Alright.. background on this story. My best friend (let's call her "A") goes to this camp with my other good friend ("B"), and they goes to church with everybody from camp. Long story short, "A" met this boy who's currently her boyfriend of 3 months.
Yesterday, 11/3: "A" went to church, & I guess she got to 3rd with her boyfriend...right outside of the church doors. Gross, right? She's never been so bad, I don't know what this is coming to. And the reason I'm so pissed is because she didn't even tell me.. I heard from "B".
What do I do? Should I be mad?..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? christina12677 answered Tuesday November 4 2008, 9:01 am: don't be mad. i guess its human to be alittle mad because she is supposed to be yor best friend. and best friends tell each other everything, no matter what it is. But dont be too mad. I think that she was just scared to tell you because she didn't want you to think lower of her. To think that she was slutty, or dusgusting. You should just be thre for her, in a good way and show her that you are glad that you found out, or that she told you, that way next time when something happens, she will be sure to tell you. show her that you won't judge her in any way. I hope that makes sense.....i hope this helped...goodluck! [ christina12677's advice column | Ask christina12677 A Question ]
gr8fruit answered Monday November 3 2008, 9:44 pm: Hey there,
I think you shouldn't be mad just yet because there has to be some logical explanation. The reason she hasnt told you is because she is probly embarassed and doesn't want to talk about it right now. Or doesnt know how to bring it up in a convo with you. The only real way to know is to confront her and talk about the situation. Let her know how you feel, ask her why she did what she did, even if it may seem awkward. Communication is the only way to know. Dont get upset so soon. Just talk to her
Good Luck :) [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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