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Flirting
I have a very bad flirting problem. I know a lot of people who don't even know how to flirt. My problem is, though, that I do it way too much. I have a boyfriend and he gets mad because his friends flirt with me and I flirt back. What do I do to stop this?
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well, try to flirt with your boyfriend, and that will get your mind off of other guys. if that doesn't work, then try not to hang out with guys that flirt with you or just talk to the guys that do. if they cared about you or your relationship or if they were just good friends and not after you, then they will understand.
good luck. and by the way, i used to have the same problem!
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okay well, go from flirting with his friends to just flirting with your boyfriend. its alot of fun to have a boyfriend but if he cant trust you because you flirt so much, it will only cause more problems/. it might help the way you think about his friends too. like dont think of them as your boyfriends friends think of them as your guy friends. sometimes that will stop you because your scared of ruining a friendship between you and him. sounds like all you want is fun, so either only flirt with your boyfriend. or break up with your boyfriend and flirt with everyone.
hope this helps !! :] ♥
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Well i heard that its just a phase. So mabey it will pass.But if you want to quit then just like try to avoid them.If they talk to you then just ignore them.Or talk to them n tell them to stop.
hope i helped
~Kristy~
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You have to be able to make a line with yourself that you shouldn't cross with another guy.
When you flirt with another guy, you have to think, would I want my guy to be flirting with other girls like I am with other guys? And I'm sure you'd hate it if he were flirting the way you were with other people.
If you run around flirting with guys, then you'll push it with your boyfriend, and he'll think that talking to girls in a certain way that you don't like is ok because you don't watch yourself when it comes to the way you act around guys.
You have to make bounderies. Flirting and acting love-silly is for your boyfriend's enjoyment, not your friends! You have to make him feel like he is your boyfriend, not just another friend you flirt and play around with.
-TheTeenGirl
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If you flirt with other guys, then break up with your boyfriend, and then you can flirt with as many guys as you want.
But if you don't want to break up with him, then stop flirting with the. That is plain and simple. Just STOP. What if your boyfriend was flirting with other girls? Would that make you feel very good? Try and look at it from his perspective and maybe you will be able to stop yourself from doing it.
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I don't know if this will help or not,but everytime u start to flirt just think of what your boyfriend would think,ask yourself who would you rather have,this guy you are flirting with,or your sweet caring boyfriend??? think about the times that you and your boyfriend have had then you will want to stop flirting,I hope this helps!
Jasmine
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Well, I would try being around guys that aren't your boyfriend less. And what always works for me is actually flirting with your BOYFRIEND. which is WAY Funner ;) and then realizing the only person u want to be w/ and flirt wiht is him. if this isn't true. maybe you better be single and flirt w/ others?
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