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pleeez help me
uhmm..ok...this guy (that iz my frend) asked me out a lot but everytime i give him some sort of excuse. This past time it was cuz of skewl. Now i like this guy n i wanna go out with him but i cant say yes 2 cuz then the 1st guy will kno that i lied n that i just dont wanna go out with him! i kant b mean! Help me pleeeez!
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Its not being mean..if you really want to be with the 2nd guy then be with him. the 1st guy should get the hint that you dont like him and kinda had to lie to him about it. he should have gotten the point that you didnt want to be with him the first time! dont lie to yourself and not be with the guy you like because of the other guy that is kinda stalking you! haha!
x0x-dani
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Sugarcoating things is the worst. It's just stupid how you can't go out with the guy you want because of your excuse for the first one. Go out with the guy you want... and if the guy you lied to says something about it... tell him how you feel. That's the only way he'll be able to understand... and you won't be lying to him this time. Good luck, hun.
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ok, i totally jsut went through this. Ok, what i did was i sat my friend down and explained to him that i just dont wanna go out with him. I told him he's a great friend and i really dont wanna loose him over a stupid break up. I told him it would be more fun if we were just friends because then things wouldn't get all awkward between us. Ya know. you can't just have no reason, you gotta convince him that it'll be better this way. and then tell him how you like the other guy and that your glad you can still be friends. it worked for me. good luck with it! =]
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THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT JUST GO OUT WITH THE ONE YOU TRULY LIKE ALOT!!
HUGS
XOXOXO ~ MORGAN
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Just tell him you already have a boyfriend!! and if you say yes to the 2nd guy and he says something about u already having a b/f just say u dumped him!! good luck! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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hmm..if this guy wants to go out wit u , u could say yes and then if the other guy finds out he will be sad, but u could explain to him that u really didnt feel a connection but hes a great guy and that u just didn't know how to let him down easily, but w ith this guy you like him. It's a tough sitiation, but hoepfully this guy will understand how u feel.
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there's nothing you can do about it hun.. just say yes to the guy you want and maybe talk to the other one about it and tell him ur sorry u lied but u didn't want to hurt him.. hope i helped
xoxox-kenzi
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