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i was wondering if there are any products that would get rid of really bad frizz. I would like to have my hair be curly, but every time i let it dry by itself, or i curl it, it gets EXTREMELY frizzy. The only way that i get rid of the frizz is by straightening it. so i need products that work really well. Thanks!!!
Hey there,
You never really mentioned if you have natural curly hair, But.. I have natural curly hair and what I use to control frizz is a hydrating conditioner and a good serum.
After conditioning your hair, dry it and while your hair is still damp, apply a D-Frizz Serum. The one I use is called "Strictly Curls D-Frizz Serum". It works very well to keep the frizzyness down.
If you find this one particular brand does not work too well for yourself, because all curls are different, there are several d-frizz serums out there. Any conditioner that says Hydrating and any d-frizz serum, are the best products for controlling frizz. I am sure you will find another that will work for you if this one does not do the trick
Good luck :)
~ gr8fruit
well.. herz the thing..
i maaadly in love with this guy.. he isnt my dream guy AT ALL.. but for some reason i have the strongest feelings towards him..
2 years ago he asked me out.. i sayd yes.. but he ended up hurting me so badely and leaving me.. then after a few months he asked me again.. i agreed cuz i was still in love with him ... and he left me again.. because i was grounded (i was caught dating)and i had no phone and coudn't go out .. and he wanted a gurl that he could acctually see and touch..
then he came to me again after some months and asked me again.. he told me that he changed and that he is sory for the past and he doesn't care if am grounded or no .. and he just wants to be with me.. i defenetly sayd yes..
and now we are together.. he talked about marrying him.. and i just love him more than ever.. but hes never around.. and he doesn't express his feelings.. i taled some of my friends and they think that he's cheating on me.. but i trust him blindly..
i never saw him.. and i rarely hear his voice.. its been a month now and we havng talkd.. i miss him like hell..
i just want him to be around more often .. so what can i do?? and y isnt he around ???
plzzzzzz help mee.. am despret 4 an answer...
thnxx all.. apressiating everything.. xoxox
Hey,
It sounds like you really miss him. I would try to find a way to contact him, through e-mail, by phone, or just face to face. You never mentioned where he went or anything like that, but contacting him would be the best way to sort things out. If he is trusting and understanding then he wont mind talking with you about all the things you are wondering.
The reason he isnt around is most likely because he is trying to figure things out for himself and just needs time away from it all. Or maybe he is needing to get away for a while from another issue he is having in his life. Either way, he is probably getting away from it all to sort things out and make time for everything, including you.
By the sounds of it, most of all you ahould trust your conscience. If you think things with him are getting a little strange then stand aside for a short while and watch how things are going in your relationship with him to decide if it is worth keeping. He should come back very soon to see you if he loves you the way he says.
Talking about it is the best way to figure out what is happening and to strengthen your relationship
Good luck :)
okay well first off thanks so much if you take the time to read this...so yeah..we're in love. but i don't wanna be that annoying clingy girlfriend so can you give me an honest opinion if you think im clingy or any other advice to not be, or what to do on anything...
ok so heres my story:
i've been dating a guy for about 7 months...were both 16. we live in different towns so we see each other usually about twice a week. we spend a huge majority of the weekend together and he has a lot of friends he could be hanging out with but hes always with me..i told him he could go party with his guys but he won't i think because he thinks i would get sorta upset with him...but i understand if he needs a guys night, just like i need a girls night...i introduced him to like all of my friends and we hang out a lot but we never really hang out with his friends and i even told him that id like to, but he doesn't seem to want to...why is that? so do you think im being a bad girlfriend in any way? or any advice on anything i mentioned? thanks soo much.
Hey,
I do not think you are clingy at all. I think he just wants to be with you more than his guys. You probly understand some of his personal problems better then his buds do, he can talk to you about basically anything, he respects you, you probly have more interesting topics, he is more of a ladies man where he would much rather spend time with girls then guys anyhow, and you are definately cuter then any of his guy friends ;) I do not think you are a bad girlfriend at all, you respect his boundries by the sounds of it, and you guys seem to communicate well :) I would just say, don't seem so free to tell him to go with his bros all the time, for he might think you are trying to blow him off.. just go about things as they are, and when he does need a day with his friends, let him have his day. As you need your day with gals, he will eventually need his. Sounds as if you are doing great :)
Keep it up ;)
Lots of Luv
14(almost 15 next month) female
Ok, so, I like this guy..a lot. And we're kinda friends but not really. We only talk about once or twice a week. He's always around girls and I don't know if he's seeig someone or not. I don't want to ask him because it would be a little too personal right? We don't have any classes together but his locker is a couple away from mine. Whenever we're getting our books it's just so akward and i don't know if I should talk to him! What should i say?? Sometimes i think he likes me back and sometimes i just don't think we're going to work out. Oh and whenever i pass him in the hallway, it seems like he's trying to avoid eye contact. What does that mean?? When ever me and my friend see him in the hall he gives her a hug but not me..he started giving me these playful flicks in the ear but i told him to stop. Why don't i get hugs? Why can't we be more than friends...and...does he like me back because it's just totally killing me!...
P.S: He sometimes gives me this look like he's interested but I can't read guys. It just confuses me!
Hey there,
I would say, yes :) He does like you, but he is a shy guy ;)
You could just watch him casually to see if he spends more time with a specific girl to know if he is dating anyone, but I doubt he would be since he is flirting with you :) Asking him directly might scare him away at first because it may seem very to-the-point so soon. I think you should for sure talk to him. Walk up to him and say hi, get to know him better by asking about his everyday life and what his hobbies are.
Giving a girl a hug is just a cute way to say 'I just want to be good friends' so don't worry if you are not getting any at the moment.
Avoiding eye contact is a way that guys hint they like you, and are to shy to just say it outloud. Flicking you on the ear is another definate sign this guy likes you! Any kind of touching on your hand,face,or body is a sign of love.. so whatever you are doing, it is working :)
Just be true to who you are, gain the courage to talk to him, and you will be on your way to a potential relationship ;)
Good luck! :D
16/f....i want to do amazing things for my boyfriend...like things to show him that i care
this might sound bad but honestly, he doesn't do any amazing things for me ...like whenever we hang out we just go see a movie or whatever, don't get me wrong, i love him with all my heart but i want that relationship where we do amazing things for each other if you get what i mean...it could be anything to make him happy and know that i really care =)
Hey,
Heres a few things you could do: You could write a list of everything you love about your boyfriend; all the little things he does that you love and leave it on his pillow for him to find, place his favorite chocolates in a path leading him to an ultimate gift (such as you ;) ..), bake him special heart shaped cookies, go for a lakeside walk, watch the stars together, have a spa day for the two of you, play truth or dare, cuddle with eachother, tell 'remember when' stories, kiss him on the cheek and then look away as if you never did it, make him breakfast in bed, give him a massage.. :)
Good luck ;)
Okay well this isn't really about a computer it's about my phone which is like a hand held so I guess it's kind of like a mini computer.
well anyways I have a t-mobile wing and it has a scratch on the screen, I've been trying to get rid of it for the longest time I can't send it in to get a new screen because that costs to much money, and I've tried going to yahoo and searching in "how to get rid of scratches on a cell phone screen"
Hey there,
Try clear nailpolish, it worked for me
Good luck :)
sorry, i wasn't sure exactly what category to put this under... but i kind of need some help. you see, i always get harrassed by personal trainers at the gym! and it's sooo annoying! like, a few times, i can understand that they're flirting. but, it's really gotten to an extreme. i use to be really fat and then got like super super fit and now i'm like a fitness fanatic, and i live at the gym, pretty much. I would LOVE to have a trainer, only because it makes things so much easier, and you don't really have to think about what you have to workout that day, they already have it planned out for you. but, unfortunately i can't afford a trainer right now. my family is having a financial crisis. the economy has effected us. However, I can't complain, because we are surviving. But, trainers are expensive, and right now, I don't have 100 an hour to give him. but, i feel kind of bad because he gave me a complimentary session and he was like "i can't wait to start training you," and all of that. so, i didn't tell him no straight out. so, now he's waiting. but, i don't know how to tell him that right now, we just can't afford him. that's like a luxury and it was absolutely necessary, I would do it. But, i know what i'm doing. What should I do? How can I tell him? And then there's this old trainer there, he's like this gross old man, whose always harassing me. like, he wanted me to do my assessment, which is like a physical, pretty much, that they do for you when you join the gym. i never got to do it with him, and my mom called him and told him that i couldn't do it right now, and that was that. so, then this new trainer, the one who wants to train me now, Vicente, did it for me. It's not like I had that happen on purpose. It just worked out that way because we were there on the same day, and he did it. So, then the old trainer saw us, and comes up to me and says "So, your mom finally let you come?" and I was like "my mom doesn't tell me what to do. I make my own decisions." How rude!! My mom doesn't tell me what to do first of all. I'm 18 years old. She was just helping me out, because he kept calling me like every 2 seconds. And second of all, how rude!! And then the other day when I was working out, he comes up to me and goes "I saw the side steps you were doing. Did you learn that from Vincente?" He's super scary!!!!!! Anyway, what should I do about both of these gentlemen?
thanks in advance.
Hey,
What to do with this old trainer? I would tell him to back off, or find someone who will help you get him off your back. I'm glad your mom is helping, even if you can take care of yourself. Hopefully he will get the hint when more people are telling him. He doesn't have the right to stick his nose in your business or push you around. Good for you for sticking up for yourself
About the other trainer, I would tell him the truth. Tell Vincente that is it nice of him to offer, but you don't have enough money at the moment. Try not to sound too depressed, just calmly tell him straight out. Say to him, that as soon as you get the money you will take up his offer and start training with him. It sounds as if he likes you :) If you tell him about your issue with money and the other trainer im sure he would back you up and understand your situation. Who knows maybe he will offer you more complimentary sessions ;)
Good luck :)
I'm Vice President of a club at school where we raise money for charities and become more "wordly". I would like to get "snail mail" pen pals for all the members in this club. Does anybody know how?
Hey there,
You could try many online sites, such as penpalsnow.com Once there you may enter some information about yourself and soon enough you will recieve tons of people wanting to be your penpal from around the world. Im sure you can select if you want to only talk to those in certain countries, age zones, and such on this site.
Another website is: newfriends4u.com
Or you can go here: http://www.jevontech.com/penpals.html and check out any of the websites at the bottom
Hope this helped ;)
~ gr8fruit
Ok, so i take this medicine that makes it really hard to lose wieght. Does anyone know of a way that is relatively easy to shed those unwanted pounds? I have tried eating right, exercising and everything imaginable. Any advice? What has worked for you?
Hey there,
I have taken meds that have done the same thing. All I needed to shed some pounds, was some patience. Keep continuing with a healthly diet, regular exercise, and a positive attitude, and you will be able to reach your goal. It never will happen overnight, but slowly and surely is the way to your success ;)
I'm going to prom this year and i want a unique but stylish prom hairstyle but i do not want it to be a complete updo i want some hair to be down so if you have any ideas please share and if u know wear i can find some nice hairdos please let me know
Thanks
I could help you, But I would have to know what style of hair you have and how long/short it is :)Send me a message back ;)
~gr8fruit
So, there's this kid that I've been talking to for a while. We used to be totally into each other, but we weren't dating because of how far we lived from each other (an hour) and the both of us can't drive. He's also sixteen and I'm fourteen.
We used to talk a lot, but he figured out that he liked this other girl who went to his high school, so he just forgot about me and dated her. We stopped talking for a couple months and he still occassionally talks to me. I recently told him I never got over him and it's been about five months since he told me he liked the other girl. Sometimes I ask him if he's completely over me and he goes, "Idk." So, that gives absolutely no help whatsoever. He dated the girl for about a month until they broke up, but I'm pretty sure he's still in love with her. He still tells me he misses me and wishes he could see me more often and when he does, it makes me feel great, but then there are days when I talk to him and I can just tell that he doesn't want to talk to me because he only answers with one word. For example, I would say, "What's up?" and he would just go, "Nothing." And then the conversation would end. Then, there are other days when he's totally hype about talking to me! My friend makes fun of him and calls him bipolar, but I still love him.
My actually question is, Does he still like me? Or does he just feel bad that I still like him and he doesn't feel the same way, so he flirts with me?
And, what can I do to get over this kid? Everytime I hear, see, or someone mentions his name, I cringe. It's really that bad. I can't go through a day without thinking of him.
Help? Please! Thanks in advance to whoever answers.
I apologize for the length.
Hey,
First, I really doubt he is bipolar. The reason he said 'idk' is most likely because he still likes you, but is unsure of his feelings for the other girl. Answering in one-word responses may be his way of walking past the topic of having troubles with his home life, because he doesnt feel like talking to anyone about it at certain times. He probably has a lot on his mind, and it is not you specifically that he doesnt want to talk to at these times, so try not to single yourself out. It sounds as if he does like you, but is just having trouble trying to find time to spend with you to confirm his answer. Try spending time with other people, such as friends and get involved in some activities you enjoy to free your mind from him a bit if you need to. The only reason you cringe when you hear his name is because you still have feelings for him and you know he has had a different relationship. I am sure he does like you. Try to find ways where you could hang out with more time to talk and do things together. The more time you earn with him, the more you will learn about eachother. Plus, he may want to tell you in person
Good luck :)
This is gonna be long...I'm just looking for opinions here, this is obviously something I need to figure out for myself. But, I need some outsiders to look at this situation for me. I'm too stuck in the middle to step out. I'm 21, and a girl.
Guy #1 - Jeremy. He's 23.
Jeremy and I have almost three and a half years of history together. Unfortunately the history isn't all positive. He was emotionally abusive for the entirety of our "official" relationship, and caused me some major issues (depression, anorexia). We dated for awhile in '05-'06, but broke up because he was having depression issues and couldn't handle our relationship on top of all that...but we never really broke up. We stayed friends with benefits for two years after that. We both felt that we had no time for a real relationship, and it wasn't really one until recently. At some point I realized he wasn't treating me well enough, so I wrote him a goodbye letter and told him I never wanted to see him again. He gave me back my key, and left. A week later, he called me and begged me for another chance at friendship, and after much hesitating, I agreed. He was like a completely different person. It seemed that he'd had some sort of epiphany while I was gone, and changed for the better. He started complimenting me, being really sweet, and just...yeah.
That would've been fine, except that Jeremy's family hates me. They threatened to cut him off financially if they ever saw me again at one point. He's had some major issues, including ankle surgery, a...sexual problem (blocked vein, or something), and because he's been couch-ridden and all that, we haven't been physically very close lately, and I've been hanging out with other people. The thing is, recently, Jeremy has become the sweetest man I've ever met. The other night, he came over and brought my favorite wine with two pounds of strawberries. We melted dark chocolate chips I had and dipped strawberries in chocolate all night, and cuddled. It was, like, perfect. He's doing and saying all these things now I used to dream about him doing, including playing with my hair like he never used to.
Guy #2 - Erik. He's 27.
I work as a barista in a coffee shop. Erik's one of the regulars. We started really hanging out one night after I'd come home from Jeremy's house and gone straight to the coffee shop, upset after having been kicked out by his parents. Erik asked why I looked so upset, so I bitched to him At some point, I said, jokingly, "I need a drink." He said, "well I can't help you with Jeremy's parents, but I can definitely help you with that." So that weekend we went to the bar and he bought me a drink. We talked, and connected, and he surprised me a lot. My first impression of him was quite wrong, as he came off as kind of a computer geek and nothing else...but he's really intelligent, strong, cute, likes to have fun, likes to laugh...He's also an amazing kisser. When I was little, I used to write little romance-type-stories, and the guys always used to tangle their fingers in the girl's hair when they kissed, and Erik does that exactly the way I envisioned it. He's like, freakishly perfect for me, aside from being a little out of shape...but guys I date always wind up at the gym with me anyway. Only problem I seem to be having is that he's shaping up to be quite possessive. Erik has been in California for a week. I hung out with Jeremy once while he was gone, AT my coffeeshop. Erik's friends called him and told him I was hanging out with Jeremy. When I called him later, I had nothing to hide, and I was about to tell him. But he was being so cold, I finally asked what his deal was, and then he said "I was informed that you were hanging out with Jeremy." I feel like his friends are stalking me, and it's a little creepy. Then again, I've never dated a guy who didn't become possessive and jealous if they didn't start out that way. Yes, I've already discussed this with him, but it's still a factor...it's drama I don't want or need. I'm in my last semester of my undergrad, and the last thing I need is to be distracted from my schooling.
Anyway, Erik's family appears to like me. Erik and I think alike. We're both Scorpios (not that I put much stock in that...Jeremy's Cancer.)...Erik has a job, has his life together, and doesn't mind whipping out the credit card every so often. He lives with his parents, but he's looking for his own place.
Jeremy has no income, still lives with his family...but even with all the crap going on in his life, he's taken me out to lunch, brought me strawberries, brought me chocolates...he's trying really hard to do everything he can for me...but I can't help wondering if he's not doing it because he thought he was losing me, and he'll just snap back to taking me for granted as soon as I commit.
Both guys know about each other. This is all out in the open. I took my time telling Jeremy about Erik, but when I finally did, after agreeing to not contact each other for a week, he said, "I'll be damned if I let Erik prance in with his contact lenses and web design and take you from me." Which, I hate to admit, is kind of romantic, in a way...Jeremy is a guy who doesn't apologize, doesn't chase girls, and doesn't beg, but he's done all of that recently for me.
The idea that the bad-boy is trying to be a good-guy to keep me close to him, is willing to overcome his commitment phobia and commit to me, has even threatened to leave his parents' house and never speak to them again if they didn't back off about me, and has basically turned into prince charming, is pretty enticing.
But I also feel that I can't ignore the fact that I have a thing for Erik...can I? I mean if my relationship with Jeremy were what it was supposed to be, that wouldn't have happened, would it? I'd like to just kind of see them both and figure out who I really want, but they both gave me the "me or him" ultimatum, so I have to make a decision quickly.
I admit, I'm a little afraid that going back to Jeremy will turn into what it was before. I'm afraid to lose him, and I almost feel that if we did get back together, it would be for good. I've had dreams about marrying him...
I'm also a little afraid that Erik will turn out to be some horrible jealous, possessive man, and that I'll be in a worse hell than I was before.
At least Jeremy can back off. He's willing to give me a week apart, knowing full well that I could be hanging out with Erik, and trusting that I'll make the right decision...but our history has been bad - he hasn't treated me right in the past, I've tried to kick him out, his family gives me headaches, and I just...argh.
I don't know who to pick, which way to turn, or how to go about picking.
Help me...
Hey,
That does sound like a very hard decision. Both guys are equally caring and almost equally heartbreaking. It sounds that Jeremy is a way nicer guy and in the long run you could possibly get by how his family treats you and just be happy with him. You could both have a job to support yourselves, move sort of away from his family, and live together. Jeremy already treats you with respect, does cute things for you, is understanding, and does it all from the heart.
Eric seems way more controlling and defensive than Jeremy. Sure he is nice,and sweet at times, but if he has to send his friends to check on you to see if you arent with another guy when you havn't even confirmed you two were dating, it already seems possessive. Believe me, you do not want to end up in an abusive realationship, like you said. If I were you I would try to stay away from Eric because the closer you get to him the more possessive he may get.
Jeremy sounds like he can change, has changed, and will stay a changed in a good way for you.
Are you to choose a guy who has everything you ever wanted and more, but with a family that troubles you?
Or are you to chose someone who has everything and more, but has a history of 'stalking' you, and becoming jealous easily?
Its all up to you.
Good luck :)
i want to make this valentines day unforgettable for my boyfriend....i want to be alone with him but its so hard cause my parents are always home and so are his. we wanna do stuff but not necessarily have sex just yet...so my question is, where is a good place where we can be alone and do things? and what are some things guys go crazy for? thankss
were both 16 and can drive, if that matters
Try this recipe (a family favorite): Sugar Cookies :)
2 cups white sugar
2 cups margarine or butter
4 eggs
5 cups flour
2 teaspoons baking soda
1 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon vanilla
Directions:
Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Mix all the ingredients adding one at a time. Roll the dough on a lightly floured surface, cut with cookie cutters, and place on greased baking sheet. Bake for only five minutes, remove from oven and move cookies onto a cooling rack or towel.
Have fun and enjoy! :D
~ Luv gr8fruit
Hey there,
Im 16f as well.
Sounds like a very special day :)
See if you can have a room in the house all to yourselves. You could cuddle in your room while watching a movie, talk about what makes you happy together, play truth or dare, play a board game, or you could print this picture with the quote on it and bake cookies like this for him ;) http://my.opera.com/Beeks/blog/nintendo-treats-kind-of#comments
Check out these sites, there are some great ideas! http://www.theromantic.com/stories/games/main.htm http://hubpages.com/hub/Indoor-Activities-That-Bring-Couples-Closer-Together
Good Luck ;)
are there any websites that let you write to people your age from other countries? like a penpal sort of thing?
i used to have BearShare and only used it for the instant messaging feature but i got a new computer and i haven't been able to re-download it.
but i really enjoyed talking to people from Europe mainly because i speak english and french.
Hey there,
Try penpalsnow.com! Its an awesome site :) or you could go to girlslife.com and they have a penpal section where you can mail your address to them with things that you enjoy doing and they will mail you five perfect matches :)
"To think too long about doing a thing often becomes its undoing."
what does eva young mean in this quote? is she promoting impulsiveness and just "go with your gut" and don't think about it?
She means "If you think about something to long, you may end up only ever thinking about it and never get it done, or may never do it."
Or, in other words "Do something before its too late" , "Get at it before the opportunities gone" , "Don't waste your time thinking, when you could be doing"
I've been going out with this guy for a few weeks now and he always makes dinner for me using his family's italian recipies. So I promised him that I was going to make him dinner. But now I dont know what to make. He's a really good cook and I know I'm not so something simple but tasty would be good. He's always asking me to make him something but I don't think he knows quite how terrible my cooking skills are. So what can I make?
Hey,
I think there are many things you can cook ;)
Im not to sure of the foods you or him like, but
Try this: A chicken stir fry
You will need:
~ 1 1/2 cups of different vegetables that you like, cut into bite sized pieces
- 1 1/2 cups chicken broth
- 1 1/2 cups Minute rice (one cup broth or water = one cup minute rice, In case you need to make more)
- 2 pieces boneless chicken breasts, cut into bite sized pieces
Put the vegetables in a frying pan with some butter, fry them up until they are tender. Then pour in the chicken broth and minute rice. The broth just adds to the flavour, instead of just using water. Stir until rice is cooked. Set aside, or keep on minimum heat and stir occasionally.
While doing this or right after, you can cook the chicken in the oven. Take a cookie sheet, spray it with Pam or grease it with butter, and lay all the chicken pieces on top. Bake at 350 degrees until they are golden brown on top. Or just taste one if you are unsure.
When the chicken is done, put the chicken with the vegetables and rice and stir together. There may be about 1/4 cup broth still left in the bottom of the frying pan, if not you can pour a little into the mixture.
Place a lid on the pan and let sit for two minutes,the rice and chicken will soak up the borth. Then dig in!
You could also make pasta with garlic bread for him, a fruit salad, sausage with mashed potatoes, boil some fresh corn, make stuffed peppers, caeser salad, lasagna is good (boil the noodles in a frying pan before you layer the lasagna if you do make one), homemade soup, grilled ham and cheese sandwiches, boil some eggs (you will know if they are done when you lift an egg out and it dries off within ~2 seconds)and make deviled eggs or egg salad sandwiches.
Smoothies are good drinks. Mix any fruits that you like into a blender, add some milk, and a few scoops of ice cream. That is all you need.
Dessert? Try jello, pudding, or strawberries dipped in melted chocolate :)
Whatever you decide to make, im sure he will love it no matter what ;)
Good Luck!
i wanna start using tampons. how do i know what size i should buy?
First, you may have to know how much you bleed, and then find the absorbancy level that suits you on the side of the box. or Just know, if you bleed a little only use a light tampon, or if you bleed lots, use a higher absorbancy tampon. Believe me, you will know if you need a higher absorbancy then the one you chose if you bleed through after only a short period of time. If you do bleed a fair amount you could also change tampons more often, at a low absorbancy level if you have the patience. Always use the lowest absorbancy level possible for yourself. Soon enough you will find which size/absorbancy suits you best just by trying what you think will work, and going from there.
Hope I helped :) Good Luck
Me and my boyfriends are spending new years at his place. He isn't a very out-going guy, but I like to dance, and do up beat energetic things, like karaoke and stuff, he doesnt. He isnt much on holiday and I am, he wants to play video games and thats how he wants to spend his holidays. I do not know why, but he treats it like an every day thing, and its not. Holidays are important to me, especially for a family. Anyways, his parents might be going out so it would be me his brother and probably one or 2 of his friends, (btw he works at a restaurant and therefor will be working new years eve) It is going to be me and like 3 guys that are just gonna wanna do NOTHING! I want to know some ideas of how to make the night fun, I have the game Taboo and its awsome but what else can we do where we can spend time with each other and not the tv! Maybe some things that his friends would like to. His brotehr is 17 and me and the rest of the guys range from 19-21. What are some fun activities we can do to bring in teh new year???
How about board games, break out a bit of bubbly, do crazy things like sucking jello out of eachothers belly buttons, make eachothers hair funky, prank call people you know with weird voices, or watch music videos and try to imitate the dancers
Alright.. background on this story. My best friend (let's call her "A") goes to this camp with my other good friend ("B"), and they goes to church with everybody from camp. Long story short, "A" met this boy who's currently her boyfriend of 3 months.
Yesterday, 11/3: "A" went to church, & I guess she got to 3rd with her boyfriend...right outside of the church doors. Gross, right? She's never been so bad, I don't know what this is coming to. And the reason I'm so pissed is because she didn't even tell me.. I heard from "B".
What do I do? Should I be mad?..
Hey there,
I think you shouldn't be mad just yet because there has to be some logical explanation. The reason she hasnt told you is because she is probly embarassed and doesn't want to talk about it right now. Or doesnt know how to bring it up in a convo with you. The only real way to know is to confront her and talk about the situation. Let her know how you feel, ask her why she did what she did, even if it may seem awkward. Communication is the only way to know. Dont get upset so soon. Just talk to her
Good Luck :)
15/f
me and my best friend have been friends for about 3 years. We pretty much do everything together and we normally always have a good time. we never even really fight. lately though she has been getting on my last nerve. she just does stupid annoying things all the time like we were at a sleepover with some people and we were all talking and she just started playing music on her phone and singing and it was really annoying. and she always tries to do things for attention and she is a downer. everytime we hang out with a group of people something is wrong with her, i can't stand it anymore. she like changed over the summer, and is more immature and gosh i don't know what to do. i mean if i lose her as a friend, i really wouldn't have anyone else besides my boyfriend because i don't have any other really close friends. i'm not the best at like getting close with people it takes me awhile [there really is no reason behind that its just the way i am]. i don't want to lose her as friend either though ahh. any advice at all on anything in this really long thing [sorry about that btw] would be great. thank s a ton!
Hey, Im 16f and I have been in exactly the same situation. My best friend and I did everything together. She dumped me and now I am left with nothing, I don't even have a boyfriend. The only difference is she dumped me for my BROTHER and now I have to see her with him everyday. I think your friend is just trying to gain attention to herself because maybe she feels neglected or out of place when around a group of people. You should tell her how you feel about your relationship as friends and about how you feel shes changed and not herself anymore. Sometimes you just have to wait it out and let her come to you and tell you how she feels. Communication will help you realize if it is really worth it or not. There is more to life than this one girl, you have to be open to meeting anyone. Being too close to a person may grow on you as if you can't let go. And sometimes, moving on is the only answer. True friends come with a small price.