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okay.. so basically theres this kid and hes amazing. =] but theres a few problems. one:: hes the biggest flirt ever. two:: my best friend likes him. she always tells me that if i like him im such a bad friend and she liked him first. and plus.. he doesnt like her. and hes super nice to me all the time. but my real question is, " how do you tell if a guy really likes you, or if hes just flirting??"
I don't think theres a way to know for sure, without actually asking or someone asking for you. Espically when hes a big flirt. Maybe if you see hes talking to you alot more than other girls, or trys to be aroundyou more. That is a sign he might be liking you. If he talks to you alot, and just trys to get your attention. If you would really want to know without having to guess or look for clues, you should just ask him.Hope this helped
Katie
heyyy kate.
um how do you get like another picture under like the one already there for myspace pics.
but it doesnt show up as ur default, its jsut when u look in my pics it shows up under it =]
thanks
Hi there G!
Hehe, ummm okay go to tinypic.com and then upload the pic you want. Then get the code for it, and take the part that is like..
whats a good site for layouts for your myspace??
Haha I just answered a question like this, so I'll give the same answer...
- Personally, I dont like places like whatever layouts and stuff cause it seems like people go there alot. If you go to xanga.com, then type in "myspace layouts" for blogrings and there are bunchesss of sites that have layouts. Here are some I know of or use.. and some layout makes have myspaces so you add them then see there stuff.
http://www.xanga.com/item.aspx?user=myspace_graphixx&tab=weblogs&uid=529771998
http://groups.xanga.com/myspace__junk
http://search.xanga.com/searchgroups.aspx?q=myspace%20layouts
hope that helped
Hey, what is a good site for getting more plain myspace layouts? Thank you.
Personally, I dont like places like whatever layouts and stuff cause it seems like people go there alot. If you go to xanga.com, then type in "myspace layouts" for blogrings and there are bunchesss of sites that have layouts. Here are some I know of or use.. and some layout makes have myspaces so you add them then see there stuff.
http://www.xanga.com/item.aspx?user=myspace_graphixx&tab=weblogs&uid=529771998
http://groups.xanga.com/myspace__junk
http://search.xanga.com/searchgroups.aspx?q=myspace%20layouts
hope that helped
How do i get a background/layout for my advice page? Thankss. p.s im xBaByDoLLx3
They have ones you can get from the wed pages, but those arent the greatest. If you find a background you like, save the image then go to an image hosting site (www.tinypic.com). Then copy the url into your background image URL or the sidebar URL. Hope this helped
Hey.. i need help..where do i enter codes for the background and also where do i get those codes from ?
To get layoout codes go to like, http://groups.xanga.com/myspace__junk
or any other xanga site, cause alot of them have myspace stuff (if you go to blogrings and type in myspace stuff you can find bunches of sites wtih layouts, codes, etc). Then copy and paste a layout code into your about me. For other codes it might be different were you put them in at. Usually where ever you get a code it will say what part of your myspace to put the code in.
hey pplz i found this really kool background but idk how to get it onto my advice column... plzzz help me...
If you saved it on your computer, just then go to a image hosting site (www.tinypic.com) and then get the url. Then copy and paste that into your column settings, under background url.
well i just bought the Venus Vibrance today thinking it would work good because of all the positive feedback on it .. well i made the biggest mistake of buying it. i just started shaving with it about 15 minutes ago, and when i was done i got like 5 cuts each on one leg. i didn't even rush! i used a lot of Skintimate Raspberry Rain shave gel(which i have been using since i was 12 with no problem) and my legs turned red, i had red dots by the cuts, etc. it isn't razor burn or ingrown hairs either. also when i was shaving my armpits i used a lot of shaving gel and i actully got cut which never ever happened to me before, and i have been shaving since i was 12 and i am now 14. also my armpits got all red. why is this happening? i thought the venus vibrance was supposed to actually work well? thanks for your help.
I dont know about that vibraation thing, I had one and I thought the razor was just fine without it. It seems kind of weird too, like electricty and water?? I think the reason you got cut so much cause you were shaving with a really new razor. My mom changed mine before without telling me and I nikked up my legs soo badly. After a while it should be better. Try not using the vibrating thing for a bit untill the razor isnt as sharp and new.
ok well my name is also katie
i am 14 and i did a bad thing
me and my boyfriend started like
making out then he frenched me
and he never had before then he
grabbed my breast i knew what it
was leading to i knew it wasent
right but i love him so much and i
almost wanted it to happy..wel anyways
he started kissing me all over then
started taking my top off.then you know
started doing things he fingered me
then i kinda sucked his...i mean when
we were doing it i just was out of it i
dident know what i was doing..and now i
regret it........well what im trying to say
is................Im pregnant...and im
to scared to tell my parents i told my bf
he dident know what to say! what should i do
i dont have enough money to get an imbortion.
You should tell someone. Your boyfriend is as clueless as you about this, and your parents will always love you no matter what, and they will be disapointed but telling them is probably the right thing to do. But before you do, make sure you really are pregnant, because you dont want to tell them and then not be.. that'd just be horrifing. If you really want, maybe try consulting a school counsler or someone you really trust (an adult) and see what they can do for you. I hope everything works out, and I hope this helped.
hey katie ok well theres this kid zack and wow omg do i love him so much i cant even explain it!and i dont know what to do about it because like i met him like last november like i was hanging out with a bunch of my friends and this zack is this kid joeys cousin when i first saw him i like just knew i liked him and after awhile i kind of got over him but then like last febuary he IMED me and was like hey its zack i was kind of suprised about it and he was telling me he liked me alot like after we went home the night we met he was asking who i was but i kind of had a feeling he was just joking with me because his cousin joey is kind of an asshole and he was with him but when we left he said he really does like me! i was so excited he finally asked me out i said yes but then he started being weird so i knew it was a joke but now like we still talk and he usually says i still like you lets do something but i dont know if i should forgive him but i love him what should i do help me pleace im so confused.....ilu katiee
thanks for the love ;)
You do have a right to be pissed, I mean I've been joked with before. I hated it soo much, and it hurt alot, but evenutally I forgot about it and got on with liking the guy (not saying thats the best thing to do). I think, before you say yes to being with him or going on a date, make sure he is serious. If he likes you for real, he shouldn't joke with you, people arnt just assholes to people they care about.. its just not right. But if you do like someone enough, and you say you love him, then people can have second chances. I would just make sure he is serious. Like ask him about it and tell him how you feel. Hope this helped
Katie
16/f.
alright well i really like this kid. ive known him since like 4th grade but i never really talked to him or hung out with. well like 2 weeks ago i went to a party and i started talking to him. he told me he always though i was cute and he doesnt know why he never talked to me. well we hooked up at the party and then we started talking on the phone. he invited me to the movies and we hung out. well then he invited me to another party. i wasnt at home so he called like all my friends and when i talked to him he was like "you should really come cause ill be there and yeah" well i didnt have a ride but he did everything to find me one. well i went there and we just hung out and we were alone in the basement while everyone was sleeping and we hooked up again. i heard him tell his friend in the other room that he really did like me. when he dropped me off that morning he kissed me like he never wanted to let go. well ive talked to him like twice since then and we really didnt talk much. now his phone is shut off and i dont know what to do. i called his friend and he said that he would have my guy call me back and he never did. i dont know if he likes me or what. i really hope he just wasnt using me. he seemed like he really liked me. it wasnt just like he would invite me to just go in a room and fool around. when we hung out we would just like lay on the couch and listen to his ipod and he would sing to me. i think its because of his friend. i liked his friend first but then his friend started being rude to me at the first party and thats when i started liking the guy i like now. his friend might be telling him not to call me. but im really not sure. what should i do?
I would keep trying to get a hold of him. If or when that happens, tell him how you feel about him and that your worried he used you or something. If you like him, you should tell him. From what you said, it seems like you got really close over the time period. Sooner or later you should be able to see him/talk to him. It does seem like he really likes/liked you. Usually if a guy is using a girl he wouldn't tell his friend that he liked them. But, If the case is that you liked his friend before, maybe he just got jealous or didnt even know how to feel so he decieded to try and avoid the situation and clear his mind. Or maybe its just a really weird cowincidence. Like his phone could be lost or out of battery. Just try and talk to him or see him so you can explain what you feel and how you are worried. Hope this helped
Katie
(f/14) me && my guy fight A LOT...usually over stupid stuff!!i want to stop fighting like that..i love him to death!!i want to cry like all the time when we fight cuz its always my fault!!we never have anything to talk about!!&& conversation is like a relationship!!does anyone have ANY topics i can use?? (besides..how r you,how was your day, whats up,the same old boring stuff!) We normally fight over stuff i say...&& normally right after i say something i regret it!! Its like I always get on his nerves and start the fight!!I DONT want to lose him!!but i know if i keep it up i will!!HELP ME PLEASE!!I really love him to death...what do i do to stop our fighting??
Talk about your music that you like, or school, friends, family, people, hobbies, intrests. Theres so much to talk about in the world, you just need to get the ball rollin' with a good topic. Then once thats figured out, the coversation should start flowing well. Try to think before you talk too. If you know what causes the fights, then dont say anything that will make him mad. Just try to think before you say something that will make you guys get in a fight.
I have crash on this guy for a while. I asked him out the first time, he said yes, but cancelled on me on the day we suppose to go out. And second time, he asked me out, but cancelled out again. Now he appolized and said let's go out next week. Am I going to say yes?
I don't want to show how easy I am that he can just cancel on me all the time without considering my feeling, but in the same time, I do want to go out with him.... What should I do?
If you want to go out with him, then you should cause if you say no you might not get another chance. Maybe tell him that your not sure if you can that day, or be like "i'll have to see what im doing" so it doesnt sound like youve been waiting around for this date. Hope this helped
What's a good energy fixer-upper besides coffee and things like that??
[[ thanks ]]
I heard that an apple is better to wake you up in the morning then coffee. Im not sure its true though. Try Monster energy drink, or Red Bull. Thers tons out there. Theres this gum thats suppost to wake you up alot, i tried it and it tasted nasty weird though. Just go to your gass station, they usually have alot of drinks you can get.
okay so ive only got fingered like once. but my bf was only able to get 1 finger in so how can i make it so im not so tight?
Well usually girls dont want to be loose. And guys dont want girls to be loose either, cause then its less like, tight (obviously) so its like, less pleasuring for when they have sex. Its kind of hard to like explain, but its like barely rubbing against their parts so they cant feel it as much. If you want to get loose, just keep getting fingered, cause eventually you'll become loose.
ahhh my skin has been HORRIFIC lately, honestly it's so bad. it's gotten out of control & i've tried all this stuff in the past; nothing works. i hate being self-concious everyday about it... do you have anything or advice? thanks i'd really apprectiate it. & your column is soo nice; you're giving great advice :]
Thanks I really appericate it =)
Do you mean like youve been breaking out? If thats the case just try washing it like in the morning when you wake up, then before you go to bed. Someone I know went to thedermitoligest and she had acne on her back kind of and her chest and face, and she got Cetaphil. My mom said that its good, and im sure you can get it over the counter if you want to. You can always just try new face washes. I could never tell the differnnce with them so I just would pick out the one that seemed the best ;). Hope this helped
Katie
i just got an ipod nano for christmas.
i put songs unto it and everything was fine.
then this morning, i was listening to a full album on it, and then i was gonna switch it to another song, but then...it just kind of..froze on me.
it won't let me do anything. my dad said to try and plug it back onto the computer to reset it, but its not doing anything. i can't even shut it off.
i seriously need help on what to do. i don't want to bring it to the store yet, cuz every ipod breaks, and i DIDN"T EVEN DO ANYTHING TO IT.
jfdsjfkldsjfklj
help.
You can look on the ipod website cause I went there when something like this happened to my ipod. Mine didnt turn on, it was frozen kind of. But like it was so out of battery and I just kept it charging for like 2 days then It was better. Yours probably was like really like, overwhelmed (kind of) with songs. Try just giving it a rest for a little.
does anybody know where i can find a nice ipod video case preff. under 20 -25 dollars? my ipod is black btw if that matters and im a 13/f im looking with one that has an cover for the screen but doesnt have a cover on the little spinny thing lol thanks
I got my cover at Target for my mini. They had like none for minis, but they had alot for the video and the nano/s. Also try best buy or Radio Shack. Im sure you can find them at alot of other places.
okay a few questions.
let's say i'm going on a first date with either;
- a good friend that i've known since ever.
- a blind date
- or someone i know for not so long.
do i kiss on the first date?
It depends on the person your with, and the person you are. If you kiss on the 1st date usually, you might get labeled "easy" or slutty or whatever bitchy names other girls come up wth. I would say no to the blind date, because you just meet right? Someone you known for not that long, maybe not. Depends on how you feel towards them. If you feel uncomfortable then dont. Never do anything you feel presured to or dont want to do. If you connect with them and feel safe, you can if you want to. But just think of consequences first. A friend youve known for a while would be the most likey to be kissed on the 1st date. Since youve, well know them the most. Just make sure you know you want to and arnt pressured.
okay, i just got a new ipod nano, and i have a whole bunch of music already on itunes. BUT, i dont know how to put it on my ipod. I have a dell computor if that helps at all. please help! i really want to listen to music!
When you plug your ipod in, and go to itunes, your ipod should show up on itunes with the little ipod picture symbol thingy. Then when you have songs in your liberary drag them into your ipod. It should work.