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God gave us two ears and one mouth so we could listen twice and speak once.
Hello Sunshine!
My name's Jamie..call me what you prefer.
I'm not here to judge, just to help people with their problems.
I love helping people out, it's one of the most satisfying feelings.
When you rate me, I'd prefer if you put a reasoning behind the rating, just so I know how I'm doing/how I can improve.
Feel free to leave me questions!
XOXO.
>> PS. If you plan on asking me a question, please, type grammatically correct and put punctuation marks where necessary...instead of like this: "muh boyfran lefff meh nD eye dunno waddado. halp?" (haha okay maybe that's a little exaggerated.. but you get my point!)
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can i dye my blond hair with green koolaid and if so how do i do it?
This isn't an answer. I have a question for you:
What color would green koolaid dye your hair?
well alright the other night me and my boyfriend were planning on having sex. I was prepared, or so i thought. I expected sex to hurt since i was still a virgin and all but it hurt way more than i could take. As a result i pushed him back and we tried again. But i was in so much pain i couldnt do it. After he felt like it was all his fault and i know its all mine. he thought he pressured me into it and i told him that it just was not enjoyable for me and it was extremely painful. He got all quiet and i tried to kiss him, he didnt kiss back. Later we were talking and he said i just feel like i ruined my chance with you. I was overcome with saddness and found myself in tears that i could not control. He then felt like a complete jerk and started blaming himself and telling me i am the only girl he ever had loved also that if i didnt want we dont have to have sex. What should i do about this?
Hey,
Just make sure he understands that you weren't mad at him! You just were in excruciating pain and you couldn't take it. He should understand, he seems like a loving guy!, Also, he said : "i just feel like i ruined my chance with you". MAKE SURE you tell him that he didn't. Show him how much you love him. Things should be back to normal soon :]
Hope I helped!
-Jam
I don't know if my boyfriend is controlling. He wants to know where I am and who I'm with at all times. He says he loves me all the time and he wants to get married when I turn 18. I'm just about to turn 17. He wants all my time and he calls me a million times a day and expects me to spend all my free time with him. I don't think hes controlling, but I'm not sure. I love him though. How can I tell?? Is there any certain way?? Please help me figure this out.
I'd say he's definitely getting into your personal bubble! Tell him you need a little more space-not in a mean way, but just tell him you need time for your family, friends, etc. This should solve the problem.
Hope I helped!
-Jam
does the EnV come with free unlimited texting??? because thats what everyone tells me. but it sounds too good to be true
No, I don't think so. My friend has it, and she has to buy the texting...but I'm not sure if they've changed that.
Hope I helped!
-Jam
Does having a cold sore mean that you have an std?? or is a cold sore just a cold sore?
It could be either, I've had cold sores before but they weren't from STD's. If they don't go away within 2 weeks, get them checked out by a doctor.
-Jam
i have the VCAST Verizon VX9800. I really want the EnV (which is the upgrade to the phone I have now)
if i switch phones, will it cost me any money? like can i play the difference between the 2 phones?
If your contract is up, then your phone's free, you have to buy a new 2 year contract in order to get a free phone (I'm pretty sure, anyways)
And my friend has the EnV! it's really nice- so good choice!-
But it's expensive without buying the contract..
Hope I helped!
-Jam
so there's this guy, and we're really good friends, i mean since like kindergarden, our parents even do stuff together. well lately i have been starting to notice i really like him. i don't know how to get him to like me back, without asking him out, any advice?
Aww! How cute =) lol.
Just be yourself! No guy wants a fake girl.
Just flirt with him..alot. and see if he flirts back!!make sure it's obvious that you like him. but don't make it annoying, you know?
After you've done this for a while, have a friend of yours ask him if he likes you.
Hope I helped!! :]
-Jam
I love the skinny jean style, but I'm having a hard time finding them!
Does anyone know any good stores that carry skinny jeans?
Holliser has a couple pairs,
So does Old Navy, JC Penny's, etc..
I got mine at these places. I fell in love with the skinny jeans as well!! They look uberly cute with Ugg boots tooo hehe.
=) Hope I helped!!
-Jam
So i have stretch marks, yes we all do. But there on my stomach and it annoys me. Ive been working out and trying to lose weight so my question is will they go away once i lose weight?
No. Unfortunately, they'll never go away no matter how much weight you lose!! They'll fade over time, though..
Well, hope I helped!
-Jam
I know most of you dread the annoying
" I need a screen name question. "
And, I hate them too no doubt so I'll
make mine short and if you don't like
these questions, don't answer them.
What screen name do you like better?
xSTEP YA GAME UP
or
name here x3
I think xSTEP YA GAME UP is better, more unique. I've never heard that one before. The name one is too common...who wants to be like everyone else?
Hope I helped! :)
-Jam
I'd rather have guys anwser this.
but
If you call a guy beautiful or gorgeous, is it kinda weird for them or something like that.
But would they rather be called handsome or cute
or just all of it is fine.
thanks.
Well I'm not a guy, lol, but anyways..
If you aren't talking directly to them, then I think it's fine- but if you're talking face to face, then I wouldn't say that. It's kinda like if a guy called you handsome if you want to think of it like that?
Hope I helped :)
-Jam
OK for this weekend i have been asked 2 hang out with like 4 differnt ppls. 1. my boyfriend 2.my friend thats wicked mean 2 me 3. another friend that i never see 4. my friend and she wants me 2 see her basketball. My boyfriend is starting his 2nd job in like 2 or 3 weeks and we won't see eachother much and its so hard because we are so close but my only chance 2 see him is on saturday. my friends game is on saturday and like 2 weeks ago i ditched her and didnt go. the friend thats mean wants 2 go 2 the mall or maybe movies i dunno wich yett and we would go wit other ppl and she would ignore me the whole time 100% sure she would and she wants 2 do that on saturday but i could always change it 2 sunday but then again im mad at her. the friend i never see i will see her next weekend and we are goin on a ski trip and are busy every single day so yeah. Who should i hang with? Oh and my friend that plays basketball will have plenty other games but no one i kno is goin 2 her game cept her and her really mean family. So my question to you is ... If you were in my place who would you go with?
I wouldn't go anywhere, just so nobody's jealous.
Hope I helped =]
-Jam
Ok, I have streach marks around my waist, a few tiny ones on my stomach, and a few on the back of my legs. I'm a tiny bit overweight, but not that much. how can i get rid of the streach (sp?) marks?? thanks everyone!!
Stretch marks will never completely go away; however, they will fade over time. To increase the healing process, use Palmer's Cocoa Butter Formula, or just pure Cocoa butter. This is what I used, and it faded them somewhat.
Good luck =] Hope I helped!
-Jam
Here's the deal. I'm 5'6, 14/f, and 146 lbs. I'm okay with how I look, I feel okay in a bikini, i don't have stretchmarks, but I have the 2 chins and the chubbiest face ever. I mean, my fat is all spread out on my body, but my cheeks are huge, even when I was little. All my friends and family love squeezing them, and I also have a double chin that my family is constantly reminding me about. Is their ANY possible way to be rid of the extra chin or my chubby cheeks? I really don't think my cheeks are just babyfat, I read in cosmogirl that you grow out of baby fat by age 12. Does anybody have ANY ideas at all? Maybe some sort of "magic" pill that you don't need a prescription for that you have actually used and it worked for you? Anything at all please, I'm desperate.
thanks in advance.
Double chins tend to be associated with weight gain and/or aging but they may also occur as an inherited characteristic. Like any other part of the body the chin is prone to laying down fat, therefore the most common reason for getting a double chin is too much fat being stored below the jaw.
How to get rid of it.
There are a number of choices available to you. Starting with the least radical:
# change your diet to one of high fiber and low calorie. Eat plenty of fruit and fresh vegetables.
# Exercise by opening your mouth very wide and pushing your lower jaw forward and then upwards so your bottom teeth extend over the top of your upper lip. Do this 10-15 times and repeat 3-4 times a day. Like all exercise you may need to build up to the maximum number, so don't strain.
# Follow your jaw exercise by moderate slapping under the jaw line. Keep this up for a couple of minutes each time.
Beyond these home remedies a thriving market exists in devices and techniques designed to tone and tighten the jaw. However, the most decisive way of removing a double chin is by surgery and specifically via submental lipectomy. More commonly known as a 'neck lift' the standard procedure can be carried out as an outpatient and involves a small incision under the chin. The fat is then sucked out. More complex procedures may involve surgery on muscles or even chin implants.
As insurance generally does not cover the costs of cosmetic procedures a lipectomy will cost somewhere in the region of $2500 but prices will vary according to what is required and the charges and on-costs imposed by different clinics.
Hope I helped/Good luck!!
-Jam
okay so i have a problem.. i'm not a big phone talker, so when my boyfriend calls me i never seem to have anything to say.. he says it's a big problem that whenever we get on the phone i don't really talk. the thing is, i 've never been big on talking on the phone. and now my boyfriend is upset because he doesn't think i like to talk to him.. that's not the case at all! and i'm really upset about this so my question is.. does anyone have anything or any tips when talking on the phonee i could reallyy use ANYYY help!! thanks
Holy wow, the EXACT same thing happened to me,
but anyways,
You should tell your boyfriend that this is just a problem that you have.
Talk about things that you have in common that you like, or what happened that day at school, etc.
Normal things that you'd talk about when you're not on the phone-whatever seems interesting!
Hope I Helped! & Good luck!!
-Jam
ok, so i am trying to get toned up.. i am running and everything ( because i know that that helps with everything), but is there anything i can do for the back of my thighs and for my inner thighs to make them tight?! also if you guys have any workouts for love handles on my sides. please give me all the advice you know!
thanks so much :]
This may not be the best advice, but it's the best that I can think of. lol. First off, keep running, you'll see results eventually! But if that doesn't work, try wall sits. [If you don't know how to do that then drop me something in my Inbox]
For more, go to this page. It explains it well! :)
http://www.lhj.com/home/Thigh-Exercises.html
Hope I helped/Good luck!!!
-Jam
okay there is this guy that i like an all but he doesn't know it.....well he invited me on myspace an now he is all talkn to me on the internet but i don't kniow what to think or how to find out without feeling stupid becaue i don't want to ask him.....what do i do
BE YOURSELF! Pretend you don't like him, that's what I do. And if he's talking to you as much as he is, then chances are, he likes you! :} Also, if you want to know who he likes, then ask him. Say, [casually of course], "So, who you lovin?", And if he says something like, I don't know.....then it's probable[SP?] that he likes you!
Good Luck! Hope I helped...
-Jam
what is that saying from it takes two. its like you want that over the fence kindof love??
"Love is like a cant eat, cant sleep, reach for the stars, over the fence, world series kinda thing."
*Greaat movie, mad cute quote.
Hope I helped!,
-Jam
ugg i cant stop my skin from breaking out everywhere, its not from my period cause i got it like 2 weeks ago. Is there any methods to helthier clearer skin? please help me=)
p.s any advice helps!
THE CAUSE: You could be stressed!
THE SOLUTION: Well, I know someone like you. What they did was start with Proactive, and about 2 weeks later, they were just about cleared up (with a few blemishes here and there, lol.) If you use it right, it really works! Just follow the directions.
-PS, it gets ordered to you every month. I think it's $30 for the first order? Somewhere around there...
If you decide to get this (which I highly recommend you do!) then, while you're waiting for your shipment, wash your face day and night with soap & water, and put toothpaste on your pimples.
Hope I helped!! Good luck!!
[Sorry if this is confusing, I'm falling asleep here, lol.]
-Jam
what does it mean when people are like "touche" in french? its pronounced as "too-shay". and someone said it in a video. they're like "ah, touche". I believe its frenched but what does it mean.. and like how would you say it in real life? in what situation?
Also I just was about to eat this green jellybean, and i bit it and it was hard and i split it open and it looked funny in there... like hardish so i threw it out. it was also shapped bigger and differently than the others. it was also the size of 2 normal jelly beans. did i do the right thing? tho i kinda wanted to eat it, lol
1.) Not so sure for the first part.
2.) As for the 2nd part; haha I think it was just abnormal. I get those sometimes =] don't worry! mmm. you made me crave jellybeans hehe.
Hope I helped!
-Jam