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My name is Kristen, and I'm seventeen years old.

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I have dark hair around my bellybutton and when I wear a two piece swimsuit, you can sorta see it, and it bothers me! I don't want to shave it! I dunno why I have hair THERE... any advice would be greatly appreciated!

i'd say wax it. it will hurt, but the hair will be gone. don't use nair, it might leave a rash. g/l. drop one in my inbox or IM me if you need more help.

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i threw up the other day like 9 times and maybe ate 3 little things like half a slice of turkey, a little piece of chicken from a salad, and a bannanna. i wuz sick that day cuz i had sumthing really bad to eat the day before. well the next day i had a bowl of ceral {{wif milk}} for breakfeast/lunch. then i had black beans and rice for dinner and sum plantanes and like two pieces of a slice of pork. today i had nothing at all to eat. im waiting for my bgi brother to come home with food. we have no food at home. its 12:30 and im really hungry. ive been missing meals etc. lately and getting really hungry. can this turn into belemia or inerexia? it been like maybe 3 days can i get that in just 3 days? help me out im scared.

no you are just sick. sometimes when your sick you just lose you're appetite and stuff like this happens. just call your doctor and see what to do. best wishes!! feel better soon

xo Kristen

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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else?

don't listen to what other people say. you like him and that's all that matters. good luck!! send me a message if you need more help

Kristen

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ok, i dont know exactly how to get a reputaion of sum kind in 6th grade. I have a popular friend that i dont usualy hang out with. should i start hanging out with her in order to get kool. or not?

don't hang out with someone just to become popular. you don't need to be popular, it's not important. just be yourself and make new friends. but don't use her to gain a social status.

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I'm 13/f, and i live in florida. does anyone know where i could get a job?(well, im 13 next week.) i'm in the tampa area (palm harbor) and i'm really into music (a gig job would be AWESUM) (i'm learning guitar, and i sing) thanks!
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i really don't think places will hire that young. for now you can just babysit and that sort of thing.just keep working at the guitar and your singing and maybe someone will notice you!! best wishes

Kristen

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ok...i live in st.louis and my b-day is this november...well i want to have a hole bunch of friends over but i have no clu what to do at my party! like i dont want to get in truble for beaing to loud or anything.....but wuld be some good stuff to do and i cant do a pool party cuz i dunt have a pool :/ i need good ideas! plz help

well it depends how old you are. if you send me a message i might be able to help you better

have a sleepover
party with music and dancing and stuff
go bowling

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for skin-i have pimples on my cheeks and chin and i want clear skin be4 school...any ideas anyone?
for hair-i have blonde hair, down just a little bit past my shoulders, blue eyes, im 5'3'' and skinny, what type of cut should i get (no bangs).??

for skin-- get something with benzoyl peroxide in it

for your hair-- get it layered, highlights, just look in magazines and see if there's anything you like

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Has anyone in here ever tried smoking pot and their not a complete pt head? I want to try it cause it looks and sounds fun.. but I don't want to become a pot-head. I just want to know what its like ur first time.

I want to be able to smoke with my boyfriend.. and not like caugh and stuff.. but not like have to rely on pot to have fun.

Can anyone tell me what its like to try it for the first time??

don't do it!! it's not healthy and it doesn't make you any cooler. you shoudln't do it, and niether should your boyfriend; it's messed up.

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is it normal for me to be crying over little things when i get my period??

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yeah it's normal... hormones and such.. drop one in my inbox or IM me if you need more help!

xox Kristen

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Can anydoby explain to me how to remove earrings? I can't seem to get them out, they're just regular studs. Thx.

you pull out the back, and then you can take out the post. um. good luck.

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How did you get stars as your background? they look really cool and is there a site you go to to get them?

you can go to http://www.backgrounds2001.cjb.net/.. they have a lot of different backgrounds you can choose from.

To put it on your website, go to column settings, and put the URL of the background, (it should appear on the background you want, in the box next to where it says Page background image. you can then change the font color and such to match the background.

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My bf jokes around with me all the time like he'll say
"your dumb" jk. Or eww who would want to go out with you? then he says no im jk your beatafull. (don't know how to spell it lol) Is he just flirting or is he really thinking that and just saying jk? we've been going out for 8 months and I really don't think he would say somthing like that. but tell me what you think!

he's just flirting. if he really meant it, i don't think you guys would've lasted this long. g/l with the relationship!!! drop one in my inbox or IM me if you need help

xo K

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hey..im looking for CUTE school clothes..and i wanted to ask from everyone to name off a BUNCH of stores that i can check out!!

thnx!

*i rate!:)*

old navy, aeropostale, hollister, abercrombie, rave or g&g, jc penney (great jeans) charlotte russe... hope i helped

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okay school starts in 3 weeks and i wanna loose as much weight as i can before it...i weigh 105 to 107 and i wanna loose it! i need to loose on my thighs too they're pretty big. i excersise by going to the gym i only go like 2 to 3 times a week and play bball...what're some best ways to loose weight? how much could one loose in one week? by doing what? help and thanx!

you really don't need to lose weight. but if you just wanna lose a couple of pounds, just start exercising (walking running treadmill gym) and eating right. cut junk food and make sure you drink lots of water. drop one in my inbox or IM me if you need more help or just wanna talk.

xo KriSten

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tomorrow I want to bake bread! I used to do it all the time when I was small and we did it last week at camp. However, I can't exactly remember how much to put in it of each particular ingredient. I know it needs flour, yeast, sugar, salt, crisco and milk. Any help would be appreciated.

go to allrecipes.com. it's a great site. on the page, it says "search". just put in bread or whatever kind you want to make, and a bunch of recipes should come up. have fun!!! drop one in my inbox and IM me if you need more help.

xox Kristen

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OKay my ex boyfriend n i were in love for a total of 8 months we talked about our kids n how we wanted to get married n stuff.. but now he dumped me and after 2 weeks he has a new girlfriend [[my bestfriend]] she promised me that she would not go out with him and now she backstabbed me n went out with him! Im totally not over him and i dont know what to do.. i still love him so much.. but he doesn't care about me.. [[if u have advice]] tell me cause i rate high!He also tells me he hates me n doesn't care about me.. idk what to do!
-In love-

well u have to get over him first of all. no guy that cared about you that much would be so mean to you. and no friend should go and date your ex after you broke up with him 2 weeks ago. find a new friend, find a new boyfriend who treats you with respect

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ok im 13, 5'4, and 97 lbs and a high matabalizm. my friends say im skinny, and i agree but sometimes i think im too skinny.. when im at school people make fun of me bcuz they think im anorexic but im not. i try to gain a few pounds but the more i try to gain, the more i lose. can you help me please! thx *Marielle*

make sure you exercise enough. eat lots of proteins, vegetables, and whole grains.
if this doesn't work, maybe you are just naturally skinny. that's your body type. when people bring up the fact that you're so skinny, just change the subject, ignore them. you aren't anorexic, and their opinion doesn't matter.

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im never allowed to go to warped tour cuz im "too small" i'll like always be short and its not fair cuz i really wanna goo!

that's bull!!!!u can't go because you're short?? tell your parents your size doesn't matter. get friends to go with you so you're not alone. show them that you are responsible and can handle a concert without parents

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Ok, well i have this friend who always tells rumers about me! i hate it and i always tell her how i feel, but everytime i tell her she goes and tells another rumer! what should i do?! help me please!
signed.
Losing a friend?

i don't think she's such a great friend if she's making up stuff about you. tell her you don't appreciate what she's doing. if she keeps it up, dump her. u deserve better

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how can i get more babysitting jobs so were i can get some money

you have to advertise. put up fliers around your town, and have your parents tell their friends that have kids. good luck! drop one in my inox if you need more help

xo Kristen

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