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Sry this is so long...ill rate high.
I have a boyfriend that ive had for awhile now, like a year and then some. But lately ive been wanting to hang out with some other guys just for the fun of it. But i really love my boyfriend and i dont want to do anything to hurt him and i dont want to cheat. There is this one senior that i really like and hes in a couple of my classes. (im a sophmore btw) I want to get to know him better. He asked me if i wanted to come hang out with a couple of his friends a few times and i said i didnt know if my boyfriends gonna b ok with it. Then a few days ago before a football game he asked me to wear his jersey, he dosent have a girlfriend and his friends who are girls get to wear it. I wanted to but i didnt cuz my boyfriend doesnt want me 2 and i think i shouldnt have either. But i catch this guy looking at me alot, and i have to admit, if i were single id prolly date him. But i want to know if theres anyway i could try to b friends with ths very hot guy and not get my man jealous (he knows i love him and i dont wanna leave him)..and if this is like an obvious sign that he likes me.
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I've come to the conclusion that you're an idiot with a Shift key deficency. You've wasted 10 seconds of my life.
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A lot of people seem to worry about this. People get jealous. It's just a fact of life. But if you can trust yourself not to do anything that your boyfriend would consider cheating (and no, a hug, or maybe even a kiss on the cheek, is NOT cheating) then you should definitely expand your friendships. If your boyfriend starts to get jealous in a threatening manner, then he's probably controlling you a little. If you can get him to understand there is NOTHING going on between you and any other guy, that's good. If you can't, he needs to learn that you can have several platonic relationships with the opposite sex without any interference in your love life.
In short, go for it. If your boyfriend throws a tantrum for no apparent reason, smack him around a little or something.
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I think that maybe you and your bf should take a small break. You know? Get to know some more people and you could chyll with that hot senior! Lifes too short for you 2 have 2 be stuck with someone. :)
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guys no matter what get jealous...even if they are all like "i know you love me baby i wont get jealous" yeah he will get jealous and lash out at you...and the thing is your not just gonna be pursueing a friendship wiht this guy, you already said you would date him if you could and you have feelings of badness when he asks too hang out with him cus u have a bf...i dont think it is possible to be friends with this guy wihtout gettin ur self in trouble with ur boyfriend no matter how secure your guyses relation is with each other...and yes no doubt the football player has his eye on you and likes you
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You need to lay down the law with this "very hot guy." Tell him that you are flattered, that if you were single, you would go out with him, but right now you have a boyfriend, and it just isn't gonna happen.
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