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hey im 13 and a female, but im not your avarge 8th grader. i smoke weed and drink offten. i got into this stuff early becasue i have a lot of older friends and my brother is the same way but hes a senior in high school. im not sextualy active but i've done everything but. i feel like im starting to get out of control. my brother is like my best friend and he even told me that im getting really bad. i had a couple parties while my parents were away and when my brother went to school he heard a ton of stories about me hooking up wtih his friends. i feel really bad because the only thing i didnt want was for my brother to be ashamed of me. but at the same time i think he's being over protective because my friends siblings dont even care like mine does. my brother told me that the kids he hangs out with that started as early as i did have std and are probably not making out of high school. i dont know if i should change my ways but all i know is that this has gone to far. please help me! thank you.

Obviously this has gone too far. One day, you will be caught. How embarrasing would it be if you had a party and the police came knocking on your door if your neighbors complained? GET NEW FRIENDS. Stop hanging out with your brother the way that you do. You can have fun without the weed and alcohol [sp?]. Your brother is worrying about you, and he doesn't want anything to happen to you.

I want to make a new screen name--i want something i'll live with for a while.-i'm a dude btw

I think that your favorite sports team could work. You didn't really specify what your interests are. If you like OU, try like Sooners14, with your favorite players number. Bands get old, but sport teams last longer.

Sooners lost last night, :'(.

how do you delete songs from a ipod nano the easiest way?

Plug your iPod in. Start up iTunes. Go to 'Music' underneath the little picture of your ipod [on the left side]. Click on the song that you want to delete, to delete multiple songs, press the 'CTRL' key, and click on the others that you want to delete as well.

me and another friend, have two other friends, who wont leave us alone. they are just very annoying, not in the gossipy way, they just act like 8 year olds. thier older than us, but they act younger than us. and they are very sensative. when we tell them that we dont want to hang ouw thih them anymore, they still follow us. and we dont want to say that we dont want to be their friend, like we dont want to come out and just say it, cause the last time we did that, they went home, and told our parents, and then we got in trouble. so we need a way to tell them, with out actually telling them. weve already tried telling them that we needed a break, and they said that we could do that, and then the next day, they followed us everywhere again. and they brought their parents into it, so then we had to be friends with them. so what is a way that we can tell them we dont want to be friends with them, without actually...telling them??

-shelby/13/female.

Avoid them. If they want to hang out, say that you're busy. They'll eventually get the message. Just extra baggage that is unnecessary. Don't tell them anything, don't tell them that you're going to the mall, just cut off all contact. Simple. Been there, done that.

13/f

lately, my sthomach has been really toned.i havent been working out or anything. is that normal for around my age?

It's fine. I noticed that my obliques [around the abs] have been a little stronger than usual. All's well.

15/f

gahh. this one girl, annoys the heck out of me. shes alwaysss copying me. like not the flattering way though. like i used to be INLOVE with ryan sheckler, before he had his show or anything, when i was in like 5th, 6th, 7th, and 8th grade. & this girl was always like, your so weird your like obbessed with him. hes not that cuteee. and i'm like well i think so. so i go on her myspace the other day, and she has him on there, and it says like under it, FUTURE HUSBAND, love himmm. and like she lies about stuff too to me. like i told her all this stuff i got for christmas, and shed be like oh i got that too. or ill wear something to school, and she'll be like, oh i have that. ive never ever seen her wear it before. and swear to god i'm ready to go a-wall on her.

WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Stop adding fuel to the fire. If she says, "oh my god i totally have that sweater from american eagle" say OK and MOVE ON. Obviously this person is a waste of time and you shouldn't be worrying about silly things like this. Cut off all contact with her, don't ask her to hang out, just say 'hi' in the halls, and keep on going with your life. She can see that you're responding to her remarks, so she'll keep doing it. You should go 'a-wall' on her. Forget her, it's as simple as that.

i sent sumbody a message & now i dont want him 2 read it
how can i delete it so he cant read it

you can't. sorry.

what is the best position for a guy to mastrbate.is there beter or other ways for a guy to pleasure himself other than sex

I'm sorry, but advicenators are not allowed to post sexual things because of the younger users on this site.

I was wondering if anyone knew any body parts that start with the letter D? haha, i know it sounds random, but I need to know! thanks!! :)

Distal Phalanges was all that I found. 'D' is a rare one to find..

well im in grade 10, and theres this other guy ive known for over three years, and ever since weve both liked eachother on and off... we finally went out last year then i broke it off, which i shoudlnt have. we started talking again this year and started to see eachother again. then all this other stuff happened, we stopped talking.. till i had a party and we start making out.. now were talking more and i can tell he really likes me.. but then his freinds tell me the opposite of what i think. its like the guy i like is two- faced. right now.. me and the guy are pretty much freinds with benefits, but i want it to be more. i told him i love him the last time i seen him. i just need advice on what to do... cuz i really do love him and i miss him whenever im not around him.. im thinking i should seduce him in some way? all weve done is madeout whenever we hang out.. what else could i do? if i go any farther than making out.. it would be the first time.

I think what you need to do is to ask him straightforward if he likes you. If he does, just start being around him more. However, I urge you to not become desperate and make this guy your everything. If you guys don't end up working out, THERE WILL be others. I may not have such of a great experience with guys, but I know what I'm talking about. Let him do his part. If he really does like you, he will make an effort to show that he cares. If he brushes it off as nothing, move on.

.im a guyhow do you know if someone likes you and if you do know then how do you start a good friendship with this person that could lead to a relationship as in boyfriend and girlfriend.you see this girl likes me but im not sure about going out with here because i dont know alot about here.help pls.tanxs

The key to starting a relationship is, like you said, getting to know each other. Ask her if she wants to hang out, and that's how you can get to know her. Start talking to her more at school, ask her for her number, text her, whatever. You'll find a way.

what videos should i put onto my ipod from youtube so im not bored on this 8 hr flight? 13/f.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=8q_n8z3auC4
http://youtube.com/watch?v=esKwU3BrUfM
http://youtube.com/watch?v=YKqtSVvrNLI
http://youtube.com/watch?v=24Ryj1ywoqw
http://youtube.com/watch?v=Nn5jlrxcpkI
http://youtube.com/watch?v=Nn5jlrxcpkI
http://youtube.com/watch?v=faOERhIOrzE
http://youtube.com/watch?v=vw6RgIf6epQ
http://youtube.com/watch?v=MR5xv3pt7KI
http://youtube.com/watch?v=-PWunLT7Wgw

I don't know what you personally like, but those are just some links to what I have on my ipod.

Hello, summer is coming up and i'm interested in getting a new bathing suit, preferibly a bikini.

So, if you could, find me a cute bikini. There's no limit and price and I like a lot of things.

Thanks !

-Hope that made sense

http://www.target.com/b/ref=sc_fe_l_1_13796461_28/601-9269415-4258537?ie=UTF8&node=13629631

Does any one know of a website that is like mytertones.com that you can send mp3's from your computer to your phone to make them into ringtones? I used to use myxertones.com but now it doesnt work...

phonezoo.com

what kind of videos (from what websites) can you download on zamzar and to your ipod?

Only YouTube videos can be converted.

How the hell do you put photos in your ipod? Yes, i have ITunes.!! but i dont know how to put photos i tried and when i drag the folder.. i dont know where to put it.. please give me simple understandable by a lil kid how to put pictures in an ipod.. please and thank you. :D

Make a seperate folder for your pictures that you want on your iPod in your My Pictures folder. [title it as iPod Pictures]. Copy the pictures to that folder. Connect your iPod to your computer, and open up iTunes. Click [on the left] [your names] iPod. You should see the tabs at the top. Click 'Photos'. Check the box that says 'sync photos from' and choose the My Pictures folder. Click the 'selected folders' circle. Check the folder that should say 'iPod Pictures' [if you followed my directions as specified]. Hope that helped. Message me if you need more assistance.

I've had my period for about 2 and a half years now (i'm 15) and I've still havent gotten the courage to try tampons. I've actually tried it once but it hurt so badly I cried and had to get my gradma to take it out for me. then another time I had my mom in the same room and have her show me but she didn't really help. then I tried by myself because I thought I had the courage.

The actual problem is that I hate the feeling of something touching my vagina. I know that sounds stupid because people get excited when something is in their vagina. but I touch it with my fingers and it feels so weird and not good. is that normal? How can I put in a tampon if I hate the feeling of something touching me there. Like I can't even get the big part of the tube inside. Not like even an inch because I don't like the feeling.

I also have 1 question= How far are you supposed to put in the bigger part of the tube? People say until you can't no more but how far is that? Theirs like 5 rings on the tube and How do I know when to stop pushing the big part in and push the small part?

I could ask my mom again but she doesn't really help me. Please help!

Oh and I use Playtex Gentile Glide. Is that good for beginners? I heard theres a slim or junior something? Is that good?

Okay, what you need to do first is to chill. It's okay. The tampon isn't leaving your vagina, nor getting stuck inside. Lay down on your bed, and get comfortable. Just relax, and think of tranquil things. Slowly spread your legs, and slowly put the tampon inside about halfway [so that you can grib the tube]. Push the bottom part UP, so that the tube is left in your hands.

Refer to the instructions on the box/inside the box for more specific information.

can you really download a movie on a dvd onto your computer? or onto your itunes/ipod? i know this question has been asked but i searched and couldn't find it, sorry :(

ok, I want to tell you that people who say that 'it isn't possible' [chances are, more people will answer this question], shouldn't be listened to. i searched google earlier and found this link:

http://lifehacker.com/software/ipod/alpha-geek-copy-dvds-to-your-ipod-235150.php

the instructions are quite long, but they will get you where you need to be.

does anyone know a website where you can download free songs to your ipod legally without viruses, catches, or a lot of time? if it helps I have the newest version of itunes downloaded

The best thing to do is to look up the song name on youtube.com [chances are, it will be there] and go to vixy.net and convert it. It will take awhile, but at least it's better than getting a virus off of Limewire.

Is there a way that I can put a movie onto my ipod (not a movie that i bought on itunes...but a movie that i have on DVD).
*I have the itouch if that helps...

Thanks for any help you can give me :)

Okay, no offense, but the below answers really did not help. AT ALL.

http://lifehacker.com/software/ipod/alpha-geek-copy-dvds-to-your-ipod-235150.php

Long instructions, but they will get you where you need to be.

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