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..please. helpp?
k i'm like crying right now.
so theres this guy i like alot. and i mean A LOT. i've seriously never liked anyone as much as i like him. last year he was in my class and i'm pretty sure he liked me, because even before i liked him he was always staring at me and talking to me all the time and stuff. plus his friend pretty much insinuated it. anyway, this year hes on my tea,. but he isn't in my class, which basically changes everything. he's not in ANY of my classes so really i haven't gotten a chance to talk to him since june because i'm shy so i can't just randomly walk up to people and start a conversation. but still i like gave him looks and stuff. he still seemed nervous when he was near me a little bit, or stared, i dunno its hard foor me to read boyss ugh lol.
so there's this girl who came to our school about 2 weeks ago, and shes on my team in his class. i was worried about it because i guess the guys think shes hot. so anyway, they started talking a few days ago, and now suddenly they're going out. i'm completely crushed because i really really REALLY like him and i really thought something could happen between us. i mean, they met not even 2 weeks ago and they're already going out, and i've liked him so much for almost a year. i feel like its somehow my fault because i could have done something? i don't know. but i'm seriously like wikeddd upset now, i need help. please.
thanks xo
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Believe me, it's not your fault at all! You did absolutely nothing wrong.
Sometimes guys are just like this. They see a girl they think is really "hot" and they want to go out with her and get her and everything. She might not even have a personality or anything, so see what happens between the two of them. They might not click as well as they thought they would, and they might break up.
I suggest not interfering because that'll only cause drama between you and her and her friends, and you and him and you don't want to mess anything up with him now. Just remain really good friends with him and keep a close relationship and just talk with him and have a fun time and show him what he's missing out on and everything. Who knows? Over time, he might find you more interesting than her and he might want to date you instead. So just keep close to him ( but not THAT close so the girlfriend and everybody doesn't think you're trying to steal her guy or anything ) just be really good friends with him, and maybe later someday if you're comfortable enough and ready enough to tell him, let him know of your feelings. Maybe he just thought you might've moved on, and decided he needed to move on too, or who knows? She could just be a ploy to try and get you all jealous, because it sounds to me like he still might have feelings for you.
So, just keep close with him and see where it all goes from here. But take this as a lesson too - take a chance, go for it. See what happens, because you never know when you'll get an opportunity to do it again.
I hope I helped.
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Wow that really sucks im sorry. Dont interfear with the relationship because then he'll get mad and the girl will hate you (at this point you really dnt need that). And its definitely not your fault so dont blame yourself boys are complicated and its something we'll never understand. You said all the guys thinks shes hot if she keeps getting attention from all the guys the relationship will end so just give it time. i know its hard but theres nothing you can do at this point except try to talk to him as a friend while their goin out. And you could drop little hints that you like him or that your attracted to him. Like for example if he says she thought i was hot then you could be like well who could blame her? ya know just small stuff like that. That way your not forcing yourself on him and its not going to look like your trying to break them up. If you have any questions leave one in my inbox! hope i helped.
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Guys can be tough girl, but no worries! Letting your heart break this young could be a BIG mistake! I'm a shy girl too, so I understand how you could have trouble getting this guy's attention by approaching him or starting conversation with him. Now that he is going out with this other girl - trying to interfere with that relationship most likely wouldn't help you "score any points" with either one of them. Try not to stress too much over what could have been done in the past to change how things are now. If it's meant to be, it will happen. Guys will come and go left and right. Keep an eye out, because there could be someone waiting around the corner for you.
God bless,
Megan
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My only suggestion would be to dress up like a crab and do a mating dance near him.
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