I recently met a guy at school. EVERY SINGLE TIME I see him in the hallway he says hi. And today, he walked me to my bus. Those are the good signals I'm getting from him. But today, he said hi but walked right past me in the hallway-and he wasn't really in a hurry. I would think if he liked me he would talk to me. And today, he didn't sit near me at lunch. I am getting mixed signals! What do you think?
"And today, he didn't sit near me at lunch."
Ah, young love.
Don't worry. Just because a guy isn't spending every waking moment possible to be around you, does not mean he is not interested. I do the same thing sometimes, and I wish certain people would understand that there are times when I would just rather be alone. If you hang around the same person all the time they tend to get boring. Be glad you don't spend so much time together, so it won't get stale.
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Hey everyone,
I'm playing a character in play where i have to keep a straight face while someone sings to me in German... does anyone have any advice on how to keep a straight face and not laugh or giggle during the performance?
Don't think of anything sad...that will make you look like you're crying...and unless that's what it calls for, I wouldn't.
Keep telling yourself in your head, "If I even crack a smile, 13 giant clowns will jump out and mercilessly rape me in front of everyone for 3 days straight."
You won't even flinch.
Unless that's your thing...o_O
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Ok well I just started high school and i met this dude and we hang out at lunch and everything and we talk alot and all and everyone keeps tellin me he likes me and one day at lunch a boi came up and asked me if we were goin out n i wus like no n he said well he likes u n i asked him if it wus tru n he said my gf wouldnt like that very much n my frind was there n so l8r she asked him if he liked me n he said yeh dont tell nobody cuz my gf will kill me and then my other frind asked him n he said wtf started that rumor i rlly rlly like him !! how do i find out if he rlly likes me and how do i git him 2 dump his gf 4 me? i mean he says all this stuff like shes annoyin n all so i guess he doesnt like her PLEASE HELP!!! [[SoRRy So DaRn LoooooNg]]
"i cant read this dude!"
Wow, that's exactly what I said when I looked at your question.
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im 13 and never had a boyfriend. How old were you when you got your first boyfriend??
Never had a boyfriend. And don't plan to.
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this one is for the guys...I am going out with this guy and the bad thing is is that he lives in a different state than me...we both decided that we want to have a long distance relationship...well...i dont think he would cheat on me but he says he's "a gangsta" and my friends all think that he's cheating on me...I havnt talked to him in almost a month and usually he wants to talk to me everyday...are there any signs that he could be giving me that he is cheating on me??? Thanx for all ur help
Just taking a random guess here but I'll say the guy is under 16. And if he is, "a gangsta" translates directly into "an idiot".
If he's over 16 it translates to "a huge idiot".
Your boyfriend is an idiot. Now he's a far away idiot. End it.
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I just started working, I only work weekends. Theirs a guy I like and we have the same working time sometimes. I think hes cute but I dunno if he'd like me. We're not dating anyone. Today I heard he wants a gf who likes to party and have sex! But of course Im not going to have sex BUT
*How can I get him to know that Im avaiable
*That I would want to date him
*If he likes me
...please answer back...I can rate if u want...
Well, knowing where you work could help out a bit. If the two of you are working together on something you could perhaps bring up a little small talk.
A little sexual innuendo goes a long way.
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My friend has a boyfriend and she says she loves him...she wrote i love him on her hand...but she says she also says she loves this other guy from a class she is in..i think this is wrong.But she obviously doesnt since she is always saying she loves both of them.Should i tell her boyfriend?Should i try and convince her that it is wrong?This is advice for my friend also...please anwser soon!!!
There are many different levels of "love". She could "love" her boyfriend with undying passion, and "love" this other guy as a friend. Unfortunately it's near-impossible to understand how powerful the word "love" is when it is said.
Chances are she's just young and "love" doesn't mean anything.
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I have a boyfriend that ive had for awhile now, like a year and then some. But lately ive been wanting to hang out with some other guys just for the fun of it. But i really love my boyfriend and i dont want to do anything to hurt him and i dont want to cheat. There is this one senior that i really like and hes in a couple of my classes. (im a sophmore btw) I want to get to know him better. He asked me if i wanted to come hang out with a couple of his friends a few times and i said i didnt know if my boyfriends gonna b ok with it. Then a few days ago before a football game he asked me to wear his jersey, he dosent have a girlfriend and his friends who are girls get to wear it. I wanted to but i didnt cuz my boyfriend doesnt want me 2 and i think i shouldnt have either. But i catch this guy looking at me alot, and i have to admit, if i were single id prolly date him. But i want to know if theres anyway i could try to b friends with ths very hot guy and not get my man jealous (he knows i love him and i dont wanna leave him)..and if this is like an obvious sign that he likes me.
A lot of people seem to worry about this. People get jealous. It's just a fact of life. But if you can trust yourself not to do anything that your boyfriend would consider cheating (and no, a hug, or maybe even a kiss on the cheek, is NOT cheating) then you should definitely expand your friendships. If your boyfriend starts to get jealous in a threatening manner, then he's probably controlling you a little. If you can get him to understand there is NOTHING going on between you and any other guy, that's good. If you can't, he needs to learn that you can have several platonic relationships with the opposite sex without any interference in your love life.
In short, go for it. If your boyfriend throws a tantrum for no apparent reason, smack him around a little or something.
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Hello all,I'm new to this site and I need advice so I'm hoping you guys on here can be helpful. Here is my story..
Me and this girl (I'll call her Mallory) have been talking for about a month now. She asked me to go with her to her homecoming dance next weekend (we attend different schools). Well,I told her yeah until I found out who was gonna be there. This guy I have alot of beef with will be there,and I know all he's gonna do is start mess and try to get me to fight him. I'm not gonna fight him at the Homecoming dance because I don't wanna get arrested plus that'll just make both of us look low life. Besides that,she goes to a private school which means alot of preppy people will be there. All in all,I really don't want to go,but I already told her yes. What should I do?
You're going, mang. Hands down. Now if this guy doesn't have the sense to step off you have the opportunity to show to this girl that you are the bigger man. If he comes fists a flying don't even lift a finger. Believe me, people will notice this going on and form a circle. Someone will break through and stop it; they always do. And since it's a private school the guy should get one hell of a punishment.
There's no need to back down from going because of one guy.
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I really like my best friend... We've been best friends for almost 10 years.... I don't know if she likes me though... i don't wanna look weird.... and i don't wanna ruin our freindship. What should i do?
If you truly are friends, then presenting "the question" couldn't hurt your relationship. If she turns you down it's not like she'll suddenly decide that's all you wanted and then stay away from you. If you've been getting along great for 10 years then you would make a great couple...there would be no awkward surprises. You already know everything about her. Take this scenario with a new date:
You: "I got us a table reserved at the BBQ place."
Her: "I'm vegetarian."
You: "DAMN IT" *runs off crying*
See? That wouldn't happen.
Even if you do break up after a while, there is not much of a chance you'll stay away from each other. You would most likely realize "this isn't working" and just go back to the way you are now.
In short, no, it can't hurt, it can only help. Have fun with that.
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your a guy so you can answer this....
my boyfriend and i got into a fight last nite and he said i am a bitch and i need to grow up. If you were in his position how would you want me to grow up.... i think i am fine the way i am. I don't plan on changing for someone that calls me a bitch and a slut in one day. but i just want to know. Thanks
-single and sad-
If you don't plan to change, you don't need to worry about it. Anyone who resorts to name calling is not your ideal mate. Most likely the one who needs to grow up is him. If you think you are fine the way you are, then you are right. You should never have to change yourself to appease your significant other. Find one who loves you for what you are. Then you'll know your heart is in the right place.
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Whoo, it's another question suspiously similar to every other question asked here, but is getting asked here because the person who is asking it thinks that their situation is somehow inherently special and different from everyone else's.
So, still want to help me?
Ok. I've been friends with this guy (I shall refer to him as... um... Blarg) for about 3 years total. (I am in 9th grade, as is he.) I started liking Blarg about 2 1/2 years ago, and I've told him I like him, abeit via other people. I *suspect* that he likes me "as more than a friend" (I DESPISE that phrase but it will have to do), in fact I'm nearly positive, but recently something happened at his birthday party that made me wonder.
He invited me to his party (I was the only girl he invited) and most of the party was taking place at an arcade. The party guests and Blarg stayed at his house for about half an hour before getting in the car to ride to the arcade, where he was continually teased about liking me, and I about liking him. We had to sit next to each other in the car on the way there for space reasons, to the great amusement of the other partygoers in the car. We were sitting in the car for about 10 minutes or so because his parents were still in the house, and we were getting teased unmercifully. Finally Blarg says, "I don't like ***** (me) as a girlfriend, ok?" I was a tad bit startled, and since then I've been wondering if he said what he meant or if it was just to get the other people off his back. I did ask one of my friends about it and she thought he just said it to get them to shut up, but I decided to bug the entire internet because you're all so special. :P
Never judge how a guy acts when he is with his friends. The majority of us can turn into real mean people when with a certain group of people. This is especially true before you even start dating. If after you date for say, oh, 6 months, and he still acts the same, then you need to bring that up when you're alone. If he takes your side when with a group of friends, you know he's a good catch.
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I am going to start fencing because our university has a fencing club and I have always been interested in sowrd play so it is a logical decision. At any rate, my question is this. Should I start with an epee, a foil, or a saber?
A foil is best as a start. It is solely a piercing weapon, and it is much easier to focus on one type of attack at a time than trying to learn a combination of piercing and slashing at the same time. Of course, if you'd rather learn slashing instead of piercing a foil would not be your weapon of choice.
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I'm just wondering, what are you peoples' favorite DDR songs? I like B4U, End of the Century, and Burning Heat.
Not bad choices, but I prefer the tracks by the God of all DDR music, TaQ. Radical Faith would be my favorite.
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what are you guys opion of christians and other sprital stuff???>??
Christianity, as well as any other religion, is fine by me if taken in small dozes. When you get to the extreme end of it, what with the "REPENT SINNAHS, OR BURN FOREVAH IN DAH FIYAHS OF HELL!!!!" then it starts to annoy the hell out of me.
I think there should have been an 11th commandment...."Thou Shalt Keep Thy Religion To Thyself."
And when businesses put up bible verses and whatnot on their bulletin boards, I don't think that's right either. Do you think it would be tolerated as much if it were a quote from say, the Qur'an?
Anyone who tries to convert me or tell me how "JEEBUS SAVED ME" is filed under "Ingore". If you're a religious nut that's fine and dandy, but leave the rest of us the hell alone.
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Okay here's my problem...I slept with my best friend, but he doesn't remember, and now I might be pregnant. Maybe I should explain...About a month & a half ago, my best friend/roommate and I went to a party and when we got home we kinda started making out (we had both been drinking). When he said he something that he really needed to tell me, and said that he was in love with me. It was so sweet and we ended up sleeping together. The next morning I woke up before him and cooked breakfast for him. But when he woke up, he was really confused, and he said he couldn't remember how he got home, and he really didn't remember anything since the beginning of the party the night before. I was freaking out and I didn't say anything about what happened between us. We later found out that someone had put something in the drinks at the party and a bunch of people couldn't remember stuff. I had decided that I wasn't going to tell him about out night together because it would be to weird. Then I didn't get my period this month, so now I'm really freaking out. I know I need to tell him but I don't know how. Then to make matters worse, I was trying to tell him yesterday, and he said that he wanted to tell me something (I thought he was gonna say he loved me) and he said that he was still a virgin and he was saving himself for the person that he was gonna spend the rest of his life with. I didn't think it was possible to feel any worse. I'm 22 and he's 20.
Can anyone help me please? I don't know what to do...
Well obviously the guy's gotta know. Just because he was too messed up to remember (or is really good at faking it) doesn't make him any less the father. Judging from the situation it is possible for him not to remember....but it also just sounds like a classic case of "I bet if I say I love her when she's drunk she'll do me."
Whenever you tell him, I owe you $20 if he DOESN'T say "We had sex, and I don't remember? Hmm.....was it good?"
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Theres this girl in my class. I really like her, but shes usually not the type i would go after. Shes really hyper all the time and always going after the "bad boys". She hangs around me a lot before class, and even has a pet name for me. She keeps asking me when am i going to take her out to go driving. Is she just being nice or does she really like me? I'm not the bad boy type, thats why this is puzzling me.
Believe it or not, every relationship you have with a girl does not have to be a romantic one. So what if you're not exactly her type? That just means she won't invite you to a street race or a fight night.
Go drive around with her. Don't act any different than usual. If you try to act like someone you're not, even the slightest bit, that's how she'll perceive you. If you try to act like a "bad boy" she'll ask you to do things like one.
It's nice to just to have a casual friend of the opposite sex. Someone you could put an arm around and watch a movie with and it would mean nothing. Those kinds of relationships are the ones you're going to remember. (Aside from that one where you went out with a psycho freak and you're reminded of it every time you look at your missing left toe so she could "always be with a part of you." *shudder*)
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My cousin lives far away and I get to see her like maybe two months a year well the last time I saw her she said that she has done to many things for God to love her and so she has became an atheist. I don't know what to do except pray but I feel like I need to do more for her. Every time I ask a question on this website no one gives me good answers that I can relate to so please don't let me down!
Let me tell you from the point of an athiest: There's nothing we hate more than for others to try to convert us! People become athiests for a reason. It's not like we've never heard anyone talk about God. (In most of our opinions, we hear it WAY too much.) If your cousin is anything like me, she'll be nothing more than annoyed if you try to "scare the fire of hell" into her. Or if you tell her you're praying for her. Trust us; we don't care.
Leave it be. People like me who haven't even the slightest worry about whether or not God exists, DON'T want to hear it.
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Ive started at a new school last week on september 8(im a freshman)in my old school i was the type of girl who hung out with guys alot and guys were always talking to me but here they dont ive only talked to like 3 guys that are in my classes and we dont evan talk in the halls!all im asking is that ive only been there for 5 days eventually when things start to like flowing better(cuz were all a lil confused still)do guys start talking to people more?
You're a freshman. That's the year when everyone your age is walking down the hall simultaneously thinking the same thing..."OMG I HOPE I DON'T GET RAPED AND KILLED BY AN UPPERCLASSMAN." Which pretty much went out in the 80's. (Or did it? Hahaha) Anyway, if you expect true friendship, love, or wild hott sex with strangers to occur in the first week, you have a lot to learn. Wait til you're a junior or senior, then random sex with strangers happens ALL the time. (Not Guaranteed.)
Just lay back and let the world rotate for a few weeks. If "those guys" act anything like me you will notice them becoming more laid-back. And then if they're really like me, they'll make comments that offend the teacher and make everyone else laugh.
Just try to be somewhat outgoing, but not too overbearing. People will warm up; they always do.
If all else fails take off your shirt. That helps people relax.
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