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Q: ok... i use brown eyeliner... but i don't really have a good way of putting it on... it looks horrible underneath my lids because i don't no how to do it good, any tips? Also... i usually put it on the inside of my eyelid is that ok? and is there a good way to make it last longer and look pretty? thanks a bunch

I would go for black and sharpen it before you use it that way it goes on skinny and not fat-trix

Q: I am a 17/m and i really like this girl. I have a plan to ask her out. The only problem is that it involves two weeks and Valentines day. The plan is to leave notes in her locker with no name just ending it the same way. Should i go for the two week plan or should i just ask her?

I would leave her a weeks worth of notes in her locker but dont put love put your secret admirer and then on valentines day bring her roses and say surprise!! that'd be super cute!!-trix

Q: ok so i've liked this guy for like 2 years off and on. my best friend said that during the summer he liked me 2. well i guess i finally got over him by the end of ther summer and then he turned up in my math class, sitting right next to me. i find myself liking him again, and he always finds time to talk to me during p.e. , and for the stupidist reasons, does he like me?? (sorry about the length ) thanx

Well maybe unless he just wants to be friends again and catch up on good times!!-trix

Q: Every time I use a tampon it leaks. What am I doing wrong? And what specific brand is best?

Kotex is good so it playtex.. anything. You might have to small of a size!!-trix

Q: For v - day... if i got my boyfriend two little teddy bears... (ones a girl and ones a boy)... that have magnetic noses so its like they are kissing... would that be too girly like giving him teddy bears and stuff?

Alot of people say yes but its your boyfriend so your aloud to be sappy and lovey dovey. So yeah go ahead its cute. They are called kissing bears. i got my boyfriend a monkey (he likes monkeys) from SeaSide Heights when i went down to the shore.. he has it hanging from his ceiling. So he liked it. Im sure he would love it!! PLus its valentines day!! Good thinking I love it!!-trix

Q: ok well my bf and i we hang out all the time!!! but after awhile we get bored! but when he comes over or if i go over there we usually just watch tv! and i want to do something different! cuz we both can't drive yet! ideas would be great of wat to do!!!

and his birthday is in a couple of days and i want to do something for him soo Help me please so i can get ideas thanks a bunch

well i got to say thehussisloose is way to cool. Dont listen to them. Im sure there is snow there go outside and make a snowman, snowfight

Q: ok well me and my boyfriend are 13..and i heard from like a bunch of people that hes getting me a necklace and flowers but i have no clue what to get him..like i was at the mall yesterday and i went into like every store and i couldn't find anything..i dont want to get him something to expensive cause i really dont have that much money..but like can anyone give me any ideas and like the price they might be? thanks

Get him cologne. Alot of guys say something that smells good. Go to A&F they have this really good smelling cologne there called fierce and its only $20 for the small bottle. Thats a good price-trix

Q: ok well my bf and i we hang out all the time! and hes the sweetest guy ever and i love him to death but neways when we go out to places or we watch movies he makes fun of gay people! and it kinda pisses me off but i don't say anything i just laugh cuz i don't wanna lose him! but the reason why it makes me mad is cuz my step brother is gay! and i don't know how to tell him that he is and that it bothers me! HELP

He seems immature. There are always going to be people like that and thats how life is. Sadly. Full of immature people. I know its hard to see that cuz i have a friend thats gay and one that is bi (but they are older more of my moms frineds) but still. I would just tell him to be a lil more nice. And not to bring it up that they are gay. Just to cut down cuz you dont like critism-trix

Q: My friend is acting all weird now because she started to be able to shop at abercrombie and fitch. She acts all like preppy and tries to now hang out with the popular kids. I miss the old her what should i do

Well I know you want to snap her back into reality but that could be hard. You just need to have a day where its just you 2 hanging out going to the mall & a movie. Like have a sleepover then talk to her about it and ask why she is changing so much wasnt she happy before. You need to bring it up to her otherwise she wont notice on her own-trix

Q: i have orangy-red hair, brown eyes and pale skin. what color eyeliner would look good on me? if you need more info just tell me! i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off.

Brown. Thats the same with my friend. She has that hair color cept green eyes but she uses-trix

Q: Would you share with me your words of wisdom? I'm 20 and I just want to hear from anyone the important lessons in life they have learned so far.
It could be about work, love life, spirituality, money matters, passions, dealing with problems, beauty routine/secrets, etc. thanks!

"You never know what you have until you lose it"

That is totally true. Doesnt matter if your talking about breaking up with someone or losing a best friend. Or someone in the hospital or someone dying. Its always true.-trix

Q: me and my boyfriend broke up but we still love each other and hopefully might get back together. but im having second thoughts what does that mean?

You dont want to put yourself thru this again. Like you dont want to put yourself thru the hurt again cuz your afraid of getting hurt again-trix

Q: ok well my bf and i have been dating for about 3 months and valentines day is around the cornor and i don't know wat to get him! i don't want to get him something really stupid that hes not gonna like but i want to get him something that shows i really love him! so if u have any ideas! let me know! thanks a bunch

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Box of chocolates. I love you cookie< sweet and not very common. So its thoughtful. Thats what im doing for my bf of 9 months-trix

Q: im about 4'11'' and i always have a really hard time finding clothes that fit me especially pants. im like size 1 for most jeans and stuff and i usually wear extra small shirts. where can i go to get clothes that fit me? if u need more info tell me. i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off!

Go to Aeropostale. The have size 1 reg. long. and short. They are really good!-trix

Q: I like someone and my crush likes me too. Whenever he tells me to call i make up an excuse not to because i get really nervous. Hes getting sick of it what should i do ?

Call him... or ask him to call you-trix

Q: i IMed this guy who likes me (and i like him) last nite and he didn't respond so he called me a little later and i was sleeping and i guess i sounded like it and he asked me if i was sleeping and i said no and then he was like..i think u r and i said no! so now i feel dumb, should i tell him i musta been sleep talking or what? haha i'm a loser..

I dont think you need to worry about it. You could just say your throat was bothering you. I say im not sleeping sometimes with my boyfriend. Just say you said you werent sleeping because you wanted to talk to him. Its sweet-trix

Q: how do i get better balance and posture?! are there any exercises?!

Alot of milk helps you. Go to the drug store and get vitamins. Sit right up. -trix

Q: my b.f n i have been dating for about a couple of weeks n hes the sweetest guy i've ever met and we do everything together but idk wat to get him for v-day! hes 15 (16 in may) and hes into baseball and basketball! and i want to get him something that he'll like and not something stupid! something to show that i care n i love hiM! i need ideas please help

Get him a box of chocolates. Variety kind. Or something cute. just go to the store and they are usually stacked with valentines day stuff. Im getting my boyfriend a I Love You cookie. Its not something you run across every valentines day. So its not to original. But I dunno if i'd rush the I love you thing. Me and him have been 2gether 9 months... but if you really love him because its totally possible.. anything is possible get him I love you bear or I love you cookie! Or even both!!!-trix

Q: My crush knows i like him and he likes me too! should i get him something for v-day?! what if he doesn't get anything for me?! what do i do?!
(( i'm so CONFUSED ))

Well it doesnt really matter if he gets you something or not because you are being the sweeter person for valentines day. And valentines day is all about sweetness. And love. And ect. Sense its just a crush get him a small heart shaped box of chocolates. Unless if you 2 start to go out then get him a bigger one.-trix

Q: my bf and i have been dating for a couple weeks and i asked him if he wanted to come to my granpas superbowl party that he has every year and he said he'll go! but now that i really think about it, it doesn't sound like a good idea becuz my family is CRAZY about football and i didn't know that its my dads 41st birthday dinner that nite, and i don't think that its the rite time! my family is really over protective of me cuz im the only girl besides my lil cuz thats 7! but neways im afraid there gonna make him feel uncomfortbale! and im not sure what to do soo please help

Well I would talk to your mom about this I mean ask if she can help out and your bf is obviously a guy so he will enjoy the craziness for football. I would just give him a headsup i mean i did that to at my cousins wedding im like "nathan (boyfriedn) my family is a lil crazy" and i laughed to make a joke out of it but he knew was telling him soemthing and i ment it and hes like ok he was fine. He told me he loved my family. So im sure everything will work out fine!! Just let him know your kinda scarred for him 2 meet alot of people and also let him know about the dinner-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"