Ok well I'm 15/F and really shy. I mean when people hear me speak they're like, "ohmygawd I've never heard her speak before" and I've been at this school for like, a year and a half.
I've never had a boyfriend or anything and I can honestly say that more than half of my year at school are in a relationship and it makes me sad 'cos I'm not one of them. Not that I want a boyfriend just 'cos everyone else has one or anything. :|
I'm ugly but I know not all guys go for looks.. but I'm so shy that even boys who go for personality aren't gonna go for me 'cos I don't talk.. I CAN'T. I must have something wrong with me 'cos when people I don't know very well speak to me I feel physically sick and my mind goes blank and stuff, it's scary :S
Anyway, how can I kindof be more confident and stuff? 'Cos I'm probably gonna be single for like, ever, if I keep being all shy and stupid.
thanks
Don't worry about guys. If you are looking for a boyfriend because you feel left out, you are looking for one for all the wrong reasons. Love comes to those who wait. So be patient. Try to overcome your fear by pretending the people you are talking to are like people really close to you like your parents for example. Act around them as if you have known them forever.
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what happens...when yu want a boyfrend but no one seems to like yu? i need help
what can i do?
Nothing happens, obviously. There isn't much you can do if you don't have a boyfriend. All I can tell you is to talk to guys and hopefully someone will end up liking you. Just be yourself.
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my boyfriend told me, i have the curiousity of a cat but the heart of a saint.
can someone translate it? i have no idea what it means, please. (: thanks loves.
It means you think alot and are nosey about things but you would never do anything bad!
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The other evening i was out with some mates and I pulled a very good mate of mine who I like(for the sake of this we shall call him Olivier). After he had left I sent him a text saying it wasnt just a drunk thing for me, because it wasnt, and he said it wasnt for him either.
I saw him today with his sister and we went to see a film and we were holding hands and stuff, but later he was so distant until i grabbed his hand and smiled at him and he brightened up and was more affectionate.
So thats all great, however...
- Olivier is best mates with my Ex who we shall call turtle and that is how i met turtle.
- One of Oliviers and my good mates is really into him and he is into her
-He goes to uni in portsmouth wheras I live in London (100 miles away)
Do you think this will or could affect if anything could happen? And what should I do?
Well since you guys live a distance away, how are you going to see him often? Also, don't you think your friend would get mad since she likes Oliver too. It seems he likes you, but he also likes the other girl, so what can you really do about this all?
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i like this lad, Robert, im madly in love with him and hes all i think about! The problem is we live so far apart. im in kent and hes in nottingham which is quite a distance apart. he knows i love him and tells me he loves me to and when he does i cry. i dont know what to do, it makes me feel so down i cry every night about him. i really need advice on this. i dont want anyone to tell me to move on because ive heard it all before but can any one else help me out? please its getting me down :(
I'm sorry but what can you do about it? Unless you can find some way to see him as much as possible, then the only thing you can do is wait until you are old enough to move and then move closer to him. Talk to him on the phone, write him letters, try to visit him.
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ok my boyfriend broke up with me about 2 weeks ago and i just now found out why he told me that he heard that i cheated on him but i didnt. now i want to go back out with him. i just cant stop thinking about him. its like i feel like im in love. but then i found out he's going out with this girl. now i feel my heart breaking cuz his friend told me that we're just friends nuthin more. what should i do?
There isn't a lot you can do about the situation. If he really loved you like you say you love him, then just because he heard that you cheated on him he wouldn't break up with you. Also, it doesn't seem like he is all that upset if he has another girlfriend so soon. You can try talking to him explaining that you would never do that to him. If that doesn't work, then you'll have to move on, sorry.
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Hi. I like this girl alot and she wont realize how much we are meant to be. Yes i am only in highschool but i know she is right. I told her several times but she just keeps saying not now or i cant see you as more. I need to know how i can tell her that we are meant to be. Please help.
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There isn't anything you can do. You tried telling her and she tells you she's not interested. Give her some time. If you guys are meant to be, God will find a way for you two to be together.
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if you have just a regular xanga plan can you still add pictures.. or do you have to have primumen (spl?)
You need to have premium unless you have the URL to the pictures. I would reccomend premium if you are thinking about buying it.
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OMG I just had the worst night ever at my job. Well I work in a large superstore in the clothing department. This lady wanted someone in the toy section to help her take down a game on the top shelf. I told her I'd help find someone from that department to assist her. Well I couldnt find anyone and then she started to get really mad at me. I was under a lot of pressure so I phoned the manager of the store. He said that no one showed up for work in the toy department that night, so no one could help her. Then I told him how mad she was and then he got mad at me and said "what what does she expect us to do??" and then I tried to calm him down and then he said he would send someone to help her. Well finally someone came down to help her but I'm really worried that I'll be in trouble for what I did. I didn't know what else to do, so I felt phoning the manager was the only option I have. Also, I have to be at work tomorrow and I'm terrified the store manager is going to complain about me to my supervisor. Does anyone have any advice? And do you think I'm in a lot of trouble?
Why would you get in trouble, it isn't your fault that the person that works in the toy department wasn't there and the lady you were helping was in a bad mood. Don't be scared, you did nothing wrong. If anything, phoning the manager was a good idea (in my opinion).
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how do i know if my love life is falling apart?
If you are asking this question. Obviously you are having doubts if you are asking how to know if your love life is falling apart. If you don't feel the same about your partner, if you find interest in other people, if you find yourself irritable around them, you don't want to spend time with them, you can't see them in your future.
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Lately when I have been going to pee, which seems to be more and more often, it hurts and I can't control it. I'm not sure what it is, but if you help me out, I'll rate high!
Maybe you have a urinary tract infection. Try drinking cranberry juice and see if it gets better. If it doesn't, go to the doctors.
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Me: bye baby io lkove you
Her: later
Me: ...?
Her: bye?
Me: i said i love yiou
Her): you too
Me: :-\
Is this girl still into me? Is she giving up on me or what?
I need to know because my heart can't take it anymore
Sorry but it doesn't seem like that, especially if she still didn't get the hint after you said ...?. Ask her if she still likes you and whatever else you guys need to sort out.
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ok, bad question...
i am going for my permit on friday, and i have driven once before, but it was in a cemetery, so it was slow...
is driving as hard as it seems?
and when i go for my test, what are good ways to be, not nervous, please dont say "confidense!" lol, i dont have any when it comes to this.
Driving isn't as hard as it seems. The only thing that might be hard getting your permit is remember all the rules of the road and the road signs. Driving, itself isn't hard at all. Oh, and about the whole good ways not to be nervous, if you don't go into a project with confidence, you definitely won't do well.
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If you aren't experianced I don't know if you want to read this.
My bf and I have been together for 1 year and 6 months and have been sexual active together for about 4 months.
Well he came over last night and we were fooling around and started having sex. Everything was going fine but then he started getting rough. It was getting to be wayyy too much for me so I told him to not be so hard. He didn't listen and just kept at it.
It got bad enough for me to where I broke out in tears and he still didn't slow down.
When he was about to finish off he took it out and cummed all over me adn my sheets. I usually don't have a problem with that but when we were done (or when he was done anyways) he wouldn't let me clean up. I wanted to take a shower so bad but he wouldn't let me. We just layed there and slept which was very uncomfortable for me because it was gross and sticky.
Now I don't know if I can be comfortable around him. He's never done anythign like this before. he always used to listen while we were in bed adn never went too fast or hard. I don't know what got over him. What should I do? 18/f
Since you told him to stop and he kept having sex with you against your will, that's considered rape. You should really have a talk to him about all of this. Maybe he was mad at your for some reason and took it out on you in the bed? That's really sick and demanding of him that he wouldn't even let you take a shower. Tell him he needs to clean up his act. He shouldn't be treating you like that.
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I'm trying to get over this one guy that I used to really like, but whenever I try to move on to someone different he keeps on becoming more appealing to me. As if he wont let me forget about him. Should I confront him about how I feel or continue to look for someone new?
Well if you really like him, why would you try to not like him. You can't help who you like and you're not suppose to. I would tell him how you feel, you'll feel ALOT better.
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ok, this is long, this includes 3 guys, 1 the guy i love, jon, 2, rob a past love of mine we went through alot, and 3 this guy who said dirty stuff about me, ok , i have not heard from rob in months, we went through alot, cant say what, but he called me, and then the guy who harasses me called me too, the day before rob, i love rob and always will, but i love jon too, and i want the stlker guy to leave me alone, and wesley, jons friend likes me too, how am i supposed to balance all this out?? i don't know what to do please help me!!
Okay, you definitely don't love the guy if you like other people. Take some time and think of who you REALLY like. Tell the stalker to leave you alone and threaten him (tell him you'll tell the cops or something). There isn't a lot you can do about this all.
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It's a fairly simple question (I think) but I need some help! You could say I'm a pretty preppy girl... not like (omg I'm really flippin annoying and too perky and I'm stuck-up!) not that kind of preppy. But, I wear polos, jeans, cute shirts from like... american eagle, aeropostale, abercrombie and fitch etc., sweatpants all that stuff that's so called, "preppy". I also like chucks... converse, whatever you would like to call them! But... some people say that converse don't really go with the whole preppy look.
What do you think? Would it be okay if I got them?
Thanks always, Christine
Well, they are considered more "punk". But, thats only a label. If you really like them, why wouldn't you buy them just because people don't think they go together with the preppy look. Although, I have never seen a prep with converse on!
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Is masturbation biblically wrong? What's your view on it?
Well yeah, it's considered a sexual sin. I think if it makes you happy, then do it. God will forgive you for touching yourself. (Plus, studies have shown it is good for you!)
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i am just wondering because i read this somewhere but what is a g-spot?
The spot inside a girl that allows her to have an orgasm.
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Say a girl and a guy that are dating have sex alot. If one night the girl didn't want to but the guy forced her to, is that still rape? Becuase she's had sex with him before, she just didn't feel like it right then.
If she didn't want to and was FORCED to and specifically told him no, then yeah it is rape. It doesn't matter if they've done it a million times. If he did it against her will it is considered rape.
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