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Hey Advicenators-
I was 10, and in the 5th grade. Then in January, some boy who I never knew noticed was in my dance/music class came up to me, did some freaky hand thing. I called him idiot, he gasped, and was left speechless. Since then, I have loved him.
After that, he did all sorts of things. If I was absent, the next day he would say "Oh, so you're here today." When our teacher told us to pair up with a boy, he asked me, and I said no and hid behind the wall, so I wouldn't dance with a boy. He asked me my name. I would never tell him. He found out, by grabbing my books. He walked me to class. I still never gave in to him. He got left back though, and me being in the top class, graduated.
I thought I wouldn't see him, since I went to Junior High (weird I know, we graduate in 5th grade instead of 6th). Our Junior High is only 3 blocks away from my elementary school. I saw him countless times on the bus. He went to sixth grade when I went to seventh. He always was looking at me, and I would look at him.
Now, I'm in 8th grade about to graduate in two days. After that, I don't have to come back to school, but I will. He has the same S.S. teacher as I did last year, so I'm gonna hang out with my teacher for the whole 4 more days of school. I'm gonna try to talk to that boy. Hopefully, he will still talk to me.
I still love this boy. I have loved him since 5th grade, for more than 3 years, and my love never dies, or wears off. Other boys I've liked come and go from my heart, but his spirit never leaves.
My questions:
1. Did this boy ever like me?
2. Do you think I have a chance with him?
3. If he does talk to me, how do I spill that I love him?
4. What do I do if he rejects my love?
Sorry that it's so long.
Please answer, and Alpha345 a.k.a. Ryan, please answer this question. You say you know what love is.
I rate high.
Aww this is about the Custest thing ever.
It sounds like this boy really liked you.
You should talk to him tell him how you feel and that you have loved him ever since he did his stupid little hand thing. I dont know if the boy likes you know. BUt if he does you deff. have a chance with this boy. If he rejects your love then ask him if you guys can be good friends. A friendship can grow into more.
i hope i helped.
And about Ryan you can Im him. He has given me advice before through Im.
What are some things outside with water I could do with about 18 girls...I've already thought of a water balloon fight and other ideas?? Try to keep the ideas inexpensive. Thanks WILL RATE
Theres so much to do.
Take Styrophone (sp) cups and put water in them. put them in the freezer then at the party break the styrophone off the cups so you have a ice cup kinda thing. HAve everyone pick a partner and each team gets a icecup and they have to throw it back and forth when the ice hits the ground that team is out. And the last team with the icesup is winner.
You can buy a slip n slide or a medium size pool and you guys a can chill or do what ever.
run a bunch of sprinkelers (sp) && play some game sin the water. (soccer, football, volleyball, etc...)
Buy some Water guns. ( they dont have to be big ones.)
Have some relay races. They have small balls that are meant for water that you can get and play with.)
Thats all i can really think of. If i think of more ill add.
kimm
so me and my friend used a tampon for the first time last weekend and it was really uncomfortable until after i was in the pool, after that it felt comfortable...
it kept, like, falling out a little i guess?? cuz i kept having to push it back up..
i am pretty sure i did it right.. so what could have happened??
If You kept on having to push it back up there then you didnt have it far enough in. You should of Changed it but its ohk. Its your first time and it takes practice.
kimm
does anyone elses inner lips go out past their inner lips?? because mine do and im sooooo self consious!!!! i try not to be but i am....if soo has anyone did it with their inner lips like that
thanx guyss
Your question makes no sense.
I just went rollerblading for the first time this year and my feet ached so bad I had to stop. I rollerbladed last year and was fine. My rollerblades are the same as last year, and I'm the same size as last year. Does anyone know why my poor feet ache so much? Thanks.
Mine Did that all the time. Its Because you havent skated in a while and your feet are getting used to the skate again. BUt after you skate a few more times they shouldnt hurt as bad.
does baby oil help you tan?
you will probly Burn more then you will Tan.
does anyone know the lyrics to circle circle dot dot by jamie kennedy?
i cant find them anywhere.
that song is the best/funniest.
All i did was type Circle Circle Dot Dot - Jamie Kennedy. Into google search and Theres tons.
http://www.requestlyrics.com/read.php?1,671797,671797
wat is the normal size for a guy "down thur" who is 15
plzzz answer need help
http://www.afraidtoask.com/members/mgentable.html
Average size on the chart says 4.7 inches.
okay the girls that i am rooming with and i decided on a hollywood theme for our room at cheerleading camp. each room does a certain theme its like a tradition. so we are doing hollywood. we are going to a party shop this week to pick out some stuff. but do u have any ideas on things we could decorate with. we are going to have a red carpet for sure. and the stars with our names on them. any other ideas. or ways to save money. thanks in advance and i will rate 5's
I found this site. But its like for a Hollywood party but they have some really cute ideas.
http://www.hollywoodsouvenirs.com/hollywd/partydecorhs.html
hope i helped :)
can you get pregnant off of pre cum
Yes you can.
16/f
I really want to get a summer job but I want to do something around my neighborhood. Something like selling original t-shirts, petsitting or babysitting. Any ideas? a list of jobs would be great!
Below are a few job options. Some of them you might not be able to do and some you will be able. The job is in capital letters and the description is in lower case. Ill put a few websites you can check out.
A CLEANING SERVICE. Maybe you hate doing your chores at home, but getting paid for doing them is completely different! You could offer complete housecleaning services, or specialize in one or more areas, such as attic/basement/garage cleanups.
A YARD MAINTENANCE SERVICE. There is always something that needs to be done…mowing lawns and weed control in the spring and summer, raking leaves in the fall, and shoveling snow and planting for the spring in the winter.
A CAR-DETAILING SERVICE. With so many people working multiple jobs and having such busy lifestyles, very few people have the time to really take care of their cars -- and you could offer a weekly or monthly service of washing, waxing, vacuuming, etc.
A PET SITTING SERVICE. Typically more of a summer business when people tend to go on vacation, but you might be able to have a year-round business by offering pet walking, bathing, cleaning, etc. services.
A PC TUTOR/WEB SITE DEVELOPMENT SERVICE.Are you a whiz with computers and the Web? Well, many adults are not, and you could make a good business helping people learn to use PCs and develop Web sites for their families -- or for their businesses.
A CATERING SERVICE. Do you enjoy cooking and baking? In these busy times, if you can provide a service that offers well-cooked meals, you could do quite well.
A PAINTING SERVICE. If you have some experience --or there is a few of your friends that want to go in business with you -- you might consider a painting business. People are always renovating…and you could paint exteriors in the nicer months and interiors during the colder months.
AN ERRAND, MESSENGER, OR DELIVERY SERVICE. This idea works best in larger cities where there are more people and public transportation, but these are busy times and people need help with all sorts of errands.
AND EDUCATIONAL TUTORING SERVICE. If you have expertise in one or more areas -- music, foreign language, math and science, or others -- you could offer tutoring sessions to children, teens, and adults in your neighborhood.
AN ONLINE WEB BUSINESS. If you are a master at creating Web pages, perhaps what you need to do is brainstorm a concept for an online business -- where your potential customers can come from anywhere in the world, not just in your local neighborhood. (See our Web Resources Page for key information about developing a Website.)
A FREELANCING SERVICE. If you are truly gifted in a certain field, such as writing, drawing, or photography, consider starting a freelancing business where you sell your wares to various businesses and media outlets. (Read more about a freelancing career.)
http://entrepreneurs.about.com/od/businessideas/a/fundsinthesun.htm
http://mama.essortment.com/summerjobsidea_mxk.htm
I'm 17 & been with my boyfriend who's 18 for awhile now and we have an amazing connection. Our relationship is healthy, fun, and still growing. I'm a virgin, he's not. He's not exactly pressuring me, but when we're both in the mood he'll want to go further. I feel like I lead him on too. How do I tell him it will happen but for now, I'm not ready and pressuring me doesn't help.
You need To explain to him that you are not ready and that you will let him know when you are. Pretty much what you told us. If you feel like you lead him on. Explain to him that you dont mean to. Atleast not to the Point o have sex.
Hi. I need help BAD. Well I got invited to my friends birthday party and I really want to go. Heres the catch, well me, my mom, my dad, and my moms friend are supposed to go down to the cape that weekend to help out with this bike-riding thing and the birthday party is from friday to saturday and we usuallu leave to go to the cape on friday evenings. I kept telling my mom that we could go down on saturday. She justwont listen and really really want to go to this party. What should I do?
I rate 5's!!!
I would go with Your family To the Cape. There are going to be alot of Parties Over the summer That you will get to go to. Also i highly doubt your mom will change her mind about leaving On Friday.
sorry its a lil long....
Im 16/f and my friend is 15/m...we live quite a few citys apart...we've been freinds since 1999...the both of us do a great deal of flirting with one another...
A few years ago i realized that i was in love with my friend.But beacaus i did'nt want to ruin the freindship i tried to ignor these fealings. This year i decided that i could'nt bear it any more and i was ready to tell him the way i feel.
Then the night i had planed to tell him, he started asking me about my friend (lets call her 17/f.) I then knew that i had to tell him right then and there or i could really miss out, so i did. His reaction was a lil stuned, but he said something on the lines of him knowing.
The thing is i talked to him and he said that he had once liked me but the feeling had just left, or something like that. But the fact that not one of us spoke about us liking each other until i spoke that day...and i feel so stupid...not for bringin it up but not saying sooner...
PROBLEM:
He seams to realy like my freind 17/f... and i want hi to be happy... its just i love him! and ive told him more ever since i had that one time yet all he says is im sorry...
Yet ever since i told him our conversations have been more intence with the whole imotional side and i think its made our freindship stronger. I can tell him almost anything and vise versa...
The whole thing has accturaly realy bumed me out though... i find myself crying every time i have a good regular convo with him or here someone say his name... and i get quite jelous of my freinds 17/f... i dont wanna be... i like her its just i find meslef getting all mad for nothing...
My question is were do i go from here? I love this guy so much...yet the feeling dos'nt seem to return...I cant possibly give up... what do i do about 17/f? she like 15/m too, but she only met him last month not even... i think i realyy messed up...
any advice will be greatfully apreciated even oppinions!
Thankz a bunch!
You dont have to give up and you shouldn't. Of what you say about this guy it doesnt sound like he is going anywhere. yes maybe you did wait a little while to tell him that you love him but that shouldnt change anything. And either should 17/f. It hurts you knowing that he likes your friend. You need to hang out with your guy friend. You need to find a way to get this guy drawn to you. You've known him for 7 years you know what he likes. Bring him out somewhere that he enjoys. Or even the both of you enjoy. Hwere you can spend time together. He will see what he is missing out on. Just show him a good time. There is no wrong in telling your best friend that you love him.
You should talked to 17/f about your feeling for your best friend. If shes a good friend she will not get involved with this guy. I know it sounds rude but friends usually don't go for the guy their friend loves.
Other then SHowing this guy a amazing time and what kinda girl you really are. And just him knowing that he is hanging out with a girl that is completely in love with him should make him smile when he is with you.
I hope i helped if you need any help leave one in my inbox. : )
Ok.. i talked to my boyfriend about doing more then just making out.. and he agrees.. and im goin to be w/ him on monday and i dunno how to get him to start like doing it w/ me.. cus anything we've ever done ive done it.. he hasnt done anything to me and i want him to.. lol how!?
By the way your typing this you sound like a young teen that is not ready for anything more then making out. If you two can't just start doing it. Then you guys are not ready. You say you've always done the stuff too your boyfriend. Well it takes two people to make out so i don't get how you have done everything and he hasnt done anything.
okay im trying to lose weight this summer. i already know how im going to exercise but what are some good foods that i can make and are easy which are healthy?
please dont tell me fruits cuz i already know that. thanks.
ill rate high!
On like three shows that i have watched about diets and what not they have all said any foods that have less then 200 calories. && 2% saturated fats are good for you.
http://www.mypyramid.gov/
In the right corner of this site above. there is this box the says Age: Sex:
and how much exercise you get most days:
Fill that in and it should tell you how much of each food group you should have for that day i believe.
Hope i helped need more help drop one in my inbox.
i have this friend called Matt who i've been mates with for a couple of years now. he confessed he liked me early last year, then got a girlfriend and we just stayed friends. they broke up last year. well a few months ago, we were in his room and kissed. now we're basically together, seeing each other constantly. i really, really like him and have ever since we met.
problem is.. there's this other guy online, named Pete. i live in the USA and hes in france. we're sorta in a internet relationship. however, i'm not getting to see him until earlyish next year when he flies out. i haven't told him about my "friend" because quite frankly, i'm not sure what to say.
i feel like i'm stringing two guys along. everyone tells me i'm not doing anything wrong because my online guy is so far away. but i still feel guilty. i'm not going out with matt officially but we do act like it.
i don't want to "break up" with pete because hes spending all this money to see me, and i feel that would be unfair. however, i really like matt and it would be perfect if it wasn't for the timing.
i just would like some opinions on this situation. should I just continue what I'm doing? am i a cheater? i never intended for things to get like this, and it's depressing me to think of what i could be doing. i wish things weren't so complicated.
thankyou. 5's for everyone.
You need to pick one guy. Not randomly just the one you care for more. If your messing around with matt you need to end what you have with Pete. How would you feel if matt told you that he was talking to another girl online and she is flying out to see only him?. Probly wouldnt feel good. Maybe like you are being used and played. Pete is a online guy. Unless you have meet him in person before is probbly not the safest thing in the world to meet this guy. I think you need to think about what you are doing. And before pete spends alot of money to fly out here. To me you sound like you like matt alot more then pete.
Im not going to call you a cheater. Im just going to say you have alot of things to decide on.
If you have any questions drop one in my inbox.
What could me and my boyfriend do that would make our relationship more interesting? I'm not talking about tips for sex (considering we're only 14) but I mean just things/places to go that would turn him on or make living in a small town with no where to go more interesting. thanks.
Theres tons of places that you two could go and have fun.
Movies
Arcades
mini golf
skating
bowling
shopping.
the beach
mall
the park.
sit under a tree and talk.
Just the two of you together should be fun.. As in anything you guys do together should be fun.
Hello,
I have the stuff called "Sun In" that lightens your hair by the sun and my friend told me that was really REALLY bad for your hair..Is that true. Does it damamge my hair? Should I stop using it?
I have never Used the Sun in spray. But really anything you put in your hair other then Shampoo && conditioner will ruin your hair. Alot of lightner && dies that you put in your hair contain chemicals that dry out your hair && causes it to damage. Theres other ways to ligthen your hair. Even staying out in the sun can lighten your hair.
ok well i have been dating brandon for almost a month and in six days is our month!!! what should i get him? plz help me....he is like a gangster type and i wanted to get him some very sexy calone but it was 60 dollars and i dont have that much and my mom wont let my spend that much on him until we date for like a year...ill rate high..thanxz
~trisha~
A month really isnt that long or something worth spending alot of money on. Maybe you can get him a Cd or a tshirt he has been wanting. Nothing to much tho.