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Does he like me back? It's killing me..
14(almost 15 next month) female
Ok, so, I like this guy..a lot. And we're kinda friends but not really. We only talk about once or twice a week. He's always around girls and I don't know if he's seeig someone or not. I don't want to ask him because it would be a little too personal right? We don't have any classes together but his locker is a couple away from mine. Whenever we're getting our books it's just so akward and i don't know if I should talk to him! What should i say?? Sometimes i think he likes me back and sometimes i just don't think we're going to work out. Oh and whenever i pass him in the hallway, it seems like he's trying to avoid eye contact. What does that mean?? When ever me and my friend see him in the hall he gives her a hug but not me..he started giving me these playful flicks in the ear but i told him to stop. Why don't i get hugs? Why can't we be more than friends...and...does he like me back because it's just totally killing me!...
P.S: He sometimes gives me this look like he's interested but I can't read guys. It just confuses me!
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If you want to talk to him when your at your lockers ask very casually and coolly as if your not interested (and when no one is between you too) "What do you have for homework so far?" and just keep putting small talk up a different times (not all in one day either!!!) And bring when he's hugging your friend and about to turn before he turns around say something like, "Hey remember when you would flick my ear?" and if your lucky he'll say something like, "Yeah like this you mean?" or even if hey doesnt a just says "Yeah.", you should say "Well it doesnt bother me anymore" or something along those lines in your own words or in mine.
Lead him on, go out in small groups of friends, try to sit next him and make small talk. When your walking around your school pretend your unavaileable and he will want you more (if he does at all that is) get a picture of some random hot guy of the internet that looks your age and put it on ur locker door and after like a 2 weeks take it down and pretend that your sad cause the fake guy dumped you and your real guy might feel sorry for you and ask you out.
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Hey there,
I would say, yes :) He does like you, but he is a shy guy ;)
You could just watch him casually to see if he spends more time with a specific girl to know if he is dating anyone, but I doubt he would be since he is flirting with you :) Asking him directly might scare him away at first because it may seem very to-the-point so soon. I think you should for sure talk to him. Walk up to him and say hi, get to know him better by asking about his everyday life and what his hobbies are.
Giving a girl a hug is just a cute way to say 'I just want to be good friends' so don't worry if you are not getting any at the moment.
Avoiding eye contact is a way that guys hint they like you, and are to shy to just say it outloud. Flicking you on the ear is another definate sign this guy likes you! Any kind of touching on your hand,face,or body is a sign of love.. so whatever you are doing, it is working :)
Just be true to who you are, gain the courage to talk to him, and you will be on your way to a potential relationship ;)
Good luck! :D
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