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PLEASE HELP!!
ok, this is long, this includes 3 guys, 1 the guy i love, jon, 2, rob a past love of mine we went through alot, and 3 this guy who said dirty stuff about me, ok , i have not heard from rob in months, we went through alot, cant say what, but he called me, and then the guy who harasses me called me too, the day before rob, i love rob and always will, but i love jon too, and i want the stlker guy to leave me alone, and wesley, jons friend likes me too, how am i supposed to balance all this out?? i don't know what to do please help me!!
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Guy 1 - Well you need to see who you have stronger feeling for: Jon or Rob? Are you willing to break it off with Jon to be with Rob ( if Rob wants to get back together with you.. you'll need to find that out first ) just follow your heart. Would you rather be with Jon.. or Rob?
Guy 2- Like I just said above, who would you rather be with? And are you sure you love Rob as much as you love Jon? Because I can understand why you'll always love Rob and everything I mean you'll love him you know because you do and also because of the fact you guys went through alot together. That'll always mean something to you, whereas you and Jon might have not gone through as much and you might need to give him a chance to be able to go through alot with you.
Guy 3- Okay.. you need to tell this guy to back off. Just explain to him that him saying dirty things about you isn't making you like him anymore and it's upsetting you and he just needs to back off and leave you alone because you aren't interested in him like that.
Guy 4- You need to explain to Jon's friend that you just want to be friends with him. Even if you and Jon weren't dating anymore, it wouldn't be fair to Jon. Friends shouldn't really date friends ex's. =/ Just tell him you want to be friends - nothing more.
I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
P.s. You got too many guys.. dang.. lol
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Okay, you definitely don't love the guy if you like other people. Take some time and think of who you REALLY like. Tell the stalker to leave you alone and threaten him (tell him you'll tell the cops or something). There isn't a lot you can do about this all.
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ok you need to get out of all the drama!! ok if you reallly love jon than you should keep gooing out with him and rob seems like a good friend but keep it as just that i dnt know who else likes you but let them know you arent intrested and get them to leave you alone nad that stolker guy needs to go people like that can get dangerous fast so you should do something! its like a massive knot of wires you just got to get out some wire cutters adn dive in head first! get to cuttin!
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