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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

I'm sixteen years old, and I'm in a long distance relationship. (I'm a girl.) I mean long distance. I used to live in Mississippi, but my parents moved to California about a year ago. I met this guy through my sister, they were really good friends when we lived there, and we completely hit it off. We've been together for a year now, and I fly out there every chance I get. I mean things were serious, he has bought me a ring and everything, and we always talked about how we were gonna get married, how many children we'd have, etc. Lately, things have been kind of rough. He gets so angry with me about everything I say, and it gets scary. I admit, sometimes I do bring it on myself, but he always gets entirely too pissed. Tonight, I was talking to him about my friend, and he kept talking about how ugly and disgusting she is, and I asked him if when we broke up, he said that same stuff about me. He got completely pissed off, said I was fucking someone out here, and that I was a liar, and all I ever do is start shit with him. Well, we broke up. I'm feeling really fucking alone and empty right now. I just need to know how to feel better.. I can't stop thinking about it and I'm going insane. I want him back so fucking badly, he's my best fucking friend in the whole world and I really, really, REALLY am hurting. I thought we would make up, so I didn't take it seriously, and then his mom made him get off the phone, and I just knew it was over. I was crying really badly, and I told him and I hated him and I wished that he was dead. I regret it so fucking much, but he's not gonna care. Please, just give me some advice on how to get over him, or get him back and stop pissing him off, or something.

he sounds like an asshole sometimes but if you really like him try talking to him one more time and see if that will help. he should be apologizing to you not you saying sorry but if you want to make things better between you 2 then talk to him and tell him how you feel! x0

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my dad and my stepmom are havin a baby. should i feel sad or happy

its acaully up to you.. do you like ur stepmom? you should be happy but whatever you want.. x0

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i like this guy and he is like so cute!!!! what do i do? also what do i say if he doesnt like me!!


from ?????

start talking to him!! get to know him better! im sure he would like you but if he doesnt it's fine theres a l0t more cute guys! x0

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my b/f wants 2 make out in a few days.. how do you make out again cuz i havent made out in 3 years?

l0l well there really isnt any tips.. close your eyes and open your mouth and go with the flow! follow his lead and you wont do it wrong! x0

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Hello! My boyfriend is thinking about getting his penis pierced, and I was just wondering how long it will take until we will be able to have sex? Also, if anyone has had it done, how bad does it hurt? Thanks!!

dont let him.. i think that thats kinda retarted and it wuld hurt like a bitch! and when u guys have sex he would have to take it out b/c it would hurt! l0l x0

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where online can i find job offerings? Cuz my moms friends lost her job and i want to help her out.. is there any websites?

im not exacly sure but maybe you could search on google for now maybe you can try to get her an application at like a resturant or something until she finds something better! sry not much help! x0

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OK, im 15, and I am sexually active. OK, dont lecture me about it I know its wrong. Trust me, I get enough of it from my friends. But I accidently cummed on my favorite shirt.... dont ask... and my mom keeps asking why i dont wear it anymore. I dont know how to get it off... and I cant tell her. And the laundry guy only accepts from 18 yr olds and older. What should I do?


l0l well you can tell her its too small or you can try washing in while she is gone.. leave it in hot water 0r you can try using oxy clean or some stain remover! x0

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ughhh
my boyfriend smokes pot and i HATE it...i have really strong feelings about it b.c of certain things from my family // well i want him to stop and he promised me he would, he did it once and i wasnt so mad then he did it at this party that i went to! i dont want him to think im trying to control his life i just dont want to associate with people who do pot and i dont like to see him hurting himself like that...im scared to talk to him about it b.c i dont have enough strenght after everything that happened in my family...well, what can i do - leave your screen name for AIM if possible !

hOlLisTeRxBaBeo9 ... dont be scared t0 taLk to him hes ur boyfriend and he will understand! i kno that you really want him to stop and try to help him! x0

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does photobucket eventually delete your pitures or your account after a certain amount of time if you dont pay?

i have photobucket and they just edit ur pictures

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My boyfriend treats me more like a friend. He says he loves me but he won't hold hands with me or kiss me or touch me at all. I know not everyone likes that stuff, but I just feel like I'm doing something wrong. I'm embarassed to talk about it. What should I say? Do you think I might offend him?

he probably likes you but he might be shy and dont me embarassed to talk to him about it. its better for him to know how you feel then for you to keep feeling like this. you should make the first move tho! x0

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Okay my question I had posted was

Okay... i am 14.. and I was just wondering how old do people think is TOO OLD??

and I didn't mean.. "am i too old" i meant how old is too old for me too go out with.. so if u answered my last question wrong I am sorry I didn't state my question clearly and if u wanna answer again.. just do it!!

n0t any older then 16! x0

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Is it true that your boobs stop growing 2 years after you got your period?

No.

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Okay well there was this guy I use to like. He was nice and cute ect.. well I was sick one day at school and my best friend (his ex) was like "will you go out with Casia?? she likes you alot" and he was like i dont know.. then she was like "please!! for me?" and he was like sure. When she told me that I was like wow I go out with him?!? then I was like wait.. for you??? I dont want to go out with him because hes only doing it for her.. am I doing the right thing??

ask him if he is really doing this for her or if he really does like you and make him tell you the truth if he is then break up with him because you can find some1 else! x0

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okay, me and this guy, robbie, started talking as friends at the beginning of the year, okay, so we became pretty good friends too! but then, my teacher permanatly seperated us because we talked too much! and that was the only class i had with him because he is a senior and im a freshman. so, my sister just came to my school, and is becoming friends with him, and she is always telling him something embarassing about me, or something like.. " becky said you look bad today " you kno? anything that will make him not like me. and so, he completly stopped talking to me, and it really sucks because i had started to like him. and now she came home today and was like.. " hey becky, robbie thinks you hate him!" and i want to yell at her because its her fault.. but i feel bad.. i dont know what to do!! please dont delete.. i need help soo bad!!

dude what an evil b*tch! l0l sry but tell him how you feel and tell him the truth because older sibling would do anything to embarasse you l0l but tell him the truth and he will understand! x0

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ok ive had a crush on this guy since school started and we were working on a project togetherand he is always trying to comfort me when im crying and crap.but he was ticking me off so i freaked out and said why do you hate me soo much and he said i dont hate you im tying to help you improve and ive had some bad runin with guys and i wasnt having a good day and having a lot of memories and i toatally freaked out and said you dont want to help me you just want to hurt me.h thinks im a toatal freak what can i do to make him like me again?

tell him whats going on. tell him you had a really bad day and that you are really sorry and that you just couldnt take it anymore and you just flipped out. if he likes you then he will defenetly give you another chance. x0

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My friend is mad at me but I don't know why. She got mad because I got back together with my boyfriend that I broke up with and she said this is all out of hand. Everytime she gets mad and tells me why she is mad I try and solve it and I end up sayign in the end that I am really sorry and I love you so much I don't want anything to come in between our relationship. Each time I say that she really seems not to care and she says you always say that junk. I asked her why she was mad at me and she just said I am okay and that's just to bad. I don't understand I DID NOT do anything to her at all. I want us to still be friends and we get in a lot of fights like maybe 2 or 3 a month and she starts mostly all of them actually all of them. I don't know if it is worth keeping the relationship or not I really want to but you know it might be for the best?? Help!

i hate ppl like that. they always pick stupid arguments over the gayest shit l0l sry! but anyways tell her that it bugs you and that you still wanna be friends with her. ppl like her arent gonna change tho not to be rude or anything but if this always happens then i think you might wanna take a lil break from her and then later on try being friends with her and see if she changes. x0

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there is this guy...he calls me at least twice a day and he always flirts with me says my friends but everytime some1 goes up to him and askes if he likes me he says no...i dont really understand him...i like him a lot and i dont know if i should tell him or if i sould just keep it to myself because im afraid he will be scared off if i tell him...i could use help
i rate high...thanx

he is probably shy and he only might be saying that because he might think that you dont like him. tell him how you feel and im sure he feels the same way! tell him b4 its too late! x0

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if i made out with a girl on a dare... does that make me a lesbian????

No.

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me and my boo have been going out for 2 weeks we love each other alot and we really wanna make out!!
but how do i?

please help

let him make the first move but if u never done it before its no biggy! yu rele cant mess up! x0

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How can I get my breasts to be bigger without implants. 14/F.

Padded bra.

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