Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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theres this song that goes "shake your body like a bellydancer." it was really popular. i looked up bellydancer, like a bellydancer, and shake your body on itunes but it wasnt this. anyway, have the title, artist, or album. anything will help... (link)
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I'm pretty positive of the song you're talking about, and I the reason none of that ever came up on iTUNES is because all of those options aren't the song title, haha. Don't you hate when songs have differnet titles than what's in the chorus? Anyways.
I believe you're thinking Akon's song "Bananza ( Belly Dancer ). I googled it on the internet and pasted the lyrics for you, so check them out and see if that's the song you like:
Akon Lyrics
Bananza (Belly Dancer) Lyrics
Hey ladies drop it down
Just want to see you touch the ground
Don't be shy girl go Bananza
Shake ya body like a belly dancer
Hey ladies drop it down
Just want to see you touch the ground
Don't be shy girl go Bananza (hey girl)
Shake ya body like a belly dancer
Yo, excuse me, beg your pardon girl
Do you have any idea what you starting girl
You got me tingiling, come to me mingiling
Steppin off lookin bootylicious and jingiling
When you walk, I see you baby girl
When you talk, I believe it baby girl
I like that, thick-petite n' pretty
Little touch is a ditty
Love to work the kitty like purrrrrrr
She loves to stirr it up purrrrrr
I can hear her purring up
Cause shes the type that'll get arousy of
Get you excited and call her boyfriend up (ohh)
What's the man without the plan B
We can meet up at the hutter house for the tiki
So stand by like a butty pass
While I watch this beautiful thing shake that ass
Hey ladies drop it down
Just want to see you touch the ground
Don't be shy girl go Bananza
Shake ya body like a belly dancer
Hey ladies drop it down
Just want to see you touch the ground
Don't be shy girl go Bananza
Shake ya body like a belly dancer
Girl I must say you the flyest thang in here
So hot I gon' need some rain in here
Type to make ex-gangstas bang in here
Girl you could do anything you want in here
Clown if you want to, frown if you want to
You ain't even gotta drop down if you want to
Cause I'd rather see you shake it standin
Either way you do it girl you look outstandin (uhhuuuhh)
And now you got me spending (uhhuuhhh)
The way you got that body bendin (uhhhuhh)
Ass like that girl you gotta be kickin
Got me goin to church next day repentin
Lap dancing for my FA crew
Slide it ova to boo cause he want some too
Up in the VIP with no fee
Blessing you with the G even tho we gettin it free so
Hey ladies drop it down
Just want to see you touch the ground
Don't be shy girl go Bananza
Shake ya body like a belly dancer
Hey ladies drop it down
Just want to see you touch the ground
Don't be shy girl go Bananza
Shake ya body like a belly dancer
Girl shake ya body body
With somebody body
Whatever you do don't break your body body
After the party party
Grab a hottie hottie
In the back seat of your Maserati-ratti
Jiggle jiggle it to the left (ah ah ah)
Jiggle jiggle it to the right (ah ah ah)
Jiggle it to the front then jiggle it to the back
And jiggle jiggle it all all night (ah ah ah)
Hey ladies drop it down
Just want to see you touch the ground
Don't be shy girl go Bananza
Shake ya body like a belly dancer
Hey ladies drop it down
Just want to see you touch the ground
Don't be shy girl go Bananza
Shake ya body like a belly dancer
Hey ladies drop it down
Just want to see you touch the ground
Don't be shy girl go Bananza
Shake ya body like a belly dancer
Hey ladies drop it down
Just want to see you touch the ground
Don't be shy girl go Bananza
Shake ya body like a belly dancer
I hope I helped!
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okay well this guy that i like and i know he likes me is all of a sudden hugging a bunch of girls in front of me and does he not like me anymore or what. i dont know whats going on (link)
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Well, if he likes you, then I'm pretty postive he's just hugging all these girls infront of you to try and make you jealous. I don't it's because he doesn't like you anymore.
Also, they could just be friends, that's it. I mean, you hug your friends, don't you? He just might be being friendly to his friends and everything and hanging out.
I would try and hang out with him some more, and give him hugs and everything, and flirt with him to send some signlas his way that you are indeed interested, and then maybe if he catches onto them, he might cool down on hugging all these girls infront of you.
But like I said, I still think he likes you!
I hope I helped.
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16/f. my religion tells us not to have sex until we are married, and i plan on sticking to that. im possibly going to a get a boyfriend soon though, and i dont know how to tell him that im waiting. what are some excuses of why i cant have sex with him besides my religion and i dont want to? (link)
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You shouldn't have to give him any excuse, just the flat out truth. If he ever does suggest it, just explain to him that you can't. You're a religious person and your religious says you're not to have sex until you're married, so you're sorry, but it's not going to happen.
If you and this guy do go out though, since obviously that means he likes you alot, he should respect any decision you're going to make in the present and future.
If he does make a big deal out of it, I might want to consider then breaking up ( haha I know, you guys aren't even dating yet and I'm already talking of breaking up! I'm just stating future opitions haha, hopefully you two won't! ) but, like I was saying, if he does make a big deal of it, I would consider breaking things off then because you deserve a guy whose going to respect your decision and be glad to have a girl with some morals, and it won't be all about the sex to him. Relationships are supposed to be more than that, so hopefully it won't bother this guy that you don't want to have sex until you're married.
I hope I helped.
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i'm 15 and i want to get my belly button pierced, i;m afraid it will portray the wrong image. i don't worry about how it will affect guys, because they're MUCH less judgemental then girls, i just want to know if i'm gonna earn myself a bad name by doing this. (link)
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You're not going to earn yourself a bad name by getting your belly-buttoned pierced. There's no name even to earn. So many girls now-a-days are getting their bellybuttons pierced ; it's seriously not a big thing anymore. And anyways, it's your body, your choice. If they're going to tell you what to do with your body, tell them what they should do with theirs.
I hope I helped.
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Me *&* My Boyfriend Have Been Together A Lil Over 4 Months I Love Him More Than Anything But Sometimes He Just Gets On My Nerves He Dont Even Have To Do Anything I Just Get Aggravated For No Reason...I Know I Dont Wanna Break Up Wit Him I Cant Imagine Life Without Him He Means Everything To Me...The Only Times I Get Aggravated @ Him Always Seem To Be When Im Not With Him!...Whats Goin On? (link)
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You just might be hanging around him a littel too much, and everything he does whenever you two are around together might be annoying you. So just take some time off of him for awhile and limit the visits ; it'll for one make you miss him more and make the hangouts all the more great and bring you two hopefully closer together so you guys'll be missing eachother. And like I said, he might not coming off so annoying.
I hope I helped.
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ive been with my boyfriend for a pretty long time now but what i dont get is why the heck he STILL hasnt called me. i mean seriously... i call him almost every night and he never answers his cell phone. he says its "broken" but when i called using my friends cell he answered. i want to talk to him about it but i never get the chance because we are barely ever alone together. and sometimes when we are walking down the hall after school i tell him to call me and hes like ok... but no. still no call..
i would reallllly apreciate it if someone could help me out, thannx!!!!
xoxoxoxo (link)
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Oh, there could be a million reasons why he's not calling you.
Sometimes, honestly, guys can just flat out forget. Girls tend to remember more to call someone or tell someone something important, but guys just get distracted by a football or whatever and won't remember to call someone.
He also just might not be a phone type of person, or is just nervous to talk on the phone. Like me ; I prefer face to face or internet, cause I hate all those silent moments on the phone and everything, and you're right on the spot, trying to think of something to say. Whenever you're face to face or on the intenret, you can listen to music, eat, whatever while you're talking.
He also just might figure,"Oh, whatever. She'll call me anyways ; so I don't have to." Which isn't an insult or anything, but he figures since you probably wind up making the call anyways, whats the point in calling you first if you're going to talk later?
Like I said, a million different reasons. The best way to find out the real reason is to just straight out confront him about it.
The next time you two are walking together down hill, just straight up ask him why he doesn't really like talking to you on the phone, and is always telling you it's broken.
Also, if you two aren't hanging out alot and aren't alone together all too often, I suggest you two start putting more of an effort ( well, at least on his side ) because what's having a relationship if you can't even be together to have it? :/
I hope I helped.
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Im crazy in love with this boy.
He's my bosses son. And 4 years older than me. We've been going out for almost a month - but every time we fight ... even if its over something little his soultion is to break up ... and then call me an hour later and say he's sorry ... i just dont know what to do ... i've asked him why he does it ... and he didnt really give me a clear answer ... should i break up with him once and for all? Please help!
18/f (link)
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I think you should try and talk to him about it more, and give him a serious tone to let him know you're really curious and want to know now.
He just might be afraid of getting into a real good relationship. His past relationships might've had their fights and he might be afraid to get emotionally involved and it wind up crashing in front of his face, and talking of breaking up he might be thinking of getting out of it early before the pain comes ( but I doubt he really wants to break up with you! )
Just let him know,"I just want to know, why every time we fight, you always result in suggesting us break up? Do you not want us to be together or something? It really worries me and makes me think I'm doing something wrong here and you don't want to be with me. I know we have our fights, but we can always just talk to them out ; they don't have to result in breaking up." And just try and talk about it more and resolve the issue.
Whenever you two start to fight, just try and both make the effort to calm down, take some breaths, and just calmly talk about it instead. List to eachother how you both are feeling and let the other speak what's on their mind, and hten make your response, so everyone gets to talk, and everyone gets to release their feelings and feel better.
But, if he's still being quiet about the reason he does it, and still continues to suggest breaking up and always fighting with you, I might want to then consider breaking up. You already gave it a shot, and it's clearly not working out. And do you really want to be in that kind of relationship where you'll never know when you're going to break up over one little thing? That's not too healthy, always being worried. You shouldn't have to be.
I hope I helped.
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13/f
..please. helpp?
k i'm like crying right now.
so theres this guy i like alot. and i mean A LOT. i've seriously never liked anyone as much as i like him. last year he was in my class and i'm pretty sure he liked me, because even before i liked him he was always staring at me and talking to me all the time and stuff. plus his friend pretty much insinuated it. anyway, this year hes on my tea,. but he isn't in my class, which basically changes everything. he's not in ANY of my classes so really i haven't gotten a chance to talk to him since june because i'm shy so i can't just randomly walk up to people and start a conversation. but still i like gave him looks and stuff. he still seemed nervous when he was near me a little bit, or stared, i dunno its hard foor me to read boyss ugh lol.
so there's this girl who came to our school about 2 weeks ago, and shes on my team in his class. i was worried about it because i guess the guys think shes hot. so anyway, they started talking a few days ago, and now suddenly they're going out. i'm completely crushed because i really really REALLY like him and i really thought something could happen between us. i mean, they met not even 2 weeks ago and they're already going out, and i've liked him so much for almost a year. i feel like its somehow my fault because i could have done something? i don't know. but i'm seriously like wikeddd upset now, i need help. please.
thanks xo
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Believe me, it's not your fault at all! You did absolutely nothing wrong.
Sometimes guys are just like this. They see a girl they think is really "hot" and they want to go out with her and get her and everything. She might not even have a personality or anything, so see what happens between the two of them. They might not click as well as they thought they would, and they might break up.
I suggest not interfering because that'll only cause drama between you and her and her friends, and you and him and you don't want to mess anything up with him now. Just remain really good friends with him and keep a close relationship and just talk with him and have a fun time and show him what he's missing out on and everything. Who knows? Over time, he might find you more interesting than her and he might want to date you instead. So just keep close to him ( but not THAT close so the girlfriend and everybody doesn't think you're trying to steal her guy or anything ) just be really good friends with him, and maybe later someday if you're comfortable enough and ready enough to tell him, let him know of your feelings. Maybe he just thought you might've moved on, and decided he needed to move on too, or who knows? She could just be a ploy to try and get you all jealous, because it sounds to me like he still might have feelings for you.
So, just keep close with him and see where it all goes from here. But take this as a lesson too - take a chance, go for it. See what happens, because you never know when you'll get an opportunity to do it again.
I hope I helped.
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female..15 years old.
OK..so i got this bf about 2 days ago.I like him but i think i would be ashamed to be out in public with him.but lets backtrack...on new year's eve my friend,her bf(david) and his friend(justin) wanted to spend the night with me so my dad let them..and me and justin hit it off well and i liked him but then i got sent off for six months and just got back 2 weeks ago.ok back on track..ok well now that i have this bf...my friends want to have the same kind of party again so me and justin are supposed to be hooking up and i like him alot but i just got this new bf and that would be mean..so should i stick with my bf or go for justin. (link)
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Well first of all, why stick with a boyfriend you're ashamed to be out in public with? That's just as mean sticking with him because you feel bad for him, then just dumping him anyways. That's at least being honest, and it'll make you happy. Don't just make someone else happy, if you're not going to be in the process.
Just explain to him that you're sorry, but over the time you two've been dating, you've just realized you're feelings are more just friends than actual boyfriend and you're sorry, but hope you two can remain good friends.
Then just hang out with everybody on New Years, have a cool time and everything, and see what happens with Justin. And maybe even ask him for his number and screename so you can keep in touch with eachother and hopefully hang out again soon.
:)
I hope I helped!
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Yea well i want to put like text on my myspace pictures && i want to make em look cool you know??
But i don`t know any sites to do that or have a clue how.
so if you can help with much detail on how it will be greatly appreciated. (link)
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If you go onto paint, just paste your picture on there.
Now, you just click the "A" button and look towards the bottom. Do you see the two boxes of all the shapes? See how the one green square has a white background? Don't click on that one, click the one below it. ( Basically, the bottom box of shapes ), that'll give it a transparent background and just type whatever you want and drag it wherever you want. :)
I hope I helped.
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omg im so pissed right now, i found out today that my best freind erin asked my ex boyfreind out to the homecoming dance this month, and he said yes. the way she told me this shocking news was, "hey katie, um the other day i accidently asked brandon to the dance, i kinda blurted it out, and well brandon kinda accidently said yes now obviously neither of them didnt think much of how much it would hurt me, consifering that i still inda had feelings 4 him. he could have gone with any other person to the dance, but no, he decides that he would rather go with my best freind. well i called him and told him how i feel and he thought thatthere was nothing wrong with him going with my best freind. what should i do?? (link)
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I know you're not over him and everything, and true, best friends shouldn't go after eachother's ex's and everything - but remember, you two did break up for a reason, and whenever people break up, that's what they're supposed to do - go find other people to meet and everything.
I would just talk to your friend about it and let her know that she really hurt your feelings whenever she did that, and she could've at least let you know she was going to ask him so you had a heads up and everything. Best friends should be able to talk to eachother about all sorts of stuff, and be understanding.
But if I were you, I would just try my best and let it slide. "Chicks before dicks," I always say. Do you really want to lose your best friend over this one guy who you'll probably not see next year or for the rest of your life, for that matter? But just think about the friendship between the two of you and just how much you can trust her, and just watch out whenever you tell her stuff.
And as for him, just let him go too. This is all a part of the break up process, and you should try your best to move on. There's a better guy out there for you anyways, and like I said, you two broke up for a reason, so try and find a guy who won't do whatever happened between the two of you. And maybe even go ask another guy to the dance to just show them you're fine with it, you don't care if they go together, and just see what happens.
I hope I helped.
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well thier is this really nice,cute,funny,8th grader and i really like him.But I don't know if he would go out with me.And I was this close from talking to him.But i got pushed down before i could say anything.The thing i want to know is"will a 8th grade boy go out with a 6th grade girl"thanks (link)
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I don't know, it really depends on the two people who want to go out with eachother. He might, he might not.
Some guys might think you're too young because you're only in 6th, and him being in 8th and everything, but some guys don't care. I personally don't think it's that big of a difference, only 2 years or so, right?
So just keep talking to him and flirt with him and see where it goes. It's up to him if he wants to go out.
I hope I helped.
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Is there any natural way to increase breast size permanently?
I do not want to gain weight and I do not want to get pregnant. (link)
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Other than plastic surgery, there really is no permanent way to increase breast size.
Naturally, the only way I can really suggest is if you start to work out your chest area some more and develop the muscles there so they'll get bigger and stronger and make your chest a little fuller. Also, by wearing tight shirts and buying some padded/push-up bras, it'll give your chest a little more fuller look.
I hope I helped.
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What age is a girls breasts done growing? (link)
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Most girls stop developing and growing whenever they turn 18, but it can end around the early 20's too, for some, but mainly when you're 18.
Just try looking at your genetics and how big your mother's are and everything, and yours'll probably grow around to the same size, maybe a size off or so.
I don't know how old you are, but if you're young, then trust me, you have a long way to go so just be patient!
Also, as the others said, once a woman gets pregnant, her breasts do tend to get larger, but if you do lose the baby weight and everything, the breast'll bost likely just go back to what they were before the pregnancy.
I hope I helped.
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okay so i've known this boy for a few months now. and ive fallen inlove with him, i kno he doesnt feel the same because i asked him if friends is all we would ever be and he said yeah =\ but things are different now we hang out alot and i kno this is bad hook-up alot. i jut want to know if maybe hes changing his mind or please help me get over him.
he is all i think about and i dismiss any other guy who shows intrest in me. i kno this is bad i just need help. (link)
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I don't want to tell you this, but you asked for my advice, and I don't think he's changing his mind. If he's already said all you two ever are going to be is friends, he probably meant it. :/
I would just talk to him about it though, and make sure. Ask him if all of this is going anywhere, because you're sick of just hooking up with him. Is this possibly leading further than friendship?
If he says no, then I suggest just trying your very best to move on. Those guys you dismissed ; give them a ring and ask them if they'd want to go out one a date with you sometime, and just have some fun and hopefully, a good guy'll come along. Also, just focus on you some. Try and find a new interest or a new hobby and keep your mind off of this guy as much as you can.
If he does say yes though, then that's great! Just continue on and talk to him about it and see where it's going from there.
But like I said, it just sounds to me like this guy just wants you to be friends with benefits. Like I said, he DID say friends and nothing more, which is technically still what FRIENDS with benefits is. I hate when guys do this, but sometimes it's what they do. Gah, they can be jerks.
I hope I helped.
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Hi, a girl in another school likes me alot but I'm not sure. I like her as a friend but not romantically.
When she first told me I said I maybe in the future but recently I said I'd think about it.
I really dont want to hurt her but I dont love her back. Is there anyway I can say so gently without hurting her or damaging our friendship??
I am 15 years old and a male.
Thanks in advance :) (link)
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I know you don't want to hurt her, but believe me, no matter how gentley you say it, it's going to hurt her some, but she'll appreciate you're not flat out,"i don't like you blahblah".
I would just let her know,"I'm really flattered you think of me in that way and everything, and I do love you, but just in a friendly sort of way. I just really don't want our friendship getting ruined over something like this, so do you think we could just be friends?"
And I'm sure she'd rather be your friend the nothing at all. Yes, it might be a little awkward at first, so just give her all the time she needs to get adjusted to everything again and try and put things back on track. So as she starts to talk to you more and more, that means she's starting to get better with it, and is making more of an effort to make it less awkward, which you should also put in the same amount of effort.
Just keep the conversation going, and just talk to her like you used to and remind her of old times and everything, and just keep it on track and pretty soon, everything'll be fine. :)
I hope I helped, and I hope everything goes well!
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So I like this kid
and he's a complete jerk to me.
He's always saying rude things but then online sometimes hes nice.
I cant get over him , no matter how mean he is!
Whats wrong here? (link)
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It's probably the fact that whenever he IS nice that 's the only time you like him which I can see how it's hard to get over him, cause just as you are, he IMs you all nice and wonderful, and there you go, liking him again.
I suggest just taking some time away from him - I'm not saying completely ignore him cause he'll think he did something wrong or something, but if he IMs you, just chatter for a bit and then say you have to go somewhere or do your homework or something, and focus on another activity. And just go out with your friends, have fun, flirt with other guys and try and meet someone new and maybe pick up a new hobby, and after awhile you'll slowly start to forget about him, and then just start thinking of him as a friend.
But I might want to try and talk to him about why he is so rude to you all of the time. Did you catch him at a bad time, or what? Because just let him know if he's going to sit there and be rude to you and be mean, you're not going to talk to him. I mean, I wouldn't talk to him if he was just going to sit there and be all snippy and rude to me all of the time. I mean, I understand if he's having a bad day and everything, but you even said so yourself "online he's SOMETIMES nice". He's not evne nice ALL of the time!
But like I said, just back off him for awhile, focus on other things and pay attention elsewhere, and slowly the feelings'll start to just go away.
I hope I helped.
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What am I supposed to do?
I'm STARVING.
There is no food in the house at all.
I didn't eat dinner last night.
I couldn't have breakfast and I don't have money to buy lunch at school.
Now it's after school.. and my mom won't go to the store to buy food.
I feel like puking. My stomach really hurts.
She won't go because she's "sick" I already asked her and she said I was bitching at her.
I dont know what to do..
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Hm.. have you tried asking your mother if you guys can just order take in? OR if you're old enough, you drive to the store yourself and go and grab some food.
Also, just try digging through anything. Even though it might not seem like alot, just eat whatever you can find to just get SOME food in your stomach because some in better than nothing.
Also for school, have you tried using food stamps? I know some people who instead of bringing money and stuff to school, they use food stamps and get lunch tickets instead and they still get a really good lunch and everything which alot of food.
Maybe even to rake in some more money for if this ever happens again. Try doing some neighborhood chores like walking the dog and raking the leaves and whatnot to earn some cash on the side so if it does happen again, you can always order yourself a pizza or something.
Your mother really shouldn't sit there and just let her kids starve. I mean I know she's sick, but whenever this happens with me and my mom, she'll just call a pizza place or something and have them bring us food and gives me cash to pay for it.
I hope I helped.
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14/f
RAWR. my brother was on the phone with the kid i like.. & my brother goes "My sister likes you!"
I was like mortified..
I see him friday...& hes comin to my party..
What do i do!? Do I say something to him? (link)
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No, don't say anything to him! If he doesn't mention it, and you don't mention it, then it's basically like it never happened, right? :]
I say just go up to him and start talking to him about whatever and just have a good time. If he DOES bring it up, you can either let him know just right then and there your brother was telling the truth, or just laugh at it, and be like,"Pft, my brother's always doing that to my guy friends, I'm so used to it by now. Do you have a brother? They're annoying sometimes aren't they?" and then just laugh about it and change the subject into something else.
I hope I helped.
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Ok...I've previously posted advice on how to tell my best friend that I was in love with him...and well...2 weeks ago...I took people's advice and I told him...great right...not really...he hasn't talked to me since...(here's some info that might help a bit: when I told him he said he just wanted to be friends...which I was totally happy about, in the sense that he didnt feel the same way but he still wanted to be friends...)what does this mean...that he won't talk to me? (link)
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Even though he wants to be friends, it's just become awkward for him, I'm sure. And he probably doesn't know what to say to you or what to do, so it's normal that he's going to be a little hesitant to just, jump right into conversation and everything, so just give him some time to see. He also just might be worried he'll say something or do something to make you like him even more which he might not want happening cause he might be worried he'll hurt you more. That's what happens with me and when guys tell me they like me. I watch what I say or do that might lead them on and think of something more, which does create akwardness cause I'm not fully being myself.
It'll take awhile for things to go back to normal, yes, but if you just keep working at it and making sure it doesn't get awkward and make things like they were before, he'll realize it can be normal again, and pretty soon he'll start talking more and everything and it'll all be fine.
Just every few days or so, send an email his way or say hi in the halls and just catch up with him about what's been up with him lately and what's he been doing and everything, and then sooner or later after awhile, just mentioning a movie or a possible hangout sometime soon with him, and see where it goes from there.
I hope I helped.
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