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okay soon i will have to go to my moms work for a month to help her from 7am - 8pm.. everyday from monday-saturday .. i dont know what to do cause i dont want to lose any of my friends and no one likes to hang out on a saturday.. and i cant just skip a day cause my mom will FLIP.. you dont understand.. and its like a month not seeing my friends.. what can i do?!

If your friends are true they should always be there no matter what. You having to work should not cause your friends to leave and not talk to you anymore. If they do that then they really arent good friends. There is stuff that you guys can do after eight pm. Your not the only one that has to work. I work 40 hour weeks and i still keep in touch and hang out with all my friends. You will be able to find a way. Talk to your friends and plan out times that you guys can get together and do something fun.


-You sound like kind of young. And working everyday Monday thru Saturday (7am-8pm) Thats 78hours a week. I dont know where your mom works Or what state you live in but 78 hours is alot of over time and you shouldnt be working 78 hours. Im 17 and I can only work 40 hours a week.

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hi, i was just wandering if the vet charges you for a prescription , or telling you how to do something, eg. budgie wing clipping, etc...? thanks :)

It usually is just like a Pharmacy. If the Vet is perscribing the animal medicine then yes you willl probly have to pay for it. But if the vetis telling you to buy something from a store then no you will not have to pay the vet anything.

If you ask a vet for Informationon what you should do in a certain situation with your animal then no you will not have to pay. But if the Vet has to make an appointment and get the animal seen the you usually have to pay.

hope i helped.
kimm-

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ok, i know you can use tampons and go in a pool, but im not so sure if i should do that because my 'flow' or whatever has really slowed down. usually after a few hours, only like 1/4 of it has been used. i heard that you should never leave a tampon in when you're not on your period. but like i am, but just barely. is this still safe??????

p.s i really want to go swimming!!

When you have a light flow use light tampons. You shouldnt wear a tampon when you arent on your period. But you shouldnt wear a heavy one when you have a light flow.

If you switch you can swim.

kimm-

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alot of people say that fingering feels good.. but whenever i or someone else does that to me ..it doesnt feel good.. is there something wrong with me ?

No your perfectly normal. He may not be doing it the right way or maybe you were in a uncomfortable position. You probly should be wet sothat he doesnt cut you && hurt you down there. When you finger yourslelf you dont really get the full effect.

any questions leave one in my inbox.

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my friend is embarrased to walk into a store and buy her own goddamn vibrator so she wants me to buy it for her and im a guy what the hell am i supposed to do......i dont even know where to get one.....please help

Tell her she doesnt need to be embarrassed theres probly tons of girls that actually buy them.

You can buy them at spencers. Its in the mall


heres the spencers website.

http://www.spencersonline.com/index.cfm/fuseaction/products.browse/categoryID/e417e147-61d6-433d-9322-ce970d87db07


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Has anyone read the book Catcher in the Rye? What did you think about it?


I also was going to read Friday Night Lights. Is it as good as the movie?

Cathcer in the Rye is a very good book and i liked it alot. It different from any toher book i have ever read tho.

I havent read or seen the movie Friday Night Lights. Sorry

kimm-

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Does anyone know if you can drink at the beach in South Padre? Or where I can figure out?

Yes you can.

This is what the wbesite i went to said:
All beaches are publicly owned and the consumption of alcohol is legally allowed on the beach (kegs included!). Students can BYOB and save money because you will avoid paying $8 per drink to the hotel beach bar.

hope i helped
kimm

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why do guys lead on girls one day then the next flirting with 3 or 4 other ones. i really thought this guy and i had something. i truly did.

Its just how guys act. Not every guy but the majority of them. They think its great && that it doesnt hurt the girl. They lead girls on by flriting with them the entire day then going to someone else. If he tries to flirt with you again tell him you have something to do. Kind rude but they really need to experience what they do to girls.

hope i helped
kim-

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I'm in my first serious relationship with an amazing guy. My family & friends all like him, and of course I like him very much. The problem is, since him and I have been together, I've spent less time with friends. They have been trying to hangout with me, but for some reason I have more fun with my boyfriend. I feel like a horrible friend because these girls are great friends. Is it so wrong that I'd rather be with my boyfriend at this point in my life? (17/F)

Its not wrong at all. But you have to think about who will stick around the longest who will actually be there forever. Boyfriends are great but friends last a lifetime. You should talk to your friends && your boyfriend and make a time where your friends and you get to hang out && and a time where you and your boyfriend get to spend time together. If your friends like him why can't you guess hang out together sometimes. So that you get the chance to spend time with your wonderful friends&&your boyfriend

hope i helped.
kimber-

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I've heard that if you get a sunburn, and you put sunscreen on wherever you got sunburned, it makes your sunburn turn into a tan. I've tried that before and it never worked.

My question is: is there any way to make a sunburn turn into a tan? Are there any special things to use? How long does it take to work?

Thank you!

Well i use Aloe Vera. Its sold at just about any drug store. Its with the sunblock and its green.

You really shouldnt lay out in the sun and get sunburnt just to see if you can tan because if you get burnt to bad you can get sun poisoning.

kimm-

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Can somebody tell me what "oral" means, like what is oral sex?

When A male/female plessure eachother with their mouths by sucking or licking eachothers privates.

kimm-

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hey i'm mn731--and i want to reply to your answer from the "abercrombie clothes" question. i just want to make it clear that i DID NOT call your clothes trashy--i shop at other places besides abercrombie also, you know..I just said that their clothes are "cute and not trashy"...because that's the usual impression that people usual think of when they hear "abercrombie" because of the realllly short mini skirts & such...soo yeah I did not call your style "trashy"--and if it did offend you, then i'm sorry.

Im Not offended && its fine. The way you made it sound was wrong. But its cool.

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16/f

I like this guy I've known since 5th grade, I'm now in 11th. He's the type of guy that likes "different" ideas for dates. We are supposed to hang out on Saturday and I want to do something that he would like. I really like this guy A LOT (I dated him a while back and he was my first "love" and I was his first "love")we get along great but I want to do something other than go to the movies or mall. A list of ideas would be greatly appriciated!

-Bowling
-Roller skating
-Ice skating
-Miniature golf
-Amusement parks
-Water parks
-Concerts
-Getting ice cream together
-Tennis


Theres a ton on this site:
http://www.bygpub.com/books/tg2rw/dating-ideas.htm

kimm-

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which is a better buy? the sidekick II or a blackberry? which is more up to date? i'm a female and i'm 13 years old if that helps. i'm looking to buy one but it doesnt matter about the price so please dont base your answer on price. thanks!

I dont have either one of them. But One of my friends said the sidekick.

But also your only 13. Those types of cellphones are a bit much for a 13 year old. I know parents that dont even have those types of phones.

kimm-

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Okay im 14 years old and i have had my period since i was 12... today i invited some people to swim at my house and i went to the bathroom and i saw that i started my period.... i really want to go swimming but im REALLY afraid/scared to use a tampon cause i have never used one before and its scary to do it..can anyone tell me what to do or give me tips or anything.=( like im really scared to do it... im afraid something will go wrong

Its kinda of self-explanatory. Theres not much you can do to screw it up. Or cause something to go wrong. All you is read the directions in the tampon box and your pretty much set.

Theres nothing to be scared about.
It may be uncomfertable the first time just take it out and try another one.

kimm-

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Hey i was just wondering if anyone knew of a good example of a halfhead and a fullhead of highlights...i cannot seem to find a website or picture that really shows the two styles.
-THANKS A BUNCH =)

I think this is more of a full head of highlights.

http://www.fotosearch.com/comp/ISP/ISP004/isp0803180.jpg

This is halfhead.

http://www.fotosearch.com/comp/ISP/ISP004/isp0801064.jpg

This looks like the top layer so it would fall under halfhead.

http://www.fotosearch.com/comp/DSN/DSN006/1771455.jpg


This the website i got all of these from.

http://www.fotosearch.com/photos-images/highlighted-hair.html

Kimm-

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Ok well I just started using tampons and I wanna know if you can wear a tampon in the shower? B/c i gotta take a shower but I like just put a tampon in an hour ago and I don't wanna waste it.

Thanks!

Yes you can shower with them in. But showering is usually the only time you can leave them out. And you really want to clean considering its your period.

But you can leave it in. You can wear them in any water.

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ive heard that if you can wear a tampon comfortably it means that your body is ready for sex is that true?

Deff. not. ONly you can tell when you are ready for sex. Anyone can where a tampon comfortably but that doesnt mean that they are ready for sex.

kimm

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If the clothes from abercrombie are so...thin....why do they cost so much?
And I don't want this to sound mean, but why do so many people buy their clothes there, just for them to shrink in the laundry?

I completely agree with you. Yes the clothes are nice and they may last a while but its the biggest waste of money ever. Abercrombie is pretty much a teenager stores and you know most of those teens either get the money from there parents or they go and blow their entire paycheck. I dont know the quality or if they shirnk or not because i dont wear them. BUt alot of teenagers wear abecrombie because its the Style thats "in".

kim-

And for the person below me. I dont wear abercrombie or do i shop in the mall alot but the clothes i wear are not trahy what so ever. But thanks for such a rude comment.

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im 15 almost 16 and i am still in a AA-cup bra.

mom is a A-cup, but my sister is a C-cup.

This is completely destroying my life! I have not had a boyfriend cuz' my breasts are tiny now I am old and nobody will want me.

what about breast enlargement?

are there any other wayz i can get someone to love me?

is surgery for enlarging my breasts my best way to get my life back?

i want to have a boyfriend before i get old! am i already too old? none of the boys will want me soon. i am almost 16!

Please HELP ME!

Your Not getting too old to have a boyfriend. There are many guys out inthe word that do not care about your breast size. You shouldnt change yourself for any guy. Brest Enlargements are not the way to go. Your still kind of young just wait.

kim

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