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Question Posted Saturday March 11 2006, 4:36 pm

will first time sex hurt even if your hymen has broken? will you still be tight or will it be good the first time?

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OnlyTheRightAnswers answered Saturday March 18 2006, 4:45 pm:
If you're really comfortable with the person you are sleeping with, it shouldn't hurt too much. Also, if you've been finger before by guys, that can have stretched you enough so that it won't hurt. Just make sure you take it slow and have foreplay beforehand to make it easier.
It won't be great the first time but slowly you will start to like it more. It's just something that takes time.

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Vanity answered Saturday March 11 2006, 9:51 pm:
My hymen was already torn by the time I lost my virginity and it still hurt. Just instead of a sharp pain like with your hymen it's just a slight stinging instead. It's really not that bad as long as you make sure that you've had enough foreplay and you're not uptight.

Unless you've stuck an elephant up there or something, yes you will still be tight. Your first experience with sex is never mind blowing. It's awkward to say the least.

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AlixIsDaGangsta91 answered Saturday March 11 2006, 9:32 pm:
Yes it still hurts the first time, the only thing that is different is that you wont bleed after words, and as long as you really havent stuck anything but maybe a tampon or your finger up there you should still be pretty tight...

Hope i helped

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jealousyxo answered Saturday March 11 2006, 7:15 pm:
Most of the girls say it will hurt the first time,your lucky if it dosent hurt your first time.If the guy dosent know what hes doing and/or hes a first timer then yeah its gonna be kinda painful,but its like a sting it shouldnt hurt that much it will still be pleasurable,you can tell him to be gentle and take it slow if you want,he should understand that it hurts.If the pain is just to unbearable then tell him to stop for a few minutes and maybe you can try it again.Youll still be kinda tight because it was only your first time but youll be a little looser then before,it takes about 5 or 6 more times until your pretty loose.

♥ danielle

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ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday March 11 2006, 7:07 pm:
Depending on the girl..I honestly didn`t think ithurt that bad the first time but i guess it depends on how the girl handles pain [But honestly i`m a whimp about pain]

Girls say it isn`t comfortable the first few times you have sex but like the third time i liked it..The other times we went slow so i didn`t get anything out of it really..


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kendrabdatgirl answered Saturday March 11 2006, 6:59 pm:
NOOO its not tru that your first time hurts cuz it doesn't...unless you n the guy dont now wut ya doin then, yea. but most girls who claim to have had sex say it hurts but it's really not soppose to...but like i said if the boy is new at it there mite be a chance u will feel pain..but it'll be a pain that'll feels good. Also it depends on the pressure and the position, most likely virgins loose it at missonary...ask me any advice anytime on my message board..SMOOCHIEZ..

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thesecondwavex answered Saturday March 11 2006, 5:54 pm:
your first time will most likely be painful.
and also, pretty akward as well.

im just speaking from friend's oppinions,
but even if your hymen is broken you still
may be tight and it will be pretty uncomfortable
at first. but if the person youre going to be with
loves you he'll be gentle, as long as you tell him.


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LoViNu2mOuCh answered Saturday March 11 2006, 5:42 pm:
Yes, unfortunately it is quite painful the first time.

Sorry to say it does not really feel good like at all.

But after that you will be fine and it feels good!

Oh, and don't worry if it bleeds.

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rainbowcherrie answered Saturday March 11 2006, 5:34 pm:
Most people find that first time sex is painful, regardless of the state of your hymen. Very few people find their first time particularly pleasureable, and it probably will hurt a little bit. Usually it's just a short stinging sensation but it could be more. A lot of girls find that they bleed for a few days afterwards and this is normal. If you've never had sex before then it's unlikely that you will suddenly loosen up from just one time, but you could find that you are slightly looser.

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