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annoying friends
me and another friend, have two other friends, who wont leave us alone. they are just very annoying, not in the gossipy way, they just act like 8 year olds. thier older than us, but they act younger than us. and they are very sensative. when we tell them that we dont want to hang ouw thih them anymore, they still follow us. and we dont want to say that we dont want to be their friend, like we dont want to come out and just say it, cause the last time we did that, they went home, and told our parents, and then we got in trouble. so we need a way to tell them, with out actually telling them. weve already tried telling them that we needed a break, and they said that we could do that, and then the next day, they followed us everywhere again. and they brought their parents into it, so then we had to be friends with them. so what is a way that we can tell them we dont want to be friends with them, without actually...telling them??
-shelby/13/female.
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Whats the big deal with hanging out with them? You're hurting their feelings, just tell them VERY VERY VERY nicely, just be like, were different then you guys are. We don't have much in common. I just don't think we'll work out as friends, and I don't wanna hold you back from hanging out with other people. If their parents call you, you, not your mom or dad, should answer the phone, and if she says like why don't you wanna be friends with my daughter, then just say, were different, you can't force me to be friends with them. Tell your parents you don't like them.
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tell them you cant hangout with them and just leave. and if they start following you. you can always go to the principal or counselor and tell them they are stalking you. maybe they will get the message....
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Avoid them. If they want to hang out, say that you're busy. They'll eventually get the message. Just extra baggage that is unnecessary. Don't tell them anything, don't tell them that you're going to the mall, just cut off all contact. Simple. Been there, done that.
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