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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:

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Today I was standing in a grassy area when my friend ran at me and knocked me over. I hit the back of my head very hard on the ground and my whole head started aching. I had to lie on the ground for about ten minutes because I couldn't get up. My friend walked me home to make sure I was okay and I felt better. Now I have started to feel sick, my head hurts a lot and I feel very weak and tired. I have had concussion before but my vision was distorted and I actually threw up that time. Is this just normal because I knocked my head or have I got concussion or something?

just take some medicine and lay down.. see how you feel in a couple of days

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I was just wondering..... Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 4 months now and i know that may not seem like a long time but i really and truely love him. And it may sound weird but i feel like god is telling me that he is the one i am supposed to spend my life with. Can he be the one? Is it true that i can find someone in my junior year of high school?

it might be true but its usually no likely

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my dad is always so mean and curses alot he is an alchoholic what can i do to make him be a normal dad?

you have to call for help.. call Al- Anon/Alateen: 800-344-2666 (for friends and family of people with drinking problems or go to Alcoholics Anonymous: www.alcoholics-anonymous.org or call Center for Substance Abuse Treatment: 800-662-HELP
GOOD LUCK

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okay well i was friends with someone online for a few months and we got really close - we told each other like everything and stuff. I showed her like one pic maybe and my face wasn't showing that well and I'm not really comfortable showing pics online anyway because I knew that she saved them on her computer. Well, we grew apart, and then a month after we did I found out that she was even bisexual. the problem is.. she ims me every once in a while and asks for my pic, saying that she has all these pics of her friends saved. am i wrong for not wanting to give it, or feeling that im only imed so she could see my pic?

[ 15 / f ]

you did the right thing!! you should never give anyone a pic of yourself that you dont know.. how do you know that a 40 yr old man didnt send you a pic of someone else he talks to?? be careful

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For all poetry writers. Can u help me? i'm a writer but i cant seem to get a poem out (yeah aka writer block)...i was wondering if u could help me by writing a poem for me plz?

i wanna tell my friend, that he can sometimes be fun and crazy and how he isnt always on the sweet and caring side and sometimes can be a complete idiot at some points, without saying that..I also want to get to the point that i may like him as well. Can you help me whip up a poem plz?- THX

i think it would be better if it came from you.. or else you didnt write it and its like taking credit for someones elses poem

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I just bought a shirt from Urban Outfitters and I got the smallest size of the shirt but it was still really long! Like to the bottom of my lower back & butt! I dont know what to do because the rest of the shirt fits good all around. Will shrinking it make it shorter? If not, what else can I do? If I should shrink it can someone give me specific instructions how? Thanks!! Ill rate 5's and give feedback =)

if its made of cotton it will shrink but if its not then i would maybe return it for an x-SMALL

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my bf fingered me and im not sure if he had cum on his fingers before he did. this was last month-feb 9. i got my period feb 28 and i was really worried i was pregnant and i was like soo relieved when i got my period LAST day of feb!! it lasted till i think march 7 or 8. my friend said you can get your period and still be pregnant though. my stomach feels like its getting bigger..i dont know whats up...i took an 8$ test yesterday and it said i wasnt pregnant..but i havent got my period for march yet...im soo worried..helpp...could i be pregnant if the test said no and i had my period last month..and this month i didnt do ANYTHING what so ever?? but it feel s like my stomach is getting bigger!! and it kinda of looks bigger too and i didnt get my period for march...

try taking a different type of test and then if u still fell like you might be pregnant see a doctor

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ok my cuzin wants me to stand up in her 15th birthday they have another name for it but i can't spell it and i'm not gonna waste my time trying to spell it anyways i got 3 months i want to lose some weight! please give me tips on wat to eat and excersing i rate high and do u know how much weight i could possibly lose in 3 months ?

the best way to burn calories is running or swimming (its too cold right now) and drink more water instead of soda

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i like to write songs or poems, well at least try. but everytime that i do at the end they always sound really stupid. so does anyone know any like tips or tricks that i could use to maybe get some decent ideas or to make it not sound so well...corny?

i write poems too and i just try to rhyme things and write about things i know

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Ok I'm 15/f and I had a little peach fuzz..but it was like dark..so starting 7th grade, I shaved it and I liked the results...except for the fact that it grows back a LITTLE thicker and faster...Well the problem is, I'm going on vacation overseas and I need to bring a razor to shave it..except that my parents don't know I do that..I need to shave it or it will grow back gross! Please don't tell me to wax it or buy a kit from a store..and please don't tell me to have a talk with my mom...I don't know what to do!!

i dont think you can bring razors on planes but you could probably buy one when you get there.. i dont really understand what the problem is but how are you going to fix it without talking about it.. whats the worst that can happen?

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I'm kinda bored and I was wondering if there is another advice site. It's not that I don't love this one because I do. It's just that no new questions have been coming in for a while. Does anyone know of an advice site besides www.gurl.com?

www.yesnomaybe.com but i dont kno how good it is or www.wondir.com

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My mom and I had an argument over braces the last week and she got really mad. I'm going to get them anyway and she won't talk to me. It's been almost a week and she always ignores me..and doesn't tell me wen it's time to eat or anything.. PLEASE don't tell me to sit her down and have a talk..we don't have that kind of relationship..and I can't wait it out! Please don't critisize..I rate!

it sounds like your mom wants you to apolaize (i cant spell) and that she is probably really hurt

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I really need some advice.
I am a 15/F ....I have gone out with this one guy about 5 or 6 times (we arent datiing just hooking up). We were introduced by a friend (he's 16) and is (or seems) like a really good guy. My parents are away for the whole weekend and my sister is going to be out tomorrow night and I think this guy is coming over. We have hooked up.. but nothing more then that. I am kind of concerned that something is going to happen that I don't want to happen (i am a virgin). I don't know If i'm just overly worried or what. do u think its a bad idea for him to come over considering the circumstances? Is it suggesting that I want something more then just hooking up? Please give me your advice. Especially the boys here. Thanks.

you could if you really want to but if you do just set him straight before you get into a bad situation

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Well, my friend and i always try to plan going to citywalk, and every time SHE cancels it. I never canceled it. I'm not sure if she really has a reason to cancel it every time, or if she just doesnt want to go with me. If she didn't want to go with me I wish she would just tell me, and I would rather her do that then expect her to go there with me. I'm not sure if I should still try to plan it with her or what. I mean I hope it's just because she has a reasonable explanation. Because I don't think that i'm that bad of a friend, I don't do anything to be mean, and I like to have fun. If you know whats going on, or if you have a idea please help me. I'm totally confused.

just ask her if she really doesnt want to go because you dont really care.

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ok... im dieing here... im not allowed on AIM and im not allowed to watch tv... ive been on this website like allll day and i can't take it anymore... its raining outside... and i don't no why im not allowed to watch tv or go online.. i was allowed on AIM for 15 minutes and thats it... i didn't do anything wrong... can someone give me ideas on waht to do? i have an annoying 11 year old brother and i don't wanna play with him... i can't even play video gamesss!!

aim express maybe

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Ok...im 14 and i have been made fun of since 4th grade....everyday i get called gay and it just makes me feel terrible...and i dont know why they do it ...i make good grades and im a good person... i jsut would like to know what to do...

people do mean things for tons of reasons, but it doesnt mean its true. you just have to learn to ignore them or talk to a teacher or counslor

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I have liked this guy for a while and we have become pretty good friends...but only over the internet. we go to the same school and we know what the other looks like and we even say hi to each other sometimes. its really odd because i feel that i know him so well online but at school he's a total stranger. he hangs out with a weird group of guys and i noticed that all his previously girl friends r sluts, blond, and skinny (no offense to skinny blondes). i am a brunette and im definately not a barbie doll. i wouldnt consider myself ugly tho. i think that if he hung around with a different crowd he might like me. i noticed that he wont talk to me if hes with his friends. i think hes a really great guy with the wrong group of friends. i want to tell him me and him should hang out more in person, but i know his friends are going to say no to that. theres absoulutly nothing wrong with me. what do i do? sorry this is so long. i rate really great!

~ Loves a Guy in the Wrong Crowd ~

his friends dont control his life, if you ask him out, he will say yes or no depending on what he wants, maybe he just likes a certain type of girl

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Hi again people help my out. By the way the people that never heard of me my I'm a girl and I'm 14 and my bff (which is a girl) is 14 and we've experimented 3 times and liked it. She hasn't completly told me her feelings about me but she sends me signs. I've been hesitant to tell her because I wasn't that sure about my being bisexual or straight. Now I'm positively sure I'm bisexual. Know that I've decided to tell my best friend that I'm attracted to her and that I want to be with her I don't know what to say! I mean should I play a love song and sing it to her or get a really good poet and read the love that I have for her from the poet's writing that relates how I've been feeling about her. Help a girl out, Please!!!

why dont you just sit her down and talk to her

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Ok, Im in love with this girl Renee. She is the greatest thing that ever happened to me. I went away with her for a weekend and I was really happy... she was really happy.. We kissed and stuff. We fell asleep in each others arms. The next day when we were heading home she was kind of distant. I noticed it and asked her if she was having second thoughts. she said she didnt like me as much as I like her and that the feelings the felt that night had gone away.. I still love her, deeply, I think about her all the time, and we still talk, but I dont want to love her but I cant help it and its killing me, I'm afraid if I stop loving her, I'll stop liking her all together, and I really dont want that to happen.. Im not entirely convinced that her feelings for me are gone, I think she is just hiding them, not wanting to be hurt... but I'd never hurt her!

What can I do? Should I just keep trying to get over her? Should I persist? Could my theorys be true that she is just hiding her true feelings? HELP!!

17/m

you need to move on.. there are other fishes in the sea. why not try a new hobbie, you'll have fun, learn how to do the hobbie and maybe meet someone in the process

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I have been married for almost 7yrs and since about a year ago I don't feel my husband loves me like he use to what do I do? Recently his coworker told me that he might be stealing do I say anything to him? I am 27yrs old. He is 25. We have four kids. We just boughgt a house.

dont be a doormat, confront him and tell him what others have been saying and how you feel. remember, honesty is the best policy

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