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In your opinion (meaning that if you tell me what you think you'll get a 5), do you think that people should miss out on church in order to do yardwork, study for an exam, play in a soccer tournament, etc? I just want to know what qualifies as an acceptable excuse for not going to church. What other good reasons are there for missing church? -no I'm not trying to avoid going to church-

Thanks!

i dont think you should miss church for any of those reasons. being sick or being on vacation are really the only reasons i can think of.

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What do i get my boyfriend of 3 and a half months for valentines day? i can't get him chocolates or a teddy bear. help me!!!!
i can't really spend anything. Would a card be enough since it's usually the guy who buys the gift?

maybe some flowers or a card or even like some sexy boxers and a card. that would be cute. dont just get him a card, get him something little to go along with it.

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im 13/f. My boyfriend beats on me. I have marks and scars on my arms and legs from him. Im a cheerleader so they always show. I really like him but i hate him when he does this to me. What should i do?

**sleepiesheep**

that is physical abuse. get out of the relationship immediately, and even tell someone if it's that bad. there are so many other guys out there that will actually treat you right.

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Just wondering what you other girls may think.

In a guy, is it more attrative if he is shy and sweet. Or if hes confident and secure.

I think I find it more appealing if a guy is sweet and shy. Its adorable in my eyes, what do you think?

-Sara.

i would say confident. when they are shy and sweet it seems like they are my little brother or something! = )

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I've almost been with my gf for 1 year and was wondering what i should do for our 1 year aniversary... thanks

take her out for a nice dinner and get her some flowers. thats very cute and romantic. happy anniversary!

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Hey what are some good british/european (english) band?!?! i like franz ferdinand, are there some good ones you could recomend?

coldplay
bloc party
doves
gorillaz
keane
oasis
snow patrol
the thrills
hot hot heat

hope you like. = )

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where can i get some cute clogs that look like the ones that are sold at american eagle

ps. they dont sell any at ae anymore

umm why did i get a 1? i answered your question!!

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hey ! i really need a new screen name and i cant think of any good ones !! i want one that maybe has to do with love.. i love abercrombie and hollister so maybe something with that..and i like something maybe with the word glam in it ! oh and by the way, i dont mean all of these things in the same screen name lol, like different ones. lol. &hreats;thanks !

Ex 0h GlAm0r0uS
mixtape 0f l0ve
love ox always
i heart u
l0 l0 l0 ve
anf x hco
hey x love
glam x couture
fashionista Ox
in x lOve
hcobombshell
AF x LOVE
HCO x LOVE
GLAM x LOVE
heart XO breaker

i hope you like some of these! = )

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Does anyone know any good emo punk rock bands or good songs? I will rate high.

yellowcard
something corporate
the strokes
the spill canvas
panic! at the disco
hellogoodbye
fall out boy
the academy is
the all-american rejects
blink-182
death cab for cutie
the early november
the juliana theory
jimmy eat world
motion city soundtrack
relient k
taking back sunday
the used
weezer
hot hot heat
acceptance
mae
the starting line
brand new

hope you like some of these. = )

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do girls call their boyfriends baby or is that just something guys call the girl.?

girls can do it too!!

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I have a simple question that could have a lot of answers. What is a girl's favorite scent on a guy? Specifically, please.

abercrombie & fitch or hollister. both smell really sexy.

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ok heres the thing, proms is in 3 months and i need to lose like 15 or 20 pounds. I need advice on a way i can lose that weight in 3 months. i wanna find a cute dress thats looks good with out the gut and love handles showing through. please help!

--> ashley

all you need to do is workout 5 days a week, and eat right. no junk food! (chips, soda, ice cream, cookies, brownies etc.) its going to be hard, but fruits, vegetables and any protein will really help for you to take off some weight. (eating peanut butter also helps you lose weight faster. not too much though, eat it in portions.) for exercising i would go running or ride a bike. start out with about 20 crunches everyday and you will really start to see a difference in your tummy. make sure to drink plenty of water and stay hydrated.

good luck. = )

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okay has anyone else noticed this...

i saw a picture of mary-kate and ashley olsen today, naked waist up.. it looks like theyve had a boob job?

any one know whether this is true?

mk and ash dont do nude pictures. it was someone who photoshopped it and cropped in their faces. lame, i know.

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15/f

What does it mean if a guy wants to "holla at you?"
thanks

talk to you. it means either he likes you, or thinks your good looking.

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okay i have a light pink and black bed set my room theme is paris where can i find alot of goood accessories i want an old fashion phone and i want to make like a little chill spot in the corner of my room with a little low table and pillows plnket maybe tiiny couches all of this needs to be CHEAP im not a millionaire but i have money so i can afford certain things but i dont want to waste money can people please help me!

www.pbteen.com

also if you go to target, they have tons of things that you want for so cheap and very cute.

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I want to clean up my room and make it less depressing. What can I do to my room to make it more outgoing cool and happier?

put bright colors. add lights to your room. put pictures of colorful/happy things on the wall. get a comforter that will stand out. heres some ideas of some things you could do to your room to make it look cool and happy. = )

http://ww1.pbteen.com/cat/index.cfm?snav=1&cid=thmgrl&area=rms

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Does anybody know the meaning of the song Soul Meets Body? I understand bits and pieces of it, but overall I'm pretty confused of the true meaning.

http://www.songmeanings.net/lyric.php?lid=3530822107858549428

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ok soo does any one have any good truth or dare questions/dares?

www.tordol.com

that website you choose the age and pick truth or dare and they give you one.

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Please do not delete Im honestly 100% want to know this.
Do you believe in Aliens?
Life on other planets, Aliens.
Thank you.

i dont at all. it all sounds like such a joke to me.

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