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clingy girlfriend?
okay well first off thanks so much if you take the time to read this...so yeah..we're in love. but i don't wanna be that annoying clingy girlfriend so can you give me an honest opinion if you think im clingy or any other advice to not be, or what to do on anything...
ok so heres my story:
i've been dating a guy for about 7 months...were both 16. we live in different towns so we see each other usually about twice a week. we spend a huge majority of the weekend together and he has a lot of friends he could be hanging out with but hes always with me..i told him he could go party with his guys but he won't i think because he thinks i would get sorta upset with him...but i understand if he needs a guys night, just like i need a girls night...i introduced him to like all of my friends and we hang out a lot but we never really hang out with his friends and i even told him that id like to, but he doesn't seem to want to...why is that? so do you think im being a bad girlfriend in any way? or any advice on anything i mentioned? thanks soo much.
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Maybe there's a reason he doesn't want you around his friends. That's the way I take it. I'm sure he has true feelings for you and knows what's best for you. You should talk to him and ask him what the reason is for him not wanting to hang with his friends while talking to you. He shouldn't have a problem answering. Try that, it's the first step to finding out an answer :D
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Hey,
I do not think you are clingy at all. I think he just wants to be with you more than his guys. You probly understand some of his personal problems better then his buds do, he can talk to you about basically anything, he respects you, you probly have more interesting topics, he is more of a ladies man where he would much rather spend time with girls then guys anyhow, and you are definately cuter then any of his guy friends ;) I do not think you are a bad girlfriend at all, you respect his boundries by the sounds of it, and you guys seem to communicate well :) I would just say, don't seem so free to tell him to go with his bros all the time, for he might think you are trying to blow him off.. just go about things as they are, and when he does need a day with his friends, let him have his day. As you need your day with gals, he will eventually need his. Sounds as if you are doing great :)
Keep it up ;)
Lots of Luv <3
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