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Q: I know this is STUPID but i could ask my friends..

Okay you know how people say [Go Hard or Go home]
Well whats it mean exactly..
I think it means the girl is like a freak or something sexual i`m sure cuz guys always have nagative things to say about us females! Thanks alot

okay, i got this from my friend Mikey lol he thinks it means give it all that youve got or dont do it at all, so i dont think it has to do with anything sexual ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: how do you "talk dirty" if your a girl

ehh im not too good on talking dirty,but its fun to do : ]

these sites might help you out :

http://www.sexinfo101.com/as_talkingdirty102.shtml

http://www.sexinfo101.com/as_dirtytalk101.shtml

http://www.mypleasure.com/education/sexed/erotic_talk.asp

I found ALOT more when i typed in on goggle "how to talk dirty" so do that to get more sites ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: how do i know if i am having a orgasm ??
what are the ' symptoms ' of one ??

It really depends,but like your legs will shake,youll feel all tingly throughout your body,youll breathe hard and feel like your out of breathe,you might wanna like moan or scream,the muscles in your pelvis will like go back and forth like there pressing up and downish,pretty much youll know when you have one its like an amazing feeling its a different kinda feeling,pretty much youll know ; ] Try searching on google about orgasms too.

♥ danielle

Q: well im gonna dye my hair auburn and curl in (for a play) and i wana see what i look like. what program can i use to do this? i rate

The only and probably the best one is
http://virtual-hairstyler.com/

but the only problem is you have to pay for it which kinda sucks : /

♥ danielle

Q: what does the song "konstantine" by something corporate mean?

good song ; ]

http://www.songmeanings.net/lyric.php?lid=141169

I go there all the time to see what the song meanings are of songs.

♥ danielle

Q: Is it okay for me to go on my dad's motorcycle (or Harley) with contacts in w/ bug eye sunglasses? Like, am I good to go?
Thanks.

Aw hun your fine,as long as you have all that stuff on you ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: can you give me a site name with music && URL codes for my playlist.. i'm the one who asked about putting playlists in my xanga. well i need a site with good songs and directions how to do it ! THANKS SO MUCH !

x ME

hey!

oh okay well this site is REALLY good: http://www.xanga.com/NuMbA1_MuSiC_sOuRcE
its divided into sections of what type of music you like,click on one of the music sites that you would like to see then where it has the link to the music you want for example, "the spice girls" and it has there list of songs under it right click directly on the music code and click "properties" and then where it says "address" highlight the whole code thats there,you highlight it by doing right click and going over the whole code,then when its all highlighted right click again and do "copy".Now yto put the code in your xanga,go to your "look and feel" and then where you pasted your music code where it says SONG TiTLE put the title of the song there (dont put the code there) then where it says songs[0]=" SONG URL " backspace the song url part and right click and do "paste" thats where your code will be,keep repeating it until all the "song title" and "song url" things are gone.Then do "preview" to see if the songs work first,if they all do then click on the button "yes" to save.I hope that helps you out.Leave another one in my inbox if you have any more questions ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: okay so i usually get cramps just right now they are like really bad.. what are some ways to get rid of them other that mydol and laying down cause i have plans for today so i dont have much time and i dont want to walk around with these pains.. they hurts sooo freaking bad!

OMG dont they suck?! i usually take some advil or tylenol and then ill be okay,they used to hurt ALOT more when i was younger.But i looked up some sites on helping with menstural cramps,i hope they work for ya.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=1006021104864

http://pacificcoast.net/~manymoons/natural.html

http://drerika.typepad.com/notepad/2005/08/a_quick_referen.html

♥ danielle

Q: Omg does anyone know how to put a play list in your xanga.?? if you do please tell me how?? i really need to know please ` I'll rate HIGH !

x ME !

okay, copy this code using right click on your mouse and doing "copy" (make sure you highlight the code first) :

SONG TiTLE
SONG TiTLE
SONG TiTLE
SONG TiTLE
SONG TiTLE
SONG TiTLE
SONG TiTLE
SONG TiTLE
SONG TiTLE
SONG TiTLE
SONG TiTLE

then you go into your "look and feel" section and then paste your code into "your custom header" by right clicking and saying "paste".Make sure its under your layout code because you dont want them mixed up.Then you do "save" stroll all the way down to the bottom of the page and there ya go.If you need anymore help with anything about it or how to put music codes into your music drop down code just ask me ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: will first time sex hurt even if your hymen has broken? will you still be tight or will it be good the first time?

Most of the girls say it will hurt the first time,your lucky if it dosent hurt your first time.If the guy dosent know what hes doing and/or hes a first timer then yeah its gonna be kinda painful,but its like a sting it shouldnt hurt that much it will still be pleasurable,you can tell him to be gentle and take it slow if you want,he should understand that it hurts.If the pain is just to unbearable then tell him to stop for a few minutes and maybe you can try it again.Youll still be kinda tight because it was only your first time but youll be a little looser then before,it takes about 5 or 6 more times until your pretty loose.

♥ danielle

Q: me and my boyfriend have had sex and he cummed inside of me on accident...and i have missed my period it has been couple days later and still dont have it im scared i might be pregant but I CANNOT tell my parents so i have no clue if i am or not but since i have missed my period im scared i have...is it true you can have late periods just by having sex...because we are not forsure he really did cum but to me it felt like it but not for sure..so i dont kno what to do or how to tell i have no symptons except missed period and we are trying to get a pregnancy test but w are trying to get money so what can i do to tell if i am pregant...or can u juss get late periods by having sex?

http://www.surebaby.com/
that websites for signs of early pregnancy,Theres a chance you might be pregnant because of a late period if you had sex,but it could also be from stress too because if your stressed whole lot,your period can become late.I hope that helps!

♥ danielle

Q: I was wondering if anyone who is agnostic or unitarian had any really good sites about unitarianism because im trying to develop my spirituality and discover more about what I believe in(which I dont really know what that is yet) So yeah, it'd be great if there was like a really good website or something. I rate.
ace

I went on google and found a couple good sites,check them out:
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=unitarianism&btnG=Search

♥ danielle

yeah i know bush is such a bonehead man lol

Q: ok so here's the deal. . .i recently broke up with my gf. it just wasn't working out. anyway, now her best friend is after me, and i don't know what i should do. i think it would look really bad, i mean, it's her best friend. i will rate for good answers

13/m

Oh no DEFFINATELY not a good idea.That happened to me before and lets just say alot of drama happened.It might break up your ex's and her best friends relationship and thats not a good thing.I would suggest you and your ex's friend to not get involved with each other right now.Just say to her that you need some time,and they its not right for you both to go out with each other since it could hurt the friendship.i mean you wouldnt want your best friend going out with your ex right? I hope I could help!

♥ danielle

Q: guys girls how can i tell when a girl is a virgin? its it true that when virgins have sex for the first time they bleed?

Theres really noway you can tell unless your the one having sex with the girl.Yes,if its her first time she will bleed a little bit,it might hurt too so she might say that it hurts so that might also be another clue.Or you could also ask the girl if shes a virgin or not.

♥ danielle

Q: OKay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 8 months , and we are definantly in love. Lately we have been talkin about sex, a little more and more each time we talk to each other. Like last night we were texting each other and he said and i quote "Blaire, I love you, & you no that, i would do anything in the world for you. And , well now, i think im ready, for well you know, to have sex. I think we should try it. But only if your ready"

and the thing is , were young. He is 16, im almost 14.(one more week) and well, i would really love to loose my virginity to him, but he has already had sex(he used to be in the major party scene. He quit for me.) So should i have sex with him?

-Confsed

well hun,personally i think your too young and i think this guy sounds a little to fake to me but then again i dont really know him but i wouldnt trust him.If you are DEFFINATELY SURE you love him then go for it,just make sure its for all the right reasons and you end up not regreting it later on.Make sure to also know the dangers of having sex like getting an STD from him,and getting pregnant i would suggest asking him to get a check up at the doctors to make sure everythings okay before you do it.Remember to also wear a condom ; ].I agree with the girl below me though,if you need advice on adviceanators about having sex then you might not be wuite ready the decision is all up to you not us.Good Luck!

♥ danielle

Q: Okay, so I'm getting so annoyed by not being able to re-size my images. Ugh! I have InfranView but it just doesn't work now because when I pick a size, then I upload it to photobucket, it just makes it smaller!!! And i try using paint but it just takes to long. Can anyone tell me any good softwares that you can re-size images that are Windows 98 compatiable? Please help. It gets so annoying.

Im not sure if this helps you out at all but i use www.tinypic.com it works pretty well on making pictures smaller.I have another way if you want it just lease one in my inbox ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: O.K so theres this really CUTE guy in my neighbor hood and today we were playing b-bal just me and him and 4 other guys. Then me and him played some 1 on 1 together I was fixing to win but he grabbed the ball and said softley I dont like you no more now, but the rest of the day he kept hangging around with me and we were on the same team together and his brother wanted to swich players and he wanted to switch me and then the guy said no keep her shes a good player.

Does he like me then?
How do I get him to like me more?

Aww hun it seems like he likes you! I had that happen to me once and the guy ended up liking me : ] lots of guys like it when girls kick ass at sports.Guys dont like girls who are fake so just be who you are thats why he'll like you because your you right? Just stick to what youve been doing,but just find little ways of touching him you know like when hes laughing touch his arm lightly those type of things,and make sure too flirt btu dont try too hard.Youll do fine,that boy should be yours in no time lol ; ]

&heart;s danielle

Q: is it true xanga is illegal?

haha No silly its not illegal,just some parents dont approve of it lol ; ]
i love xanga though i have one its awesome.

♥ danielle

Q: ok i dont know what topic this should be but if you have hbo on demand for io and you pick something to watch does it show up on the bill?

Yupp,because your paying for it ; ]

I have it too.

♥ danielle

Q: Hey ok i know this is very steryotypical but i am i emo girl and mah frinds say im a goth and i try to tell them goth and emo are totally differnt.... arent they... could u give me the differnt of the two or like a deffinition of each???? thanks!!

I think those two sites will help you out.They tell the difference between the two.Im sorry your friends say your "goth" alot of people stereotype people and its not what they arent and it can really piss the person off.People used to do that too me,but if it dosent bother you thats cool.But Yeah there's a different between them goths wear more black and believe in the devil stuff and listen to scary deep disturbing stuff.

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&oi=defmore&defl=en&q=define:goth

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=define%3Aemo&btnG=Search

I hope that helps!

♥ danielle