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sneaking a guy over tonight.
15/f
so this guy i've been hooking up with is coming over tonight. he's been too impatient to wait until this next week. theres one problem though, i'm on my period. i dont plan on having sex with him either way, but what if he tries to finger me? i'll have to stop him and then i'll seem like a prude. and it would be gross if i just let him.
should i just tell him when he's starting to do that that i cant tonight? and if he keeps asking why should i just tell him i'm on my period?
i know its natural and all of that but still i dont want to turn him off.
please help :(
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it'd be best if you told him, but say it in a better way then "i have my period" be like "sorry babe, it's just not the right time of month" or something a lil creative haha
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Just be straightforward with him. Tell him before he comes over though because if you tell him after he could possibly feel like you weren't being completely honest with him. He won't be turned off, and if he ends up being turned off, then he's extremely immature. But, he should understand. Besides, all girls get their periods, just like all boys have nocturnal emissions. Just tell him.. nothing to be ashamed of.
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Don't beat around the bush.
If you've done things with him in the past, let him know before he comes over that there won't be a repeat performance because it's that time of the month.
If you haven't done it before and he goes for it tonight.. then don't be embarrassed to simply say again, it's that time of the month, or, I am on my period..
It's nothing to be embarrassed about and he will understand.
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Dealing with the factual existence of the female period is part of being a straight male.
Be honest with him, treat it like its not a big deal, and if he persists tell him that he needs to back off, and that you aren't comfy with it.
You know, the stupidest thing you can do with sexuality is try to present a certain image with it. You're a woman, why in Gods name would you try to pretend that you aren't, or worry about him being turned off by the fact that you are.
If he is turned off by this in a way that affects anything about the two of you, he is far too immature for you to be doing ANYTHING with.
And honestly, you're a bit young (maturity wise) to be doing what you're doing. A girl who says no is not a prude, where the hell did you get that idea?
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well if it was me i would stop him before he does it and just b like not tonight and if he keeps asking why just keep hooking up with him and that couuld make him forget or if that doesnt work just say its a secret in a flirty girly way
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