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call him?
ive been with my boyfriend for a pretty long time now but what i dont get is why the heck he STILL hasnt called me. i mean seriously... i call him almost every night and he never answers his cell phone. he says its "broken" but when i called using my friends cell he answered. i want to talk to him about it but i never get the chance because we are barely ever alone together. and sometimes when we are walking down the hall after school i tell him to call me and hes like ok... but no. still no call..
i would reallllly apreciate it if someone could help me out, thannx!!!!
xoxoxoxo
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no offense.. but GET RID OF HIM!! honestly now if he really cared he would call you every chance he got.. you need to find someone thats gonna do that and this pathetic excuse of a boyfriend has had so many chances to prove himself as your boyfriend and be good to you and treat you right.. and honestly from the sounds of it he isn't going to change and he'll keep making up lame excuses. I think you should get rid of him and say: "NEXT.."
-Bess
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Oh, there could be a million reasons why he's not calling you.
Sometimes, honestly, guys can just flat out forget. Girls tend to remember more to call someone or tell someone something important, but guys just get distracted by a football or whatever and won't remember to call someone.
He also just might not be a phone type of person, or is just nervous to talk on the phone. Like me ; I prefer face to face or internet, cause I hate all those silent moments on the phone and everything, and you're right on the spot, trying to think of something to say. Whenever you're face to face or on the intenret, you can listen to music, eat, whatever while you're talking.
He also just might figure,"Oh, whatever. She'll call me anyways ; so I don't have to." Which isn't an insult or anything, but he figures since you probably wind up making the call anyways, whats the point in calling you first if you're going to talk later?
Like I said, a million different reasons. The best way to find out the real reason is to just straight out confront him about it.
The next time you two are walking together down hill, just straight up ask him why he doesn't really like talking to you on the phone, and is always telling you it's broken.
Also, if you two aren't hanging out alot and aren't alone together all too often, I suggest you two start putting more of an effort ( well, at least on his side ) because what's having a relationship if you can't even be together to have it? :/
I hope I helped.
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How long have you been going out?
Sometimes guys don't like to talk on the phone.. So don't bring it up every time you're with him.
And don't call him every night either.
Maybe he's annoyed by it or nervous.
If you're going to call, call every other day.
But ask him why he doesn't call.
Just confront him about it.
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