There are also crabs and sharks in the sea..hahaha okay well anyways i hope i helped you:-D bye bye [ SWAN's advice column | Ask SWAN A Question ]
WatDreemzMayCome answered Saturday June 19 2004, 1:27 am: alright.. i think you should tell him gently ur feelings. if it honestly bugs you that this kid keeps repeatedly tells u how he feels then tell him its bothering you. and if ur starting to like this guy then go for it. just because this kid still likes u doesnt mean you should put ur life on hold for him. but first and foremost tell ur ex ur feelings. hopefully it will get him off u bak and leave u to a fresh new relationship.. good luck n i hope i helped!!! [ WatDreemzMayCome's advice column | Ask WatDreemzMayCome A Question ]
Anubis989forlife answered Friday June 18 2004, 10:56 pm: tell him to back off, unfortunatly i was kinda like that with my last gf..... but i got off of it real quick bymyself cos its just a waste of time to stalk some one who doesnt liek you any more.
tell him he is just wasting his time. [ Anubis989forlife's advice column | Ask Anubis989forlife A Question ]
takeitorleaveit answered Friday June 18 2004, 10:45 pm: Well,start off by telling him that its killing you that hes bothering you this much when you have already let go. Tell him you guys can still be great friends even if he has feelings for you but he shouldnt share all the time what hes feeling thats why you need to tell him your starting to like someone else. I wouldnt tell him the name of the person incase he gets any ideas lol i dont know what he would do. But i think it would be best to explain how you are feeling about it all. hope that helped [ takeitorleaveit's advice column | Ask takeitorleaveit A Question ]
cr8zymonkeyluv07 answered Friday June 18 2004, 9:59 pm: I know exactly how you feel. I hate when guys get all stalker-ish, especially when you have no feelings for them. I say tell him to back off because oviously if there is something wrong with him that he can't see that he's making you uncomfortable, then he needs to know to back off. Hope I've helped a little. [ cr8zymonkeyluv07's advice column | Ask cr8zymonkeyluv07 A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Friday June 18 2004, 9:32 pm: You have to tell this kid to back off. try to let him nicely. Let him know you are not feeling him the way he is feeling you and he needs to move on. If he still doesn't get the picture and starts driving you crazy, then it will probably make you feel bad but you will have to be a little mean with him and tell him off. Good Luck! :)
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