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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

mi friend is goin out w/ dis grrl and he is in LOVE! w/ err and dis 1 dude is tryin 2 break dem up
and mi friend dont no wat 2 do wat shood i tell him? he reeli like err!!!!

if she loves him then they wont break up but i kno how that is and its probably hard for your friend.and that guy needs to stop trying to break them up... ii need more info to answer you better! sry x0

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will u suck my big ass dick*** i love ur tits!!!

Wtf?

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i am a 13/f and ive been haveing sex with the rellie oht guy with a big ass dick for about a month now and every time we had sex he never used a condom and im positive he cummed in my vagina . because he takes it out and like gets me to lick it and liek puts it back in there with the cum on it . i dont care if i get pregnate because the sex is soooo good ! but i think i am. becasue i took preg. test n 10 f them said yes . do u know n e clinics. i told my mom n she gave me a hug . she dont care as long as im gettin nice big cock !

o0 wow ! i think that you would care if your pregnant or not and i dont know how your mom doesnt care.. dude thats messed up but be careful tho x0

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well my boy friend always asks other people if i like him and i dont know what to do because i tell him all the time i love him and thats retarded! i hate when he does that but i will always love him1

if he always asks other people then you might not show that you really love him. show him and tell him that you do so he doesnt ask everyone else! x0

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Thanks but see he doesnt flirt wht her she does it he recently told me that she was doing it and i asked him not to tlak to her and that is why im so uupset..... i dont know what to do or say to him do i like scream at him and ask him why he didint tell me and why he went behind my back or do i just drop it??

okay well dont scream at him because its really not his fault that she likes him so i think you should tell her to stop and to get her own boyfriend and stop trying to steal yours.. she might be mad but i guess she just doesnt get it. you could ask him nicely to tell you the next time they talk but the more she knows it bothers you the more she is gonna do it so pretend that you kinda dont care and hopefully you would forgett about it! x0

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My best guy friend (tom) has a girlfriend. His best guy (jake)friend likes me. I like my best guy friend (tom). Should I wait for tom to break up with his girlfriend or should I go ut with jake?
-Confused

dont wait for tom go out with jake because you might end up liking him and forget about tom. x0

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hey. i went out with this guy for almost a year and then he dumped me, and for some reason i never asked him why. this happened a couple months ago, and we never really talked much after that, we barely said hi in the halls. yesterday, i realized that i still like him, more than i want to, in a way. i was online yesterday, and a friend who knows that i like him talked me into iming him, and i did. it wasnt really awkward, it felt good that we were talking. i'm not sure if i would go out with him again, but i dont think he would go out with me if i wanted to. we're both single, and i dont know what to do. he asked me if i had a bf, and my friend said that it was a signal, but then he said he liked being single. i dont really know what to think and what i want. but i do know that i wish i were friends, good friends, with him again, liek before we went out. please help me.

talk to him online more and then just ask him why he broke up with you! but maybe you should try moving on or if not then keep talking to him way more.

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im so upset b/c she likes him and will do anyhting is allways flirting wiht him .... and i asked him not to tlak to her

thats rude of her tho dont let her take him away from you.. she needs to back off! but when you see them flirting just interupt her and like give him a bigg hug and start talking to him! x0

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alright this is totaly getting to me and idk what to do ....... last night i called my guy and he was like well i cant talk now can i call you back ... and then last night he called and we were talking and he never really said anyhing .... well then this moreing i called my friend and she was like yeah last night i talked to you boyfreind and his freind and i was like wait what time and then she said and it happend to be after i called him and b/4 he called me and he knows how much ( oh yeah they talked on the phone) much i dont like him tlaking to her and then this moring after i found out that they were talking he wa slike oh he was like i didnt know you wanted to know and i dont think he was ever gunna tell me and now he is trying to figure out wiht is rong with me and he isjust SO STUPID... idont what to do im so tired of crying please help and dont say break up wiht him ... PLEASE

well why do you hate when they talk on the phone? its not biggy! but he shouldnt just get off the phone wiht you to talk to her cuz thats rude but listen just dont worry about it so much and just know that he likes you and that nothing bad will happen. maybe you should tell him how you feel or tell her how you feel. x0

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my gerbil died?? what shall i do??

have funeral for it and barry it in your backyard! you could buy another one! x0

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OMG i just did sum really bad!! well thiz guy I liked 4 about a year told muh friend he likes me toO n thats only kuzz she told him I liked him alot but still I know he dun like me kuzz he ignores me n he dun even wanna talk 2 me real life OR ON THE INTERNET so wtf anyways I IM him n told him i dun like him n that muh friend was just playing with him n that it waz long time ago what should i do ((HE said he likes me 2))

well if he ignores you at school or if he doesnt talk to you he might be shy .. sometimes when ppl like you or you ike them they start to ignore you for some reason next time when you see him at school just be like heyy how come you wont talk to me grr dont be too serious about it but you shouldnt of told him that you didnt like him give him some time he will start talking to you . x0

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where can i get ur picture????

From me, duh.

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14/f , today me and my boyfriend madeout for the first time today. it was his first time ever to makeout, but not mine at all. the problem is- he wasnt that great at it, and i didnt really know what to do :x I know its not that big of a deal but its kinda of a turn off.. what do you sugest i do? thanks :)

well its his first time .. think how ur first time was.. keep making out until he gets better x0

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I am an 8th grader and my boyfriend is a 7th grader. I really like him but i want to know what i should do when i go to high school and my boyfriend is still in middle school. Should i break up with him or should i keep the relationship and see him on the weekends?

who cares if hes a year younger.. if you both like each other then stay together when ur in highschool he will be there in a year so its fine! x0

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okay, well me and this guy
were really good friends. well
then we became closer and closer and we
really liked eachother. then we wernt
goin out we were more like freinds with benafits...then we started going out
but after like a few weeks we decided we
liked being frends with benafits better,
well the next day at school i seen him all
over this other girl and he didnt even
talk to me till i waved at him then he just
said hi. i was so mad i just didnt even want
to talk to him anymore so we kinda quit
calling eachother. we quit talking for
like a month and i really really miss him!
i dont know what to do! i cant call him
cause it would be like we havnt been
talking then all of a sudden i call him
but i dont know! i really really need help

aw thats sad.. well if you dont want to call him can you talk to him online? if he doesnt have aim or something then i think that you should talk to him at school or like write him a note and tell him that you miss him and that you dont want to stop being friends ! so talk to him so you guys can become closer again x0

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i know this is a stupid question, but what kind of music is emo?

Emo means emotional but there is no such thing as "emo" music. It's basiclly rock.

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what is the first thing u do when you have your period.... what do u do?

um get a pad and tell ur mom !

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This girl and i have been realy good freinds since the day we met(she was in 7th and I in 8th). last year we started liking eachother and then we ended up dating for like a week or two and then she ended up moving to a town 45 minutes away so we stopped dating. we sorta lost contact for a little but but then reconnected and picked up our friendship where it left off. well she then again moved all the way to texas(i live in california) and we lost contact all together for a while. Once again we reconnected and started talking more and soon she moved back to the town 45 minutes away from me. now that she lives there agian weve been talking almost every day on the phone or online and we even got to see eachother the other weekend for the first time since the summer. We both want to see eachother more and since the other weekend old feelings have arrisen and we both REALLY like eachother again(i havent stopped thinking about her since). we both want to date but the distance seems sumwhat of a setback since she doesnt drive because shes not old enough and i dont either because im busy to get my license. we both really care about eachother and want to be with eachother, and im there 100% to making the relationship work if she commits knowing that the distance will be a setback to seeing eachother regularly. should we try dating a see what happens? would a long( but realatively short) distance relationship between us work? i would greatly appreciate your help and advice.

you both really like each other so i think that you guys should try dating!! it wont hurt! wen you both r able to drive then you can see each other a l0t more but for now you can continute talking on the phone and online a lot. im sure nothing can go wrong in your realationship and if something does you both can still be friends and you both r still going to like each other. x0

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13/f.....this guy I used to like likes me currently. All of my friends are telling him to ask me out, and every day he gets closer and closer to asking me out. I feel bad for him, because nobody likes him. He recently got hit HARD...long story...but I reaaaallllyyy dont want to go out w/ him! I told my friends that, but they tell him I like him and I would say yes! I wouldnt-of course! He thinks I like him no matter what I say! Help?

your friends are being rude.. tell them to stop and its yur life and you can like who ever you want. i think that you should tell him how you feel and that you dont like him before he asks you out and so he doesnt get hurt. x0

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ok i really like this guy and i CANT get him out of my head... what should i do? He doesnt really go to the same school anymore because my mom took me out. plz help! i rate.
-me

if you have his number then call him and ask him to go to the movies with you and some friends! x0

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