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Ok i ALWAYS brush my hair after i get out of the shower when i dont brush it its wavy/curly and tangled but then after i comb it its STRAIGHT!! and then i try and scrunch it and it never works i dunno why but anyways my hair is kinda long about down to my back and thick so can you tell me what to use and how to scrunch it? thanks!

well, i have the same problem what i use for it is. . Dep Gel (sport) and then Ausie Sprunch spray - make sure you scrunch it up good and then blow dry it. good luck! =]

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uhmm..ok...this guy (that iz my frend) asked me out a lot but everytime i give him some sort of excuse. This past time it was cuz of skewl. Now i like this guy n i wanna go out with him but i cant say yes 2 cuz then the 1st guy will kno that i lied n that i just dont wanna go out with him! i kant b mean! Help me pleeeez!

ok, i totally jsut went through this. Ok, what i did was i sat my friend down and explained to him that i just dont wanna go out with him. I told him he's a great friend and i really dont wanna loose him over a stupid break up. I told him it would be more fun if we were just friends because then things wouldn't get all awkward between us. Ya know. you can't just have no reason, you gotta convince him that it'll be better this way. and then tell him how you like the other guy and that your glad you can still be friends. it worked for me. good luck with it! =]

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hey i am like a punk kid. and i really dont like preps very much. but my mom is like anti-punk and loves preps. and she is really into the "preppy" clothes and attitude and all that good stuff. lol. ok well thats NOT me but how do i tell her without her freaking out. i mean i want to get my tongue pierced and my ears pierced a lot. but my mom is just not understanding for my personality. people tell me "Be yourself who cares what others think" but how can you be yourself when your mother is making you another. how do i try to show my mom that i am not like her?

well, i can say that i've gone through the same thing. My dad was totally againist the whole idea. but, you cant just make the wordrobe change and everything all at once! it'll just make things really hard. What i did was slowly change things. Like, starting getting just shirts from hot topic or something. Not really punk ones either - just something simple. and try to get it when your there with a friend or have your mom go in like a different store while you are in that one. After awhile you can try to explain to your mom that this is what you want. That you dont want to be like everyone else. and sort of explain the down side to being like eeryone else. Like how most preppy girls are slut and the guys are perverted jerks. dont get really mad if she differs in opinion, you have to calming explain your side of things. Stay cool and mature about everything and that should sorta show you can make your own clopthing decisions. Abput the piercings im not really sure there is any easy way to tell your parents you want a piercing. Just put the idea out there that , that is something you want. Maybe she will warm up to the idea after awhile. well, thats all. good luck! =]

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