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hey ya*ll i really like this guy and he really likes me 2 ...but there is a bad thing.. he dosent want any1 to kno and i cant help thinkin its cause im not that pretty...please help me and tell me what to do...SiGnEd~DaNgErOusLy In LoVe~ (link)
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maybe he just isn't ready for people to know yet for some reason on his own. i am sure its not becuase ur not pretty..because thatd be a pretty shallow thing for him to do. If its bothering u a lot u could ask him if there is a specific reason why he doesn't want peple to know that u both like each other.
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ok.. my best friend (whos a guy) is really sweet. I've liked him since the 3rd grade so it's been 5 years but he doesn't know it. I try flirting with him but he hasn't caught onto it yet. Our famalies are great friends so i see him alot and it only makes things worse because i know he has no clue! Please help me... what should i do? (link)
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hmm, maybe you couuld try hanging out with him aside from wen both of ur families get together, maybe since u both are such great freiends he thinks that ur flirting is u just having a good time. If u make it sorta obvious that u like him wen u hang out alone maybe he will get the idea..hope i helped..:)
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okay . .
there is thys guy i reallly like and we have been talking since last year online and stuff and he a couple weeks ago he asked me if i liked him and i said i did. then he was like maybe we could hangout sumtime then . .but we havnt yet. i think he likes sumone else now even tho he still i.ms me online . .what is he doing to me? (link)
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he probably still likes u but is to shy to even ask u to hang out even though he knows u like him..this happened with me too. Next time u both talk online ask him if he still wants to hang out, and try and make a plan with hinm. If he seems hesitant, then maybe u can give him some space and wait for him to ask u to hang out and keep ur mind open to other guys too. hiope i helped :)
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i have a terrible fear of drowning each time my body goes into the pool and the water reaches my neck. i was wondering, how can i overcome this fear that ive been having for such a long time already? (link)
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hmm maybe u can take swimming lessons to help u get used to the water and show urself that its easy to not drown if u know how to swim and rememer that lifegaurds are usually almost everywhere u swim and the possibility of u drownin if u know how to swim is small..hope i helped :)
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Hi well Im jj15 and i need ur help and fast!
I am going out with a guy named rocky , well everytime I go and talk to him he just says Hi and then says that he has to go, Im afraid that he's cheating on me.
I tried asking him if he was and he would just stare and say no then he gose off somewhere.
I am really afraid!!!!!
Help me plz what do I do?
please dont erase this ?!!
and I got my pic on my coulmn now (link)
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Hm, he might be but don't get too worried yet. It is very possibly he is preoccupied with some other things in his family or friends. And that is the reason why is acting different, give him a few days with out asking him n e thing about cheating and if he is still acting the same u could ask him if ne thing is bothering him cuz u noticed he was aksing differnt latley...hope i helped
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umm.. dont think im stupid for asking this but i just wanna be safe and sure. if a girl is on birth control, does the guy still need to wear a condom wen they do it? (link)
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i think it woldn't hurt, i mean it would b e agood idea to be extra protected.
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wut r u supposed to do when everything is going rite in a relationship then all of a sudden it just dies... like we werent going out but we acted like it and we havnt talked bout a week but i miss him cuz i like him alot.. i know hes not cheatin or wutever cuz not too many girls like him cuz hes not really a *stud* but hes amazing and even my ex is happy for me and says wed be great together...wut should i do i wanna at least be friends but id like to be sumthing more... that was a like a book in a nutshell cuz it would take me forever to tell me bout this amazing guy... so if u could plz help me out i miss him alot... thanx
kristi (link)
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hmm, maybe he has been busy latley. Give him a call and ask him to hang out and see how things go..I'm sure he still wants to keep things going if things were goin this well..:) hope i helped
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uhmm..ok...this guy (that iz my frend) asked me out a lot but everytime i give him some sort of excuse. This past time it was cuz of skewl. Now i like this guy n i wanna go out with him but i cant say yes 2 cuz then the 1st guy will kno that i lied n that i just dont wanna go out with him! i kant b mean! Help me pleeeez! (link)
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hmm..if this guy wants to go out wit u , u could say yes and then if the other guy finds out he will be sad, but u could explain to him that u really didnt feel a connection but hes a great guy and that u just didn't know how to let him down easily, but w ith this guy you like him. It's a tough sitiation, but hoepfully this guy will understand how u feel.
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I'm 14/f. I've liked this guy Mark for a really long time. I know that he doesn't like me because he told me who he does like. One of my friends has also seen him with this other girl, they were going out to dinner together. I really want to get over him and move on to other guys that are available but every time i see him I start to like him so much all over again. We're friends and I want us to stay friends but how do I stop liking him. I know he's unavailable, but I can't stop myself. How do I get over him? (link)
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aww thats hard. try hanging out with some other guys, maybe with a group of kids so u can get to know other guys better and see their personalities. Mark mite like u in the future but for right now u should try and be open to other great guys out there..and i'm sure its his loss
;-) hope i helped
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Ok i ALWAYS brush my hair after i get out of the shower when i dont brush it its wavy/curly and tangled but then after i comb it its STRAIGHT!! and then i try and scrunch it and it never works i dunno why but anyways my hair is kinda long about down to my back and thick so can you tell me what to use and how to scrunch it? thanks! (link)
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hmm...the same thing happens to me sorta..cept my hair is hardly straight. I used pantene pro-v scrunching gel. It works really great for me, maybe it would work for u to :)
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okay so recently ive been hanging out with some friends that i wouldnt normally hang out with them out of school or sports. They smoke pot and they talk about ti all the time. since ive been hanging out with them i have been wanting to smoke it but i know its not the right choice. What do you think i should do? (link)
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ooh thats tough. Try not to hang out with them any more, like gradually start to hang out with other peiple who don't smoke pot and don't tempt you to. If you really see some goodness in these people besides this..i guess try not to let them get u to smoke..but i think it would b better if u hung out wit differnet ppl..good luck, hope i helped.
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Ok - my uncle hits on me at almost every family gathering. It really bothers me! I told my mom and she said she'd try to help me, but I still feel so uncomfortable around him. He's always staring at me and winking, and saying that I'm hot!
I'm just so uncomfortable .. (link)
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You need to get him to stop! its harrasment..you need to take him aside and tell him that you feel uncomfortable wen he does those things to u and that its not rite and they scare you. If he still doesnt' stop after that..you need to really have an adult or family member help you to get him to stop..hope I helped
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this guy that i used to date and i are still like semi friends...we can talk about anything and when i say that i mean anything...and the other day we talked on the phone for EIGHT hours EIGHT!!! i think i still like him but i dont know because last time it didnt work out...but now i feel closer to him and comfortable talking to him and i dont know what to do?! (link)
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wow! it definately sounds like u have a great connection. Mabe things have changed since u last went out and he realizes that you guys get along really well. If you feel like you want to give it another try..go for it, the worse that could hapen is that u reallize u both really are better friends..and u break up again and get bak to bein good friends..hope i helped
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I don't know what to wear for the first day of school. I don't really have a great sence of style and i was wondering if you could help me. My hair is brown and eye brown and i am 5'2. Got any good styles for that??? (link)
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hmm..maybe a pair of jeans anda nice shirt or sweater? or maybe a denim skirt with a nice shirt..n some cute shoes..I'm not really sure wat style ur into but sopme good stores u mite wanna try are Pacsun, American eagle,gap,delias..watever u feel comfy in :)
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ok well theres this guy and we had a relationship 4 a lil while but it ended so we talked on occasion. now he only wants 2 hang out when my best friend is here. i asked if he likes her and he sayd no but it doesnt make sense then. then i thought it was 2 hook his firned up with her but his friend has a girlfriend, my friend says its 2 try 2 get me jealous but i dont no if thats it, wha do u think? (link)
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hmm it could be that he wants to get you jealouse or maybe he just wantes to hang out with her cuz he thinks that shes a cool person to hang out with. He might also like her but i'm not sure..If it bothers you could ask him out of curiousty .is there a speicific reason that you only want to hang out with me only wen my best friend is her?/ hope i helped..
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hey guys! i got my hair chemically straightened with my cuzin back in march. my hair doesnt really dry straight from it though. its kinda wavy when it used to be loose curls. i still have to straighten it which used to take me an hour now its like 20 mins. but my cuzins hair dries straight .. mine doesnt. my hair took to the chemicals real fast so they didnt let it sit in my hair as long as they should have. ok well getting to the point.. i have to get my roots straightened again soon and i was wondering if i should say something to them and if so.. what should i say? (link)
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yes u should tell them because they might have thought it was okay to take the chemicals out soon..but your hair should b perfectly staright wen it is completly dry. it is ok if it was curlyish wen its wet but u should def. mention something ot them and maybe they can fix it..hope i helped :)
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my flinkskey is acting upi dont know if i should do sumthen about it or not. it just seems to get frisky n wanna jump up n play maybe its attracted to sumthen in the air??
hopefully ukl help on wiut i can do about my flinksey (link)
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hahah i'm not sure i kno wat "flinkskey" is cuz i know how mayn spelling errrors you have in that area..please try to rephrase ur question "annoymous". Havea nice day
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Hmm. KK im 134 and im not even 5 feet is that fat. i think im fat. all my frined says that im not but there my friends. and i have been going around and stuff and a normal weight for a 5 foot person is 98-128 hmm i dunno.. paranoid..
and i just get a sick feeling knowing im like 6 pounds more. maybe lose the six pounds??
in other words im not comftable with being me (link)
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hmm i don't think ur heavy at all. I'm sure it is a perfect weight for you. If you want to get more toned, maybe you can do some pilates and work out..more excersize? don't over do it though..hope i helped..":)
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Hey guys! My first day of skool is Thursday (9/02) and I go to a trade skool( I just transfered into it for soph year). Im taking auto repair and I'm not really sure wat I'm supposed to wear. I know I'm wearing jeans. And im goin to wear a T-shirt. But should it be a cute one or just a normal one? I mean it is the first day of skool but its still goin to be messy shop. And wat should I do for make up and my hair? Up or down? K.. thanks guys! (link)
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hmm maybe u could wear a shirt ur willing to get dirty in but bring a change of a shirt to change into afterwarrds? For hair and makeup..you could wear your hair up so it is out of ur face but if u feel it looks better down you could do that too, whatever you're in the mood for. As for make up..same goes..wahtever you feel like..maybe natural colors?
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hey my first day of 8th grades coming up in like a week n idk what to wear! i got this cute white skirt from hollister n its like ruffled i guess you could say, n it has a little blue in it and i was thinking about wearing that with like a blue tank top an a white zip up type thing since were not allowed to show our shoulders..do you think thats okay? cuz im trying to wear new things this year n everyone always comments on my clothes but do you think its an okay first day outfit? (link)
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sure, sounds great!
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