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what to do
okay so i've known this boy for a few months now. and ive fallen inlove with him, i kno he doesnt feel the same because i asked him if friends is all we would ever be and he said yeah =\ but things are different now we hang out alot and i kno this is bad hook-up alot. i jut want to know if maybe hes changing his mind or please help me get over him.
he is all i think about and i dismiss any other guy who shows intrest in me. i kno this is bad i just need help.
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I don't want to tell you this, but you asked for my advice, and I don't think he's changing his mind. If he's already said all you two ever are going to be is friends, he probably meant it. :/
I would just talk to him about it though, and make sure. Ask him if all of this is going anywhere, because you're sick of just hooking up with him. Is this possibly leading further than friendship?
If he says no, then I suggest just trying your very best to move on. Those guys you dismissed ; give them a ring and ask them if they'd want to go out one a date with you sometime, and just have some fun and hopefully, a good guy'll come along. Also, just focus on you some. Try and find a new interest or a new hobby and keep your mind off of this guy as much as you can.
If he does say yes though, then that's great! Just continue on and talk to him about it and see where it's going from there.
But like I said, it just sounds to me like this guy just wants you to be friends with benefits. Like I said, he DID say friends and nothing more, which is technically still what FRIENDS with benefits is. I hate when guys do this, but sometimes it's what they do. Gah, they can be jerks.
I hope I helped.
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