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Okay, so I got new carpet in my room just a couple weeks ago. It's called like BerBer carpet or something. Well on my other carpet, I could leave my straightener on my carpet and wouldn't do anything. Well, I put my straightener on my brand new carpet and I guess it got a little too hot and burned part of my carpet. I can't tell my parents because they'd totally kill me. its about 1 inch long, and 1 1/2 wide. Heres a picture:
http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y181/lylx33/PinkStreaks085.jpg
Well its an off-white color carpet and like is there anyway to make it lighter, like a

5's for everyone that tries.

To me it honestly didnt look THAT noticible but it was noticable.. hmm .. I woudlnt suggest bleacing it since its na off white, but maybe googling some cleaning products online and using them on it. Like simple home remedies, like toothpaste (not sure if that works) or taking a toothbrush with some soap on it, or ya know?

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I was wondering-what type of body do you think looks the best in a bikini because I am thinking of getting one, but I'm not sure yet. Thanks.

You know if your comfortable in a bikini go for it. You dont need to have a perfect body.

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Hey are there websites that allow you to upload your files, like music ones, to create a URL for it? I've tried looking on google for it, but all I find is pages that give out URLs. Is it possible to make one on your own? If so, how is it done. Thanks.

Well you have to have the song uploaded on your computer, but you can try googling places that host music. Like filelodge, and you can upload your music file and get a code/url thing for it to put on xangas and myspaces.
:)

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Ok soo I like to swim, and when I do, I tend to go underwater a lot. I have blue eyes, that are sensitive to the chlorine though, so after a while, my eyes become very red. What can I do to prevent this, besides not going underwater as much? I put some Visine in after and stuff but it takes a while for the red to go away. Is there anything better? Thankss. :]

Chlorine does that to eyes, try wearing goggles?

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Hi, i'm gonna start off saying that i'm 14 and i'm going into grade 9, i'm not that populare in my school but i'm conseterd a normal. well anyways, i have a whole bunch of mental disbiletys(spelt wrong but w/e) i have a serous Depreshion, Buy-Polar (it's a mood swing thing), Anger Problems, ADD, and some other one were i blank out lots. well i dont take any perscripton druggs for these things.. and i feel so horable everyday.. i was an abused child.. so i'm not that smart cause my head was always bashed into things. and well i cant always deal with this.. i've tryed suicide lots.. but it hasent worrked.. i was to die but yet i want to live.. i see a terapist but he isent helping.. do you guys have and ideas of something i could do to get my mind off my disorders.. or some movie about how to deal. any little thing can help... Thank You so much.

I really honestly think you should be on medication, it can make things so much better.
You cant help chemical disorders, they can be fixed. Best to you.

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when you text someone, what do you pay extra? like.. juss for your phone? because i figure its probaly around the same price for every phone. so yep. thankss. bye

Some is 10cents per letter.
Some 25cents per text message in general that you send and recieve.

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Okay, well tomorrow my best friend & I are going out to a really fancy restaurant for dinner and then to the Ashlee Simpson concert. But, I dont know what to wear! I cant change clothes because thats too hard and I need to look first dressed up then casual. Any suggestions for an outfit thats dressy but still looks casual or vice versa?!

Well some kind of jean skirt and a layered top?
Otherwise wear a nice outfit to the resteraunt, and change in the car, its really pretty simple :)

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what stores can i find malibu hemp bronzing lotion at?

I RATE HIGH. = )

okay i searched all over google and i couldnt find any specfic stores! ahh!
but! ebay and places like that you can get it for about the same price just with shipping and handling, or I saw some stores online that you can order them from!
Sorry thats the best I could do!

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i am a 13 with a fear that i may have rosacea my dad has broken blood vessels and my mom has red skin, i have red skin on my cheeks and chin, but i also have mild acne. I was wondering what to do about this, but i also can't afford expensive treatments. thank you very much for your help!

caitlin

Honestly your 13, and if your really that scared about this, talk to your parents.
They can set up a doctor apointment,
thats the only way you will know.
You cant treat serious problems at home.

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My trainer's doggy passed away yesterday. He was an awesome dog, who loved everyone and everyone loved him. Well, the girls at the barn want to do something special for my trainer to say like we care about you and we want you to be happy even in your greiving time. After all, she does so much for us, it's the least we can do. But, do you have ideas for gifts or anything like that? Also, things to say to her because I know it's going to be awkward.

Dont try buying thigns for her,
it will make it seem like your trying to replace her hurt with a modern day materialistic item, you know? Just cards and kind words.
Tell her your sorry and that you know her dog was so nice, or just be there for her.
Sometimes words dont even need to be spoken.

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how do u do french braids?

here are some websites with step by step instructions!


http://www.dreamweaverbraiding.com/braids/self_french.htm

http://www.ehow.com/how_17115_french-braid-hair.html

http://www.dreamweaverbraiding.com/braids/french.htm

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a long time ago, i think i read some sort of health article that said that when people work out their abdominal area, it stunts your growth. does anyone know that for sure? i've stopped working out my stomach because i'm already fairly short but i wanted to be sure.

No its not true.
It sounds like the "can working out stunt my growth?" its not true at all.
Their are so many athletes who started working out when they are young and look at most of the basketball players are tall and fit.
Exercising like that, is good so teens grow up with stronger muscles.
You can read baout it here.

http://www.trulyhuge.com/news/tips63iq.htm

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How does one become the perfect girlfriend? Internally and externally, how does a girl make her guy feel completely fulfilled?
Thanks

Dont try to be perfect, being who you are should make him happy. Love and communication is what you need. No one can be completely fulfilled it varys on days, because no relationship is perfect, couples always have goods and bads :]

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Hi, i have alot of mental health problems which cause me to have high anxiety and panic, which often lead to panic attacks over things that never used to bother me.
Tomorrow i have a 2 and a half hour car journey, i'm getting better at travelling although i still get really panicy which makes me feel sik (can't say THAT word...it;'s my fear of that that has led to alot of my mental and physical illness).
I'm getting proffessional help with it so thats ok, i was just wondering if i get really bad and i watch a dvd (i'm sitting in the front passanger side if that helps), will that make me travel sik?
i know some people cant read magazines in the car, are those people also not able to watch dvd and stuff either because it brings on the travel sikness or is that ok?
I just ask because when i have high panic i have to watch a dvd and i eventually calm down because it's a great distraction, but if i do that when travelling would it make me feel worse?

Thankyou x

I would close your eyes and recline the seat and put some headphones on, and relax, But watching a dvd shoujld help, as long as it occupys you and your not trying to see where your going while watching the dvd at the same time, that would give you a headache.

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Myself and my fiance are 26 and I have a 2 1/2 year old from a previous relationship. We have been together for 1 1/2 years and engaged for 1. Last week my fiance had a couple of friends that were looking for an apartment to live in. They are supposed to be moving into the ones where we live. Without asking me, Josh invited them to stay with us until their apartment is ready. It has been almost a week now since they came to stay. It made me really angry that he did not ask me if I cared if they stayed, he just invited them and told me they were staying. I'm upset because I am the one paying all the bills right now because he just finished college and has not found a job yet. Our apartment is really small and was cramped with just our stuff in it. Now our dining room is stuffed with their things and they have taken over our living room too. We only have a couch in our living room because it it tiny. At night after I get home from work I like to make dinner then lay around and watch TV for a while before I go to bed. Since they have been there I don't get to sit on the couch or watch TV. I have been coming home and going to my room to read. Josh gets upset with me because I don't want to sit out there with our "company". I wouldn't mind hanging out with everyone, but when I do sit in my living room I either have to sit on the floor or pull a chair from my dining room to sit on. I feel like my son is getting shorted by them being there too. He is used to having free roam of the house and playing where ever he wants to in the apartment. Now he is confined to his room and can not play anywhere else and when he tries to he gets into trouble for getting into their stuff. Then over the weekend we had a birthday party to go to for my grandmother. I made it clear to Josh the night before that I did not want them in the house while we were gone. When we got ready to leave the next day Josh handed them his keys so they could come and go as they please. It's like my thoughts and opinions don't count anymore. Then when I try to explain to him how I'm feeling he gets angry with me and thinks I'm being rude to them. I like my personal space and I hate it when I don't have it. Right now my space in majorly being invaded. I don't know how much more of this I can take. Josh thinks I'm too controlling on things like this, but I'm tired of being stepped on and used. How can I make him see my point of view before I just get angry with the situation and just kick all 3 of them out so it's just me and my son again?

OH my word, I'd be so pissed off if that happened.
I mean you need to sit down with your fiance, tell him what you are feeling. Communication is the key, if you are acting like you didnt care in the first place, that could be why he keeps doing things. BUT I can totally understand why you would feel like getting to the point of kicking them out.
It is a very huge violation of your privacy and your fiance should know that, its very rude that hejust invited them over and told you that they were staying.

I hate to say this but if I were in your situation I woulld threaten him, and be like.. I'm paying for the house bills, and its hard enough to make this kind of money, and let alone feed more people. Tell him everything you wrote up there, and try to make him understand, beacuse its important he realizes how frustrated you are.

It also sounds like you need to reevaluate your relationship wiht him, because if he thinks he can get away with stuff like this, wait until you get married, you know?

I hope everything works out for the best,
let me know how it goes!

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Im going out with this guy. He asked me out on July 3rd at 1:30 in the morning which technically is JULY 4! He hasnt talked to me since then. Whats going on. Is he for real or just playing with my heart. I really like this guy.
THANX
~KAYLA~ ♥

Dont worry about it!
He's probably just celebrating with family or out with friends. :)
I'm sure he'd like if it you gave him a call yesterday and said happy 4th! Or something like that!
But dont worry at all about it deary!

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What r some websites to put in your weight and height to see if your balanced?
~KAYLA~ ♥

I dont have a website
but just to leet you know
there isnt really a balanced or average weight for heights since everyone's body is different!

:]

Like you could be 5'6 and weigh 135 but be stick skinny. and healthy, you know?

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How do you learn to love your body?

You eat healthy and exercise regulary.
The way I see it is, you only get one body, not two or three for spares, but one.
You want to take the best care of it as you can.
Drink a lot of water to flush the bad stuff out of your body.

And to accept your body mentally, be happy with yourself, look in the mirror and be happy with what you see. A lot of people look at themselves and arent happy beacuse say they have a little extra tummy fat, oh well! It can be fixed, some crunches and a nice diet will do fine. Just dont be too self critical, remember no one is perfect. :]

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How do you know if ur breast get bigger? because my breast hurt right now and i do not know what it is..

is it a lucky chance when your boobs grow it hurts?

Why do my boobs hurt?

god, im so confused.

Its usually before your period starts.

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hello in 14/f and the thing is that i want to lose some weight off my thighs. like, im totally fine iwht my body except for the fact that my inner thighs are a little blubbery. im 5'7" i weigh 120 lbs and i dance regularly, but i just cant seem to get it off. could you please recommend some exercises or something i could do to fix this problem? id like to lose it by the end of the summer

Try Riding your bike, that tightens your muscles. Or google thigh exercises on google.

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