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I really need to start taking my own advice.
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My dad was in a bad car accident a few days ago and he's still in the hospital. The doctors say he's stable but he's in a...coma. Which I don't even understand because how can he be stable if he's in a coma?
Well I'm supposed to be moving out in like, 10 days because I'm starting college and I'm moving 4 hours away. The thing is though, I don't want to leave my mom and my sister if my dad isn't conscious by then. I don't know what to do because I'm so scared about my dad and I don't want to leave.
Classes don't start until the 30th but move in day is in 10 days. I don't have to move in by moving day but I know I have to be there by the first day of classes. I don't even know if I'm going to be able to pay attention during class knowing that my dad is in the hospital. I just don't know what to do, I'm so confused.
Oh my gosh, I'm absolutley so sorry to hear that.
Heres what I have to say about it.
Stay with your family, thats whats most important. Try calling your college administator and filling him/her in. They might also want you to let your roommate, or dorm adviser in on about you waiting to move in.
Just be there with your family, it'll make everyone feel alot better. In the meantime, stay close to your sister, mom, and friends. Praying can help if your the religious sort. Don't try to occupy your mind with TOO MUCH work, that would end up in a break down.
There is a girl at school i like but she only thinks of me as a friend. what should i do?
I'm assuming your a guy :)
aha, well.
Talk to her first, say hey in the hall.
If you have classes with her, sit next to her, talk to her about school, about what she likes. Pay attention to what she says. I love it when guys remember stuff I said.
If she happens to mention she loves a type of candy or something, leave one in her locker, or on her desk before class.
After you two become good friends, invite her over to watch a movie, or to hang out somewhere.
Don't make her do anything she doesn't want to, and don't push yourself onto her.
Take it s l o w. If you show her you're a great guy, and she can trust you, things will fall into place :)
how do you apply eyeliner on the bottom lid? not above the eyelashes, under them. whenever i do it, it looks weird lol. thanks!
1) Hold/rub the eyeliner in your hands for a minute to warm it up a bit, so it'll go on smoother.
2) Draw a line right under your eyelashes.
(Don't worry if it's thick)
3) Wet a Q-Tip, and put a tiny bit of soap, yes it can be like hand soap. Then run that along the bottom to take away the thickness and darkness.
This should leave you with a light, clean, line :)
Normally for make-up, I just wear eyeliner, mascara, and the same eyeshadow every day. I put a little bit of liquid foundation to cover up problem spots. However, I want to make my eyes really stand out. What types of products could I buy, and how should I apply it?
Try H.I.P Products, they come in bright lime greens to neon teals.
Apply liner, in a light brown sort, or in a lighter version of the shadow color you're using.
Then lighty brush on the eyeshadow, only a little, if you over do it you might end up like a cheap hooker.
Also, apply a tiny bit on the bottom, and at the inside corner, but still, don't overdo it.
:)
im gunna be a freshmen in highschool nd i need a WHOLE NEW WARDROBE! i wanna be known as the hottest freshmen in school, the hottest girl in school for that matter. what clothes and make-up should i buy? idc how much it is, give me the most expensive thing you can find for all i care. haha well anything reasonable actually that will look hott and will make my ex's think 'damn i shouldn't have let her go' somehting that will turn heads -- BREAK NECKS for that matter. =] thanks!
Abercrombie and Fitch.
Hollister Co.
American Eagle.
Urban Outfitters.
Wet Seal.
Forever 21.
Charlotte Russe.
Victoria's Secret.
Lacoste.
Lucky, 7, American Rag, Jeans. (3 diff. ones)
(If you're going designer)
Marc by Marc Jacobs.
Teen vogue has great ideas, so check out their magazines. So does Seventeen.
Be confident, that's what really shows.
Be nice, love everyone, trust no one.
Keep you're problems to yourself, that will make others think of you as more perfect and strong if you're not complaining all the time.
Practice good hygiene, take care of your hair, skin, and nails. Most importantly, have fun!
I saw this bulletin posted on Myspace titled "do you like polos???" and it said, "Hey! I have a friend who works at Lacoste and she just told me about a new promotion they're having!!! They're trying to gain popularity with the MySpace audience so they're giving away two free polos to MySpace users at their site! Just fill out some quick stuff... and enjoy their famous polos!" Is this REAL or do you have to actually buy the polos? Is there a catch and is it safe to do?
About 99.9% of those are scams.
Don't give them any info.
They'll just send you stupid junk mail
that can give you viruses or hack into your
bank accts.
how to get rid of pimples? i use clearasil:Daily face wash but it doesnt work and i have an oily face please help!
I happened to buy Clean and Clear Daily Gentel Foaming Wash. Its in a clear bottle, the wash is a yellow tinge, and it has a purple cap.
It works, AMAZING. Totally cleared up half my pimples in a few days. I didn't even have to wear coverup. If you have blackheads too, use the C&C Blackhead exfoliater, and the astringent. All three together work great!
I'm a 17/f and I have a problem. I know almost ALL woman have one breast slightly larger, and I know it's normal. I've noticed recently that mine are pretty bad though. My left breast is about a 34C and my right breast is a 34DD or larger. I'ts really noticable. It's been like this for I'd say about a year now. My doctor said I'm pretty much done growing. Is there ANYTHING I can possibly do besides surgery and stuffing my left breast?
My left breat is a 36Full C, while my right a mid B. I totally know how you feel, while I'm only fourteen my doctor told me I was done growing. Thats not true, women can keep growing until about age 28ish. For now, go for looser fitting tops, and just stuff for now I guess. I'm sorry you have to deal with this too! I know I hate it!
Hey iam a 17 female and I just found out that one of my friends that i've been best friends since 2nd grade is bisexual and I don't know what to do is it ok for me to still be friends with her or what?my mom's very prejedice against people who are gay and bi and she told me not to associate with them,but she's my best friend and I don't think I can stop being friends with her all at once what should I do?
Don't worry about it, my best friend is also bi. Of course, I didn't tell my mom, so you might not want to either. She's still my best friend and we hang out just the same, I still respect her, but I just becareful of what I say around her. Just try to put that behind you, its not worth losing a great friendship.
14/f -- i got my period for the first time on july 24th. the thing is, i only got it ONCE...i havent had my period since july 24th. it was red in my underwear, so im assuming this was indeed my period. is this normal? was this my first period?
If it was your period, it probably lasted for a few days, and was a moderate flow for the first time. If you haven't gotten it since then, its totally normal. Period's are so unpredictable and irregular for the first few years!
However, if it was a few drops for a couple of days, you might have broken your hymen. [Popped your cherry] If you either had intercorse, or even something as simple as stretching, bending over, dancing, or exercising can break it too.
If it was your hymen, your period has not started and the blood won't be there again until it does start.
Good luck
Whats a good place to find girl skater shoes like Adio, DC, DVS, Ect.?
I've tryed Zappos and CCS and Pacsun.
P.S. Websites only.
Journey's has alot.
They're in most malls.
Thats where I get my Vans.
i live in the south, and we always say ma'am and sir when speaking to adults. however, i recently met some students from northern states and they don't say that. they even said that adults from northern states think it's weird when they say ma'am and sir. but in the south, adults think it's disrespectful to not say ma'am and sir. why is this, and should i just say ma'am and sir to all adults because that's how i was brought up?
Hey there, I live in Georgia, I totally know what you mean. My parents are both from the west side of the states, so in California they don't exactly like Ma`m and Sir.
But in school, I get in trouble if I don't reply with a yes ma`m. I've just adapted to not saying it at home. Don't worrry, you don't have to change to please them, if you're not comfortable with it.
Is the brand Coriolis a good hair straightner? I bought one on ebay and I'm getting it on Wednesday. Does it do a good job? Does it damage your hair? Sorry for all the questions =)
A lady selling those in the mall straightened my hair with it, it looked great. She also showed me all the cool things you can do with it.
(Flip it out, in, curls, big curls, crimps, etc.)
I loved it, I want one =]
hey everyone! I'm having a party and I need some really good songs to dance to, some recent songs. I have a lot of reggaeton songs, and of course I have Get Low, Yeah, etc. can someone please suggest some more? thanks.
[P.S. please just suggest hip-hop, reggae, and reggaeton songs]
Hey there,
Here's a link to the top 100 Music Video's on Yahoo, it might be of help.
http://music.yahoo.com/musicvideos/lists/top.asp
=]
im 13/f
Well, to make a long story short..
There's this boy I've been crushing on for about a month now. I'm going to spend a week with him at his house for vacation with a whole bunch of people and i just want to know how do i let him know i like him? i really wanna go out with him but the thing is i've never really had a REAL boyfriend. and i haven't hooked up yet & i'm pretty sure he has. and if he asks if i've hu before do i say yes and lie so he'll hook up with me and think i'm experienced? or do i say the truth and say yes and see whatever happens from there? I really need to let him know how i feel but i don't wanna make it obvious, i wanna keep him guessing. he's 15. what are some ways i can play hard to get and flirt with him? PLEASE HELP! xox
Flirt Flirt Flirt.
When you can, steal him for a sec. for a little bit of alone time. If you guys are in a crowd, smile at him from across the room. Hug him goodbye, or goodmorning when you see him. Giggle at his jokes, and make him feel good. Talk to him about himself, and listen well.
Don't lie to him though, that could get you in a big mess, trust me. If he brings it up just smile at him and say something like "wouldn't you like to know" =] :]
Also, if you guys are by a beach, or anywhere senic. Ask him to go with you, and watch the sunset. Then when the sun sets, lean in and kiss him. Smile at him, get up and walk away. He'll be left in awe of your straightforward ness. Just stay confident and have fun! :] :]
im going to six flags/hurricane harbor on friday in chicago. its going to be hot out so im planning on wearing my swimming suit, but i was just wondering what to wear over that..i was thinking soffees? but idk, ive never been there before. also, do you wear flip flops or tennis shoes to a place like that? thanks in advance for everything!
Swimsuit.
Soffees.
Ribbed tank top [wifebeaters], *maybe layered*
Try CROCS, if you have them, they'd be perfect.
If not, I suggest flip flops, but bring tennis shoes and leave them in the car.
Bring sunglasses and sunblock!
I like this guy and he likes me. We kind have thing with eachother. The problem is everytime my bestfriend finds out we hang out she gets mad and we end up in an argument. This is the second time now. It kills me to fight with her but i love this guy. What do I do...do i go for the guy and risk losing her as a friend??
Female age 15
Does she like him too?
Or is he just not her type of guy for you.
Talk to her, tell her you really like this guy, but you do want her approvale. My best friend is dating a guy I personally don't like, we faught in the begingging. But after I while, I realized how special he was to her, now I just accept the fact that their dating.
okay well.. when i get a boyyfriend.. or someone i like and things are either good or end up being bad.. i always as them stupid little questions.. and i ususally always like try and base my life on like a movie and i think about what will happen and what i want to happen so it ussually never does.. and its weird and i dont like it.. how can i stop?
Hey sweetie :]
Okay well when you get a boyfriend,
just remember he's probably nervous too.
So just go with the flow, don't try and
plan out a perfect kiss. Let nature take its
course. If you feel yourself trying to plan things, tell him to pick that date. You guys can alternate so you both get what you want. Once your satisfied with your guy, you won't want to plan anything else. Just enjoy your relationship and don't rush into things that neither of you really want :]
I am looking for this electronic game that I can't remember the name of it. It's a teen game where you have this purple phone and you call a bunch of guys and ask them to come to your mom and sometimes they'll say Yes or no. I keep thinking it's something along the lines of, "Phone date" or something, I looked this up and it's not coming up with it. Does anyone know the name of this game?
Thanks.
Mystery Date.
:] I love that game, hah I have three.
i have this cousin who is 15 and im 13 and he is so hot and he has been checking me out and i was wondering (we are blood related) what would happen if we made out or worse.
Nothing would really "happen"
The only thing you have to consider is,
what if your other cousins or siblings caught you guys? Other then that its fine, I actually know an old neighbor of mine that was married to her cousin.