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I am fifteen years old, female. I am not in any relationship. I have random, strange, out there ideas, im pretty spontaneous. Im a pretty opposite person, meaning i take either one or the other extreme. example relating to this, i will either take a long time to romantically like someone or i will like them really fast. its always one or the other with me, not in the middle. I feel like when i get older im either going to take long to get married or get married spontaneously to a guy that i havent known very long. That will just result in multiple marriages. But to get to the main idea of this, a little while ago it randomly came to me that I WANT TO GET MARRIED, and NOW. I know it sounds stupid, because im young and dum and not even with anybody but the whole idea of it sounds so appealing right now, at a young age. Then when im a bit older like 22, thats the time to party and date to get to know people and few years from that get to know people to find a husband. I just kind of wanted to know about why i feel this way, about other young peoples marriages if its your own or someone you knows' personal experience. (link)
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you feel this way due to ur hormones... when your a teenager you think like that thats y u hear so many ladies who are getting married saying "iv been planning my wedding since i was 15" its natural your at that stage where you want to hurry up and grow up and become an adult then once youv hit 19 youll b thinking naaa i wanna party alittle more before i get married hope this helpped
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k so i just had my period like a couple weeks ago and today it seems like i got my period again. but the blood is brown. i dont know whats going on. if someone could help me out that would be great. also i am sexually active if that would help. (link)
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it could be because its the begining of your period or it could be because its not your period and maybe you and your bf were having sex in an awkward position (like in a car)the night before and he may have hurt you down there.if you think that could be a possibility then i would advise you to try not having sex for a week for 2 but brown blood is normal not a big deal if your still freaking out and ti doesnt stop then i advise you to go see your doctor.hope this helpped and hope the problem gets resolved xoxo
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15/f
so this guy i've been hooking up with is coming over tonight. he's been too impatient to wait until this next week. theres one problem though, i'm on my period. i dont plan on having sex with him either way, but what if he tries to finger me? i'll have to stop him and then i'll seem like a prude. and it would be gross if i just let him.
should i just tell him when he's starting to do that that i cant tonight? and if he keeps asking why should i just tell him i'm on my period?
i know its natural and all of that but still i dont want to turn him off.
please help :( (link)
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well if it was me i would stop him before he does it and just b like not tonight and if he keeps asking why just keep hooking up with him and that couuld make him forget or if that doesnt work just say its a secret in a flirty girly way
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So there's this one and he basically owns my heart and my world. I know that he struggles with depression and I honestly do believe that he's suicidal. We have this thing going on, and I don't mind it when it's going well, I love talking to him and he always makes me feel good about myself. However when it's not going well and he's shutting me out, it hurts like a mother fucker.
I don't think that he's playing games, his family knows about me, he sought me out from day one, he was the first one to say I love you, and this summer he even told my brother that he liked me. Yet I'm on this emotional roller coaster with him and have been since Christmas time. It's like whenever it gets closer to the time that we'll see each other, he wants to push me away. I believe that he's afraid of getting closer with me and perhaps having his heart broken. He thinks that pushing me away is better thing to do, and it always hurts me.
He feels like a failure, like he's failed our relationship. Yet our “relationship” even though it's barely begun has so much potential, and he does as a person too. But he's so used to his dad putting him down, his father really isn't the positive male role model and I don't know how long it's been like that for. He's always put down by his dad and I think that in the end his dad is one of the reasons why he has so many problems with letting people in. That, and his grandmother died when he was 9 years old, he's been like this since for almost 10 years (he's 19 now) and he thinks that he's this big tough guy and can get through it on his own, but he can't... this is going to wind up killing him and I don't know how I'm going to be once his commits suicide.
I want him to know that my intentions aren't to hurt him. I honestly want to be with him, every time I give him his space and I'm close to giving up on him he doesn't want me to, he's right back in my life. This is the only thing that I would change about him as a person, the fact that he does this stuff to me.
He's an amazing person as far as I'm concerned, he just needs to get through this thing. I'm trying to convince him to go to counseling. He went and he was doing really well, he was starting to see the guy that I see in him, instead of just this lame asshole who bluntly sucks.
Do I just give up on him, or try to talk him into going to counseling? I don't really know how to do that, most of my friends are like tell him that he either goes to counseling or he loses you. My family just wants me to give up on him, but in a way I don't blame them... I don't know what do anymore. All I know is that I don't want to get hurt again anymore. Has anyone been in a similar situation? What did you do? What do you think I should do?
I'm seriously praying to God for help in this, and just trying to give him what he says that he wants. (link)
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well i have been in a situation like this before and i do know how it feels. but your either cut out for this or your either not some people cant take the bragging and all the depression and cnt stand it so they leave the person but for me i stayed with the guy and he started to improve..as far as i can tell he needs you.i no it doesnt seem like it but he does..everyone around him hurts him and he hasnt had someone to lean on and turn to..i think you should take it easy and not suffercate him or push im into opening up to you. he needs you to be that person that makes him smile and makes him forget the rest of the world and all those things that hurt him.just always be there for him and oventually with time hell become better but if u think you cant handle it then you should tell him so and just be honest with him.from what i hear he needs you there for him
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I need some unique ideas on ways to ask a girl to prom! Please help ASAP! (link)
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ok im a girl and if it was me id like it to b sweeet maybe you can put a red rose in her desk of locker and have a card ribboned to it asking will you be my date to prom or add in a sweet poem.dont make it too over the top or cheesy or she could get emabressed with all the attention unless shes that sorta girl...or you could take her out to dinner and get a ring box and put a ring in there like a cheap one get down on one knee and ask will you bee my date to prom hehe somethign like that but i still like the rose idea hope this helped
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so i love hooking up and making out with my boyfriend, and the beginning part of the kiss is always great. but then when we get more into it, he stops moving his lips, sticks his tongue into my mouth and swirls it around like a windmill. it is really not pleasant for me...is there anyway to let him know i don't like that without straight-up telling/asking him?? i need help....
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i agree with the other reply haha that was good description lol.but i agree or you can stick you tonge in his mouth before he does it to you or just give him little kisses on the lips as soon as he starts doing it just stop for like a second and kiss him on his lips a few times and then start making out again it could give him the hint
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This is gonna be long and I apologize for that but I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read and answer. Im 21/f and I have been with my girlfriend for over 2 yrs now. Im happy with her and we have an apartment together and dogs so obviously its a serious relationship. The problem is Im still not totally over my ex boyfriend who I broke up with over close to 4 yrs ago.
Let me give a little background. He was like my first true love and he was a great boyfriend. I was like his princess. He loved me more than I could even explain and was always there for me no matter what. When me and him broke up, we were together for over 3 yrs and I broke up with him for another guy. After we broke up we still talked for about 6 months during which I was going back and forth between him and the guy I broke up with him for and throughout that time I did some pretty horrible things to him which has caused us to not even be able to have a friendship.
So now, over 3 yrs after the breakup and about 3 yrs since we have cut all ties from each other I still find myself thinking about him. I dont know if its because I still have feelings or just because he was like my highschool sweetheart and first love or because I can never communicate with him again or what. I saw him the other day when I was on my way home and I looked at him and he looked at me and it just gave me butterflies. I just wonder if he thinks about me and what he thinks and where we would be right now if i never would have broke up with him and I just long for the type of love he had for me. Its kinda like one of those you dont know what you have till its gone type of things. My current girlfriend loves me and I know that, but she doesnt love me the way he did and I dont really think anyone ever will. He would just stare at me in adoration. I was everything to him and I broke his heart. And the weird thing is my girlfriend knows about him because me and her were friends while I was with him and sometimes when were fighting or having a rough patch she will say to me, why dont you go back to cory? she will say that I will never be over him and me and him are perfect for each other. I just wish I could talk to him. I wish I could have a friendship with him. But he made it clear that he doesnt want that and I dont have any way to contact him anyway bc he has a different number now and he deleted him myspace and facebook. And the weird thing is, even if I had the chance to be with him again, I dont think I would. I wouldnt leave my girlfriend for him. So why do I think about him still?
I would just love some opinions or advice. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
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iv been in the exact same situation and it just hurts and you think about him all the time and just wounder what he thinks of and wounder if he still wants you and all that stuff..well you know its been 3 years and he could of changed turned into a completely different person and that guy you love may have disapeared..you still think about it because you miss it and you want that connection back.your gf doesnt treat you the way he did and the way he did made you feel soo special and soo happy and you dont feel that sort of emotions with ur gf.you just need to concentrate on loving ur gf because you said yourrself you to wont get back together so you may aswell put him in your past even though its hard just stop thinking about him and the way he was with you because hes long gone and may have completly changed aswell..i hope this helps
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I'm not sure where this question is supposed to go, but it sort of deals with fitness, I guess lol
anyway
I'm wanting to even out my tan, my arms are noticeably darker than my chest and stomach. I'm not allowed to go to a tanning bed, and laying outside isn't really an option either, because I live in an apartment building. However the sun constantly shines through my window during the day. I was wondering if it was possible obtain an even tan from the sunlight through my window, sunlight is sunlight right? (link)
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if the sunlight will cover you all at once while you lie down then it should give you and even tan
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I'm met him in detention......
when i walked in the room it was like time moved a little slower, just like the movies.he was so beautiful and i couldn't help but stare. he was wearing black, his favorite color, like he always does.
I felt an immediate connection with him. Every time our eyes met in the dead silence it was like a shock of electricity.
he's a freshman I'm a freshman, but of corse, we have no classes together because thats how REALITY works. so when we got to leave i let it go knowing nothing would ever happen.
All i could do was think about him and wonder. You'd think for people in the same class in the same school we'd see each other. A couple of weeks later... i saw him. he was with my friend lisa and she introduced us. He said, " Hey! remember me? from detention?" of corse i did he asked for m number and later that friday evening he texted me we talked until about 11:00 at night.... then he called me. We talked for 7 hours till 6 in the morning. i didn't get any sleep at all but i never felt more rested. i've never loved any body, until that saturday morning i knew i loved him. we talked about everything but usually when im on the Phone with guy all he talks about is sex and i hate that thats why there short conversations.
He was different and thats what i love about him.
we just texted everyday from then on he asked me to go to the movie of my choice and would pay for it as long a went with him he was happy he said. i was pretty sure he liked me back at that point. the day of the movie he wasn't texting back, i got mad at him ignored him a couple of days, i still didn't see him at school so it was pretty easy. but i gave in he told me that his phone was done and he just coudn't i belived him i didn't we didn't have any other way to contact each other besides cells i didn't think to ask! well then shortly after our little reunion my dad took my phone away so we stopped talking un willingly, and i STILL didn't see him in school so what could i do? about 3 weeks after we stopped talking i see him and he's holding hands with a girl. I couldn't believe it then thats how i would see him with his girlfriend.
WELL, i did see him in school sometimes and he would walk me to class even though his class is on the other side of the school but then i just couldn't talk to him after the movie/cell phone thing it was kinda awkward so i didn't know what to say when he came up to me and i'd be like hi, yea, no, bye.
i accepted he had a girlfriend, i liked him to much to try and take away his happiness. they are still going out to this day.
so here's the messed up part... i told this girl VICKY who does talk to him, not his girlfriend, that i like him before she started liking him and in class she brags about how cute he is and today she brought him in the room and i started crying because thats something i tend to do when i get angry instead of fighting i cry! well its been three months since my dad took my phone away in that time me and him stopped taking in that tim i think he kinda has feelings for think vicky girl and in that time ive never stopped thinking about him and trying to think of ways to talk to him in again.
what can i do to make him like me again to stop this nonsense with that girl vicky and how would i go about trying to talk to him again????
i have his house number now he lost his phone i mean he litterally lost it so i have his house number should i call him or talk to him in person and WHAT SHOULD I SAY??? sorry or how ya been?? what?
i really need your help! actual experiences and actual words would hepl me alot!!!
thanks
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ohhh man dads always do this dont they!i remeber my dad was like that.so this boy has a gf but this vicky girl likes him aswell?btw i cry when i get angry too thats wat i do aswell. i think you should just take the risk and tlk to him you like him that much then he should be worth it or other wise youll never know what could of happened. just be yourself be sweet and funny and nice and friendly and all that just be who you are and give him a call explian to him what happened and tell him that youv wanted to explain yourself for ages but couldnt find the right time..tell him that he still owes you movies of you own choice and just find time to talk and hang out with him at school.call him the night before and ask to meet up with him and all that maybe built up your relationship first before going back to going movies and all that..did this help?
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Hello, I'm an 18 year old male. Today, I was in the shower at my local gym when a guy came in to shower as well. he was at the shower tower in front of me. these are communal showers by the way. I have showered in front of him and vice versa for a few days VERY COINCIDENTALLY, not planned at all. i notice that he starts to umm "warm up" when in the shower. he started to give me the eye and he came over to where i was showering and he started stroking my penis. i started to get very hard and i actually didn't feel weird about it. Does that make me gay? (link)
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it could just mean that you enjoyed getting your penis stroked thats all.You could also not feel weird about it because you werent consentrating on the fact that it was a guy stroking you or you could of thought about the fact that the guy showering next to you is gay days before he actually stroked you so your mind was not surprised by what was going on but it could be a posibility that your gay or bi sexual mayb you should talk to the guy about it and try it again and see what happens...maybe try hooking up with him and see how normal you feel about that.does that help?
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I know two people who constantly shoplift. I think they're both 18 too. They've probably done so for a year and haven't gotten caught. One store did, but they let them go. They also steal from people, but I'm not sure what or how many times. They've stolen probably over $10,000 worth of stuff from tons of different places. Anyway, I have a chat log from one bragging to me that he stole, and I have a screenshot of another's bulletin telling people that he and his friends will get them things and sell it to them cheaper.
At first, I thought they'd get over it or get caught by themselves. However they HAVEN'T. So, what do I do? I want to get them in trouble, or get them help so they STOP. I find it highly annoying how they brag about stealing. Everytime, they're like "Like my new shoes? I 'bought' them. Haha." etc. So, what can I do? Btw, whatever I do I don't want them to know it was me. Can I tell the stores, or the police? Or what? (link)
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heyy wat i would do is tell the police because they would keep your name confidential have the evidence ready it would be helpfu;l if you also had a photo of them. you ccan also call the head office of the shops and just tell them abouyt these ppl maybe have a photo prepared and also show them the evidence and tell them you want this to stay confidential before you tell them but i think telling the police might be better
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I haven't had my period for two months.i'm not stressed or sick. there is no reason for this. one thing though; last year during th months of february through june, i only had it 2 times. Do you think the same thing could be happening again. i've been having my period for five years.Do you think anything is wrong with me or that this is just normal. never had sex. (link)
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i agree go get checked because a cause of this could me that you cant have babies in the future seriously go get checked and get some blood tests done it could be nothing but still go get checked hope it goes well
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Well I'm 18/F, and this adorable thirteen year old little boy has a crush on me =/
I am way too old for him and I want him to stop liking me without hurting his feelings, because he is the sweetest cutest kid ever. We do a sport together, so I don't have an option of avoiding him or ignoring him, because we are on the same team so we are teammates and I talk to him a lot and I enjoy talking to him. I see him like a little brother.
What should I do? He hasn't said he had a crush on me, but it is completely obvious, even a blind person would be able to tell that he does. Oh, and he is a super sensitive kid. Should I just pretend that he doesn't like me and not say/do anything about it? But at the same time I don't want him to think he has a chance, BUT I still want keep the friendship.
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i rekon you should treat him like a little brother makle it ovious that you see him as a little brother. he may have gottent he wrong idea that you like him aswell and it is cute that alittle boy likes you but my advise to you is to just keep it casual dont flirt with him or give him that extract attention mayb slip in that hey my little bro phrase in there
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is it true that when you eat alot of starwberrys it makes down there "taste" better? (link)
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id just like to say something about Matt's reply to ur question..i have herd that its true because take for example food actually alters the smell of ur sweat some sorts of foods make ur sweat smeel bad and take for example when u go toilet the colour and smeel of ur pooh does change food depending on what you eat EG: when u eat loots of green eges ur ppooh is green and has an unusual smell to it or like beans will change the smell of ur poohs or if u eat bread and things like that the pooh will not have a strong smell to it it is a known fact what u eat alters ur body smells
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When I masterbate I don't have orgasms. Why is this? Is something Wrong with me? Am I not doing it right? Advice please? (link)
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are you a girl?cuz when you finger yourself it doesnt work ffor some people you need to have someone else do it for you the would be more pleasurable or you can buy a vibrator or a dilldo wich can help with that..does that help?
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whenever i try to go to the facebook 'home' page a little box pops up and says 'windows is checking for a solution to the problem' then closes and another box opens saying 'a problem caused the program to stop working correctly. Windowds will close the program and notify you if a solution is avaliable' and the only option i have to click is 'close program'
and it closes, anyone know whats wrong or how to fix it?
please & thanks would really help.
(already scanned for viruses and did a computer cleaning.. ) (link)
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its not a virus..try using firefox instead of windows explorer just google "firefox" and download it or try uninstalling windows and re installing it but might be easier to just download firefox
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i love sex i mean i really love it i dont do it but i watch it on the computer im over 21. do you think its normal? (link)
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well it is kinda normal theres nothing wrong with finding porn entertaining and arrousing..its not a big problem you could b addcited though like i have a friend thats a sex addict and its not a bad thing just some people are different from others. just dont go around telling ppl you really like pron or sex because that would courrupt an awkward moment..maybe you should go have some sex it could help
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I met this girl through a mutual friend and we have been communicating online and texting (I don't move to her town until this summer). I know she likes me too. Her ex boyfriend assaulted some dude recently and actually got sentenced to 2 years in jail today. Also today, I see that they got back together. How can they be a relationship if he's going to jail? Would this potentially mean that I still have a shot with her? I'm hoping that maybe she is just freaking out about one of her best friends going to jail and said she'd get back together with him, but nothing will happen once she actually realizes that he'll be gone for 2 years. (link)
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well one of the reasons shes back with him is because she may think its attractive..she may like the bad boy look and brag to her friends that her bf is a bad ass and is in prison for beating someone up she may feel safe that way...if shes young like under 18 or 19 then im sure thats the reason but im sure shes not going to b good and stay faithful to him..i mean hes in prison how can that work out?but do you wnat to get involved with that?if you go after her he may go after you is she worth it?just think about that and hope it helped
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Ok. So im Around an age where About all the kids at my middle school have already amde out. Well im the only person that hasnt. I feel so stupid. I mean i know my bf wants to but i seriously dont know how! If someone could atleast explian to me How. I mean I know thres tounge and Stuff. Ha(; Thansk! (link)
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dont worry its natural you alittle nervous.i was like that too:p well you just go with the flow you first look at his lips and kinda give a suttle hint that you want to kiss him. you move closer looking at his lips and making sure ur aiming in the right place and just kiss him like ud kiss someone on the cheek and you out one of your lips between his or he may put one of his lips between yours and you kiss and just keep doing that then with your tounge you lick his lip while kissing him put ur tounge back in your mouth then you put it in his mouth while you guys are kissing eachother dont worry its easier when its done just kinda do it when no one is around best for your first time
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I met my current boyfriend two months ago but we have only been dating for a few days now. I am a virgin (prior to meeting my boyfriend I was too busy to care about serious relationships and didn't want to have sex with someone I was casually dating). My boyfriend is not a virgin.
We have been teasing each other since the moment we met so the sexual tension is hardly bearable. I feel obligated to wait until we take things to the next level. On the other hand, I had been hoping to be single when I start university in the fall (I could change my mind) - regardless, I want us both to enjoy however long we get to spend together.
What wins out? Feeling obligated to wait or enjoying the potentially short time we have? (link)
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in my opinion it depends whats more important to you.some people care about sex and want to wait for a special moment with someone you love but if you dont mind loosing it to someone you no you may not b with for a long time then go for it..hes probibly waiting to have sex with you since hes done it before its abit hard for him to wait because hes tried it if that makes since. but go for it if virginity isnt an improtant thing for you xox hope it helped
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