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This kid i like.
So I like this kid
and he's a complete jerk to me.
He's always saying rude things but then online sometimes hes nice.
I cant get over him , no matter how mean he is!
Whats wrong here?
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its hard to remove ourselves from someone that we like soo much that is completely mean to us. You see I had the same problem but not anymore. See back in 6th grade I had this huge crush on a kid that sat next to me in class. The kid turned out to be a total jerk.. he treated me badly, made fun of me and yet he would be so nice to me online and he even invited me to a party of his. Sometimes boys maybe mean towards you because they have feelings for you and don't want to admit it. Sometimes its because they are bored with themselves and want to make someone else feel bad.
I would ignore him and wait until he grows up. You want a man not a boy. It will be hard to move on but find someone who is more caring and respectful towards your feelings and not someone who wants to hurt them. good luck!
-Bess
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It's probably the fact that whenever he IS nice that 's the only time you like him which I can see how it's hard to get over him, cause just as you are, he IMs you all nice and wonderful, and there you go, liking him again.
I suggest just taking some time away from him - I'm not saying completely ignore him cause he'll think he did something wrong or something, but if he IMs you, just chatter for a bit and then say you have to go somewhere or do your homework or something, and focus on another activity. And just go out with your friends, have fun, flirt with other guys and try and meet someone new and maybe pick up a new hobby, and after awhile you'll slowly start to forget about him, and then just start thinking of him as a friend.
But I might want to try and talk to him about why he is so rude to you all of the time. Did you catch him at a bad time, or what? Because just let him know if he's going to sit there and be rude to you and be mean, you're not going to talk to him. I mean, I wouldn't talk to him if he was just going to sit there and be all snippy and rude to me all of the time. I mean, I understand if he's having a bad day and everything, but you even said so yourself "online he's SOMETIMES nice". He's not evne nice ALL of the time!
But like I said, just back off him for awhile, focus on other things and pay attention elsewhere, and slowly the feelings'll start to just go away.
I hope I helped.
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The Only Way Your Gonna Be Able To Get Over Him Is To Completely Stop Tlkin To Him @ All...Cus Like Hes Mean To You In Person Which Makes You Kinda Not Like Him But When You Tlk To Him Online And Hes Nice To You It Makes You Start Haven Feelings For Him All Over Again...Its Totally Completely Confusen Ive Been There Thats The Only Way I Got Over Him!
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leave him alone and forget about him move on dont let him talk about you and like you later thats being funny so dont let not anyone talk about you at all get hima out of your head and forget him so trust me on this one because ive been threw this and im only 12 so talk to me later about this my e-mail adress is ttniebrownie@yahoo.com
from your friend lexusm
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