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couldn't get hard
so me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 4 1/2 months and the last time we had sex, he came once and then we were going to go again but he couldn't get hard again. we've never had this problem before. he was really down on himself. wat can i say to him to make him feel better about it?
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just tell him not to worry. This is common among males who have already ejaculated in a 2-4 hour period. After he came the first time his bodys got to make more. Maybe his body wasn't ready yet. Even if u have never had this problem it still could happen. If he starts doing it on the 1st go around tell him to get checked out. Whatever u do DONT make him worry like hes got ED (erectial disfunction) thats just gonna make it worse for the both of you
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hey im a guy (might add that iv never had sex) but you could tell him first that its not his fault, then the way to make him feel better about it is to say somthing like "dont worry, we can practice more and more untill we find out what makes you tick ;)" or somthing along those lines,
make it fun and flirty to show that you really dont mind kus im sure he's little embarrassed about it. seeing as no one else but you knows about it... and some people on the internet now im sure he'll be willing to forget about it unless he brings it up every now and then.
hope i helped even if it was the tiniest bit :)
M.
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