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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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What do you do when someone gets all your friends mad about something you didn't do?

talk to your friends. tell them you didnt do anything, or whatever they are mad at you for. explain to them that if they hear something be sure about if you did it or not before they react/ and also watch out for that "someone". if they are trying to get you mad at your friends.. they most likely are jealous of you.. so just watch your back.

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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What do you do if you no someone who is doing illegal things and you dont no if you should tell on them or not?

if you feel like you HAVE to tell someone because of their safety or something, tell someone you compeltely trust. maybe your parents or school councelour or something. or just talk to your friends about it and tell them about how you feel about them doing those things..

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12..almost 13..female. okay...this might sound confusing. but ill try 2 get it across. theres this guy...and hes really tight w/ one of my best friends which is how i know him. i met him and hes funny,a flirt, and nice. like super nice in my opinion. it was like he actually cared wut i was saying...which i liked. and he told my friend that i was really cool and funny. well okay....expect i wasnt gf and bf material and i wasnt very pretty. okay. ouch? but w/e...he admitted 2 it...but still said he wanted 2 hang out and wanted 2 be friends...oh yes and i almost forgot 2 add...before we met...my friend was trying 2 hook us up...but anyway we both decided we didnt want 2 do that....but i cant help but thinking...maybe i do. i think i like him...but then again i dont b/c i know that hes prolly a wayyyyy better friend then boyfriend anyway....i dont know im so confused. helpp?

okay, yea i think i got it. so what your asking is if i think you should like him? or like how you feel.. im guessing.? well, im sorry to say.. but i cant really help you choose whether you like him more than a friend or not. its pretty much totally up to you. i know this maybe not be what you want to hear, but i really dont think he lieks you as more then a friend.. or atleast when he said that you werent pretty and gf/bf material. because obviously he didnt want you then. but you never know what can change in like an hour let alone how long its been. really just go with yuor heart on this one. i know he seems like he may be alot but, it sounds liek you dont see each other much.. if im correct. do you guys go to the same school anyway?! once you figure it out., and if its that you like like him. then tell him and be honest. the worst he can say is that he likes you guys better as friends.

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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What do you do when you are in a public place and really really relaly really really have to take a crap?

WOW, your so cool. use the bathroom dumbass.

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there is a girl i like and im like talking to her i told her that i like her and everything and shes like wut do u like aobut me im ugly and fat and im like no ur not. wut else should i do?

compliment her. no girl ever gets sick of compliments. im sorry, but no your not does not cut it for most girls ( maybe all?). tell her what you really think of her. not what you dont think of her. tell her shes beautiful or something. and just make her smile. a simple no your not isnt gonna cut it.

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kelly. my boyfriend isnt being much of a boyfriend right now . but i really really like him. what should i do., i dont want to break up with him..

i dont really know what you mean by he isnt being much of a boyfriend right now. but if you really care about him and dont wanna break up.. then talk to him about it.. be like this is whats happening and i dont like it.. hopefully then he will change back.. and then if he doesnt try just taking a break. not a breakup. just a break, hopefully he will see what hes missing and come back crawling for you back. and thats always a good feeling

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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how do u have sex?
please get back to me soon...

if you have questions (which obviously you do) here is a good site :: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sexabstinence/
-- go there and pretty much all your questions will be answered.

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okay so last night i just lost my virginity. and we didnt use a condom so i dont know what to do. i cant tell my mom and i cant be pregnet!!
help pleasee

okay, well.. first off.. i know this isnt what you wanna hear -- but if your not okay with telling your mom.. then you shouldnt be having sex. another thing is that just because you had sex, doesnt mean your automatically pregnet. it depends on certian things and you probably wont be able to tell if you for sure are until your next period or so.. if your freaked out about getting pregnet next time use a condom. they are 100% safe, but they are better than nothing.

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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Okay,so my mom told me last night to move out, now this isnt the first time she's said this. should i move out? or just deal with her yelling at me all the time?

well.. this depends on alot of things. like your age. and what have you been yelling/fighting about. BUT PERSONALLY i would just stay.. because even though she has moments that she wants you to leave.. she also has moments that she loves you.

hope this helps !! :] ♥

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help kelly, ive been having trouble lately. my boyfriend dumped me, my parents just got divorced, and my brother just went to jail. I dont know what to do with myself..i feel like im worthless. i dont deserve this..i think its my fault...what should i do?

wow, first off im really sorry. but you cant blame your self for anything. seriously.. its not your fault your parents got divorced and its not your fault at all that your brother just went to jail. and if your boyfriend dumped you then hes a dumbass and doesnt deserve you. honestly.. i feel like you should just go to your friends or someone you trust a lot and just try and forget about it.. you really dont deserve to be going through all of this at once, but you just need to believe in yourself. you can get through it. just try and keep your self active and always doing things.. that way you dont really have time to think about everything thats happening. and babe.. go get yourself a new man tooo :]

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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Is it normal to start your period in gr.6? another question. If your start having periods in gr.6 and don't have one till gr.8 is the normal?

yea, its completely normal. when you start so early, your body isnt close to being fully developed yet, so it doesnt create a regular pattern. as you get older, it most likely comes every month. sometimes longer and sometimes shorter. everybodys pattern is different.

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i was just wondering how many times a day should you use proactiv? im not sure if its one or two. and please dont tell me that i should stop using proactiv cause i want to.

i used to use that.. and your supposed to do it 2 to 3 times a day. but atleast 2. like when you wake up before school or whatever and right before bed, if you do want to do it three times a day, then do it like when you get home from school.

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12...female. I like a boy in my grade and he is like soo amazing. I have liked him for since the middle of the 1st semester! We finally went out. We went out for only 4-6 days and then he broke up with me for another girl. but he never wnt out with her. Now I like him again! i cry myself to sleep every night and as hard as i try to get over him i cant!

i dont really understand the question. is it like should you get over him? because if it is then i think you should. he sounds like a jerk anyway because he broke up with you for someone else. and thats really shallow. and it sounds like the girl didnt even like him which makes him sound like a loser. so do you really wanna keep trying to get with someone who could be called a shallow loser? (no matter how cute he is) you dont wanna be with someone like that., and babe, no guy is worth your tears. you really shouldnt cry yourself to sleep every night. sometimes crying is good. but not every night. and if you really find yourself not being able to get over him, find out about how he feels when it comes to you. if he likes you and you have a shot with him, then go for it. but remember what he did to you the first time, and dont let him get the best of you. becasue your better than that babe

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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I have a very bad flirting problem. I know a lot of people who don't even know how to flirt. My problem is, though, that I do it way too much. I have a boyfriend and he gets mad because his friends flirt with me and I flirt back. What do I do to stop this?

okay well, go from flirting with his friends to just flirting with your boyfriend. its alot of fun to have a boyfriend but if he cant trust you because you flirt so much, it will only cause more problems/. it might help the way you think about his friends too. like dont think of them as your boyfriends friends think of them as your guy friends. sometimes that will stop you because your scared of ruining a friendship between you and him. sounds like all you want is fun, so either only flirt with your boyfriend. or break up with your boyfriend and flirt with everyone.

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ok so theres this girl and ive known her since last year and i have been in love with her since the end of last year. when ever i see her she always makes a point of saying i look hot or she likes my shirt or jeans. i have two classes with her and she always flirts with me. during reading days she always sits by me and rubs my leg and balls and stuff like that. im confused. i really truly love her but does she love me or have a crush on me. thanks in advance kelly

mr. wr

honestly, it kinda sounds like she is using you. or maybe she likes you. i dont know. i really do not know how to tell if she lieks you or not.. only she can tell you that,. but i can tell you that she is flirting major with you. and if she sits by you then she wants to always be near you. which is a good sign for you. but if all she does when shes next to you is touch you.. that might not be a good sign. or it could be. depends on how you think of it. if you really love her then you should be able to talk to her about how you feel. and if she feels anywhere near about how much you feel for her, you will talk back honestly.

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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ok, this is the deal, i like this girl, and she liked me last year because we just met and we flirted like crazy, and i liked her back, but i nvr really wanted to go out with her cuz i liked other ppl too, but now, i like her, and i dont think she likes me back. she flirts back a lot, but i dno if she's just a big flirt or not. i had a friend ask her if she liked me, and she said i dont know, so that really didn't help out. obviously, if she liked me last year, i would think i could get her to like me this year too, but i think there are other guys that she likes too, but i dno what to do...help me

well.. when your friend asks it kinda shows that your scared of rejection. you have ot go up to the girl and just be like i like you. do you feel the same way back.. if she does then she will tell you. and not nessecarily will she like you again.. so dont assume she will fall for you once again. you were the one who let her go.. and now shes prolly scared you might do it again. if you flirt with her alot and tell her cute things she will pretty much get the point across that you like her.. that is if you are scared to tell here like to her face flat out an "i like you". you just need to find out who she lieks.. and if she wont tell you.. go to her best friend(s). believe me.. girls tell their best friends everything and anything. once you know, if you are one of the guys shes interested in.. i would start talking to her about things like if she likes you enough to date you or be with you.

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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i like this guy but he likes my best friend --- what should i do? do i give up?

mm babe, this is a toughy. i dont really know what to tell you. its like totally up to you what you plan on doing. you can either go and fight for him if you really like him like A LOT, or you can just give up. or you can pretend to give up and try to make him jealous. try giving his best friend a call.? you cant really keep your eyes on only one guy, especially if he likes your best friend (that really doesnt help anything). so i think your best bet is to go out there and find someone else who will care about you. and make you happy. i promise hes out there.

hope this helps! :] ♥

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ok there is this guy that im starting to like again. we used to date about 4 moths ago but we were never boyfriend/girlfriend then he stopped talking to me and we didnt talk that whole 4 months now he broke up withhis girlfriend a couple weeks ago and he started talking to me again for the past couple days everytime he saw me he came tell me hey. do you think that he is starting to like me again?? or do you think that hes just being friendly??

well, from what you say you cant really tell how he feels. but it sounds like he may be starting to like you again now that he is available. and from what you said, your starting to like him again too. i personally think that if he was just trying to be friendly, then he coulda done it while he was still with his girlfriend. right?.. well yea good luck :)

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my boyfriend told me he has a
crush on another girl,
and i don't know what to do.

he says he loves me and wants to be with me,
and that he just wanted to be honest with me.

but now i feel as though i'm going
to be paranoid all the time.
i dont like feeling like this;
but i can't leave him.

i love him too much..

and today he spent all morning with me,
telling me how he doesnt want this to
interfear with our relationship.

he said it was weighing him down
and that he needed to get it off his chest;
but now that it's off of HIS.
it's not been put onto MINE.


what should i do?

-L



well, its good that he wanted to be honest and you have to accept the fact that he trusts you enough to tell you that. because that is a really big thing. it sorta depends on how you are with this other girl. if shes your friend, then you have a bigger problem then just some girl that goes to your school. you should ask him or find out if he still likes her like he did when he told you about it. if he does, then it might be more than just a little crush like he says it is. if its that case, you may want to consider taking a break with him. and see if that changes anything..

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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how do you apply eyeliner (black) on the lower eyelid. like not overdoing it, but you know sexy enough. haha jk. but you know what i mean -- also what kind of eyeliner is best? thanks in advance

i personally use cover girl brand eyeliner, which is really good for the lower eyelid. for not overdoing it, your kinda the judge. but i personally like it right on the lower eyelid and a little lower from it.. if you do it and think its to much, dont be scared to take some off or take it all off and start over.


*take your time. do it back and forth until its as dark as you want it. and be really consitrated. if theres things that can distract you.. you may end up poking yourself in the eye. ow. like mascara its helps (me atleast) if i have my mouth open a little..

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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