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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:

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Ive been using this instant sunless tanner by NO-AD. It's in color medium and works fantastically. Im currently just using it on my bod but would like to tan my face as well. But I fear considering how delicate my face is (I break out easily) Im not sure if I should risk it. Has anyone else use a tanner oh their face? Any advice? I rate. :)

i havent but you could try it on a tiny part of your face and see if you break out or not

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Does anyone know where I could get some myspace layouts?Don't say they don't have any because I know for a fact they do, but I already checked out those sites.Your help is appreciated!

you could go to musicvideocodes.com to make your own but i dont kno the other ones

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My best friend since 5th grade (we're Jr. now) recently started dating this girl. Well, we live next door to each other and she was over at his house this morning. I was in my backyard and they were in his. I over heard her tell him that she doesn't want him hanging out with me anymore. I didn't hear what he said back. Should I ask him about it or wait until he brings it up?

dont say anything because then he might get mad about you 'spying' on him. just act like normal and see what happens

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To tell the honest truth, I dont have a lot of friends & most of them when i call them (like tonight) make up an excuse not to go out with me. *yeah, i know, mean but please dont pity me* So, anyways i have nothing to do! Im not going to just sit around - but im not going out alone! wtf can/should i do? =/ Signed, Oh so lonely

find a new hobbie or new friends or get a job to keep you ocupied and make money

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I'm really beginning to think that I'm paranoid. Many people say that I am but I'm really not sure. Everything scares me and I always think the worst of things. If someone doesn't call when they say they're going to, I get worried something happened. When my parents are late getting home from work and they don't call, I think they got into a car accident or something. Whenever my boyfriend calls and says "I want to talk to you" I start crying because I think he's going to break up with me. Yesterday I was hanging out after school with a few friends and we were just walking around town and I kept looking behind me because I always think that someone's following me. At night, if my dogs start to bark I keep thinking that someone is breaking into my house. I can never get sleep at night. I'm always tired and I can't focus in school. My grades are suffering as well as my relationship. I need help. I don't know what to do anymore.

some people see the glass half full, you see it half empty

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My best friend(we'll say lucy) is going to prom with this kid(we'll say nick). Well recently they got into a fight because nick went out and picked up our other friend and brought her out to lucy's house after we had asked him to. Well we promised that we would give him ten dollars gas money, since he was low, if he did this for us. Well lucy has been practically obsessed with nick for the passed two years but he won't give her the time of day. Before lucy and i started talking i had dated nick and it was actually through him that lucy and i became aquainted. Lucy and nick are both seniors and lucy's dream was to go to her senior prom with him. Luckily thanks to the help of her friends, nick agreed to go with her. Well when lucy worked her ways nd talked nick into leaving without that gas money, he got really mad. (because he was on E when he got home) And the reason she didn't give it to him was because she didn't have change for a twenty. When nick got home he txt messaged me to tell me that he wasn't going to prom with lucy and this really upset her. Then another fight broke out because I have been talking to him AS FRIENDS and some of lucy's other friends don't see this appropriate. But when i don't talk to him, everyone gets mad at me and yells because they say there is no reason to hate him just because he broke my heart. So me, trying to be the peace maker, started talking to him civilized once again and now we're friends. (NOTHING MORE)Well he called me today and we got to talking. I begged him to reconsider taking lucy to prom because i know how much this means to her, nd he said: "Hmmm, i have an idea". Well this idea isn't any good :( AT ALL-- He agreed to go with lucy again to prom on one condition; if i sleep with him. He has been bugging me to sleep with him for the passed 7months because i turned him down the two times we were together. I know I can't do that to her even though it would get her to prom. And i don't know how to tell her because it would devastate her. But what if i tell him no and he wont go to prom with her? Then i will feel like this is all my fault because i didn't betray my friends trust.. I'm so hurt and confused-- please and thank you for listening to me babble!!

dont sleep wit him!! then its like a pity date, *lucy* is better off finding someone who would really like to go with her

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is there any way to get your period to go away faster...cuz i have a competition on monday and just started my period today. also..what can i do for cramps? thanks a ton!

no, you cant make it go faster but take midol for the pain or sit on like your bed and have your legs againest the wall (its hard to explain)

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Why aren't you supposed to do sit-ups/crunches everyday? How many should a beginner do? Any other ideas to tone your stomach?

go to www.toneteen.com to see other exercises for your stomach

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I am a 14 y/o guy who is about 115 lbs and 5'6". By far I am one of the smaller guys in our class. I have been working out for a month or so. However just like everyone else knows, working out isn't the only thing that's gunna get you in shape. What other things (food,activities, etc)can I do to help my body a little bit.

I REFUSE TO USE STEROIDS OR ANY OTHER MEDICAL WAY, I AM GOING TO DO THIS NATURALLY.

just eat a lot of healthy stuff and cut down on the junk food

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Title ses it all... I want to believe in myself i actually think i do a bit. If someone says i have a hudge nose i wont just take it ill say something back like no way i dont its perfect! but then later when im on my own i'd get really up set about it and self consious how do i get rid of my self-consious and just show every one "you get what ya get so get over it" kinda talk.. becuase my friend melissa is kind of like that but i just cant seam to click like that..
lush me x

just think about the good qualities that you do have

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Hey im looking to tone my belly up its alreayd slim but has no shape.. i dont want to be like a musle man [coz im a girl] and i want muserly'er legs than i have becuase my legs look fat at the moment and also my arms.. yeah anyway.. what weight or work out or HOW DO I TONE OUT MY BELLY??!?! Please list.. i could use my brothers weights maybe or is that for your arms.. or that pole with weights on the end..? or maybe a simple run up and down the stairs? i dont know you tell me ! please lol :P
lush me x

go to www.toneteen.com it tell you how to work each part of your body and how to do the exercises!!

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um yeah... dont take this as a joke question, but uh... my boyfriend who ive been with for a very long time... SMELLS really bad... and no one has ever said anything, its been going on for a year, then suddenly all his friends starting making fun of him BEHIND HIS BACK, saying that he smells, so i thought this would be a good oppritunity to tell my bf, without making it seem like i directly said he smells. but i dont think he took it seriously... he SAYS he showers every day and SAYS he uses deoderant... but i dunno, what should i do?

maybe buy him AXE as a present

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Okay does any one know how to get stains out of a white purse! I already tried soap and water and it does get some out but not all of them. The stains are like pencil/pen/dirt on the bottom from the ground and stuff! My purse is a white corderroy! Please help me Ill give 5's :o)

you could..:
put it in the wash with bleach
clorex bleach pen?
erase the pencil
and use hairspray for the pen (it works!!!)

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I've liked this boy since i was 8, his name is Ty. I never told him becuase id thought he would have laughed.

Since i have moved up to my next school grade 6 he has been hanging out with me and my new mates after school and i like him more, he is my best friend.. well one of them! But i have my new best friend abi, she is blonde, a model, good looking, fashionable, funny and everything a boy wants. He is really into her and she is really into him. They have been dating on and off all through the year, well since we started our new school.
I wish he liked me... he told my friend lauren that he liked my personality but likes abis looks... so he basically is going for abi becuase her looks..
He wont date me becuause im not blonde. Im not gonna dye my hair just for a boy i mean boys come and go so why would i do that? [if u suggest that] but i really do wanna date him he is so good looking and all the girls like him.. i guess im lucky to be his best mate but i wanna b more.
I got dared to snog him but he wouldnt [coz im not blonde] i told him a millioon times i liked him! but he dont listen. how could i make him like me? i mean im not exactly pretty but i have a nice body [not bragging] and he flirts with me sometimes. I just so wish he would date me!!

So yeah how can i get him to like me?? please post
lush me x

you cant make him like you and he likes the other girl for the wrong reasons so move on and its his loss

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i have this friend and she's like my best friend here at this school i just moved to, and like she knows everything about me and what not. but like recently i've noticed that she's been copying me, like everything and it's really annoying. i mean she's super nice but also shy so i don't know how to tell her this. like my handwriting is my handwriting like it's your thing and i like my handwriting it's actually nice but i've noticed that she started copying the way i write like my n's and h's and t's! like it really bugs me! she also copies the way i hold my hands while walking and she's starting to say things like i do!i always say holy crap like as an expression and she says it too! Like before i came here she seemed to have friends but like when i became friends with her she seemed to be attached to me and i'm like the "leader" of the two of us! isn't she the one who's supposed to show me around and tell me stuff...not me? i made new friends and like i have a lot more in common with them then the ones before that i ate lunch with, with my bff, but when i went to eat lunch with my new friends she wanted to follow, like i didn't want to say no but i didn't want her to come, i know that may seem mean but like the two groups don't mix, but she came and she started comming everday so then everyday up to this day we eat lunch with my new friends but everyday she seems depressed when we eat lunch with them. she's very insecure it seems and it seems like no one really treated her as a real like member of her group before i came, like she even told me that i was the one she was the closest to in all of that table, but i'm like didn't she hang out with them for like five years...shouldn't she be good friends with at least one of them? in the beginning of the year i remember someone mentioning that she was copying them before i came. so how do i tell her that i need some space. or do i even tell her? i mentioned to my new friends that i wanted to hang out with them but being with my bff hasn't let me...sorry this was extremely long. (i have never been the "leader" of a group, we were always all equal and just had fun, and we mostly weren't shy between ourselves! AND i've noticed that i've started to become like her more and it's not the good things, the way i walk like she walks really fast because she's insecure/shy and seems like shes in a hurry all the time and i've started to do that too!) how would i deal with this situation?

you need to talk to her, maybe she copys you because she looks up to you, dont get mad.. just take it as a compliment

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Ok, my friend has this Compaq Presario (laptop), and there is no print screen key. She really needs to get her screen copied to her 'clipboard' so she can put it on paint (she wants to make msn avatars using cartoon dolls) and I don't know how to help her because I'm not using a laptop!!! Is there some control+? combination or something? This is urgent...thanks!
NOTE: I've tried google and other help sites but can find nothing...

CTRL + P might work, if not check a owners manual maybe

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i think i might have genital herpes... i have never had sex so how could i get it!? its like a ton of little bumps on my penis and i want to know how to get rid of it. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me! i need to know, im so embarassed! ill rate 5's! and i also want to know if girls will still like me if they know i have it.. im guessing no. this sucks so bad so please help me out. and if it isnt herpes then please tell me what it is.. im too embarassed to tell my parents or a doctor. if you have ANY information at all, please tell me

i dont really kno but im a girl and if i knew that you had it, i might not like you like you

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Okay there was this one kid that said he liked me. he'd alwyas say he loves me too, but i thought he had a girlfriend.. One day at my friend's house he tried to kiss me and i said no i cant do this.. he asked why and i said because your going out with amy..he said, no im not dont worry about it. About a month later his Girlfriend found out about what happened and he told her that I CAME ONTO HIM! She wants to beat me up for something i did not do and she thinks that I am lying about all this.. what can i doo!?

tell a teacher or guidence counslor but first try one last time to expain CALMLY wut really happened

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How can a get a tighter butt, stronger stomach, stronger arms, and stronger legs.

I'm not fat, I'd just like to be stronger.

go to www.toneteen.com it gives A LOT of exercising stuff for your whole body

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I've always been told that I am a talented actor. Lately though, I have been restricted from acting by my parents. This is due to my average and not superior grades. I've been trying for nearly 7 months to get the great grades my parents require so that I can do the thing I love most. I just can't get focused enough, I come home and just forget to do my homework after my chores. I am smart, and know that I am capable of good grades, I just can't get my brains together. I would like to go to a study group, but my parents won't let me do that either. How can I get back in my honor roll tactics, and into theatre acting again?

be tough on yourself, no tv or comp until you do your hw

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